Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[Microsoft]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Look like shes like my ex too. Very stubborn and iron teeth. Since one of the reason we split was that I am much older than her, shes now looking forward to guys younger than her. Weirdor!

Dunno whether 2 call it iron teeth onot... sometime i find their thinking quite funny... Like but dare not approach ended up with another 1, go 4 security first then ended up with someone they dun really like.

Yah some of them prefer younger man. 1 girl ever told me alot of man performance drop after 40 or even earilier while women sex drive can go all the way 2 late 40 or even more. So if take a older husband wait she 30+ husband can performance leow. So mus look for younger man when she 40+ husband 30+ still can perform....

Tot of telling her alot of man 40+ look like 30+ but not much women 40+ look like 30+... Duuno when she 40+ husband still attracted by her look onot...

[Freman]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Yes. Ang mo kwai. Honestly you ever notice any old Chinese, Malay or Indian man or ah pek holding hands with any SYT local Chinese, Malay, or Indian gils? Hmmm....

hi,

hahah, that's becos us local old men are worried that our wife,children, friends will spot us mah...

[slyer]

Originally Posted by Microsoft

Yalor... alot of things in life r fated if u believe... sometime u walk the world n nv find any... sometime u walk the world but the right is beside u all the while... guess we jus had 2 accept wat faith had 2 offer lor...

i find sometimes fate is making fun of men. the girl i like, like other guys while the girls i dun like, like me. its very hard to find a girl whom i love n who love me at same time. quite sad. sometimes the girl who is beside us all along may be our mrs right.

Originally Posted by no_faith

any chance ur female fren is chinese?
any chance the ah ned is rich?

my fren is a chinese while the guy she likes is a 36yo divorced indian guy
i nt sure the guy is rich or nt but my fren dun really care abt the financial part. she goes for feel and chemistry. she says the image the guy potrayed is too perfect alr. this makes me very suspicious of that guy cos guys can never be perfect. the more perfect he is the more i believe he is up to sth. i feel he is out to fling with my fren. no matter how i advised my fren she stil wan to be with him, then that is her fate since she dun wan to heed my advice

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Alamak! You also think like my ex and her parents too. After so many yrs of relationship, now then they say I am too old for her. But you do notice so many foreigners (especially quai lou) marrying local gils. Double standard. But I really envy your 21yr old friend. Bless them.

erm i dun mean older guys can't be with younger girls. love can overcome age barrier. i dun mind accepting girls so much younger or older than me. but then when comes to marriage, we have to overcome the parents factor. i agree local gals haf double standard. they always tink caucasians are more superior than us chinese.

Originally Posted by ~|@|~

nice to hear this comment among the pessimism in this thread.... we have to remain positive and not dwell too much on past unhappiness

i have faced many setbacks in love life n this makes me quite pessimistic most of the time. but then i always tell myself to remain optismitic cos i believe my mrs right is waiting for me somewhere out there

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Bro, affairs of the heart is just different from minutes of lust enjoyment. Being together with the girl you love, as a companion/confidante is far greater than just having sex alone (imo).

i agree with u. lust n love are 2 diff things. for me now i prefer to have a gf whom i can share my woes and happiness , someone who can be my confidante, support me in whatever i am doing etc. that is the most basic things wife or gf can do for their bf/ husband.

[no_faith]

bro slyer, i also same same lah.
gal i like, like sum1 else.
the more i try, the harder it become.
the more i get nearer, the further she went.
finally i found sum1, she betray me and left wif another guy.

see, itz sux.


oh ya, if, if there is no offence in killing, i will end the gal and ah neh life.
wth is tat? only malay got honour killing meh? chinese gals flock to other nationality/races.
how are we, chinese guys ever to lift our head held up high?
pardon me for being so offensive.


peace

[Microsoft]

Originally Posted by slyer

i find sometimes fate is making fun of men. the girl i like, like other guys while the girls i dun like, like me. its very hard to find a girl whom i love n who love me at same time. quite sad. sometimes the girl who is beside us all along may be our mrs right.

My classmate is married for many yrs. He had 3 children the elder 1 in upper sec. Can b consider quite a happy family....

I can still recalled the day b4 his 1st date with his wife. We r chatting at the sarabat store n i told him if u r not int in her, at least hint 2 her... Dun waste her time. Date turn out quite well n he had no heart 2 tell her wat he wanted 2 say. Come look for me a day b4 the 2nd date n i told him the same thing.

