Missed opportunities

[VofVof]

Originally Posted by Stanleestanlee

1) going to a bbq with a colleague, she wanted to go home and bath and changed clothes. As I was too tired from work I want to rest in the car while she go up to change. She insist that I can go up to rest while she bath. Reached her place and nobody at home. She told me she going bath and I say ok and I sleep on the sofa. When she came out of shower, I hurry her to change and left the house. She never invite me to her place again.

2) gf at that time told me she and her best friend keep on talking about sex and her friend no bf and virgin. Maybe can let her watch us Having sex. Wasted I rejected. Should have agreed and maybe have my first 3some.

Really wasted both opportunities bro!

[spongeman]

well i had a viet friend who flew in here to visit singapore

both times she is staying alone and each time i sent her back to hotel, she was trying to hint, i wasnt sure myself so never proceed end of the day wasted the chance

lately i heard she got spermed by an ang moh and gave birth

[JiojioArmany]

Originally Posted by apmex

Awesome story! Looking forward to next episode

Which story? which episode?

[larue]

I don’t normally think about, or remember missed opportunities but there is one that left me with some regret.

She was a early school teacher whom I’d been texting, and ‘prepping’ for a while, and we’d been out on a couple of dates to do fun (not sexual the way guys like to define fun) things.

So she was hosting a mahjong session at her place one evening, and invited me over for a while before her session since I mentioned that I was just about to head home after work.

What about hubby I asked? And she said he had driven into JB to do whatever he does there, and he never knew who her mj kakis were anyway so I could pass as one.

So I went over, and she was wearing a nightie. Not overly seductive, but still fairly sheer, and sexy enough to start getting most straight men stiff.

An indication, clear as any that she was ready for the taking, given the nature of some of our previous conversations. To be sure, she made a show of calling hubby on her phone pretending to ask some random nonsense but just to ‘prove’ it was safe.

Tempting, so tempting as I was given a home tour. Especially in the kitchen when she had to tip toe to each up the top shelf to get the wine glasses. Really wanted to take her right then.

Ultimately I didn’t, we just spent the next hour or so chatting over wine at the dining table.

I had sensed it from perhaps the second time we’d gone out that she really liked me, which is a good thing.

But what I felt very strongly was that she was not so much looking for a distraction from her marriage, but a reason to leave hers. I could not be that reason because I was, and am not prepared offer anyone promises of that sort.

I wonder if I may have made a bad judgement call in not just lifting her nightie that evening in the kitchen. That beautiful porcelain smooth white skin. Oh well... no turning back the clock anyway.

[hamka]

Originally Posted by larue

But what I felt very strongly was that she was not so much looking for a distraction from her marriage, but a reason to leave hers. I could not be that reason because I was, and am not prepared offer anyone promises of that sort.

Well, brother. Since you know she has a husband back then & she wasn't so much looking for a distraction from her marriage, but a reason to leave hers, you made the right choice. It won't be pretty if you are the reason for whatever her plan is. Unless if you both are in clear mind what you both are going to do & you both understand that this will be just satisfying sexual needs, at the end of the day, she is still someone's wife & you are a friend.

For me, it's not a missed opportunity. It's wrong timing.

[ahseng00]

Maybe due to me single and not dating , I had my fair share of missed chances .

1) I was at a club . We were at the Vip table right beside the dance floor and approached some beautiful ladies . We started off dancing and slowly we were making out in the middle of the dance floor . I invited her back to the table , and asked for her number .

She rejected ! I was confused as she was giving out mixed signals .

Turned out she didn’t want to leave her number but was looking for a OnS . I was looking to date her instead 🥱

2) I tried tinder . , chatted with a girl who was fairly open . She suggested to have drinks at Tanjong Beach Club . I agreed . Picked her and went there .

She changed into her bikini and invited me to the pool with her !
I thought we were having a drink and chill at Tanjong beach club . Wearing jeans and t shirt . No trunks .

[secretlurker88]

its ok bro.
not a missed opp.

Originally Posted by larue

I don’t normally think about, or remember missed opportunities but there is one that left me with some regret.

She was a early school teacher whom I’d been texting, and ‘prepping’ for a while, and we’d been out on a couple of dates to do fun (not sexual the way guys like to define fun) things.

So she was hosting a mahjong session at her place one evening, and invited me over for a while before her session since I mentioned that I was just about to head home after work.

What about hubby I asked? And she said he had driven into JB to do whatever he does there, and he never knew who her mj kakis were anyway so I could pass as one.

So I went over, and she was wearing a nightie. Not overly seductive, but still fairly sheer, and sexy enough to start getting most straight men stiff.

An indication, clear as any that she was ready for the taking, given the nature of some of our previous conversations. To be sure, she made a show of calling hubby on her phone pretending to ask some random nonsense but just to ‘prove’ it was safe.

Tempting, so tempting as I was given a home tour. Especially in the kitchen when she had to tip toe to each up the top shelf to get the wine glasses. Really wanted to take her right then.

Ultimately I didn’t, we just spent the next hour or so chatting over wine at the dining table.

I had sensed it from perhaps the second time we’d gone out that she really liked me, which is a good thing.

But what I felt very strongly was that she was not so much looking for a distraction from her marriage, but a reason to leave hers. I could not be that reason because I was, and am not prepared offer anyone promises of that sort.

