Agreed with many brothers and TS here that some girls without makeup really looks fugly. Can vomit type thinking you just kiss her. Worst she wakes up next morning besides you and you cannot even recognized her.
I am also ready for field action after learning from Bro WB
Thanks bro WB for this excellent thread.
Bro, tks.
Don't forget to give us your FR.
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Originally Posted by nasduck
Great thread by Bro WB, please continue sharing.
Cheers!
Thanks.
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Originally Posted by okinawaisland
Bro WB
After reading so much of your thread gave me the courage to try asking gals for fun. Thanks to your thread helping to put more confidence to me.
Now I understand your love for syt around 18 to 20 yearl old median age after reading the guru post below. Also many brothers write about when men grew older we still like gals aged 18 to 21 yo.
A friend told me love to see gals grew old and penniless. While they are young they tried to hang their youth and beauty of the high pedestal. Not knowing they grew older and aged faster.
This is a masterpiece thread and priceless in my opinion.
Keep it up and let's keep the thread going strong more good years.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
Your friend is wrong. We should wish all SYTs the best for their long and arduous journey ahead. All will get old, ugly, sick and die. If they live long enough. The suffering is greatly amplified if they become very poor. Here is just one example. It's worse in many other countries.
That is why I always teach my LPs how to improve themselves and how to become independently wealthy. I tell them that knowledge w/ focused action is power.
And I want to leave them in much better condition, in every way, than when I found them.
Many bros just talk about this n that, but I seldom see any follow-up n feedback. I want them to post detailed FRs. That is the only way I could really learn.
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Originally Posted by TalkNoMoney
Have to agree this is indeed a masterpiece thread.
Thanks Bro WB!
Thanks.
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Originally Posted by Conbawa
Fantastic thread here, thanks bro WB.
Have a great weekend.
Thanks.
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Originally Posted by benzoinum
Really S H O C K I N G ! ! !
Agreed with many brothers and TS here that some girls without makeup really looks fugly. Can vomit type thinking you just kiss her. Worst she wakes up next morning besides you and you cannot even recognized her.
Great post from your GURU.
Yucks Yucks.
Bro, tks.
It has happened to me before. Here is what I wrote a few days ago.
"A kaki Dr T who frequents PC joints told me this true story. About 3 months ago, his good kaki CH was enamored w/ a singer at a PC joint. I'm acquainted w/ CH but don't know him well. T considered this singer old and unattractive.
Bro CH had spent about $50-60K in a month or so, w/o even 'smelling her panties,' according to T. Then a shocking event happened.
One night the singer forgot her purse, after sitting w/ bro CH at the joint. The next day, bro CH happened to be very close to the condo where this woman lived. It was around 1 pm. He called, woke her up n wanted to return the purse. She rushed down in her pajamas n went to his car to get her purse. She looked so old and fugly that he didn't recognize her at first...
He immediately felt sick and 'nauseated.' Couldn't even sleep that night. She texted n called him many times over the next few days, but he didn't even 'dare' to reply..."
Don't forget plastic surgery and microinjections.
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Bro TS
First time I read this and was impressed.
Braggadocio - a word never even heard of. Think I have more to learn here.
3) Offering Unsolicited Advice - Hmm really couldn't disagree more but I think I had made this mistake.
Unknowingly I had used your method below to clinch my long awaited hod bod gf. Story goes like this. I was at a cafe and she was sitting with another girl chatting for an hour. Her friend called for the bill and paid. This girl that I fancied went to the toilet outside of the cafe mall. So I get up and followed her. Saw he went in toilet and I waited outside. Just when she came out of toilet, I chat up with her. I wasn't sure where I got the courage to chat with her but my inner self told me I must do so otherwise I may regret for life.
She wasn't sure she should exchange contact but after a while she gave in and just key in her numbers in my phone. I dialed to ensure is her correct number. Initially she wasn't keen to chat on social apps but after couple of months we chat daily.
Dated her and answer no but didn't give up. Till one day she said let's go out for drink and she confided in me that she broke up with her bf. Rest is history.
So below post is totally the essence of the story.
Glad I didn't give up.
Happy weekend.