U might have guess wat happen in the end.. Till 2day, his wife didn't noe he agreed 2 go out with her jus wanna tell her not to waste her time coz he actually int in her good friend. Faith is a bery funni thing sometime... Haizz

[slyer]

Originally Posted by no_faith

bro slyer, i also same same lah.
gal i like, like sum1 else.
the more i try, the harder it become.
the more i get nearer, the further she went.
finally i found sum1, she betray me and left wif another guy.
see, itz sux.
oh ya, if, if there is no offence in killing, i will end the gal and ah neh life.
wth is tat? only malay got honour killing meh? chinese gals flock to other nationality/races.
how are we, chinese guys ever to lift our head held up high?
pardon me for being so offensive.
peace

i understand how u feel cos what u went thru is quite similar to my experience. i was 2 timed by girl b4. when the girl n i were tog, she alr had a bf. i feel betrayed and lost trust and faith in girls from then on.
i had quite afew chinese female frens who have indian / malay bf.... maybe now everyone's thinking are very open unlike last time. but for me i can only accept chinese gf or wife.

Originally Posted by Microsoft

My classmate is married for many yrs. He had 3 children the elder 1 in upper sec. Can b consider quite a happy family....

I can still recalled the day b4 his 1st date with his wife. We r chatting at the sarabat store n i told him if u r not int in her, at least hint 2 her... Dun waste her time. Date turn out quite well n he had no heart 2 tell her wat he wanted 2 say. Come look for me a day b4 the 2nd date n i told him the same thing.

U might have guess wat happen in the end.. Till 2day, his wife didn't noe he agreed 2 go out with her jus wanna tell her not to waste her time coz he actually int in her good friend. Faith is a bery funni thing sometime... Haizz

sometimes fate really playing us men. the girls we tink no chance to go into r/s will end up as our wife or gf

[no_faith]

Originally Posted by slyer

i understand how u feel cos what u went thru is quite similar to my experience. i was 2 timed by girl b4. when the girl n i were tog, she alr had a bf. i feel betrayed and lost trust and faith in girls from then on.
i had quite afew chinese female frens who have indian / malay bf.... maybe now everyone's thinking are very open unlike last time. but for me i can only accept chinese gf or wife.

yes bro, see my nick and siggy. wat to do.

to me if i ever decided to get married, asians/ang mo i ok de lah.
but see chinese gals throw themselves to ang mo/ke leng/dig mud hor, i cant stand it, dunno y.

[The Sexorcist]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Bro, affairs of the heart is just different from minutes of lust enjoyment. Being together with the girl you love, as a companion/confidante is far greater than just having sex alone (imo).

True true true. Getting your rocks off is easy but finding a confidante and companion is priceless. I give you that my brethen.

[The Sexorcist]

Originally Posted by no_faith

to me if i ever decided to get married, asians/ang mo i ok de lah.
but see chinese gals throw themselves to ang mo/ke leng/dig mud hor, i cant stand it, dunno y.

That is because you know you follow your heart my brethen and do not discriminate between races treating all pussies as equal. But those girls practice a slient discrimination giving more leeway to certain races.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by Freman

hi,

hahah, that's becos us local old men are worried that our wife,children, friends will spot us mah...

If we want to play punk behind our wives, then we must be ready to do the necessary explanation and face the music. Of else Lan lan suffer in silence with our present partner.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by slyer

but then when comes to marriage, we have to overcome the parents factor. i agree local gals haf double standard. they always tink caucasians are more superior than us chinese.

Thats why I reluctantly agreed to my ex request to split cos of her parent objection. I always believe parents blessings are very important. But after so many years, now than she realized I am too old for her. Very difficult to accept her excuse.

[no_faith]

Originally Posted by The Sexorcist

do not discriminate between races...

ok lah ok lah, maybe too offensive for my sentence. i keep to myself loh.


peace no war.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by The Sexorcist

But those girls practice a slient discrimination giving more leeway to certain races.

Ahem to that. Just look at some of our Male cabinet Ministers who cross marriage. Chinese woman who married to other races, the latter normally would hold senior and important position. Very rare you see average educated Chinese woman marry Malay (no offence to our Malay bros) amat, drivers or security guards. Very seldom you find average educated Chinese woman marry to an Indian/Sikh (again no offence to our Indian bros) jaga, guard. If they marry to a caucasian, that one sure very big Dick one! MD or Chairman of Mnc.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by Microsoft

1 girl ever told me alot of man performance drop after 40 or even earilier while women sex drive can go all the way 2 late 40 or even more. So if take a older husband wait she 30+ husband can performance leow. So mus look for younger man when she 40+ husband 30+ still can perform....

Haha. Dont they know Viagra or Magix works wonder? Dont they read the press countless "old" man went batam every weekends. I got a friend whos already 65yrs. Still cheong at Batam.

[Microsoft]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Haha. Dont they know Viagra or Magix works wonder? Dont they read the press countless "old" man went batam every weekends. I got a friend whos already 65yrs. Still cheong at Batam.

Actually hor... 2 b honest... although there r some who performance reali drop... there r oso many who jus put on an act... reserve bullet 2 shoot wild geese outside. Well i din told her tat lor... Man lobang cnot pichak 1.