I wonder if I may have made a bad judgement call in not just lifting her nightie that evening in the kitchen. That beautiful porcelain smooth white skin. Oh well... no turning back the clock anyway.

[6club]

Originally Posted by ahseng00

2) I tried tinder . , chatted with a girl who was fairly open . She suggested to have drinks at Tanjong Beach Club . I agreed . Picked her and went there .

She changed into her bikini and invited me to the pool with her !
I thought we were having a drink and chill at Tanjong beach club . Wearing jeans and t shirt . No trunks .

Aiya she never make herself clear!

[hamka]

Originally Posted by ahseng00

She changed into her bikini and invited me to the pool with her !
I thought we were having a drink and chill at Tanjong beach club . Wearing jeans and t shirt . No trunks .

Thanks for the heads up. Always bring extra outfit & swimming trunk whenever a girl jio to chill at a swimming pool.

[Mamamia123456]

When I was on exchange, the program had 2 hot french girls. Both were maybe E cup - around sensual jane size.

First girl one the first night sat on my lap and grinded me till I was 100% hard on. She asked me to hug her and put my arms around her waist. I can't remember what happened next as I had a lot to drink but I didn't bang her then and not the rest of the 6 months there

The other girl asked me to go give her a massage as she had backache. I went in and she took off her top immediately - no bra on. As I gave her a massage, I forgot to lock the door and her roommate came in. We got so awkward that we quickly ended the session. She came to SG years later to work and invited me to her place, somehow after so long the urge to fuck was no longer there.

That whole year was filled with all these episodes while - a lady ask me feel her tits on a long haul bus, hostel - (one girl ask me wanna go shoot porn in Czech republic, she is a nudist), drunk classmate patting my wieneir,

Truth is I was stupidly in love with this bitch from Singapore and totally felt miserable as I quarrelled with her that 10 months while staying faithful. FML, what I would do to get back all those chances in life. Moral of the story is, chances don't always come knocking, if you are reading this, if you get the chance - JUST FUCKING DO IT.

I have never regretted any girls I have banged even if I lost that friendship, but I always regret those I never banged

[TheDriverGuy]

Originally Posted by Mamamia123456

Truth is I was stupidly in love with this bitch from Singapore and totally felt miserable as I quarrelled with her that 10 months while staying faithful. FML, what I would do to get back all those chances in life. Moral of the story is, chances don't always come knocking, if you are reading this, if you get the chance - JUST FUCKING DO IT.

I have never regretted any girls I have banged even if I lost that friendship, but I always regret those I never banged

Good point there

[qazxcvbnmlp1029]

Quite a long time ago met this girl through friends. Typical chiobu type, long dyed hair, slim, pretty, but still nice curves with a good firm C cup.

We texted a little and went out barely a couple of times, she came on to me really strongly. I remember after a late movie we wanted to go to the toilet to wash from the pop corn and snacks. We went to a further away toilet because the toilets nearer to the cinemas are usually crowded.

When approaching the toilet she told me "it's a bit scary, can we go to the handicapped toilet to wash together?"

I think we know how this end given that i am posting this story here. She washed her hand, i washed mine. She was adjusting her hair, sticking her boobs out holding her hair up. I waited patiently, not rushing her.

And then we went home.

Oh well. Eventually we did get some minor action going on, but i didnt get to bang her. Enjoyed her boobs, made her cum, that's about it. We aren't very compatible.

[hamka]

Sometime certain things really should just fucking do it! One who hesitates usually lives in regrets.

I used to know a girl too that were very flirty with me. But I'm attached with my gf, so I let that girl go. Thinking back, should really just fucking devour her! Hahahaha

[shhhhh]

Originally Posted by qazxcvbnmlp1029

Oh well. Eventually we did get some minor action going on, but i didnt get to bang her. Enjoyed her boobs, made her cum, that's about it. We aren't very compatible.

Was incompatibility the reason you didn't proceed further? Did you regret or not

[35cents]

agree with you.... chances don't come knocking.... seize them when they do....

Originally Posted by Mamamia123456

When I was on exchange, the program had 2 hot french girls. Both were maybe E cup - around sensual jane size.

First girl one the first night sat on my lap and grinded me till I was 100% hard on. She asked me to hug her and put my arms around her waist. I can't remember what happened next as I had a lot to drink but I didn't bang her then and not the rest of the 6 months there

The other girl asked me to go give her a massage as she had backache. I went in and she took off her top immediately - no bra on. As I gave her a massage, I forgot to lock the door and her roommate came in. We got so awkward that we quickly ended the session. She came to SG years later to work and invited me to her place, somehow after so long the urge to fuck was no longer there.

That whole year was filled with all these episodes while - a lady ask me feel her tits on a long haul bus, hostel - (one girl ask me wanna go shoot porn in Czech republic, she is a nudist), drunk classmate patting my wieneir,

Truth is I was stupidly in love with this bitch from Singapore and totally felt miserable as I quarrelled with her that 10 months while staying faithful. FML, what I would do to get back all those chances in life. Moral of the story is, chances don't always come knocking, if you are reading this, if you get the chance - JUST FUCKING DO IT.

I have never regretted any girls I have banged even if I lost that friendship, but I always regret those I never banged