Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[ToCumCum]

Originally Posted by Microsoft

My friend's wife is a sg girl too. (

Hmm, just curious, but is your friend's wife of truly, pure SG heritage? i.e : both parents are singaporeans, living in SG all their lives?.

[Shocking_vibes]

i once visited a fortune teller and she told me i would always follow where my heart would lead me which means i am willing to uproot myself to find the happiness.

Amazing thread with over 40 pages.

Maybe if one cannot find true love one should try his best to substitute. Like having a couple of short flings. March on bros. Never give up.

[vesfreq]

Its awfully tough.... I attended a friend's x'mas lunch gathering. Turnout was good. The guys who were attached had a local gf. These gfs not like very chio, but at least when they talk they sound mature and look sensible. I realise that one does not necessarily need a chio gf to settle down. Just someone who looks ok (ie, not like some alien from the movie Aliens, and etc) and sounds ok (ie, dun out of a sudden become some butcher from hell and etc), all is pretty much about whether a guy wants to settle down.

Despite patronising sbf from time to time, I honestly dun have high expectations that my future partner must be super chio. At least, she must respect what I do and earn my respect for whatever she does. Too bad, not many people understand. Sigh... better be single than to be attached with a weird temperamental freak.....

[jinrenhe]

It's amazing how a topic like this in a sex forum can stretch into a nearly 50 pages thread spanning over a year... perhaps it reflects the fact that beside sex, emotional needs and love are jus as important for a fulfilling life!

Visiting this thread again on Christmas day 2008 让我感触良多... realised that i was writing in this thread around the same time last year, lamenting my loneliness particularly in the festive season

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

Don't know why, but the year-end festive season always bring me a sense of
失落感... maybe it's the cold,windy weather, maybe it's the sight of couples and others indulging in happiness & love

Jus came bac from dinner & catching up with an old friend who also faces some personnal probs, and i was kinda surprised when he expressed how he felt during such periods too ... used to thought i was the only one feeling this way.

Maybe it's cos i feel strangely exculded from the mainstream crowd, so
季节气氛越农厚， 失落感就越深...

posted 23-12-2006

Love, as they said, always comes when u least expect it... and jus when i was about to give up after 4 years of rejections and loneliness, i met my current gf this year... knew her only in sep earlier this year.

So for once, my X'mas this year has been different from the past ... had a wonderful hotel dinner with my gf followed by going to orchard to meet my pals together for Will Smith's I am Legend movie before heading bac home with my gf... having her tightly in my embrace as we slept through the nite with the christmas jingles playing...

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by playboy82

At times in the lonely... i can't help but think, why am i so alone in this wolrd, everyone other than me seems to have a plan with their life, someone who will care and concern for them, accompany them... But all these simple little thing is just so far away from me.... Christmas is coming... i can't help but think, it will be another lonely christmas for me... haiz... What i feel sad is not abt the hard work and effort i put in, but is the sense of HELPLESSNESS, the feeling like no matter how much hard work and effort i put in, it will never work...
I really can't help but feel really helplessness, and can't seems to find anything else to do , other than my beer.....it had become my best buddy nowadays...

Maybe this century is the year of loneliness....

Bro i understand how it feels... if not for my unexpected relationship this year, this christmas 2007 and the coming new year would certainly be another season of loneliness for me

Despite my new-found happiness, i'm still veri much in-tuned with "the sentiments of the lonely man"... probably cos i've been through so much these past 4 years

Last nite, watching Will Smith's I am Legend movie with my gf beside me, an unexpected, somewhat peculiar feeling of familarity came over me - it's like i could identify so much with his character of being alone in this huge, urban environment... particularly this scene where he spoke to the mannequin in the DVD/music store, telling her almost in desperation "talk to me... please"

Still remember the awful days where i strolled alone through the shopping malls in orchard, amidst all the bustle and loving faces of couples walking past me...

Like a poor village boy still remembering that feeling of poverty even after becoming wealthy, i guess i would never forget those days of loneliness

I believe true love still exist.

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

Bro i understand how it feels... if not for my unexpected relationship this year, this christmas 2007 and the coming new year would certainly be another season of loneliness for me

Despite my new-found happiness, i'm still veri much in-tuned with "the sentiments of the lonely man"... probably cos i've been through so much these past 4 years

Last nite, watching Will Smith's I am Legend movie with my gf beside me, an unexpected, somewhat peculiar feeling of familarity came over me - it's like i could identify so much with his character of being alone in this huge, urban environment... particularly this scene where he spoke to the mannequin in the DVD/music store, telling her almost in desperation "talk to me... please"

Still remember the awful days where i strolled alone through the shopping malls in orchard, amidst all the bustle and loving faces of couples walking past me...

Like a poor village boy still remembering that feeling of poverty even after becoming wealthy, i guess i would never forget those days of loneliness

hey congrat, glad that u had walk through it, i wonder when my turns will come, although i already almost believe trun love will never happen on me,but deep inside, i still hope to see the bro here find their true love.

[Swift_jay]

I believe true love in the past too.. But after my breakup with my ex.. I start to ponder on wat is really called love.. How to define the real meaning of it.. And the most sad case is my ex say she love me when she broke up with me and less than a month plus, she can be with another guy..

