Is money everything to women? No more true love?

[unsung80]

Originally Posted by tiffanytan

It's sad that most guys think women are always materialistic.
There are still minority group of them that are not.. Really!!

Minority group is a very small sum though.. so which category do you belong to?

[porscheclub]

Let's be realistic here. Money is important & having a lot of money assures financial freedom; offering security so you cannot blame both sexes.

Which guy doesn't want a swanky sports car and a live like a prince?

The key is to find contentment so you need to find a spouse who has the same vision as you & better if she or he is a saver and you splurge

On the other end. If you live in a harsh environment then a loaf of fresh bread will bring a lot of happiness for the family. So, money is an evil thing.

[MayMassage]

Hi the whole world - especially women be it your GF, wife or your ML all focus on making money.

When you are at home wife bugs you for making money, When you are at a SPA the ML is focusing on milking your money. The MLs are getting worse and they now how to milk you of everything. The SPA is used as their marketing place. They join some SPA and get customers by teasing them and then they make the customers go after them to hotels or other places and milk them more and more. That is why if you see the MLs in SPA work like part time. Some SPA bosses also know this and make use of this and don't pay them for the time they work.

The world is getting very materialistic. We are always the suckers., but being sucked..............

[subidowa]

The world suxs deep deep.... The invention of Internet/Smart phone/ news/ planes make the world become smaller and news travel faster.

Last time the world is also as fucked up. However, they are not exposed to so much infrastructures thus at least they are more hypocrites. The guys in the past only think in their heads but dun dare to do. They dunno what is happening at the other side of the world. So they dunno if what they do is correct or not correct. They dun dare to say out and thus, all the evil lies hidden.

Nowadays, simi lan Jiao also kanna stomp....go into the internet. They like promoting evil at an accelerated speed. Last time having affair must be drowned. Nowadays, knn so many affairs news.... what is an affair man. So many rich pple so bastard why I need to donate money for pple??? Monkeys see monkeys do. We make the world become very very jialat. Yes I know I am very jialat. However, there are more pple more jialat lo... so I dun care, at least i'm not the worst. THis is the new fucked up new world order.

[hugs]

@maymassage and @subidowa, i find this thread interesting becos of the many points of view contributed, especially by both bros mentioned.

If the world has always been sucking and sucker, why not limit yourself once in awhile? To clear your mind from being obsess with getting suck? Yes there are more options to porn but i still dont watch porn. Yes there are options for bisexual fl and male fl but i dont engage that service. Yes there are more sex shop available but i never own any sex toy. It is a matter of choice. I can also say there are gym everywhere but do you sign up? It only cost the price of one bonk.

[maxman]

Originally Posted by Tailsman

From another angle,

Most women just want all the money so that they can spend it using their emotions as they cannot use their brain to think how to spend it.

With last $100 to last the week before our pay day,
they still rather take taxi than bus;
they still rather buy that shoe on discount than save for it;
they still rather redeem the $5 voucher with minimum spending of $30 than let it expired today;
they still rather drink bottled plain water at home than boiled tap water;
they still rather buy beer to forget the $100 because its not their problem;

After our pay day,
they still rather buy new furniture than second hand in very good condition;
they still rather re-string their badminton racket by brand principle than any sport shop;
they still rather go overseas holiday than to stay at home watch movie;
they still rather buy a scanner than to use mobile phone camera;
they still rather buy a shoe for every sport or day than to share every other day;

Most women have shoe for work, shopping, weekend, sport, beach, swimming, hawker, running, gym, overseas, and etc.

Most men mostly have shoe for work, sports, slipper and boots (free from Army). End of list.

Most men hardly can fill a row in shoe cabinet, but for most women one cabinet is not enough.

So go home and count the shoes of the woman at home.

Women still think with their heart even with money and men think with their (small) head to save for piaks.

Well said.

I would add on that men are generally rational when making decisions whereas women are more emotional when making decisions. What men think is very straight-forward to analyse and decide, women do not think, or perhaps feel, it the same way. Sometimes men think women are impossibly unreasonable, and it is simply because women do not see/feel in the same way as men. It is like a different operating system that cannot compute. (Hint: the book "Men are from Mars. Women are from Venus" by John Gray.) This is why men do not easily and always understand women and the vice versa is also true. And yes, it can be very frustrating.

I would also add to the scenario that with the last $100 note to last a week before pay day, a man can easily realize the sadness of living it tough (eating grass). This is rational. However, with the same last $100 to last a week before pay day, a woman seeing a handbag on sale may have a different realization. I am guessing she wants the happiness of getting the handbag on sale and earning the envy of her girlfriends. This is of course not rational, simply emotional. You can also say, in this case as it often is, that the woman does not have good forward sight to see the future suffering by spending the last $100.

I am no expert, but I also think that many women today, usually the younger ones, have too much of a princess syndrome which contributes to the problem in their adult life. (The princess syndrome is a known and rising problem among child raising in modern times. Google it.) These young women's thoughts are often unrealistic and sometimes even delusional. As the Chinese saying goes, they "can eat soft but cannot eat hard". You almost, or surely, have to lie to them with sweet bullshit so that they will not break down and cry when told the bitter truth. There are children who become distressed and cry when told Santa Claus is a fake story. They cannot handle the truth. (Hint: the movie A Few Good Men.)



If any man is to date and couple with a woman, I would say it is very important to observe her for this princess syndrome. The princess syndrome is very difficult to live with, to say the least, or really truly very impossible to live with. Marrying a woman like that is like marrying someone with delusions and is going to drive you insane.