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Originally Posted by warbird
After knowing WH for 4 months, she finally agreed to hv dinner w/ me to discuss how I could take care of her, in Jan of 2009. I waited in a roadside food stall for over 30 min. She was 21 then n looked prettier n sexier than when I last saw her 3 1/2 months earlier...I asked her if she had a BF, she said currently no, 不过很多人追我. I was a newbie then n was slightly discouraged. Luckily for me, I didn't misinterpret her intention. I now know that she was trying to increase her value in my eyes. That was because she liked me and hoped that I would like her.
To make a long story short, I BY-ed her very briefly twice in 2009...then had had little ctc w/ her until 2 yrs ago when she asked me to BY her. BTW, she is still w/ me.
WHAT TO DO WHEN SHE TELLS YOU HOW MANY GUYS WANT HER
One thing I've noticed is how quick most guys are to completely
dismiss their chances with certain women. It's as if they're
literally looking for an excuse to bail out.
Indeed, for years I've been talking about how the "Too Good To Be
True Factor" influences so many of us, such that we tend to talk
ourselves out of success with women before even giving them a
chance to form their own opinion on the matter.
Because success is so hard to imagine as reality, we automatically
assume it CAN'T happen. Therefore, we sort of sabotage things in a
very real way just to make sure we're right about that.
Pretty sick, isn't it?
But sometimes we as guys will even go so far as to interpret
POSITIVE signs as NEGATIVES. These cases, of course, really are
the most tragic ones because the woman herself is left wondering
what the heck just happened.
Basically, both people lose out on getting to know each other...even
though they actually WANTED that to happen. He makes a wholly
incorrect assumption, and she ends up feeling "rejected".
Man, what a tangled web we weave, huh?
Today I'm going to give you a primo example of an indicator of
solid interest that I'd say MOST guys misinterpret as a put-off.
That's when a woman starts telling you how many guys she has
interested in her. Even if--make that ESPECIALLY if--she makes it a
point to do so.
Just to clear the air up front, I'll be the first to throw on the
table that it's a MISTAKE for a woman to do that. I mean, it's a
BAD IDEA for anyone--woman OR man--to say or do ANYTHING that's
likely to be misconstrued socially.
But rest assured nonetheless, women really have NO IDEA that you're
taking such statements as code for, "Hey, get lost...I have enough
guys trying to hit on me already. They'll never get anywhere, and
you won't either."
Unless she's as overtly blunt and negative about the matter as in
the example above you should open your eyes to a potentially
different interpretation of what she's saying...a RADICALLY different
one, and more likely the INTENDED one.
You see, it's overwhelmingly probable that she's actually bringing
the matter to your attention in an attempt to INCREASE HER VALUE in
your eyes.
That's because she LIKES YOU and hopes you'll LIKE HER.
Let me illustrate this for you.
If you're from the US or the UK and have ever rented a car
elsewhere (e.g. Europe, the Pacific Rim or the Middle East) you'll
quickly notice something as you try to find familiar music on the
radio dial.
People in non-English speaking countries really do LOVE American
and British pop music.
BUT...they're about six months to a year behind. And when they
decide they like a particular song they REALLY, REALLY like it.
Welp, for better or worse it would appear the French and the
Spaniards have just discovered "Call Me Maybe" by Carli Rae Jepson.
Good God Man. We couldn't avoid that shiznit for 2000 miles worth
of roadtripping through southern Europe a couple of weeks ago.
Between that, "Gangnam Style", some Justin Bieber song and "Scream
& Shout" you'd be led to believe these stations have a four song
rotation...at least until they break stride with three songs by Bruno
Mars in a row, invariably punctuated by "Someone Like You" by
Adele. Geez.
OK, so making lemonade out of lemons I did make one interesting
observation. Check out this lyric from what's an otherwise
completely worthless, overproduced pop monstrosity with a
completely incongruous flow to it:
"And all the other boys try to chase me, but here's my number...so
call me, maybe?"
Aha...see that? The girl clearly likes the guy...a LOT. And before
giving him her number, she drops EXACTLY the kind of line I'm
talking about here.
Rhetorically speaking, it goes without saying that she's NOT hoping
the guy "gets lost".
So like other women who would have us know how popular they are
with other dudes, she's attempting to tap into the power of
perceived social proof to gain approval from him also.
You know, just in case he isn't yet in the fold with those who
quickly adore her.
Can you see how that's working there?
After all, as all good salespeople know "people buy on the approval
of others".
Following logically, you can now see that it's all nothing more
than good old-fashioned approval seeking.
