I hv just finished the Introduction of Sex-ploytation (published in 1999) n I already love it! The author n I think alike!!
I hv to go out now but I like to post it here:
Introduction
Twenty-five years ago, a remarkable book was published entitled The Manipulated Man.
Its author was Esther Vilar, an Argentinian-born physician and psychologist, who had
emigrated from her native Buenos Aires to West Germany. From the vantage point of
such rich cultural experience, Vilar was in a unique position to cast a critical eye on the
social milieu of the 1960's and 70's; and because she had managed to disencumber herself
from the hypocrisy so natural to her gender, she was free to unleash her intelligence as a
ruthlessly honest critic of male/female relationships.
Although it was only a slim volume, The Manipulated Man nevertheless packed the
wallop of a hand grenade. Vilar's crucial thesis was that women, by manipulating men
with sex, have conditioned them to respond like Pavlov's dogs, to be shackled into a
lifetime of subservience and slavery for the fulfillment of female desires. It was a coldblooded
manipulation, indeed. To Vilar, the typical American housewife was nothing
more than a parasitic prostitute living off the bounty of her husband's hard labor,
mercilessly goading him to make more money so that she could enjoy the finer things in
life without any expenditure of effort on her part. In her words: "Women live an animal
existence. They like eating, drinking, sleeping-even sex, providing there is nothing to do
and no real effort is required of them."
Extreme though her conclusions appeared to be, nevertheless Vilar had hit her target dead
center. Predictably enough, the book touched off a furor of controversy and female rage
(it was vilified as a textbook of misogyny). Women's age-old scam of trading sex for
food and shelter, so long whitewashed by tacit societal approval, had been suddenly
spotlighted under the stark glare of public scrutiny. Women protested; Vilar was
condemned as a traitor to her gender; copies of the book were confiscated and burned by
threatened wives and girlfriends. The female con game had been at last exposed, and the
truth burned like the slash of a knife.
The late 60's and early 70's was an era of abrupt and tumultuous cultural change, and
Vilar might have thought she had touched a nerve in younger readers. Giddily
empowered by a reckless interpretation of the new fad of feminism, women began to
burn their bras and to clamor for better jobs and pay equal to their male counterparts. The
invention of the birth control pill freed them to experiment with sex, to enjoy its pleasures
without fear of pregnancy. The sort of women Vilar had been castigating-housewives
idling away their afternoons lunching with girlfriends and withholding sex until their
husbands bought them a bigger diamond ring or a fur coat-suddenly seemed hopelessly
passé. An unstoppable tide of liberation seemed to have turned.
Yesterday's whores would hand down their burnt-out torches of greed to an enlightened generation of women
who treasured men as partners in life, not meal tickets. Sex had become a celebration, no
longer a tool to extort money from men. A new age had begun.
But such optimistic hopes were short-lived. This "new age" died a quick and pitiless
death, a squirming victim sacrificed on the altar of female greed. As business boomed
and diversified in the late 70's and early 80's, and baby-boomer men prospered, the fires
of avarice began once again to blaze up fiercely in female hearts.
The mercenary opportunities of their gender nagged insistently at these young revolutionaries, and their
mothers' words haunted them with timeworn advice: why should men buy the cow if they
can have the milk for free? Ironically the equal rights movement, with its emphasis on
individual freedom and gender parity, had somehow spawned an evil twin sister. Fueled
by an all encompassing anger and avarice, a renegade self-serving feminism had spun off
the old one, a greed-ridden parody of a noble ideal. It sanctioned women to become even
more selfish and demanding of men than their mothers had been. Now they wanted their
cake and eat it, too: while they marched for equal rights and equal pay, they still expected
men to take care of their needs, and they still offered the bait of their bodies to plunder
male wallets. Feminism didn't free the ordinary woman; it simply gave blunt franchise to
her greed.
But the future promised an even blacker forecast. By the mid 80's, female arrogance had
spread like a virulent cancer, and women had begun to assess men not as equals, but as
inferiors. A woman's version of equal rights had turned into "pay for me-and pay a lotwithout
question". I am woman, you owe me. The cute conniving of their mothers had
had its day; coldly trading the use of her body for big money had become a woman's
business. Instead of "if it feels good, do it", now it was "if it feels good, sell it". Make
cash, not love.
Whoredom was back, and this time with a vengeance.
In comparison to this unbounded greed, Vilar's women seemed like schoolgirls making
cow-eyes at Daddy to con him out of extra allowance. At least her housewives were more
honest prostitutes, selling themselves within the context of the social norm, more or less
under the aegis of societal blessing. But these new whores had emerged as the most
flagrant of hypocrites, parading themselves as emancipated, yet still insisting on cash for
sex, then refusing to admit the reality of their prostitution.
