Sexless Marriage... - Page 4

KingEros · #46 04-11-2005, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by kaizer

well, same as ur 2 flings lor.. high sex drive doesnt mean muz bonk eh? as long as she can come thru other means and muz do alot of time, doesnt it means she got high sex drive?

I beg to differ ...
I'd only go as far as to say that they are curious about sex ... even to the extent of enjoying the petting & fingering, etc.
Having a high sex drive ... that's something else altogether!!! For one thing, they'd have broken all personal mental barriers & actually experience the act of bonking.

Frankiestine · #47 04-11-2005, 12:46 PM

Well like the monster always say "IF SHE CHOOSES TO BE A NUN DON'T EXPECT ME TO BE A MONK"...

Bro Gent the monster understands what you going thru, me and my rsm has countless fights becos of our different view to sex...to them sex is only open season when their maternal clock starts calling..

TheEconomist · #48 04-11-2005, 12:51 PM

Might as well jump into the fray lah...

The CO and me have sparodic (read sparse) sex for last five years or so - we talking public holidays - only the english ones

- say less than 5-6 times a year..

Funny thing is all other aspects of relationship seemed ok lor - what to do - solution? Nothing more to add lah - you can cheat, pay, pcc or whatever lah - I don't think got simple solution lah - sorry guys..

BTW talk? We talk about this until the cow come home, had kids and even the cow's kids come home - still no difference lah..

Raise the beer mugs guys, here's to cold nights, busy hands and rusty weapons..

Frankiestine · #49 04-11-2005, 12:57 PM

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Originally Posted by kaizer

however, she doesnt like me fondling her clit, say no feeling and painful, and she dun allow me to finger her,

sounds like my wife type bro....my wife won't let my fingers go any where near her pussy...not even to rub her clits..don't even like me to raba her boobs she equates it to like been molested...lick or suck her nipples painful, try to pet she find it a turn off dun like the ticklish feeling...bj lick pussy disgusting think pple who does this are perverts..so any opportunity for sex...in out in out in out a few strokes and then game over wash up...so mechanical...better off fucking a dummy...

gent · #50 04-11-2005, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Frankiestine

sounds like my wife type bro....my wife won't let my fingers go any where near her pussy...not even to rub her clits..don't even like me to raba her boobs she equates it to like been molested...lick or suck her nipples painful, try to pet she find it a turn off dun like the ticklish feeling...bj lick pussy disgusting think pple who does this are perverts..so any opportunity for sex...in out in out in out a few strokes and then game over wash up...so mechanical...better off fucking a dummy...

I guess this is the mentality of a typical "conservative" wife. They are usually very good wife who meet all the requirements as a mother/housewife. Except for the "sex" category.

To them normal missionary sex is good enough for them. Anything more than that is considered "pervert" or "disgusting"...

Frankiestine · #51 04-11-2005, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by gent

good wife who meet all the requirements as a mother/housewife. Except for the "sex" category.

good wife far from it..mine got a short fuse...bloody untidy at home...never does any house work leaves things for you to pick up after her...man like i said before if marriage is a contract i would have sued her for fraud and deceit cos the before and after packaging was two totally different thing...and the worst part she literally sucks in bed and i don't mean the bj version...

big_bear · #52 04-11-2005, 08:54 PM

all these talks about terror-wives who dun want sex really makes me feel like not marrying. jialat siah... scared like hell.
might as well dun marry better.

jswong · #53 06-11-2005, 10:14 PM

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fat29 · #54 06-11-2005, 11:38 PM

Dear Bros,

Hope to add a dimension to this sexless or little sex or boring sex marriages. I think that the wives and husbands have different expectations of things and the root of things is that both see a different calling in marriage. Wife may see it as a harbour to park or see the role as a good mother, etc.. and sex is not part of it or at least an insignificant part of it.

Guys with needs see it differently especially when their male friends have sexy and sex starved wives and girlfriends.

If you could use sex stories plus personal encounters about friends to share with wives, I think the situation is not totally irreversible. I have friends who managed to use stories to connect with their wives and they are now leading by sex lives. Some of these stories lead them to take lessons from sex therapists or the internet for solutions.

I don't think this is going to work for all brothers but for those who practise and master the art of story telling and showing evidences of common friends, do stand some chance.

Hope this contributions help. If there is anything that you need me to elaborate, pls PM me. Will be most happy to share with you.

superstar · #55 07-11-2005, 03:01 AM

My five cents worth of view...

Sometimes, especially those girls who are very conservative abt sex, you must make them feel like you want sex is becos you love them...but not becos you want to have sex.... P

KingBong · #56 07-11-2005, 03:11 AM

It' strange. When you think back of those high sex drive women, great in bed but when it comes to marriage our big head takes over. People generally don't marry their spouse because of sex, for logical reasons, it won't last. But then even there's no sex life, it could cause problems later. Hence many guys sideline, with or without their spouse knowledge. What's the solution?

KingBong · #57 07-11-2005, 03:12 AM

When you think back of those high sex drive women, great in bed but when it comes to marriage our big head takes over. People generally don't marry their spouse because of sex, for logical reasons, it won't last. But then even there's no sex life, it could cause problems later. Hence many guys sideline, with or without their spouse knowledge. What's the solution?

thaiholebanger · #58 07-11-2005, 09:23 AM

hai.... my wife also like that and to top it off we have been married less than a year (no kids lah) the no of times we bonked is less than the fingers on one hand.... that is one of the reasons why I became a samster and cheong for fucks...
If i know like that i might put the brakes on the wedding plans...
It is very frustrating...

jrbecker99 · #59 07-11-2005, 11:03 AM

why all our wifes like that one? me eh its the kids this the kids that. thats all the wife talks about. if not the kids its the in laws. espically the rich in laws how they are all doing so well. we just a house no mortgage, new car every 5 years, regular holidays overseas (malaysia dont count one) still i not good enough

as f or sex get 1 once a month when she has pmt (pre mensu tension). second one if lucky on public holiday. half hour sux sux in out in out roll over all over. and the usual lecture "you no go get it outside or i kill you" if only she knows i would have been dead long time ago .

boobers · #60 07-11-2005, 11:09 AM

Bro, all of us hope for a good wife and great sex when married. I find good wife something hard to comeby so cherish them if u have one. Don get too depress when u don get sex. Talk to her about it. If still cannot, go get your shaft milked out by those commercial cows out there. It's a win win situation but make sure u get maximum protection. If u don tell she won't know right