Yes...the ill-advised type that tends to make people look needy or
even desperate when overplayed.
There you have another reason why women probably shouldn't play
that particular card.
But alas, they do. And they sure LOVE to, don't they?
Well, from now on you'll know what she's REALLY trying to tell you
when that happens.
My return to Gotham City is imminent. I hv already sent my long term mistresses back to their respective hometowns. TH will stay in SG n since I don't give her anything while I'm away, I don't care if she finds another BF...
There is a subject which has fascinated me:
DGAD Attitude.
This is what attracts women, THE one secret that makes 'Bad Boy' or BB so successful n addictive to women. We should hv this attitude ingrained in our subconscious mind n we must jettison all the other obnoxious n negative attributes of a BB. Then we can beat a BB at his own game hahaha.
I also used Bro WB's method unknowingly. I was at a gym with there were 3 gals doing warmups. I managed to get 2 of them for MFF.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by trami
Bro WB
Unknowingly I had used your method below to clinch my long awaited hod bod gf. Story goes like this. I was at a cafe and she was sitting with another girl chatting for an hour. Her friend called for the bill and paid. This girl that I fancied went to the toilet outside of the cafe mall. So I get up and followed her. Saw he went in toilet and I waited outside. Just when she came out of toilet, I chat up with her. I wasn't sure where I got the courage to chat with her but my inner self told me I must do so otherwise I may regret for life.
She wasn't sure she should exchange contact but after a while she gave in and just key in her numbers in my phone. I dialed to ensure is her correct number. Initially she wasn't keen to chat on social apps but after couple of months we chat daily.
Dated her and answer no but didn't give up. Till one day she said let's go out for drink and she confided in me that she broke up with her bf. Rest is history.
So below post is totally the essence of the story.
I also used Bro WB's method unknowingly. I was at a gym with there were 3 gals doing warmups. I managed to get 2 of them for MFF.
Cheers.
Bro, kudos to u!
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Originally Posted by Nescaffe
Good evening.
Will try DGAD attitude too.
Bro, give us your feedback.
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Good morning to all samsters,
Here is an e-mail from a guru on a topic I hv written many times before. It affects most men and women. It's an intractable and destructive disease.
What's the biggest turn off of all turn offs?
Got a question the other day from a reader wondering what the biggest turn off of all is to a woman.
But, because a lot of my readers are women, I gotta show them some love
And, this problem is universal.
You know what it is, right?
Neediness.
You've seen me talk about it several times this month because it's the theme for this November.
Needy behavior is the quickest way to the friend zone if you're trying to get into a relationship.
It's the quickest way into the "no sex zone" if you're currently in a relationship.
And, if you keep up that needy behavior, you best believe that your partner will find someone who's less needy to be with (often times behind your back).
Yes, it's truly the biggest turn off to both men and women.
I've ended relationships with needy women, just like women have dumped me because I was too needy.
It's one of those universal traits that humans are naturally disgusted by.
No one likes a needy man or woman. It's why I often tell men to stop chasing women and let her come to you.
Because men are generally the leaders in a relationship, wonderful things can happen when a man puts an end to his neediness.
But what about the women?
It's a bit different but under the same umbrella.
The thing with men is that they'll often pretend to be into a woman just so they can sleep with her.
Once he sleeps with her, he's satisfied and no longer wants her around, lol...
He wants to be left alone so he can do his own thing. If the woman gets needy with him, you can expect him to get angry and possibly kick you out. It happens.
The woman, being madly in love with the guy, keeps pursuing him, hoping he'll "change" and treat her better.
But, he often never does and the woman is eventually heartbroken.
A woman's neediness is when she won't let the man go. She won't accept that he's just not that into her. Instead of backing off and giving him space, she tries to get his attention or nags him or whatever.
She's at his beck and call. She puts her own life on hold in order to please the man.
These are just a few of the ways that men and women are needy.
And, it's why neediness is such a crummy mentality (it comes from the Codependent mindset).
A man may hv been very confident and non-needy when dealing w/ every girl in his past. Then he meets his dream girl. All of a sudden, he becomes insecure, needy and overly reactive. She is the prize and she has all the power...the outcome will be tragic.
Same thing could happen to a very chio SYT. She has been aloof and cold to all men. Then she meets her dream man. He is the prize. She becomes needy, emotional n cries often...she is emotionally n sexually addicted.