This is an incendiary book. It takes up where Esther Vilar left off twenty-five years ago.
The primary targets of its criticisms are single and divorced women, since they are the
most egregious offenders in regarding mate selection and dating as a whore-john
relationship.
In these times of rampant inflation and rising housing costs, economic
realities force many married women to go to work-kicking and screaming against their
will, of course-in order to help support a family. Still, quite a few women live off the hard
work of their husbands, contributing nothing to the marriage but high bills and an
occasional lay. At these prostitutes this book is aimed as well.
Male readers will applaud the conclusions of Sex-Ploytation, and will cheer that at long
last someone has found the courage to rip the mask off female duplicity to ransom men,
emancipating them from their chains of frustration and sexual slavery.
Female readers will doubtless be outraged. Some will predictably rant and rave that the book is "antiwoman";
others, threatened by the exposure of their manipulations, will bury their heads
in the sands of disbelief and denial. But truth is truth; it exists independent of wishful
thinking. All of us are guilty of egoistic provincialism; all of us rigorously defend the
battlements of our illusions.
Women are especially skilled in such fantasies, preferring
magical thinking over naked reality. They are herd creatures, naively following whatever
direction society leads them. Seemingly incapable of independent thought, they troop
along the path of least resistance, entranced by a kind of hypnosis which allows them to
disavow any responsibility for their actions.
It takes far less effort to warm the bed of a millionaire than to earn a million dollars yourself. It is much less expensive to pretend to
be a tragic victim of a "male-dominated" society than to pay for your own dinner.
Even though, like The Manipulated Man, this book is sure to be denounced as misogynist
literature, it has no interest in hating women or in female-bashing. It is not motivated by
anger or bitterness, or even cynicism. To come to such a conclusion is, as above, to
follow a path of least resistance. It is, rather, a book of uncensored observations of human
behavior, and so is not an agenda-ridden manifesto, as is so typical of anti-male literature.
The conclusions written here may be inflammatory, perhaps even menacing, but they are
culled from real life and real experience, and therefore cannot be denied nor disproved.
The true purpose of this book is not to despise women, but to shine a harsh light on their
mercenary behavior, and to expose this behavior to uncompromising scrutiny.
With any luck, this book will inspire social change; at worst it will push a little farther along the
trail blazed by Esther Vilar two-and a-half decades ago.
Drop in to say "hi" to warbird and rest of the pros here. I just read this thread btw even though I am not active in this forum.
I had actually met up with Warbird a few times three to four years ago. Sadly, the declining quality of local KTV girls, make me go down into another different hunting path.
I had my lists of success and failures over the years and learned from my mistake but its nothing compared to Warbird and your league of pros. LOL
Maybe when we are more free, we will meet up again.
Tats exactly where u hit the jackpot! Princess Mentality. They r born n bred n groomed to think that MEN r suppose to spoil them, b their slaves etc. Only MAN will think( in pure disgust) like tat u know. I am sure, not just me, but many hv seen kooniang men being used n abused even publicly by such women n they just bow in submission.
Scenario 1
I once had a gal from 3rd floor. The next day after consummation, she msg me at 2:30 n said:
老公我饿了
Obvious rite, want me to zoom down bring her go makan etc. I called her F the shit outta her, WAT, U HANDICAP AH, NO ARMS NO LEGS CANNOT GO DOWNSTAIRS BUY YOURSELF IS IT!!!!!!!
Tat was the last time I made ctc wif her. Bro WB prolly met her b4 too
Scenario 2
Was wif a bro having kopi at Marina Mandarin, his phone rang. His KTV chick wake up liao. After hanging up, he told me:
Eh bro, PS, my chick wake up liao. Hv to bring her for makan. I was like, WTF!!!!!!!!!!! But ok lor. Tat was also the last time I ctc that kooniang
Best part here is, some is DISGUSTED by such women, but some actually ADORES it.
So again, One Mans Meat is Another Mans Poison
Quote:
Originally Posted by warbird
Mr. Chairman,
I might hv met that gal a long time ago...
Scenario 1 is a confident n dominant man n scenario 2 is a man who believes he has LOWER VALUE than the gal n he is sucking up to her...ironically his behaviour is disgusting n repulsive to her n she will dump him asap if she could.
Cheers!
Bro WB
WB,
This bro termed chairman wrote well regards to the 2 scenarios.
Many girls think that men need to suckered to them to get their pussies. Many men too wussy and meek.
