How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf?

[feitutut2002]

I think its time u join the local SWINGING club..bring both ur sex lives to another level. If u interested, PM me..I intro u in

Originally Posted by jemz

nice to see some ladies commenting...


i see alot of bros complaiing the wife sian of sex.

for me... i donno whats wrong, im not ugly nor fat. frm this forum, i know either i initiate, be more exciting or one day i will lose my husband. so i will ask him very often, but he always will watch dvd until damn late, i wait for him until i sian also. we married less than a month only.

i want, but he like ai mai ai mai like that. or during the day i tease him, build up the anticipation until at night, den he will go and watch dvd. i like.. sit there and just . maybe i marry the wrong guy. before we got married he not like that one. i think also only a matter of time before i go out and find a partner or work as FL to earn income and to satisfy my own needs also if he continue like that. haix....

[mscucky]

Originally Posted by vistaman

seems like there are a lot of bros and sis here who are also facing issues at home with the spouses.
For my case, i have been having a cold war with my wife for months. Every time i will give in but she does not seem to care and continue with her behaviour. She still work very very late everyday and sometimes will go clubbing thinking i dont know. Only know how to criticise people and ask people to do things for her but never do it herself. I know i am not perfect but i am 100% devoted to my 2 kids and if not for them i would have separated long time ago. My parents who are staying with me to help look after the kids are also getting very sian seeing us like this. But they love the grandkids too much so also tahan.
sometimes, i ask myself how long more should i wait and endure this unhappiness. Should i just ask for a divorce and risk losing my kids? I cannot imagine coming back from work and not seeing them. The pain would be just too much to bear. sigh!
Maybe we should form a support group to share our feelings and help each other get over the pain.

divorce? aiyar...not that drastic lar... our mariages will bound to have problems. they will be ups and downs... more importantly u try ur best to love her n the kids... wait n hope she can change lar.... our kids will never forgive us for a broken family....

[mscucky]

Originally Posted by jemz

nice to see some ladies commenting...


i see alot of bros complaiing the wife sian of sex.

for me... i donno whats wrong, im not ugly nor fat. frm this forum, i know either i initiate, be more exciting or one day i will lose my husband. so i will ask him very often, but he always will watch dvd until damn late, i wait for him until i sian also. we married less than a month only.

i want, but he like ai mai ai mai like that. or during the day i tease him, build up the anticipation until at night, den he will go and watch dvd. i like.. sit there and just . maybe i marry the wrong guy. before we got married he not like that one. i think also only a matter of time before i go out and find a partner or work as FL to earn income and to satisfy my own needs also if he continue like that. haix....

hey sis.... it's frustrating when u want and ur partner like dun wun.. then u kept on asking why lidat? stg wrong? i think guys are lidat... the more u gip him, the more they dun appreciate... if u sianz, stop giving liao...quite siong as a woman to be treated in such a way......

ur guy shud appreciate u

[mscucky]

Originally Posted by vistaman

seems like there are a lot of bros and sis here who are also facing issues at home with the spouses.
For my case, i have been having a cold war with my wife for months. Every time i will give in but she does not seem to care and continue with her behaviour. She still work very very late everyday and sometimes will go clubbing thinking i dont know. Only know how to criticise people and ask people to do things for her but never do it herself. I know i am not perfect but i am 100% devoted to my 2 kids and if not for them i would have separated long time ago. My parents who are staying with me to help look after the kids are also getting very sian seeing us like this. But they love the grandkids too much so also tahan.
sometimes, i ask myself how long more should i wait and endure this unhappiness. Should i just ask for a divorce and risk losing my kids? I cannot imagine coming back from work and not seeing them. The pain would be just too much to bear. sigh!
Maybe we should form a support group to share our feelings and help each other get over the pain.

dear i can feel ur pain..can feel that u r a good father and a good hubby.. if u r my hubby, i will treasure u alot n be ur good wifey...

may god bless n dun give up for the sake of ur two kids...pm me if u need support

[jemz]

rapebill.. i tried lor.. but u know after a long day of work ,come back chores and ebverything, i sit down and watch dvd with him. not one episode wor. he continuous until 3 - 4am. and den by that time, i already half dead. can u blame me? i tried already. watch with him but i also got to work right? he work from home so is his flexi timing. but me leh?

