Finally, i've finished 191 pages of wisdom. I feel more confident now going to these KTVs
Lovely statements of assurance for this fabulous tread.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Hi Sis Ladyrain,
Ths for ur post n welcome to the thread. You hv struck a chord...
I presume that you're a biological female, a 女人。
Me no expert...I'm a mere trainee, working diligently to improve myself n improve others..
If you r wondering abt ur ex, you hv never been sexually addicted to him. You may even hv loved him a lot at one time, but never sexually addicted. Period.
How do I make a gal sexually addicted to me n only me? Very difficult.
I hv been learning n training to get my type of chio SYTs sexually addicted to me in the last several yrs. My motivation was my abject failures n intense frustrations in my RS w/ chio women in the past. Then I started reading everything I could find n putting those techniques n strategies into practice. I leave no stone unturned. There is no bigger challenge to me as I'm a lao chi ko pek. The results r astounding, to put it mildly, n how I wish I knew abt all this when I was a teenager.
Back to ur question on the how...the ONLY way IS to give a gal sexual pleasure she has never experienced w/ any other men in her entire life. The pleasure must be 3-5X more intense n the duration 5-10X more prolonged than she has ever experienced.
By making love to her mind, body n heart, which is a continuous daily process, hahaha. You can glean quite a bit of how a man can do that by reading the previous posts on this thread.
But sexual addiction will take time, perhaps at least 2-3 months, depending on the individual.
There r 6 keys:
1) You need to trust your man completely
2) You must be very relaxed when you're w/ him
3) You must truly believe that u hv vast untapped orgasmic potential (otherwise, all the mental n mechanical techniques in the world will be futile)
4) Your lover must be focused on giving u pleasure u never had before, while willing to delay his own...
5) Your man must know the different types of orgasm n ALL the techniques n he must find the one or several optimal triggers that send u into orbit, by trial n error n w/ guidance from u, which will take time...
And last but not least, 6) he must link all your oxytocin surges n intense/prolonged pleasure to HIM n only HIM.
Of course I'm assuming that you're a mentally, psychologically n physically healthy, heterosexual female. Otherwise, He will fail even if he is a sex god.
Comments?
Bro WB
Bro WB
Well done, guiding a female reader how to response to guys.
There r 6 keys:
1) You need to trust your man completely
2) You must be very relaxed when you're w/ him
3) You must truly believe that u hv vast untapped orgasmic potential (otherwise, all the mental n mechanical techniques in the world will be futile)
4) Your lover must be focused on giving u pleasure u never had before, while willing to delay his own...
5) Your man must know the different types of orgasm n ALL the techniques n he must find the one or several optimal triggers that send u into orbit, by trial n error n w/ guidance from u, which will take time...
And last but not least, 6) he must link all your oxytocin surges n intense/prolonged pleasure to HIM n only HIM.
Bro superhuman is interested in male dominance in RS w/ women. Let me reiterate: Your perceived ranking on the Male Dominance Scale is the sole determinant of ur attractiveness to women. Period.
You manifest ur perceived ranking in ur facial expressions, eye ctc, body language, posture, voice tonality n words, etc...
Yes, words r also important. Never say: May I see u tonite? Instead say: I'm going to see u tonite. If u r calling, sound as if you r doing her a big favour. You get the idea.
Of course, after attracting a gal of ur type, the next crucial factor is making her addicted to u by giving her sexual pleasure she has never experienced before...
I hv here an article, written by a guru, on The Simple Secret to Being Dominant:
Dear Bro Warbird,
Dominance is the #1 trait that attracts women. What I'm going to reveal to
you in this chapter will be the secrets that will have women begging to have
"anything goes" sex with you.
Here’s what it’s all about: to be dominant, control the frame. It’s as
straightforward as that.
It is important to realize the importance of this whole concept of frames.
As I’ve said, there is no objective reality. All reality exists in people’s minds.
So if a woman creates drama that she thinks is a big deal, and you go
along with that, then you have been reduced to beta male status by being sucked
into her frame.
If on the other hand you reframe her drama as funny and silly and not that
big a deal, then she has been brought into your reality.
To give an example from my current relationship, my girlfriend wanted me
to go to her parents’ house with her to meet them. I preferred to hang out with
my own friends that night, so I told her those were my plans.
She reacted badly and said, "John, it's really important to me that you
come with me."
Most men would get sucked into her frame by having a long discussion or
fight over it. After all, you have long discussions about things that are important.
But if you frame it like her wanting you to meet her family is not a big deal,
you’ll simply react by saying, “Sure, let’s do that sometime” and then quickly
changing the subject to something more interesting. That’s what I did, and it
drew her into my reality.
