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29-09-2009, 12:46 AM
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Hey bros, thanks for all the advice. it's been a good 2 months since the incident. well, there's a little twist in the events that has been going on since.
things has been quite the same for a while, have to really give it to her, swallowing the humble pie, or whatever you call it. but she's toned down a little, now it feels like 'friendly', and that, in turn has made me feel differently about her. during one of the projects that we were working on, you know, that kind of situation where she could have taken all the credit, but made it clear to boss that i was behind all of it, well, most of it at least. that really changed how i felt about her. so we were treated to a night out on company expense and i let her organize it, well, she did a good job and it's actually the teams effort. so we ended up at power station, after dinner, headed to one of those loud clubs, which i'm not really a big fan, but it was quite an enjoyable night. we had a few bottles of vodka, wine and some shit. it was pretty wild, dancing and goofing around. the she dragged me out to dance with her, i was pretty ok with it then, everybody was having a good time, so i went along. we were a little tipsy too. so what the heck. the night lasted all the way like that till we were all very drunk, and she was out of it. then all the guys started leaving and i ended up sending her home. ok, i know what you thinking, chance right? well, actually, at that time, i was thinking the same thing. she stays at some apartment behind holiday inn, damn ulu place, stays alone. ask the cab to wait and i carried her up to her apartment. and things started to get interesting from here. once at her apartment, she got around. lead her to her bedroom and lay her down, then she grad my arm and ask me to get her water, and i did. went to the kitchen, came back, and she had her shirt off. that was really a moment of weakness. i was pissed, horny and there lays a woman in her bra, which made me horny. she sat up, i gave her the water, and i just stood there. the she asked me to stay, which i was seriously contemplating to comply. but, i did the thing most bros wouldn't do, i tuck her in and left (ok, i deserve to be zapped....) following week, she became very friendly towards me, not the suck up attitude anymore, more sincere now, she still strokes my arm occasionally, but it feels different. says how gentlemanly i am and shit like that, gives me that kind of shy smile now, or maybe it's just me, cause i kinda changed the way i feel about her now. now i'm thinking, is she changing her strategy or am i missing on something. like i said, she's quite an attractive woman. we do go out for lunch more often now, and she start telling me her shit, relationships, family, blah blah blah. i know a little more about her now and she's actually quite a nice person. quite a twist huh? don't really know what the fuck she's up to. do people really change? or am i getting soft? anyways, i'll see how it goes. ok bros, what do you guys think? 
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29-09-2009, 01:05 AM
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29-09-2009, 01:38 AM
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Outta 10 women, 9 cannot be trusted... Only 1 can we can fully place our trust and faith on.... That's none other than our dearest mom... 
Last edited by CyberRod; 29-09-2009 at 01:39 AM. Reason: Add translation for our non-chinese bros... :)
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29-09-2009, 01:56 AM
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Women who offer themselves to you can't be any good. Stay away from her and trouble man! Don't regret your actions otherwise 
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29-09-2009, 12:11 PM
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TS, 2 points to note
1) maybe she is changing her way of approach. but still be careful as what many bro says. but I guess you can continue to hang out with her the decent way but becareful what you say when you talk about things regarding your work. 2) maybe you are in his shopping list now since you fullfil what she needs as a bf . Last time b4 you promoted ,you are just at the line so she took no notice and interest in you. you will only know the truth when you are no longer working together or no longer rich n powerful. Normally, I test out my potential with this. eg, if I have a situation which is bad but I already got a solution .I will pretend that I do not have one and see how the ger react when I told her and ask for help and advice. see how she react and her emotion and for the next few days monitor her concern,attitude towards you .My case is normally money but it is a good way to see how she react. This is how I got my current wife and kicking out a few bitches in the process. Those that are true will stay with you no matter how hard life is. hope this helps.
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29-09-2009, 12:16 PM
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2) maybe you are in his shopping list now since you fullfil what she needs as a bf . Last time b4 you promoted ,you are just at the line so she took no notice and interest in you. you will only know the truth when you are no longer working together or no longer rich n powerful. Normally, I test out my potential with this. eg, if I have a situation which is bad but I already got a solution .I will pretend that I do not have one and see how the ger react when I told her and ask for help and advice. see how she react and her emotion and for the next few days monitor her concern,attitude towards you .My case is normally money but it is a good way to see how she react. This is how I got my current wife and kicking out a few bitches in the process. Those that are true will stay with you no matter how hard life is. QUOTE] FULLY YES!
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29-09-2009, 01:33 PM
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Hi assrammer, interesting thread chronicling office politics and the purportedly duplicitous behavior of a woman who obviously know she is beautiful.