i suggest do before watching dvd, den he will sometimes say wait, or break it up into a few times until super late at night. last time we do everyday. now if got twice a week, i already say thank you god liao. i know he never play outside.

i try to make it more interesting also. den go out also wear sexy and nice. got many guys stare at me, he also get jealous. BUT NO REACTION FROM HIM STILL! WHY!!!! ARGH!!!! -cry-

btw, dont think im like drop dead gorgeous la. so dont try to hit on me. im only faithful to my man. haix... gimme advice how to get back our fairytale sexlife previously can?

mscucky,
thx. my friend also say he should appreciate me more. i also know im an all rounder wife. i do everything nicely for him. from financial matters, since he cannot be bothered, to pets, chores, parents, and also take care of him and his needs. on top of that, my work also. i got no time for friends, for myself. want to read a book also donno where to find time. i going crazy liao.

[mscucky]

Originally Posted by jemz

rapebill.. i tried lor.. but u know after a long day of work ,come back chores and ebverything, i sit down and watch dvd with him. not one episode wor. he continuous until 3 - 4am. and den by that time, i already half dead. can u blame me? i tried already. watch with him but i also got to work right? he work from home so is his flexi timing. but me leh?

i suggest do before watching dvd, den he will sometimes say wait, or break it up into a few times until super late at night. last time we do everyday. now if got twice a week, i already say thank you god liao. i know he never play outside.

i try to make it more interesting also. den go out also wear sexy and nice. got many guys stare at me, he also get jealous. BUT NO REACTION FROM HIM STILL! WHY!!!! ARGH!!!! -cry-

btw, dont think im like drop dead gorgeous la. so dont try to hit on me. im only faithful to my man. haix... gimme advice how to get back our fairytale sexlife previously can?

mscucky,
thx. my friend also say he should appreciate me more. i also know im an all rounder wife. i do everything nicely for him. from financial matters, since he cannot be bothered, to pets, chores, parents, and also take care of him and his needs. on top of that, my work also. i got no time for friends, for myself. want to read a book also donno where to find time. i going crazy liao.

yeah lor... i know wat u mean.... stimes we want to be nice but got mistreated. wanna cry n cannot cry lidat...

when u +++ to him.. he accused u u think too much liao.... haiz..


at least there's a consolation, ur man is faithful to u n never cheat.. maybe u try other ways to bring back the fire to the marriage....me support u hor.....


u must love him alot to sacrifise alot.. i love my man too.. i just gave up my career and now i hv to start from zero floor

[ToxicQueen]

well, after reading all the comments... i felt quite truthful... i had a bf which we had been together for 2 yrs plus. we had sex almost every day when we 1st start dating. as times goes by, we reduced to 1 week 2-3 times.. i still miss sex with him n i think of all the sex partners i had (not more lah, around 5 only), he's the one who can sexify me. but in the end, he 'eat' outside. in the end, we broke off cos i really can't take it cos i can't accept. why i can give him (i mean i can sexify him well too) n yet he still sex with tat gal.. WTF... Damn hurting. been 4 mths since we broke off. till now i still miss him... i mean miss sex with him. lol... so i think sex is a must to carry on couple life but not always... cos thou u can sexify him but he still can eat outside. full of craps..... now is to enjoy as much as i like.
So back to the topic, i've been a virgin for 4 mths already.
lol

[mscucky]

Originally Posted by ToxicQueen

So back to the topic, i've been a virgin for 4 mths already.
lol

hey it's ok to be virgin... women n men is different... i rather preserve fr somebody i want to eat it up than to give to somebody where i cant do it... u know wat i mean ? my last viginity period was half an hr ago....


er... i can understand how u feel lo.... it's like ur feelings cheated... hard to accept that.... u can't forgive urself n wonder wat are ur shortcomings that he needs to do that ? let's form a support circle so we srand still n move on with our life, shall we? pm me if u wanna +++ ! life i sours... we need to get back to our feet. either we tumble or be a fighter!


i think i found a few good frens over this thread liao....

[Rainman]

Been following this thread for a while. Like to share my 2 cents worth.

Before marriage, sex is like so difficult to get which need planning of timing, places etc. After marriage, she is always there in your bed for you. U could have it as and when u want. Thus man might tends to overlooked it in the first place by having less.

