China Girls VS Singapore Girls VS Malaysian Girls

[joncheong]

Originally Posted by naturegreen

What is SH girls?

shanghai

[Tianxing142]

Originally Posted by naturegreen

What is SH girls?

I would presume it's Shang hai girls.. cos they are damn pretty. I met a group in my trp to shen zhen... she claims she owns an art galery... maybe some kind of scam going on to ask people invest... wahhahaah... but nonetheless... they are pretty and smart...

[joncheong]

Originally Posted by Tianxing142

I would presume it's Shang hai girls.. cos they are damn pretty. I met a group in my trp to shen zhen... she claims she owns an art galery... maybe some kind of scam going on to ask people invest... wahhahaah... but nonetheless... they are pretty and smart...

Way damn too smart for us to cope with

[Yardstick]

I probably will get lamblast after posting this, but I still think i should share my two cents worth.

I have dated SG, M'sia and China girls during my search for true love and marriage. For records, i have officially dated 3 SG, 1 M'sia and 2 China girls. There are a few others who are either on a casual, puppy love or from other nationalities.

Firstly SG.

This first one i officially dated was in Polytechnic. Inoccent, sweet girl (I was her first). Never asked me for anything. But i always try to pay for all our expenses and sometimes gifts for her. She was willing to please and go along with what i wanted most of the time. We broke up after her mum came into the picture. According to her, her daughter, my then gf, MUST marry boys who can go to University and come from well-to-do families. She made her stop all contact with me and since we have finished our polytechnic studies by then, I tried but failed in all means to contact her, even when i went to wait for her outside her place. So, we officially dated for 6months.

I started dating the second SG girl when i was enlisted into NS. She was in polytechnic and had several bfs before me. Technically, she was the first girl who offered me her virginity (but i did not take it). I was flattered, frankly speaking since I had no money, looks or brains. Her parents adored me, to say the least. My parents loved her too. We broke up due to ME. The idiot who felt that we were no longer on the same frequency after NS took me to a far flung corner of Singapore and lots of graveyard shifts (plus my inferior ego that she will leave me for the many guys who went after her). I still remembered how badly she cried and even offered her virginity to me as a parting gift. I felt like a jerk for a long while. She is now happily engaged and doing well in her career.

The last SG girl i dated, I married her.
We met online and she had just left her jerk bf (I had just broke up with my two-timing gf). Cleverer than me, richer than me, and definitely a looker, she choose me for we clicked. I thanked God for giving me my experiences in life that in turn gave me the chance to meet my wife. Yes, we have our quarrels, big and small, but she has never given up on me. We plan to walk hand in hand for as long as we can, till death takes one from the other (Thank you).

So, based on my experiences above, i say that there are still good SG girls out there. Yes, i have dated materialistic ones (and luckily i discovered them fast and left them fast too) too. I feel that you just have to look properly for the right girl. And once you find them, stop fooling around and be the right material that girls want in marriage. I am sure you will have a good ending, even with well educated and financially stronger local girls.

Next, china girls.

[Yardstick]

Dated 2 China Girls.

Both met through KTV sessions.

Surprisingly different events but still same endings.

The first one was met during my NS years. After the SG girl, whose heart i broke.

She was from ShenZhen. Simple girl who used to have a boutique in China. We dated for awhile after just one visit to the KTV she works. I remember how she used to tell me never to look for her at the KTV as it will meant spending money. I brought her around Singapore but only paid about 20% of the times for her. The rest, she insist on paying for on her own as she is more than capable of supporting her own lifestyle. I remembered the last time we met. She was just caught in a spotcheck 2 days before. She says that she will not be coming back to Singapore anymore since it is unlikely her visa will be approved again. She planned to open another buotique to sell clothes and get along in life. Then, she told me to hold dear our sweet memories and never look for her nor contact her again. Still remember the last kiss and hug we have before we parted. For the records, we never had sex. Not even petting. Just simple kisses, hugs and holding hands. She was adamant to have sex only after marriage. The reason? She was betrayed by the man who took her virginity.

The next China Girl i dated came from Shanghai. A true blood sucker she was, i later found out. Gave her money several times as i was under her KC spell, even when she was back in China. But luckily, i managed to break out of it with the help of a buddy.