Use that strategy that with everything. You as the man have the more
powerful reality.
Because your strong belief system is now, “I’m a good catch” and “I’m the
prize, not her,” the woman will buy into that frame.
One of the jobs I held on and off for many years was part-time pizza
delivery. (By the way, avoid eating pizza if you want to keep a trim waist!)
Back before I learned the proper mindset. I would always get incredibly
nervous whenever I’d knock on a door and a hot woman would answer. This was because I considered them to be potentially great catches for me (rather
than the other way around).
So when I tried to get them to like me, I came across as a guy who was
trying too hard, which damaged any attraction the women may have had for me.
But then I adopted the attitude that I am a good catch. As a consequence,
I felt indifference whenever I delivered to a hot woman. I would simply say, with
a relaxed tone of voice and posture, “Hi. The pizza will be $X.”
Sometimes women would shamelessly flirt with me as a result. (They
never flirted with me before.) I had sex with a few of them, including one who I
dated for over a year—she was absolutely amazing in bed. She worked hard to
win my affections, because I was a challenge for her.
Women don’t like to be put up on a pedestal. Even if sometimes women
claim that they do, the men who actually are successful with women do not view
them that way. They just act natural.
Women may be wonderful beings who want to have sex with you, but they
put their pants on one leg at a time just like you do. When all is said and done,
women are a lot more similar to men that most guys think.
The problem with putting women on a pedestal is that it comes from a
frame of neediness.
Think of the people in your life who have been needy. They stifle you by
trying to get your attention every chance they get. They constantly demand your
attention, because they’re seemingly unable to have a good time on their own.
Psychologically, this repels you rather than make you want to spend more
time with them. So consider what it is like from a woman’s perspective when you
feel needy.
How can you avoid such feelings? Catch yourself whenever you have
thoughts like:
• “If I lose this girl, I won’t have sex for months.”
• “I really want this girl to like me. What should I do to make her like
me?”
• “Should I call this girl yet?”
The whole irony about wanting people to like you and trying too hard for it
is that it has the opposite effect—it pushes them away.
So stop putting women up on pedestals. A better, healthier way to look at
it is that you need to climb up on the pedestal yourself. You are the prize.
Take two examples of a man chatting up a woman. The first is a man who
thinks he needs to earn a woman’s affections; the second knows he is the prize.
Beta Male (nervously): “Can I please have the honor of taking you to
lunch? It will be my treat. Where would you like to go?”
Woman: “Thank you!” (Smiles.) “I’d like to have lunch at the El Supero
Expensivo Ritzo. Let’s go!”
They go to lunch, the woman views him as a nice guy and a good friend,
and he never gets laid because she just isn’t attracted to him in that way.
And by the way, even though men complain about money spent on
women in exchange for which they get nothing, women don’t view this as them
taking advantage of the guy.
After all, if you were put up on a pedestal and had someone nervously
asking you to grace them with your presence for lunch, wouldn’t you feel like you
were giving them exactly what they wanted by doing them that favor? If a man
has a secret agenda that the woman detects, then that comes across to her as
creepy.
Alpha Male (relaxed and in comfortable in his own skin): “I’m off to get
some lunch at my favorite place, El Cheapo Restaurant.” (Then, playfully, almost
like it’s an afterthought): “You’re a fun person, so come along with me.”
Woman (giggling): “Blah blah” (It really doesn’t matter what the woman
says, because as long as she feels comfortable around the guy, she will go with
him.)
Notice the frame that this second example sets. The man is in his own reality. He wants to get lunch and knows where he wants to get it.
Because the woman has earned his attention, she can come along with
him. He is the prize, not her—she’s fun, so she gets invited to come along.
In the first example, the woman is clearly the prize, as the man is weakwilled
(doesn’t have a place in mind to go eat), knows that his value is less than
hers (so he comes across as nervous), and has to practically bribe her to talk to
him.
Note also how “so come along with me” is really a command. You see,
an alpha male is not afraid to put his balls on the line and say things like that to
people.
Make sure, however, to soften such phrases by saying them playfully. You don’t want to come across as harsh or bossy.
Finally, notice how lunch is not being framed as a date like it is in the first
example. This avoids having her categorize the man as relationship material
who will have to wait months for sex.
Instead, if sex takes place, he will assume the active role in creating the
right conditions for it.
The way the mind works, as I mentioned earlier, is that when you believe
something, your mind increasingly finds evidence for that belief to be true. That’s
the value of the above exercise for kick starting your belief in yourself as the
dream lover that all women would want.