If a man thinks that a girl is too good for him or is 'out of his league,' for whatever reason, she will NEVER respect him or be attracted to him. Even if he happens to be a rich, young, tall n handsome real-life PRINCE, n even if he manages to own her body n pussy, her heart will NEVER belong to him. You may ask why would such a high status man ever feel inferior? Many reasons. He may stutter or he may have only average ( or worse, below average) IQ or he may be a mute hahaha. Or he may hv a very trivial physical defect which no one else will ever notice, but strangely, it really torments him constantly, hahaha. You get the idea.
When I first joined SBF, I used to think that most pretty n tall SYTs of my type were "out of my league." Why? Primarily because I was very conscious of my advanced age n diminutive height. Moreover, I was lacking in self mastery n emotional control. Actually, it wasn't my age or my height which sabotaged my RS w/ these gals, but it was my self-perceived negative image n my negative emotions that was the main problem. I hv improved n will continue to improve every hr, every day. The training for me will never finish...
At this time I like to present a case study.
In my private conversation w/ esteemed bro FA, he told me abt his LT GF. It's a mutually beneficial RS for him n his GF. Well, besides my 2 LT mistresses, I hv several LT GFs as well. One particular GF stands out. She is SP.
Here is a brief narration of my 'special' RS w/ SP. This case study illustrates many principles n theories I've been expounding. I hv committed several errors but it has been an enjoyable training for me. I'm reaping the rewards now haha.
I hv altered some details so that she can't be identified as she is still kept by a rich towkay.
I still remember vividly how I first met SP. It was some yrs ago, on a Tuesday night around 8:40 PM, when I received a call from a handsome n western educated young bro M who wanted to go to a certain high end joint. (I later found out the purpose of his sudden visit was to follow up on a M'sian SYT. He was smitten. Unfortunately, she didn't show up as promised! I hv posted a detailed story on why he failed w/ her. Suffice to say that he was needy n desperate which was repulsive to her).
I quickly said OK to bro M even though there were only two of us. I arrived at the joint at 9:30 PM. I met a sexy SYT outside the lift but she was already booked (the girl was CD w/ whom I had a colourful RS as she was the only BAO-ee to hv dumped me, but who begged me to take her back recently...that is another story haha). Disappointed, I walked around the hall of the joint many times but couldn't find another girl of my type. Then I suddenly saw a pretty girl w/ long n slender arms, singing on stage. She was very tall, quite slim, very fair w/ curvacious body, in her early 20s n very pretty n classy in a cheongsam type of long gown w/ thigh high slits! When she walked around, I could see her sexy, shapely ass n fleshy white thighs n long, beautiful legs. Still a SYT then. She was at least 171-172 n abt 51Kg?
I immediately called a mummy to get SP to sit w/ me. I took a very close look at her. We chatted a bit. I found her very attractive n sexy. I hinted at ST. She rebuffed me... then I proposed BY. She just smiled n didn't answer me directly. That night I slept poorly, kept thinking abt her, picturing how shiok it would be to fuck her, n worrying that she might not accept my BY! I still remember that she said I was shy n that I apologized to her for proposing BY so soon( evidently I wasn't MAN enuff). Don't forget that I was a newbie in BY then, despite my advanced age. BTW, she had been in SG around 1 1/2 months.
Two days later, I offered her a package deal n she accepted. Unfortunately, barely 3 wks into BY-ing, she had to return to China abruptly cuz her father had a near fatal medical emergency. She asked for extra money but I said NO...She gave me her QQ n said that she would return as my woman if I continued to keep in touch.
After more than 6 months SP returned to SG on a different type of visa. I did pay part of her visa fee (actually a mistake since I didn't intend to BY her). She requested that I BY her full time but I refused. Why? She wasn't easily orgasmic (It was partly my fault of course). Besides, I had two other BAO-ees at that time. The timing was very bad. I told her I already had a new mistress. She became very distraught n cried n wept... I stood my ground n she was forced to start working at some high end KTVs. Later, I rejected her even though she pleaded repeatedly w/ me to BY her n even voluntarily lowered her monthly allowance by 30%. I didn't budge. She got drunk n cried several times...I just ignored her.
We had kept in touch by exchanging greetings on important holidays using QQ. However, she had not replied to my last greetings more than a yr ago.
Late last yr, I dialed her old number by mistake. To my surprise, she answered the phone. She was still in SG! I asked where she was working. She said she had not worked for almost 3 yrs! Are u being kept? She replied yeah. She was curt n sounded very cold. She then quickly hung up. Strangely, I began to visualize her beauty, her very smooth, very fair n blemish free skin n her beautiful pink nits n delicious pink abalone...and what a beautiful shapely ass! How could I ever reject such a girl?