Now topic include movie. Nope, never even heard of this movie.
The link is still working for those interested.
I think most PRC girls will love to go USA and not just Seattle. More likely more love to be in San Fancisco.
Thanks.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Hi bro,
Good morning!
Two of my mistresses and several potential GFs hv seen the new movie 北京遇上西雅图 (2013) n they love the movie, love the 2 protagonists n, best of all, they love Seattle.
The story is abt a non-WL who was BY-ed by a rich crook (who later went to jail) in Beijing. She came to Seattle to give birth. There she met a former heart specialist Frank from Beijing who was down on his luck n was working as a chauffeur...thank God he wasn't formerly from Singapore!! BTW, he is an old uncle...
All my gals want to come to Seattle to be w/ me NOW hahaha. They want to stay as long as I want them to. I said definitely, but later...
Seattle is a romantic city. It's scenic n air quality is very good, unlike Beijing.
The wide held belief that Seattle is a very rainy city is a myth, but one that Seattleites want to perpetuate. Why? The city is too nice and clean and they don't want too many outsiders to pollute it, hahaha.
There r many cloudy days and it often drizzles, but the average annual rainfall is less than half of that in SG. It ranks 44th among major cities in the US, behind New York, Houston, Boston, etc. Less than Tokyo and Shanghai.
Not sure if only 1 or 2 out 4 will make the r/s last.
Or if only all 3 and not 2, can the r/s lasts?
Thanks.
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We don't fully understand what women want...
Here is a brief discussion written by a noted Ang Moh guru.
What Women REALLY Want In A Man
Hey Bro Warbird,
.. WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT IN A MAN?
Here's a short list for you.
Women really want:
- A guy who is taller than them.
- A guy who can provide for their future.
- A guy who is great in bed.
- A guy who can make them laugh.
Etc.
Sound familiar?
Well, I've got news for you: NONE OF THESE
THINGS ARE WHAT WOMEN ACTUALLY WANT.
Of course, a guy who has these qualities may
find it easier to get an AUDITION with a woman -
but ONLY an audition.
It's not the deciding factor.
Think about it! How many examples can you think
of, for EACH of these qualities, where a guy has
that desirable quality, BUT STILL STRUGGLES WITH
WOMEN?
Yes, women prefer men who are taller than them.
But does this mean that tall men automatically
find it easy to get women?
Uh-uh.
How about rich men? Do the owners of companies
and apartment buildings find themselves swarmed
over by women the moment they make their first
million? Do they find it easy to get sex, a
girlfriend, or a wife, just because they're rich?
Nope.
I don't know any guys who are great in bed (for
reasons that should be obvious to you), but I know
that if a guy can't ATTRACT a woman, she's never
going to be able to find out whether he can make
it between the sheets or not.
And guys who can make women laugh don't
necessarily have success with women, either. In
fact, many guys use jokes and humor as a way to
get female attention, only to have that woman
laugh along with them ... and then categorize them
as a FRIEND.
Ouch.
So what's going on here? Why are women so
confusing?
They SAY they like tall guys. They SAY they
want a man who can make them laugh. And they ALL
say they want a man with a good sense of humor,
who is also sensitive and considerate.
So what's the story? Why is it that so many
men, with some, if not ALL, of these desirable
qualities - men who would probably make fantastic
lovers, boyfriends, and husbands - are waking up
alone every morning?
It's because women are actually not that good
at figuring out what they want.
That's why.
And hey - it's not just WOMEN who have this
problem. EVERYONE does it. Studies have shown that
humans, as a general rule, almost ALWAYS
significantly overestimate how happy something is
going to make them.
In other words, it's been scientifically proven
that WOMEN DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.
They know what they THINK they want - which is
why your female friends and sisters are so happy
to tell you what the qualities of The Ideal Man
would be - but that's not the same as what they
ACTUALLY want.
Another way of saying this might be that they
can't tell you the qualities that they ACTUALLY
find attractive in a man.
Here's the deal: all the tallness and humor in
the world is NEVER going to help you, unless you
know HOW TO MAKE WOMEN FEEL ATTRACTION.
That's it. That's the ONLY key.
You need to be able to know how to trigger that
magical feeling of ATTRACTION in a woman.
And then you know what else? When you know how
to do that, things like height, looks, and money
NO LONGER MATTER.