From my experiences with china girls, I say that different cities or provinces in China probably "produced" girls with different mindsets. The more affluent ones probably created girls with the mindset that when i can get the right guy, i should fleece them as much as i can, if we are unlikely to get married.
Rich guys are of course the best ticket to a good after marriage life but they believe that compatibility is important as well, nowadays. This is especially so since more and more are financially stable on their own now. As for China girls who leave their country to work in another, my advice is to leave them out of marriage considerations until you know them better (really better). Else, it is likely that they will squeeze you dry.

Dinner time. I will talk about M'sian girls next when i get to post again.

[naturegreen]

Originally Posted by Yardstick

....I started dating the second SG girl when i was enlisted into NS. She was in polytechnic and had several bfs before me. Technically, she was the first girl who offered me her virginity (but i did not take it). I was flattered, frankly speaking since I had no money, looks or brains. Her parents adored me, to say the least. My parents loved her too. We broke up due to ME. The idiot who felt that we were no longer on the same frequency after NS took me to a far flung corner of Singapore and lots of graveyard shifts (plus my inferior ego that she will leave me for the many guys who went after her). I still remembered how badly she cried and even offered her virginity to me as a parting gift. I felt like a jerk for a long while. She is now happily engaged and doing well in her career.

Maybe she has been telling every guy she met that she is a virgin....

[ac171]

I beg to differ on stereotyping the girls as who's the best among the 3 countries.

If you asked me from a woman's point of view, all 3 countries have their pros and cons. Singaporean girls are generally more independent, Malaysian girls more sweet and PRC girls more accommodating and wild in sex. However nobody is perfect; Singapore girls are generally being stereotyped as the materialist ones, Malaysian girls the innocent and dumb ones and PRC girls the unkempt ones.

I've been working in a company that has got more Malaysians than Singaporeans and I'm sad to tell you guys that the Malaysians are way more materialistic than all the Singaporean girls I've ever met. Not only they like to compare branded goods they only go for guys who drive continental cars and look down on Singaporean guys who don't drive. These girls expects their boyfriends to shower them with lots of branded goods every month and brings them to fine dining or atas restaurants when they go out on dates. They don't pay when going out with guys (they expect guys to be the cai-taos) and insisted that girls who pay or going dutch is stupid.

In contrast the local girls in the company are thrifty (they don't even own or carry any branded bags), very devoted and accommodating to their boyfriends/husbands and from some of our conversations during our lunch gossips and chit chats, they are very willing to do whatever the partner wants in bed.

In case you wanna say it's because the local girls are not pretty, you're very wrong. The local girls are in fact prettier than these Malaysian girls.

PRC girls on the other hand is just like what some of you guys have mentioned. They can be either extremely faithful and willing to do anything for the one they love and yet some of them can be very materialistic and stuck up with a bad character. I personally have encountered a few nice PRC girls but at the same time I've met really nasty ones who are all out to cheat the poor local guys' feelings and money.

In short, I don't believe in stereotyping which country to have the best girls but rather it's all depending on your luck in finding the right girl who fits exactly what you're looking for. Whether she's from Singapore or Malaysia or China it doesn't matter.

[geylangbonker]

Originally Posted by ac171

I beg to differ on stereotyping the girls as who's the best among the 3 countries.



I've been working in a company that has got more Malaysians than Singaporeans and I'm sad to tell you guys that the Malaysians are way more materialistic than all the Singaporean girls I've ever met. Not only they like to compare branded goods they only go for guys who drive continental cars and look down on Singaporean guys who don't drive. These girls expects their boyfriends to shower them with lots of branded goods every month and brings them to fine dining or atas restaurants when they go out on dates. They don't pay when going out with guys (they expect guys to be the cai-taos) and insisted that girls who pay or going dutch is stupid.

In contrast the local girls in the company are thrifty (they don't even own or carry any branded bags), very devoted and accommodating to their boyfriends/husbands and from some of our conversations during our lunch gossips and chit chats, they are very willing to do whatever the partner wants in bed.

In case you wanna say it's because the local girls are not pretty, you're very wrong. The local girls are in fact prettier than these Malaysian girls.

Hm...your perception of "Jiuhupo" and "singapo" is out of frequency in our society.
Malaysian ladies with their pathetic salary can,t even afford to buy branded bags and they care to owe branded stuff, they work in singapore but always try to act like "singapo" .Most of them can be very humble in certain ways but they are not as quick paced like "singapo".
Those "Jiuhupo" who are either pr or work in spore and their mindset are almost like "singapo" but however their thoughts cannot meet the standards of "singapo" mindset.