Over the next few wks, I sent her occasional msg to highlight her feminine beauty n sexiness. She ignored me at first but the fact that she had not deleted my QQ n Wechat gave me hope.
She then started to reply n slowly warmed up to me. I reminisced abt our past happy moments. I then called her on the phone...her voice was surprising warm n affectionate haha. She revealed a little about her man, a busy 大老板 who had kept her all these yrs. He had been paying her more than I did n had bought expensive gifts for her...不像你这个小气鬼，也不像你那么花心！She even mocked my diminutive height! She had told me that she was only attracted to tall, handsome n much younger men. Obviously, I'm the antithesis of her type. A few yrs ago, I might get angry, dejected n gave up. But this time I remained very relaxed n unperturbed hahaha.
I called SP again n she finally agreed to meet me haha. She didn't mention how much I should pay her. She wore zero make up n was not as pretty as I remember her yrs ago. She is now a young MILF. She has put on 2-3 kg which make her more sexy. She could be a stunning beauty w/ make up n a more formal dress.
She is even fairer now. She is a lot more passionate than before. And most importantly, she now comes quickly, again n again, when I french her, alternating w/ sucking her beautiful pink nipples and at the same time using the Welcome Method to stimulate her clit. She will then kiss my nipples...sucks n tries to swallow my didi...then jumps on top of me...to make a long story short, she is now a great fuck.
BTW, I just pay something which is well below market rate for a woman of her quality. She will stay for as long as I want, usually half a day. Overnight also can...
Interestingly, SP met her 'well educated' n very busy towkay at an expensive joint when he was invited by some business associates to attend a meeting there. He became smitten by her. I guess it was her lucky day! Apparently, he has not been to a KTV again since he met her...she asks me to take her sometimes as she wants to hv fun...
My current arrangement w/ her is almost perfect. Great return n great value for very little money.
Due to my very busy schedule, I could only make love to her once or twice a month, at the most. My unavailability drives her nuts...she really craves having sex w/ me. Bro FA believes that she is sexually n emotionally addicted to me, after reading some of my Wechat exchanges w/ her. Perhaps...but I'm giving her hope by push-pull method. I hv not seen her for over 5 wks, yesterday I sent a msg that I'm thinking of her n want to hug her hahaha. First time I said that to her...
Any comments on this interesting case study?
Cheers!
Bro WB
WB
Really love the case study above.
Indeed it was detailed to the point of perfection.
Hope to read more forums and also learn more new things.
BTW, some bros wonder why I often bring a mistress to KTV outings.
Two reasons.
Firstly, I save the booking fee, which is $200 to 300 for SH at TAM joints.
Secondly, If I spot a girl I like, either in the line up inside the rm or someone I meet in the hall or on my way to the rest rm, I'll get the mummy to give me her name n HP no. I'll tell the girl that 我的老婆/情人/女朋友在包厢XX，不能叫你坐台， 我改天约你...later will ask her to add my Wechat to see her photos. It's free of charge.
I often ask a bro who hasn't selected a girl to go the hall to look at girls together. It's for him n for me, even if I already hv brought or booked someone.
That was how I met a very pretty MILF on 29 Jan last yr at LV 5th fl. I was w/ bro FA. Suddenly saw her as she was walking past me, I quickly grabbed her left arm haha. Didn't need to book her. She agreed to BY days later but I delayed the deal for 3 wks because my family from Gotham City came for CNY. She is very sexual n a squirter. At 31, she is the oldest woman I ever BY-ed, but definitely one of the prettiest.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
If I have mistress I will do the same too ie. bring them to places that I frequent including chiong joints. Love your modus operandus.
My post on "How to Pick the Right Wife" is controversial. But I'm surprised that no bros hv disagreed w/ me.
I had a chat w/ a bro at DC outing last wk. He is in his early 40s, a successful professional n business owner, who divorced his local wife after 5 yrs of marriage. They married after 9 yrs of courtship! Both were then 26. He agrees that marriage is 100% a business transaction haha. A man must marry a girl based on a purely business decision. Or investing decision. It's a very important investment. No emotions should be involved. Yeah, just like BY. But BY is much, much better n has no legal consequences haha.
One of my sons wrote: "I'm afraid I disagree with most of the points made. To each their own..."
He also referred me to a NYT article:
Interesting article talking about whether marriages today are better or worse than more traditional marriages of the past (in America):
In a way, every human interaction is a form of business transaction.
Take father and son RS. They both hv certain expectations and conditions attached to their RS. If these conditions r unmet, their RS deteriorate.