Hence the wife felt that since u don't really need it, they do not initial it anymore. Or they just lost interest after a while, hormone changes especially after the arrival of the kids. KIDS, tell me about that, spend endless night drinking in the coffee shops for that. SIGH

I waited for years and things do improved.

Be patience and think positive.

I wish all my bro and sis here all the best.

I like the idea of a support group, like counselling, it should helped reduce the divorce rates in Singapore. However, Asian been Asian are more conservative and I am sure not many would open up should we really meet up.



Cheers

[big dick]

the last time i did it with my co was about 8 months ago. also dun know why become like that le...

[Red-Card]

Originally Posted by Rainman

Hence the wife felt that since u don't really need it, they do not initial it anymore. Or they just lost interest after a while, hormone changes especially after the arrival of the kids. KIDS, tell me about that, spend endless night drinking in the coffee shops for that. SIGH

Bro,

Care to elaborate about this hormone changes? It seems that we are in the same situation.

[kendory]

hi everyone, me 39+, married for 8yrs. i share the same faith of wifee lost interest of sex.

i've stop having sex with her for more than 5yrs.....DIY most of the time.

yeah she works and works late....tired...headache....etc....excuse and excuse.

it was lately(4mths) that i started to look out for FL.........i understand how u bros felt..... as for the sis here....i have heard enough from friends and co-workers of hubby not interested....likewise I sympathises........

sigh.... life is like that, you cannot have it all and it never seems to be like what you have dreamt it to be.....

all i can say is be responsible of your action. Do not neglect your kid if you have any, should you try to have fun outside take care of yourself (USE Condom).....

life is never smooth sailing.......

take it easy...

[AngelEye]

Originally Posted by big dick

the last time i did it with my co was about 8 months ago. also dun know why become like that le...

becos u "eat" outside?

[kendory]

nope....i do believe in staying faithful. it was not until 5yrs of sexless marriage that changes my thinking.

I tried to ask her to see a doctor, marriage consultation etc.... it all turn to deaf ear.

i tried all mean...that has prompt me to start abt 4mths ago. she even told "if u eat don't let me know" what more can i say ? i've asked a female friend, she guess she might have some1....well all i can say is everyone for themselves...... no hard feeling.

to all sis here.....don't always think that men eat outside and thus wifee get back at us for not having sex.... if not always the case.

anyway my FL session has always been with 1 lady that i got to know....a Divorcee with 2 kids to take care of.... nice lady my age, not the sexy type..but i believe is friendship in sex as well.....we talk about life share tips on how to control our temper and many things that wifee and hubby chats.

i did try message palours but i find that it not as intimate as my FL can offer even thot it was a bit expensive.

so much abt my life story. :-) don't 1 to bore u guys & gals. :-)

take care......

[vistaman]

Originally Posted by kendory

nope....i do believe in staying faithful. it was not until 5yrs of sexless marriage that changes my thinking.

I tried to ask her to see a doctor, marriage consultation etc.... it all turn to deaf ear.

i tried all mean...that has prompt me to start abt 4mths ago. she even told "if u eat don't let me know" what more can i say ? i've asked a female friend, she guess she might have some1....well all i can say is everyone for themselves...... no hard feeling.

to all sis here.....don't always think that men eat outside and thus wifee get back at us for not having sex.... if not always the case.

anyway my FL session has always been with 1 lady that i got to know....a Divorcee with 2 kids to take care of.... nice lady my age, not the sexy type..but i believe is friendship in sex as well.....we talk about life share tips on how to control our temper and many things that wifee and hubby chats.

i did try message palours but i find that it not as intimate as my FL can offer even thot it was a bit expensive.

so much abt my life story. :-) don't 1 to bore u guys & gals. :-)

take care......

Honestly, i also enjoy more being with a lady who can chat and +++ only rather than pay and fuck and knowing she is just acting. And i always tell myself i can PCC and feel better and save money too. unfortunately, i dont have any gal friends that i can be totally open with. Only guy friends.
Nowadays i like to go KTV once in a while and +++ cock with the hostesses. Some of them can be quite nice too and make me feel good. Its cheap and no sex needed at all.
I do sound kinda pathetic. hahahaha!