In terms of prettiness , i think most malaysian ladies are much more prettier than "singapo" , not to talk about their artificial makeups compare to "singapo".
"jiuhupo" dun really spend more on cosmetics if u know them better or being friends with them for long time but "singapo" yearns all the good stuff of which ever can improvised their beauty to charm guys for their own benefits.
Talk about tits, "jiuhupo" tits can be at least C CUP but "singapo" tits B cup s are the most common ones can be seen in CBD AREAS, orchard ion etc.
I think this has something to do with their "SUSU" GENES in the malaysia land.

In terms of dating, spore gals dun really pay when come to dinner or lunch and malayisan ;ladies pay on their own as they know earning money in spore is not easy , if they expect sgp gusy to pay, they afraid they will not have second chance to meet you for date.

In terms of thriftiness , "jiuhupo" is much more thrifty than "singapo"
They want to earn SGP $ and save to start a business in malaysia and for their poor family as well.

In terms of personality, "singapo" are very fake in character but "jiuhupo" can be very devoted to commitments, high rise of divorcee in spore already proven "singapo" wants the compensation as according to the law.


I think your encounters are totally different from mine.
This is an open discussion and i oso see your points here.
As for "tiongkokpo" it varies but most of them are mercenary too but you pay is what you get from them unless they are no longer valid to you in your life, then can just hit and run and forget them and wander out to look for the next one.

Your world of encounters with women from asia counterparts are totally different...nice to hear from you again.

i shall talk about hong kong gals of the SDU unit in my next chapter here.

[geylangbonker]

Originally Posted by Yardstick

Dated 2 China Girls.

Both met through KTV sessions.

Surprisingly different events but still same endings.



Dinner time. I will talk about M'sian girls next when i get to post again.

Hi, like to hear from your views of M' SIAN GIRLS .............

[LovePotion]

this is a great topic as able to hear comments on all three different group of girls

[powerkid]

Originally Posted by tamtam

My version....Screw China girls, Dump Singapore Girls, marry Malaysian Girls.

You can't go wrong with that.

This theory is good. I like it.

[titan]

Originally Posted by joncheong

but some SH girls really kan pua chio ... haha beat sg girls upside down ... our SPGs look like toilet cleaners to them

i have dated many kan pua chio girls.. seriously over time, no feel one..

[geylangbonker]

Originally Posted by titan

i have dated many kan pua chio girls.. seriously over time, no feel one..

The most feel i have is with HKG ladies but in hong kong no doubt there are materialistic ones too especially those ladies in the entertainment industry but in the working class industry , they are very friendly and pleasant but can be very practical in their way of lifestyle.

hkg ladies can dress well better than "singapo" and same goes for the shanghai ladies.
spore men seldom go for hkg ladies as not many from spore can speak cantonese fluently unless he is a cantonese even so oso not as fluent as honkies.

shanghainese are generally rich due to the economy there so expectations of the standards of guys are higher , communication maybe cannot click well with the ladies as they speak very fast like "GPMG" firing.

[geylangbonker]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

i am surprised that PRC females can be grouped into areas. What about Bishan girls, Jurong girls, Tampines girls, etc.. are all different?

huh? SPORE gals from different areas of north, south, east west can be segregated as well?
So are you trying to say bt timah gals, yishun gals , holland village and bedok gals etc can be very different too?

My opinion is all the same kind as all are singaporean types of gals except bt timah gals are all english-oriented as most comes from reputed colleges around that area , most of them set higher standards for spore guys not those neighbourhood hdb types of guys.
As for yishun , toapayoh or ang mo kio etc.....are all the same category.

spore cannot compare to PRC , different provinces produce different catgeories of women , if u like those can be the virtuous kind of wife eg:if u are not married , look for women from yunan, hainan island, xian.
if u like playful partner on the bed , there are many many provinces like chongqing, hunan, haerbin, guangzhou...etc

[geylangbonker]

Originally Posted by joncheong

true blue shanghai girls can be worse than singapore girls, super calculative and you need tonnes of money to date them

Yes , i compromise your statements.
Most shanghai gals who are haughty are born from the business class family so they are very calculative.
There are many business owners in shanghai who bears shanghai gal but their relationship comes very fast and end very fast too.
The is what they call "flash marriage or relationship"