As you adopt the mindset that you are a good catch, realize that all
women are naturally promiscuous when the conditions are right (i.e., they’re
being led by a confident man).
You do not need validation and approval from a
woman; instead, she needs them from you.
To sum up, as an attractive man, you:
1) Make women come into your reality, not the other way around.
2) Take the lead role, since women are usually passive when it comes to dating and sex.
3) Emotionally arouse women.
4) Are a man of high value, so it is up to women to win your affection.
5) Don’t take women too seriously, nor do you take life too seriously.
6) Have your own beliefs, are assertive, and think for yourself.
7) Remember, you don’t need her approval!
Almost all of the men I know who are good with women realize these
things and place a high value on themselves. Why? Because they (and you)
know how to bring women to the highest heights of pleasure.
Best,
Mr. Guru
Bro WB
I re-post the above just to show how important this old forum was.
The forum is really powerful and wonderful for all to learn.
Women dun like to be put on pedestal?
To sum up, as an attractive man, you:
1) Make women come into your reality, not the other way around.
2) Take the lead role, since women are usually passive when it comes to dating and sex.
3) Emotionally arouse women.
4) Are a man of high value, so it is up to women to win your affection.
5) Don’t take women too seriously, nor do you take life too seriously.
6) Have your own beliefs, are assertive, and think for yourself.
7) Remember, you don’t need her approval!
I re-post the above just to show how important this old forum was.
The forum is really powerful and wonderful for all to learn.
Women dun like to be put on pedestal?
To sum up, as an attractive man, you:
1) Make women come into your reality, not the other way around.
2) Take the lead role, since women are usually passive when it comes to dating and sex.
3) Emotionally arouse women.
4) Are a man of high value, so it is up to women to win your affection.
5) Don’t take women too seriously, nor do you take life too seriously.
6) Have your own beliefs, are assertive, and think for yourself.
7) Remember, you don’t need her approval!
Cheers.
Fully agreed, very powerful forum and excellent place to learn, thanks bro WB
Well done, guiding a female reader how to response to guys.
There r 6 keys:
1) You need to trust your man completely
2) You must be very relaxed when you're w/ him
3) You must truly believe that u hv vast untapped orgasmic potential (otherwise, all the mental n mechanical techniques in the world will be futile)
4) Your lover must be focused on giving u pleasure u never had before, while willing to delay his own...
5) Your man must know the different types of orgasm n ALL the techniques n he must find the one or several optimal triggers that send u into orbit, by trial n error n w/ guidance from u, which will take time...
And last but not least, 6) he must link all your oxytocin surges n intense/prolonged pleasure to HIM n only HIM.
above are six lovely keys.
Cheers.
Yes, 6 very good keys.
Thanks bro WB again and again for this great thread.
大哥 WB is a guru in this area.
The secret of this is not money nor penetration but understanding & implanting the mental direction of a WL as its the topic of discussion here.
No doubt, they're in it for the money, they are also made of flesh n blood.
Note, i didn't say human lolzzz
Sexual gratification of the extreme is more deadly than heroin!
The whole idea of this is to make them always so sexually high, to a high they never gotten before n keep making n getting them to tat, it will become super addictive.
Good indicators r shivering bodies not due to cold, squirting n convulsions after the deed throughout the body.
These r indicators not for orgasms but a state beyond orgasm!
It'll also curse them to such an extent tat, fucking any other man will never bring tat kind of sextisfaction, thus, also make them addicted to u.
I will not reveal the secrets here but I am sure the Guru will guide u to wat u seek.
Best, remember, they tok, n u'll be surprised u may get some free lays just becos some r curious after they heard how u made another sis fly to 7th heaven.
I will leave the rest to the Guru n my Mentor WarBird to lead u to the light
You know I'm still a trainee n I hv learned a lot from u. Abt 3 yrs ago, YOU were the one who 1st revealed some principles for giving women intense n prolonged pleasure beyond orgasms...lasting well over an hr.
I've studied hard n practiced hard ever since, hahaha. I hv done it on several of my mistresses n the results r gratifying.
I don't usually go beyond 60 min if the gal is already 欲仙欲死...as time is too precious. All I need is to repeat it 3X a wk until she is addicted. It's like crack cocaine cuz both induce almost identical neuro-hormonal changes in the same areas of the brain.
My sincere gratitude for ur pointers n encouragement.
Cheers!
Bro WB
大哥 WB
Such a humble person. Practically no airs and seems no ego too.
Really lovely quote below.
"All I'm doing is to improve myself n improve others everyday...n enjoy the process n live in the present moment. And I accept whatever happens the next moment w/ happiness n peace. Life is wonderful!!"