1) First of all, may I state the obvious: that she has got some emotional stranglehold on you ("got you by the balls" as some would crudely put it). Now whether she can parlay it to her advantage - or even whether she wants to - is subject to only pure conjecture. No one can read her intention and it is quite impossible to ascribe any motives unto her as we cannot get inside her mind (although from the various posts it seems that getting inside her pants is the crux of the issue). The most expedient course of action is to therefore inure yourself against possible negative consequence on the office front. Whatever the outcome, it should be the over riding priority. 2) Sex (although desired) is not 'consummated' at present. Like a good novella however, the signs / seeds of a potential sexual encounter is sowed. When sex scenario arrives, it will be how to taste the "forbidden" fruit while still maintaining "office decorum" or how to reject it that will become the salient issue. 3) As an illustration to a different perspective - (in this case mine): Based only on the narrative, I actually 'perceive' a very insecure lady here. She uses her beauty as a defensive mechanism (I am she must sense your desire at some level). She probably knows that she have 'wronged' you in the past and is doing sweet vulnerable thingy as a way to deflect potential negative repercussions. In course of it, she may let out a couple of personal nuggets about herself and share some vulnerabilities in spite of herself. This has brought you emotionally closer to her whether consciously or not. For the cynics, the mini seductive manoeuvrings and the sharing of vulnerabilities is part of overall deceitful behaviour designed to entrap. For me, I simply see it as a marginally conniving (but insecure) woman who knows that she has beauty as a asset/weapon but who does not know how to properly wield it yet. Two different perspectives, but the subsequent course of action(s) resulting from it will be totally different. 4) As the drama unfolds, I have several thoughts (and strategies) to share on how to best protect yourself politically whilst at the same time indulge in the forbidden fruit (...... Its a SEX forum come on! .....). I wait with bated breath for the next installment. Thanks assrammer for generating an interesting thread!
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29-09-2009, 04:16 PM
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bro justime,
yr ang mo is really powderful...got me in circles alr. but lets wait for TS to continue the story shall we?
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30-09-2009, 12:14 AM
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30-09-2009, 04:05 PM
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1) You were on par with her. She saw you as a threat to that position that you are in now, but in reach to her then, and is openly hostile towards you. 2) You became her superior. Her previous antics toward you makes her worry if you'd do funny things professionally towards her as a form of revenge. Thus, she tried to charm her way out. 3) Seeing that you have been nothing but all business-like and not taking advantage of her, she now sees you in a different light and is, very possibly, attracted to you. I won't think that she has changed for the better but, at the very least, she won't try to screw you over without having to face a lifetime of guilt if you carry on with your current attitude and status quo. However, if: a) You DO fuck her, the status quo would be changed. You may not be on equal grounds in the workplace but, in terms with your private lives, it's an all new playing field. b) You DISS her regardless of her working merits, her opinion for you would be changed. She'd know that you don't want her sexual favors but would give her shit everyday. She'll either leave or fuck someone higher up so that he would fuck you back jialt jialat. So, you can either: i) Leave your relationship as thus. It would slowly blossom into a friendship whether you like it or not because women don't take "no" for an answer. ii) KC her jialat jialat and make her your sex slave. Try romancing her and telling her not to spread the word around the company so as not to compromise each other's reputation in the company. If she is willing to give sexual favors just to stay on, I doubt she would divulge the secret if you did not do things (i.e. break her oh-so-sensitive heart) to make her think that you're a beastly bastard. iii) Make things clear to her that you are just colleagues. She would shrink back into her shell and she won't even give you her free breast-rubs anymore. Personally, I'd like you to employ method (ii), bro. And tell us all about it. 
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30-09-2009, 05:57 PM
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# Bitch score goal in 15min.
# Bitch 1 - 0 assrammer # Bitch scores again in 23min. # Bitch 2 - 0 assrammer # Bitch scores hat-trick in 32min. # Bitch 3 - 0 assrammer u know y? 1) you start "let water" after she tone down. kena score with ur defense guard down. 2) you did not fuck her when u had the chance to. she dive outside penalty area and the referee award her free-kick instead of yellow card. 3) she reach ur heart liao. basically, ur mid-field boh chun. haven even reach half time u chui.
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30-09-2009, 06:49 PM
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Haha, nice way of putting it, but is with logic (at least I think so)
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30-09-2009, 11:53 PM
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I have a feeling our brudder assrammer will trod down the unforgiven path of screwing her very soon. It is a dangerous game when the woman knows what she wants and she wants it.
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01-10-2009, 12:13 AM
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Agreed with Bro here. she is just desperate to be on your good side so just help her along & enjoy the attention & benefits
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