Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[hubber27]

Originally Posted by no_faith

guys need to strive hard in career hoping in future, his family can live a better life.
gals have the option to the need of striving hard or need not to strive as they can look for a more stability guy. in this way, they dun seems to look for love. they are looking for stability. love is secondary.

as long we can live our life to the fullest, have goals, dreams, ambitions, be happy, shelter to live, dun tink it is a must to find love.

I totally agree with what u said. My present situation now is:
I'm married with 9mths daughter. My gf forcing me to break up which i felt disaster at 1st 2 weeks ago. Now, time had smoothen all sorrow but my heart still with my gf. Gf dun contact me at all while I also maintain radio silence. Gf bday is coming, present prepared but duno how to pass to gf. If I ever get it over this time round, i will follow the above quote for life and play w/o KC and bonks with all vengence... I know the only way to do this is to really made my heart broke for this gf. I hope i can handle the heartbreak sessions to come.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by no_faith

yup, they compare too much wif ppl they know. but they will always compare their boyfren love them more.
love? wow but when u listen to them...

gal a "my bf loves me, he juz bought a LV bag for me"
gal b "my bf loves me more, he juz bought a diamond ring for me"
gal c "my bf loves me most, he juz bought me a bmw roadster"

Many of them (girls) are like that. They compare their bfs like comparing grocery offers in the store.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by hubber27

I totally agree with what u said. My present situation now is:
I'm married with 9mths daughter. My gf forcing me to break up which i felt disaster at 1st 2 weeks ago. Now, time had smoothen all sorrow but my heart still with my gf. Gf dun contact me at all while I also maintain radio silence. Gf bday is coming, present prepared but duno how to pass to gf. If I ever get it over this time round, i will follow the above quote for life and play w/o KC and bonks with all vengence... I know the only way to do this is to really made my heart broke for this gf. I hope i can handle the heartbreak sessions to come.

Don't fret man. SBF will be here for u.

[no_faith]

if im not wrong, the stats still showing divorce rate is on the high and marriage is low. singles are plenty.

if there is true love, why divorce rate is higher.
if there is true love, there shd be more marriage.
if there is true love, there wont be plenty of singles.

juz my tots.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by Goondamit

Have very much the same feeling like some of the bros here. You just sometime wonder why do we have to be like their reserve. The time, sacrifices and $ just do not touch them.

To quote one of the girls I courted, "Nothing is guaranteed what? You should already know mah." She told this to a mutual friend. I was quite torn when she said that. Point is, after all the work, time and money, its just that bit of reciprocation that I was asking for.

I was sleepless for 2-3 nights. Was she concerned? When time to "break up", she didn't even bother to meet face to face. Some people are just that screwed up.

I learnt my lesson. Never even try to understand. When you think u understand, u are still far from it. Budget $x to court a girl. If going to exceed budget, just move to somewhere else. Worse come to worse, can consider viet wife. No point losing money, time and sleep over unappreciative people. Save the money on courting stupid girls, end of year can go holiday.

Even put money into car also more shiok. Car can serve u. Women got stupid moods. When u buay song, car in carpark still can bring you round.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by no_faith

guys need to strive hard in career hoping in future, his family can live a better life.
gals have the option to the need of striving hard or need not to strive as they can look for a more stability guy. in this way, they dun seems to look for love. they are looking for stability. love is secondary.

as long we can live our life to the fullest, have goals, dreams, ambitions, be happy, shelter to live, dun tink it is a must to find love.

Career and money make a man. Not all woman can make a man. Only those who are rich can make a man.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by hubber27

I'm married with 9mths daughter. My gf forcing me to break up which i felt disaster at 1st 2 weeks ago. .

If your rship with your gf was a short one, better exit. The longer you cling on to her the longer the pain in your heart.

[Professori]

Originally Posted by no_faith

if im not wrong, the stats still showing divorce rate is on the high and marriage is low. singles are plenty.

if there is true love, why divorce rate is higher.
if there is true love, there shd be more marriage.
if there is true love, there wont be plenty of singles.

juz my tots.

Ans: Divorce rate is high because people get married thinking they found true love only to find it was someone else. There are plenty of singles because they still searching for true love.

[no_faith]

"thinking they found true love only to find it was someone else"
and this process might repeat x times.

"There are plenty of singles because they still searching for true love"
they can keep on searching.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by Professori

Ans: Divorce rate is high because people get married thinking they found true love only to find it was someone else. There are plenty of singles because they still searching for true love.

And after finding their true love, they found someone else again. Its a vicious and heartbreaking cycle!

[Professori]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

And after finding their true love, they found someone else again. Its a vicious and heartbreaking cycle!

Ah what is it about true love that drives men mad and turns the brain to squashed guacamole. Again and again and again...

[nitecrawllerr]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Career and money make a man. Not all woman can make a man. Only those who are rich can make a man.

Precisely. True Love is not how the woman see in the Man (heart) but rather the statu$ hes holding and his look$. The former is the most important criteria for a woman. Now, is that Love?

[no_faith]

bro nitecrawllerr, imho, there is still slightly of love involve if not the gal can find another guy wif the same status or better.

the ting is the love, issit real?

[nitecrawllerr]

Originally Posted by no_faith

bro nitecrawllerr, imho, there is still slightly of love involve if not the gal can find another guy wif the same status or better.

the ting is the love, issit real?

Agreed. Actually what I meant was is that true love? Is that the man whom she ready to live and die together irregardless of his status$ or look$? More often than not gils go for man with $ocial status, $tablity & $ecurity. $$$

[no_faith]

tatz y the vows are all make wif cross fingers.