I started this thread initially on "how to pick up KTV gals outside KTVs," but it was quickly expanded to relevant topics on how to get chio n young pussies, n how to get them addicted.
I like to appeal to all esteemed bros here to confine discussions to topics relevant to these central themes, yes, on "picking up" any gals/women (both WLs n non-WLs) anytime n anywhere under the sun n what to do afterwards, including FOC, FWB, ST, BY, GF, FB, marriage, etc.
My main interests include, but not limited to, various aspects of attraction, seduction, man-woman RS, psychology, sexology, sexual medicine, successful long-term RS, the concept of soul mate, female orgasms n, last but not least, addictions.
I'm only talking abt how to get ur dream gal addicted to you.
There r 3 main components: 1) Financial, 2) Emotional, 3) Sexual
If there r none, the RS is transitory. If there is only one, the RS will not last. If there r 2, the RS may last, but there will be lots of conflict n pain, for both partners. If all 3 r present, the RS will last, but still not forever. People change, n both partners will change. For example, the man may be bankrupt, thus losing 1), or he becomes very sick n can't perform, thus losing 3).
It's very complicated as I hv not factored in the man's addiction to the female yet.
Since a prerequisite for getting chio gals in most societies is financial security, all legal ways of making money r germane to this thread.
Such a humble person. Practically no airs and seems no ego too.
Really lovely quote below.
"All I'm doing is to improve myself n improve others everyday...n enjoy the process n live in the present moment. And I accept whatever happens the next moment w/ happiness n peace. Life is wonderful!!"
I hv put some flamers on the ignore list as per advice of our Boss.
IMHO, no self-respecting person should stoop so low as to reply to these senseless posts. Dun explain or clarify, just ignore them. That is the best way to get a stalker to stop.
My advice to the flamers: If u feel u hv been wronged or harmed, file a law suit. If u dun hv a case, get over it. Forgive n forget. Most importantly, get a life. There r many chio gals of ur type out there waiting for u, hahaha. Connect w/ them n get them addicted to u.
"Life is too short for drama and petty things,
laugh insanely, love truly and forgive quickly."
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
Fully agreed with you.
Life just too short to fight and create enemy.
Really love the way this bro post reply to flaming.
To me, IGNORE is the best remedy.
Guy trying to flame meaning making one angry and upset. Any reply will be rebutted with more flaming and rubbish. Any mother an dfather maybe drag into the replies.
So just ignore and enjoy.
Have a good friday to all.
Reagrds
Stalwart
Quote:
Originally Posted by meisha
(1)it no matter to us? US?
you referring to your friends or you alone are behind your poor clone flaming people?
(2)calling someone a bastard?
do you even know the definition of bastard? if you do not know please kindly check out in the dictionary, if you don't know how to, here is a link http://www.thefreedictionary.com/bastard
just left click on your mouse and read it to have a better understanding.
(3)Your dage and your little prince told us that you are very asshole to them. They say you are shit and you are fat and you are heartless.
who who?? name? yourself?? maybe..
(4)We also aware your friends one by one leave you.
oh so sad, you are lonely and a big time stalker.
(5)lonely so play clones and MinM also you.Anyone can see it is you all along unless they are stupid.Here is SBF and sex forum and got MinM the gal openly want to be own by a man here.
now i m confused, who is the clone that created many clone?? here is sbf, anything can happen here and now i m replying to a loser clone noww...
(6)Fishey and suspect that either a clone or alternate or maybe another FL on the prowl. Boss SBF you think that all these shit not clones and you disagree with us then please continue to delete our posts.
woah, now you are challenging the boss. do you even have access to the data entry and determine who are the clones? of course he disagree with you, because you have already stupidly self admit all along that those are your clones and with your gang of people.. or i suspect, you are the only sadist behind the screen and imagine that you have many imaginary supporter...
oh FYI, i love attention, and i am also a clone.. SAD SAD.. i talk like you because i am a loser...T_T cry me a river please.preasee..
Seeing the flowers at Duke of Shanghai(DoS) makes me wonder (most recent record was $131400) how more bros can be helped with a crash course of all the material WB, DYBJ, LDH and co has put together.
Recently, the angpai very clearly had her supporter wrapped around her finger by publicly rejecting bears (DoS version of flowers) until her expected amount is received. As night went on, her very public tantrums, arguments eventually led to him leaving his friends midway through the night. Cut quite a dispondant figure walking out of the club.
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All upz that meet min will be returned
Priority given to +6 & above.
Current: 7 bros in queue.
Min = +5, you will only get rep after I finish those above +5