For example, I've got a couple of friends who
are pretty short, by most people's standards.
One's about 5'5", the other's about 5'3".
That's not tall by ANYBODY'S standards. Not
even Japanese women.
These men are perfectly aware that many women
believe they want a tall man. (Notice how I said
"BELIEVE they want"?) But they have BOTH come to
the conclusion, through their own personal
research "in the field" that their height only
becomes a problem if they allow it to affect their
confidence.
One of them phrased it like this: "It's not the
shortness that's the problem. It's the LACK OF
CONFIDENCE that the shortness produces in the man
that's the problem."
He knows that he is one cool dude, and that he
could very well represent the best experience that
a woman will EVER have. And so he decided not to
let his shortness hamper him.
Now, whenever he's talking to an attractive
woman who is also taller than him, he'll throw
something out there like, "So, I see that you're
tall. Gee. (pause pause pause for effect) So does
that make it hard to, like, buy shoes? Do you find
that, being so tall, your long long feet won't fit
into all the pretty little girly shoes out there?"
... and he just roughs them up.
But here's the catch: he does it in THE MOST
CHARMING WAY.
Incidentally, due to the ease with which you
can misconstrue the written word, I feel compelled
to point out here that he always says this kind of
stuff with a BIIIG cheeky grin ... and makes it VERY
clear that he's 'just kidding' (without actually
coming out and SAYING so) ...
... so that she knows he's giving her a hard time
on purpose, and not just being a rude knucklehead.
(If you've ever tried teasing a woman, you'll
know that the risk involved is directly
proportionate to how expressionless you are, and
how little you know the woman.)
But I digress ...
The point here is that these men are LIVING
EXAMPLES of my point, which is that:
a) Women don't really know what they want
b) If you can make her feel ATTRACTION, she
will forget any preconceived notions of what she
THOUGHT she wanted, and will go with what works
c) It's up to YOU to SHOW HER what she wants.
You can bet that none of the women those 2 friends
of mine hook up with woke up in the morning and
thought, "Gosh, I sure hope I hook up with a short
guy tonight!" Nope, they THOUGHT they wanted a
tall guy ... RIGHT UP UNTIL THE MOMENT THEY WERE
PROVED WRONG.
So if you know how to make a woman feel
attraction, NOTHING ELSE MATTERS.
And fortunately, there are tried and true,
PROVEN patterns of behavior, body language, and
speech that appeal to women and flick their
attraction switches.
Briefly:
1. The body language that women find attractive
is the body language of an alpha male: cool, calm,
confident, and in control. (Hint: body language
supersedes the spoken word by about a million
percent in terms of how it demonstrates your
value. It doesn't matter what you SAY, unless your
body language backs it up.)
2. Speech: use a deep and resonant voice, and
speak SLOWLY. Inserting pauses into your speech is
an extremely effective way to sound confident and
interesting, NO MATTER WHAT YOU'RE SAYING.
Speaking too fast is a sign of a deep lack of
self-confidence (you talk fast out of a fear the
other person will lose interest, basically.)
Speaking slooooowly, and inserting a pause of 1
second (a count of ONE-one-thousand) between TWO
and FIVE TIMES PER SENTENCE is ideal.
3. Behavior: well, this one's more complex.
I'll start by saying that all of your behaviors
should demonstrate high social value. The more
PASSIONATE and CONFIDENT you are (passionate, in
this context, meaning INTERESTED in whatever it is
you're talking about or doing) the higher your
value. The less supplicative and needy you are,
and the more impervious to other people's opinions
you seem, the higher your value. Self-referenced
(as opposed to externally referenced) men are HIGH
VALUE.
Learning how to create attraction is the MECCA
of success with women. It is the all-embracing
recipe for mind-blowing and CONSISTENT success. It
is something that all men want to learn ... but very
few do.
This isn't because men are dumb, or because the
information is difficult to grasp. In fact, it's
actually very EASY once you figure out what to do.
And once you've mastered THAT, you can move on
to the more advanced stuff:
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your friend,
Mr. Guru
I like to add that:
Hope X Uncertainty = Attraction (Passion)
Therefore, no Hope, zero Attraction. No uncertainty, zero attraction.
Big Hope and lots of Uncertainty = Massive Attraction?
23-11-2018, 05:43 PM
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