That is the reason i start appearing at sbf and leading a monotonous life with really no one to care for me and allow me to care for.. Like TS said in the 1st post, there is no one to ask me how is work when i got home..

As person grow older, friends tends to get busy with their new friends and start to hang out lesser.. Even on leave now, i facing the wall whole day with nothing to do but eat, sleep and surf net.. Hai...

[ToCumCum]

Hmmm
maybe true love = money?

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I found this news on yahoo taiwan.

FOr those who cannot read chinese, let me explain to u :

Fann Wong, who is currently filming in CHina, said that she must complain to her SG boyfriend after she saw her co-star, actor Wu Qi Long, bought a 5.31 carat diamond and two houses for his wife ( all under his wife's name ).

Fann also said that "she loves Wu QI Long so much"...

anyway, read the news...

Cheers.

[kaff]

Having joined this forum for close to 2years soon and looking at this very decent thread, I like to contribute my plight as well and I was really thinking if true love does exist
Im slightly above average looking, decent, but doesn’t own a car and sometimes able to hookup gals at club if lucky, like to party sometimes but have since cut down on clubbing, well realistically pple would then though oh, then u should have a gf , well but not for me thou..have only 2 gfs throughout my life and that was during the teens part and have been single for 8years already..alot of close female friends drift apart due to work commitments or either they are attached. Usually I’ll get to know a new female fren every ½ a year but after 2months, nothing much would come out of it. Sadly I’ve been rejected numerous times throughout these 8yrs by not meeting the right gals that I though I could work out a r/s with. My relative even though that I might be a gay.. damn.. its quite sad and I’ve kinda forgetten the feeling of watching a simple romance movie with a gal.. thus I usually download or rent these movies and watch. Also if u look at the photos of local gals pple post in sggirls or linkexchange, there are so many pretty syts but we just doesn’t get the chance to know them in normal social settings.
Sometimes I do admire those bastards who cheat on their gf and wonder why they still have such a pretty or nice gf.. whereas the nice guys out there just ends up like a loser.. Recently the gal that broke off with her ex for a year already and rejected me told me she don’t know what is love and yet she want to be attached as well.. a close female fren once said, if the gal likes u, she will definitely accept u given time
Therefore after my Xx rejection, I decided to visit ktvs, gl, etc to get my fix cause jerking off to a porn video is just not the same. Visting these ktvs is really fun and satisfy the desire sometimes and reading the posts by numerous who shared that loving a wl or ktv gal is not ez but alas doesn’t a large majority of these ktv gals get married in the end, so sometimes a bro might have that fate but also u need to be able to afford as well, if not the gal wouldn’t be in this line.. also I realized if a gal doesn’t accept u, there really nothing u can do, so stop wasting time on them and get to know other gals or their gfs.
So my statement which I hold onto right now and to the lonely bros is u came to this world alone and eventually leave this world alone, so just enjoy the “love” life has given u, such as a happy family, money to spend and the wonderful and pretty wl or ONS u get to bonk each time. Meanwhile also engage in more social activities if permit to widen the circle, which I lack sadly.

Lastly a Happy 2008 New Year to all bros reading this thread, may we get plenty of good bonks and good health in the new year and most importantly the happiness which we seek !

[kaff]

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[Ducati Corse]

All we need is the HOPE it exists. That will allow us to dream and open our mind tom possibility.

[playboy82]

its been almost like 8 mths... any bro here successful in finding their happiness?
well, during this period of time, i suffer quite a number of set backs, i guess i am soo use to being single than i have become numb already. And the scary thing is, i begin to enjoy this kind of numbness, seeing couples out on the road, shopping center, seeing them so in love, wonder why i, who is just as human as them, why can't i be like them , then all the soury feeling will surface, in fact it feel great,, really totally disappointed in this life, maybe my this life, i will entitle to this kind of " happiness".

so i hop to a pub which my friends regularly go to, and the waitress will at least entertain you, play dice, cards with you, at that point of time, u really feel that you have a life, normal. But deep inside you, you know that its just their job to entertain u, is all abt the $$, at the end of the day, u still go home alone, feeling empty. But us human , we will still go back to the pub, to drink, to play with them, why? Maybe the life here in sg is getting too lonely , we guys dun mind paying a bit of the $$ to enjoy some moment of companionship,...

Haiz... how i wish with $$, i can buy love, at least all i have to do is just to work hard to earn money can le, dun need to be so trouble. How come nowadays finding love, relationship, companionship is sooooo damn difficult...
i often wonder why i am being so left out, most of my friend in sec sch, either married or attached and in a stable relationship le, while me, a loser, not even a slash of the figure 8 ( ba zhi du hai mei you yi bie). Because of the fact that i know money can't buy real love, makes me even more sad.

Anyway, although i can't find my true love, i would still hope the bro here finds it, even though i can't get it, seeing you all bro here who find true happiness also will make me happy.. good luck.

[playboy82]

hmm.. this thread seems cold... haiz...

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Originally Posted by playboy82

Anyway, although i can't find my true love, i would still hope the bro here finds it, even though i can't get it, seeing you all bro here who find true happiness also will make me happy.. good luck.

love is just 1 part of our life..recently i have a chance to express myself to a ger i like for longest of time..but in the end i chose to walk away without sayin a word..dun ask me why i do that..maybe i too used to loneliness le