Girl with issues of extreme high sex drive (just a discussion)

[EAN100]

Heh ... mebbe TS play Wii too much

UK Woman Claims Wii Fit Board Turned Her into Sex Addict

[whiteprince]

It's rather common. i knew a FB with super appetite, picked her after school almost every noon just to crave her urge for sex. be it MSCP or hotel, she needs to orgasm more than 10 times before she can be satisfied. Of course not just by sex itself but licking too. And at night she will masturbate away at any possible chance.

Most importantly you need to know what you want. If you just need physical sex, find a guy that's most compatible to your need. You may need to meet more guys before you can find a suitable one.

If you are also lusting mentally to do with multiple guys too, ask yourself if you are willing to lead a wanton life cos you are very prone to seducing and giving in to guys just to be fucked. If you are fine with it, then you don't have to seek help. Else you should consider getting professional help.

[newbie89]

Originally Posted by miss22

OYSTERS! isnt that a myth? teehee.

Hi, apparently it seems more like a truth

[newbie89]

Its normal, its just that you have higher level of hormones than other girls

If you find that it is really out of control, like what others say, find something to distract you. It can be a hobby or hanging out with your friends, have a nice chat. Haha

[Righty]

You have yet to reach 22 and already have such HSD. Imagine what will happen when you reach your late 20s early 30s. That's the age women reach their sexual peak.

[officelady]

to be honest i do bring along my small but powerful vibrator to work and ever use it in the ladies restroom and once i was nearly caught in action by a security officer when i was using it in the fire emergency stairways.. and i do think about guys who walk past me on the street if only they are tall handsome and cute.. so does it means i am a nympho?

[cherryblossom]

since my younger days, i know that i have HSD. luckily, my exbfs were also the same. the unlucky thing is that i got married to a guy thats seems to have LSD.

lately, i've been feeling hornier and hornier and it is very hard to satiate my thirst for sex..

i've already told my hubby abt the problems we have.. but seems like he is not keen to do anything.. i don't want to 'eat out' cuz if i do, i'll feel terribly guilty...

[Greendevil]

High sex drive, I dont see it as a problem. It like some ppl has bigger appetite for food intake while some lesser. I also have high sex drive. I in my early 30 and still pump like a rabbit with my gal. On a average it like 15-20 times a week with each session lasting to an hour, so dont worry abt it. Some ppl are jus different, anyway we all not the same. Jus don degrade yourself for sex will do.

[keano]

Great post!

I think i have an addiction to sex too! hahah! And i think all guys here having this problem too LOL

Anyway spend more time on more productive stuffs like sports/ money making schemes or even vol work

I did encountered a girl who love sex so much too, and because of that we went our separate ways, why? because she wants to be with another guy while also with me..the reason, she likes to fuck.

Oh well but she can blow i remember, farking good.

Side track abit paiseh..

TS, you are normal but it is not a bad idea to seek some prof opinions yeah especially if you think of that too. Why not!?

It can actually help you in your thoughts later.

Bless ya

Cheers

keano

[jonny1213]

Originally Posted by noobie.swingers

A high sex drive is a problem only IF it affects your capability to function in your daily life. If you are able to concentrate at work and lead a "normal" social life, then it really isn't a problem ... except that of finding a willing and able partner

Likewise, if you are happy with who you are ... highly sexed, wanting to indulge in "slut" role-plays, then there really isn't a problem (although this one is rather tricky as it is hard to seperate undue influence from your close ones). It is only a problem if you are unhappy with who you and/or have self esteem issues.

So If you find that it affects your ability to work/socialise normally, or if you have self-esteem issues, then you may want to seek help.

I've met quite a few high sex drive women in my life ...

One was my gf when I was serving NS. We would fuck like rabbits during the weekends but during the weekdays, when I couldn't bookout, she would be incredibly high-strung and sexually frustrated. Masturbation didn't fully satisfy her but she made do by scheming on what we would do on the weekends. It certainly made for rather explosive weekends

Another was a girl I knew in Uni, while in hostel. She had a bf but couldn't enough even thoughly they did it daily. She started trawling campus for guys to fuck and it all spiralled down from there. Her bf was not supportive, she could not reconcile her shame of sleeping around vs her desire to fuck. She ended up needing help and medication. It messed her up.

Bottom line, if you find the right people, in the right environment, you can be happy. If you find yourself doing the wrong things for the wrong reasons, IF ever you are unhappy with who you are or what you are doing, force yourself to take a step back and evaluate your position from a 3rd person's perspective. Don't be shy about getting professional help. They often give you a perspective that your friends usually don't. More info means better decisions.

Also, don't bother about what constitutes "normal" masturbation or sex preferences. We are all different. We prefer different positions ... different things excite us, motivate us, stimulate us.

Some of my gf's could multi-orgasm, some couldn't. First time I met one who couldn't, I kept stimulating her after she came, insisting that she come again. I got a shove, a slap and a scolding for that. Some of them like to use fingers while masturbating, some didn't. Some liked digital penetration, some prefered clitorial stimulation. As for what goes on in their mind, the variety of thoughts is stagerring.

You figure what works for you physically and mentally and leave it as that. Don't try to benchmark against other people.

BTW, sports ... I find that sports actually increases my sex drive! Other than the initial "aching-all-over" getting fit period, sports rarely leaves me so tired that I can't get it up. OTOH, the competitiveness makes me more driven, more alive and it carries over into the bedroom. Sports also de-stresses me, which leads to more mental inclination for naughty stuff. Sports also makes me fitter, which means more energy and stamina for *ahem* nocturnal sports. These days, I find that I am actually buzzing after my weeknight sports sessions ... to the extent that I actually have trouble sleeping unless I *ahem* release first. That's me anyway. YMMV

my 2c. Thanks for reading.

2 thumb up for noobie.swingers, totally agree what he say. Well done bro

[keano]

Originally Posted by Iphoneuser

hi miss22.

im 22 male chinese and i feel like im not bad looking. If u need help about sex, im sure as hell i can satisfy you. Try me =]

wtf...

and iphone sucks, BB roxs!

LOL

[Draven]

One solution to decrease sex drive is to take contraceptive pills. Common side effects include decrease in sexual desire and actually bigger boobs. I also remember reading somewhere that taking those pills for long term may cause some damage.

[Tripster]

I know of women who invest in a vibrator and uses it to satisfy their urges.

I think they dun need a man...self love using masturbation techniques is safe and effective...

peace

[sadlonelyguyer]

then eat yourself.
go to tyour kitchen, get that carrot, binjal ....

Originally Posted by cherryblossom

since my younger days, i know that i have HSD. luckily, my exbfs were also the same. the unlucky thing is that i got married to a guy thats seems to have LSD.

lately, i've been feeling hornier and hornier and it is very hard to satiate my thirst for sex..

i've already told my hubby abt the problems we have.. but seems like he is not keen to do anything.. i don't want to 'eat out' cuz if i do, i'll feel terribly guilty...

[sexysoliloquy]

Originally Posted by Tripster

I know of women who invest in a vibrator and uses it to satisfy their urges.

I think they dun need a man...self love using masturbation techniques is safe and effective...

peace

Not really leh, I bought a vibrator soon after my ex and I broke up, but didn't feel that good for me cuz I still prefer the real thing. Now I find my fbs or pple online to satisfy my cravings... =p