[subidowa]

Actually I sort of like this modern world too...At least it makes getting sex easier. Much more easier and acceptable than in the past. All I have to do is to spend money. I am serious. Imagine last time if u bedded pple wives, gfs or having ONS. Do you think you will feel alright? You will be scared as you dunno how the public is gonna deal with you if they found out. U dunno if the police is gonna punish u, how ur parents going to scold and ur reputation will cui etc.

Nowadays, with so much information about affairs and adultery. PPle think it is normal or just a matter of time before the wives or gfs have an affair. Going clubbing also with the aim to ONS. It has become normal to f girls as long as they are agreeable. Even police also bo chup if the husband go and report the wife has an affair. Show proof first. So nowadays it has become so evil so fucked up but i'm enjoying it. HAHAHA.

Like I say liao, everything is about ROR (refer to my previous posts). It is ok for the modern girls to feel like a princess. She can want everything she see other pple have on the internet (hermes, nice cars, nice houses). Other pple have why she cannot have. However, she also must be practical when receiving these gifts. Please be practical, guys do not give for nothing. Prepared to offer sex in return.

I love princesses who only want to live within the rich. It makes bedding them more straight forward and more exclusive. However, it becomes a problem if she only want gifts dun give sex. I am ok with girls being materialistic but I expect them to be practical too. That is all I ask only.

So please girls,, carry on be materialistic and practical too. So guys like us can have excuses to fuck u all easily and without guilt to ur husbands or bfs. After all we gave u all gifts already rite? We didi nothing wrong. It is just a transaction. Who do not really care about how the husbands or the bfs feel cause they are also not in this deal. LOL!!!

[tiffanytan]

Originally Posted by LindaSui

Cannot blame, the forum is such been stereotyped. Lesser sex always disadvantage here.

Men always egoistic behind keyboard.

I assume we same sex.

Yup. we same gender..

Dunno if the guys are open to hear stories from our sides..

[parrotkid]

Do share more about what you gals feel?
If a guy spends money on you, do you feel obligated to sleep with him even if you know he is not going to be your hubby?

[subidowa]

No No parrot lao ge... Dun get me wrong...


When I said I spent on girls doesn't mean that she must sleep with me. I only want her to appreciate me only. DO not necessary means need to sleep with me.

Yes I admit, when I spend on her, I wanna bed her. It is written all over my face. But I also wont say that in front of her. I will hint or i will go the extra miles to make her feel that she should reward me or really want me and love to have sex with me. If just because i spend on her and she go bed with me i might as well go find prostitutes. Why go thru all the troubles. I want to satisfy my urge and me ego too....

However, playing this game is very risky, just like walking on a thin thread. You never know the girl is carroting u or you haven't done enough. As time goes by you will know anyway. Just that girls, please dun take things for granted. Yes we can spend on u but ultimately i tell u we also want sex de. We won't force you all for it but dun treat us as carrot.

You know something, actually when i wanna bed a girl i will spend on her. If she realises and feel that no way she is hell not interested in me and tell me upfront that you dun need to buy me this Kate Spade you know. You are not my type dun waste time and your money. We can be just friends. Usually at this point of time they will expect us to back off and keep the money too...

However, because i feel appreciated and that she is honest telling me and not trying to carrot me. I bought her a Chanel instead plus travel trip to show my appreciation that she really treat me as friend. Sometimes, it is not the sex we want, we just want to feel my money is worth the spending. However, i dunno why after i know that i have no chance at all and only wanted her as a good friend. During the trip, she gave me one of the best sex and never ask me for gifts anymore. I dunno in this case is it still money that make it possible or because i have melt her heart that spending on her isn't just sex. HMMMM..

[tiffanytan]

Originally Posted by AAdam

Food for thoughts and it's implication:

女儿要富养，男孩要穷养。

男人没实力，才会觉女人现实。
女人没魅力，才会觉得男人花心。

Originally Posted by joncheong

a boy cries when he want a toy but can't get, a man go work hard for it...even if need to take up second job....

We need more these type of guys..

[iloveu4ever]

TS, what fucked up thing you talking about?? Of course there is true love....the love for money....the more money you give them, the wider theirs would spread, and the deeper they will suck your dicks

[notyourbabe]

Please lah.

LIKE AS IF YOU MEN ONLY WANT TRUE LOVE.

If you are the kind of man who only go after girls for whats between their legs, then dont kaopeh and bitch about girls who only want whats inside your wallet.


I have dated several men for years and years and never asked him for a cent nor expensive gifts. End up? I got cheated on and treated like crap. So I'll take the cash, thanks v much.

Not ALL men are assholes, and certainly not ALL women are gold diggers. Dont swipe the whole boatload of people with one stick alright?

[SoixanteNeuf]

Originally Posted by tiffanytan

Yup. we same gender..

Dunno if the guys are open to hear stories from our sides..

Sure why not

[ExBros]

Originally Posted by subidowa

Actually I sort of like this modern world too...At least it makes getting sex easier. Much more easier and acceptable than in the past. All I have to do is to spend money. I am serious. Imagine last time if u bedded pple wives, gfs or having ONS. Do you think you will feel alright? You will be scared as you dunno how the public is gonna deal with you if they found out. U dunno if the police is gonna punish u, how ur parents going to scold and ur reputation will cui etc.

I love princesses who only want to live within the rich. It makes bedding them more straight forward and more exclusive. However, it becomes a problem if she only want gifts dun give sex. I am ok with girls being materialistic but I expect them to be practical too. That is all I ask only.

So please girls,, carry on be materialistic and practical too. So guys like us can have excuses to fuck u all easily and without guilt to ur husbands or bfs. After all we gave u all gifts already rite? We didi nothing wrong. It is just a transaction. Who do not really care about how the husbands or the bfs feel cause they are also not in this deal. LOL!!!

I don't quite agree w u