Wife meeting with Ex BF - Page 4

HCKing · #46 14-03-2012, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Above post may appear humorous but the underlying message is: Boss Sam is a Gem

think his ULTIMATE underlying message is: Dont play play hor, I can easily bed any girls anytime IF i want to.

note: the above statement contains absolutely no underlying messages.

Reclusive · #47 14-03-2012, 04:45 PM

There are so many men around. Why must it be with the ex? Dont trouble trouble, unless trouble troubles you.

Botak69 · #48 14-03-2012, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by dirtyhairy

I think it's ok for TS' wifey to accept her ex-BF's lunch offer
But only if the invitation includes husband and her
If there's no hidden agenda behind the lunch meet
inviting the hubby along will go to show it's a gentleman's treat
for old Uncle here, knnkc when I receive invites to dine by ladies
it's usually nothing horny but they want me to renew insurance policies

Haha, good one!

dirtyhairy · #49 14-03-2012, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

My post may appear humorous but the underlying message is anything but. ..I met my ex-girlfriend a couple of years after she got married and it ended up with me ... fucking her good and proper.

Wow another gospel of wisdom from the BOSS on the affairs of d heart
this time it's not about verb or noun, just that his ex girl friend was a slut

and how our Mr Ah Sammy was able to outsmart
from otherwise marrying an erstwhile ranting tart
but the underlying message to me is both of them were horny farts
who ended up bonking each other when their respective partners are apart

Darina · #50 14-03-2012, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by sugardad

That depends on you , how was your last break up, mutual or bad, did his mum did some nice things to you ???

So we all see the point, woman had their secret agenda too. And memory like elephant ??? This is hard to miss actually. So as husband/bf, how to be secure if the wife or gf just inform you that she is meeting her ex ???

Actually I just got along really well with that particular ex's mum. She's the only one I actually hit off with and we had a lot to talk about, shop etc and it would be wonderful to have her as a MIL (my current MIL I only talk and see her once a year) in fact I talk to her more than my own MIL

. Part of the reason why I lasted so long with that ex was also because of his mum, if not I would have cut my losses early and left him much earlier.

Oh that is difficult, especially if she had been open before and you kick up a huge fuss. Even if there is nothing to hide, she won't tell you any more.

However, if you were open about it before and she didn't inform you, usually there is something to hide or she have her own agenda.

I think most women know that men are horny and is looking for sex. Just that we choose to ignore or pretend that's not what is on his mind.

Darina · #51 14-03-2012, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Reclusive

There are so many men around. Why must it be with the ex? Dont trouble trouble, unless trouble troubles you.

Well if the break-up wasn't bad usually that means that he was really really really good in bed

#52 15-03-2012, 04:58 PM

I wouldnt be comfortable if put in the same situation as TS.

Castrol · #53 16-03-2012, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Botak69

Do you guy mind if wife meet up with Ex BF for lunch? I come to know my wife met up her ex for lunch, and I am quite upset about it! She told me is nothing going, but I still dun feel good. Is this the man ego?

bro we husbands meet ex is ok.
but wife meeting or maintaining communication with ex is not fucking allowed.

sean69 · #54 19-03-2012, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

My post may appear humorous but the underlying message is anything but.

I met my ex-girlfriend a couple of years after she got married and it ended up with me having to listen a prolonged rant about how useless her husband was and how she'd made a big mistake marrying him. Needless to say I consoled her by fucking her good and proper.

She was most grateful.

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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Above post may appear humorous but the underlying message is: Boss Sam is a Gem

actually, the underlying message is never never never introduce your gf/fb/wives to the boss ...

sean69 · #55 19-03-2012, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Castrol

bro we husbands meet ex is ok.
but wife meeting or maintaining communication with ex is not fucking allowed.

true true.. i mean i dun even trust myself when i meet up with my ex..

Nickle · #56 19-03-2012, 07:07 PM

Lay the ground rules early: no going out with any male friend. No excuses, no need to give any reasons whatever. Tell her u don't like it and tell her your reasons. If she accepts fine, if not then its your call.

hotstuffm8 · #57 19-03-2012, 09:00 PM

trolololol

deptrai4u · #58 19-03-2012, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by hotstuffm8

She met up with the ex but at the end of the day, she returns home to you. You are the winner bro. And winners must be gracious. Let her have her friends.

Of course, she better not bitch if you meet up with your ex-gf too - otherwise it will be buay steady.

whether ego, whether got something going on or not... whatever it is, cannot loose.

Botak, u should meet up with ur ex, even take photo with ur ex, print and frame and put at home on study table, see if ur wife says anything...

If she complains, then u say all those things she used to say lor... lets run thru now in point form:

1. Nothing going on la
2. Must have trust ma
3. .... add ur own here....

then lets see her reaction.

sugardad · #59 20-03-2012, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Darina

Actually I just got along really well with that particular ex's mum. She's the only one I actually hit off with and we had a lot to talk about, shop etc and it would be wonderful to have her as a MIL (my current MIL I only talk and see her once a year) in fact I talk to her more than my own MIL

. Part of the reason why I lasted so long with that ex was also because of his mum, if not I would have cut my losses early and left him much earlier.

Oh that is difficult, especially if she had been open before and you kick up a huge fuss. Even if there is nothing to hide, she won't tell you any more.

However, if you were open about it before and she didn't inform you, usually there is something to hide or she have her own agenda.

I think most women know that men are horny and is looking for sex. Just that we choose to ignore or pretend that's not what is on his mind.

I dont know abt you, if my ex manage to find my number, I will usually talk only over the phones, I will try not to meet for what ever reason, except my ex-wife, because involves our kids, I will always invite my current gal along, no second thought. Even I am very close to my ex in-laws (another country), I will visit them when I have the time, without informing my ex abt it. I also bring my current gal along, have coffee in hotel lobby so she can monitor or spy for what ever reason. They never complain cos I am with a 70yo lady. BTW, also a way getting back at my ex, ex-MIL will whine to her as to how stupid she was to divorce me and start comparing to her current and ex BF.

No need to scold or fight or do what ever stupid shit, JUST LIVE BETTER THAN BEFORE.

Ya, I am horny old man but I never go back to my ex for that. It will only start a bigger and never ending issue.

So, are you meeting you ex, or EX-MIL ?

jolenekoh · #60 22-03-2012, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

My post may appear humorous but the underlying message is anything but.

I met my ex-girlfriend a couple of years after she got married and it ended up with me having to listen a prolonged rant about how useless her husband was and how she'd made a big mistake marrying him. Needless to say I consoled her by fucking her good and proper.

She was most grateful.

u r just a closet virgin IMO, all the girls u fucked were those tt u paid for