Steve Jobs refused to talk to or meet his biological father just because his dad was forced by Steve's maternal grandfather to give him up for adoption. Some dads are far worse...
What if you beloved son is a serial killer or a terrorist? What if he plotted to kill u for ur money? Will u still love him unconditionally? Many parents were killed by their kids in Asia n all over the world. Many kids were starved to death or sold by their biological parents for slavery, yeah? Do u think the kids will still love their parents unconditionally?
Another example. I hv a good friend, a retired Ang Moh doctor, who was living w/ his only surviving son, in sunny Florida. They were there for over 15 yrs. His son was injured n had severe neuro pain in his right leg, requiring lots of medications. Then the old doc suddenly sold his house n returned to his native home town near Pittsburgh. I asked why? He said his son started taking cocaine n other illicit drugs. He didn't know his whereabouts. Later, he admitted that he was beaten badly by his son. He would never want to see hm again. He was lucky, at least his son didn't kill him for his money. I know his son too. The old doc was an investor n he had said that he wanted to leave more money for his son who could be gainfully employed because of severe neuro pains.
BTW, a girl n her BF murdered her mom for her money in Taiwan recently hahaha. Asian values? The BF was sentenced to death n she got life imprisonment because her father begged the court to show leniency.
And tens of thousands of other cases...
Hahaha...human nature is the same since time immemorial.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Thanks to bro WB for a great forum above.
Valid points to say that marriage is a transaction.
In a way, every human interaction is a form of business transaction.
I hv written many times which male features n personality/character traits r most attractive to women. I'll now mention one trait which is most unattractive, in fact, instantly repulsive...especially at the subconscious level.
What is it?
It's when a man loses his head, gets enraged, perturbed, nervous, fearful, or (worse) maniacal, aggressive, even combative over trivial matters, at the drop of a hat...he has zero emotional control.
How could a man w/ zero self mastery give her any security or protection? How could she feel safe w/ him around? If she is stuck in a LT RS w/ a man like that, she will try to escape asap, or cheat on him. It's a matter of time. It doesn't matter if he is the most handsome, the smartest, n the richest man in the world. It doesn't matter if he is a real life prince n he loves her dearly. It doesn't matter even if he is THE ONLY MAN who has ever given her the most intense PVOs.
This negative male trait is as repulsive as neediness n desperation...hahaha.
Just my personal opinion. Comments?
Bro WB
Been following bro warbird post for a few weeks. As till now have apply some of the ways that u have said before and was quite successful in dealing with some of my relationship problem no matter with gf or ktv girls.and has become a more sensible person. Thank u bro warbird, thank u for all your sharing with your life experience in here. U are my master! Waiting to heard more from you soon.
SG society is more similar to the US than u think haha. Actually, legal marriage in Asain countries is more businesslike.
According to Republic of Korea (ROK) writer Nam In-sook, Marriage a 'lifelong business transaction' haha. During a reading session in Beijing last Friday, the 36-year-old writer said all women should treat marriage like a lifelong business transaction. http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/world/2...nt_9907234.htm
Those who don't treat marriage as a business transaction will regret it. This is a certainty.
KC is good if you don't lose control. I like to be KC-ed by my type of girls n I like to KC them. I greatly enjoy it n I always control n power in the RS. I enjoy fucking my mistresses raw and with high-octane passion haha. Passion n feelings are very contagious...they feel what I feel.
KC is good but KC trap is bad. It seems you get trapped everywhere. It's ur mindset. You're trapped in ur marriage too. And you say it's not a business transaction?
In SG, most married men feel trapped n most women feel trapped. Why? They got married because of emotions of 'love' or KC. The highly charged emotions n hormones can cloud the judgement of otherwise sane persons. They didn't treat it as a business transaction. When KC has faded rapidly and inevitably after months or years of marriage, there is nothing left but quarrels, fights, liabilities, debts, kids, infidelity, misery...married women cheat as much as men but they r much better in hiding it hahaha.
Amazing info provided by bro WB above. Agreed with his thoughts that marriage is a business transaction In fact nowadays many ultra-rich have premarriage contract to safe guard themselves. Although we cannot women to try marry rich suitors but society sometimes don't make life easy. Hope to learn more.
Been following bro warbird post for a few weeks. As till now have apply some of the ways that u have said before and was quite successful in dealing with some of my relationship problem no matter with gf or ktv girls.and has become a more sensible person. Thank u bro warbird, thank u for all your sharing with your life experience in here. U are my master! Waiting to heard more from you soon.
Have been following this thread recently, and what a magnificent thread it is. Thanks bro WB and hope to hear more from you.
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