Do you still wanna bonk your wife? - Page 5

TyLa_BaBy · #61 08-02-2010, 05:50 PM

richie_rich:
Don't want! The sexperience from 1.5 yrs ago was no good at all! That guy don't even know how to thrust properly lor. Wasted my guilt on that ONS.

relaxman:
Go geylang come back, very fast one. 2 hrs should be enough.

masterdebater:
Actually I don't get much temptations. I stay home all the time with the kids, hardly any chance to get in contact with men. It's not like I go clubbing then meet hot guys.
Even then, my friends are there on the rare occasions that I go clubbing, where got chance??
If I wanna cheat, it must be very late at night after everyone goes to sleep. Where got so many guys so free to bonk at 3-4am at last minute lah! Can only fantasise.

Divorce is never pretty even if it's mutual. It's a card I don't intend to play unless I'm really at my wit's end.

richie_rich · #62 08-02-2010, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

Don't want! The sexperience from 1.5 yrs ago was no good at all! That guy don't even know how to thrust properly lor. Wasted my guilt on that ONS.

okok...bad memories eh? too bad you got involved with the wrong guy then.
read about that you got no chance to meet guys. well baby, you are here at sbf aren't you?

. nobody to meet to bonk at 3 or 4 am? you'd be surprised how many of the guys here are nocturnal creatures. hehehe

Masterdebater · #63 08-02-2010, 05:55 PM

3 months? Damn if I didn't do it that long my wife would think I'm eating out. Can't reach big O after 1 hour? My gosh. Must be too frustrating.

I don't know what other solution... Maybe he will let u keep someone on the side? Crazy idea! U can't change your urges.

terrible ted · #64 08-02-2010, 05:59 PM

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mr nice guy:
Wah! You finish work so early?? I thought common is 6pm... U must be working for govt.

I sense something is not right with his work lah, but when he can't negotiate for higher pay, and work keeps coming in, ego deflated lah. I can't help also, except to take in freelance assignments (not FL sex hor!) and contribute a bit to household expenses.

Pekchek = frustrated.

masterdebater:
Oh, what can I say. I'm like a guy. Used to be a good thing when I was with other men. Hahaha.

The 1st time was before we had kids, so I guess he's still with me cos he really loves me? I just confessed the 2nd time to him last night. And all he said was sorry. That its not my fault. Makes me feel worse, but it's already done and I can't undo it.

I think when your partner say sorry to you when you eat outside, your guilt is so great, it is very hard to go and eat outside again lah. Unless you have no conscience lor.

I am sure he is eating out.

Masterdebater · #65 08-02-2010, 06:00 PM

Don't u find this forum a temptation? So many looking to satisfy u. I can't imagine how many pms u have! Unfortunately nothing but the real thing us good enough so webcam n phone sex is not going to help. I think u r stuck having to curb your urges... Until u burst!!!

Kinetics · #66 08-02-2010, 06:08 PM

How about watching a porn movie together maybe it can lead on to something after the cuddling ? It did work for me !

sleaguepunter · #67 08-02-2010, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

I can't promise I won't cheat in the near future, but I try lah. So far it's been 1.5 yrs since the last one, and the temptation is great again. MUST.RESIST.

Sis, have you consider that your husband may be hurt to know that you stray b4 that he didnt want to "touch" you.

While you may be being "honest" to him by confessing twice, but the fact is that he suffer the pain twice. So if you really love him, it better not to let him know as the saying goes "Igorance is bliss". The best way of not hurting him is not to stray at all, but if really cannot tahan, then better keep secret.

I am not proud of what i done, unlike some of my friends who boast of their sexploits. I totally led a double life with ppl who knows me. Only a few knew i go gayland b4 and that only a few times b4 i started parktor. As for eating out after marriage, none knew. When during lah kopi with this bunch of "meat wine" friends when topic turn to latest conquests or new joints they been to, i just listen without comments. As for whether they suspect or not, i have no freaking idea.

Masterdebater · #68 08-02-2010, 06:14 PM

Could never enjoyed eating out cause the guilt will kill me literally. N my wife will find out. She always finds out! Freaky!

Kinetics · #69 08-02-2010, 06:19 PM

Sister, you didn't have sex for 3 months ! wow that's very long time ! My wife limit is one week....how I know ? I teased her before...

TyLa_BaBy · #70 08-02-2010, 06:48 PM

richie_rich:
But last minute no QC one!!

masterdebater:
Yeah, doesn't seem like there's a solution right now. Oh well. Thanks for the suggestions anyway.
No wonder I've been burping recently, probably almost bursting!! Hahaha.

Your wife is probably like me. We can smell a rat from a mile away! But it just means you have a good connection with your wife, so she can sense everything!

terrible ted:
Maybe he is. Which is why I started this thread to ask about it. Suss out typical husband mentality mah.

kinetics:
Thanks for the suggestion! Now... how to get him when he's not rushing work, and where to get good quality porn?? Watching on computer not very conducive for taking things up the next level...

sleaguepunter:
Yes, I've considered that before. But the truth is, he only stepped up more after the 1st time I cheated. And unless he is super expert at hiding his jealousy/anger/etc, I really don't think that's the case.
But even with his extra effort, at best is twice a week (quickie some more cos no time for extended ones), and I need more than that.

He did tell me a few times, if I do anything outside, he don't want to know. But I can't lie. I can delay telling the truth for a long time, but eventually I will still confess. That's why I'm trying damn hard not to succumb to temptation again.

Actually... I was secretly hoping by confessing to him, he will be angry and divorce me. Then I don't have to live like this anymore. Cos I don't have the heart to leave him, can only find ways to make him leave me.

TyLa_BaBy · #71 08-02-2010, 06:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Kinetics

Sister, you didn't have sex for 3 months ! wow that's very long time ! My wife limit is one week....how I know ? I teased her before...

You also another lucky guy!! Your wife also very lucky. Good for you!

All my husband needs is once every fortnight, but if work is crazy + other commitments like children are sick, or I also chionging freelance assignments... Can drag up to months lor.
When I'm free he's not free. When he's free, I'm not free. Then throw in red flag and everything, not alot of chance lor.

My max limit has been trained from 3 days until now it's 2 weeks approx. But if drag I also suck thumb.

mr nice guy · #72 08-02-2010, 07:11 PM

hey there tyla.. it seems tat ur hubby is ok with you having flings outside.. hahaha.. a bit wierd for me..

either he doesnt want to touch you since other men has touch you before.. or he has a secret where he thinks he cant satisfy you like how u guys used to be..

erectile dysfunction maybe??

TyLa_BaBy · #73 08-02-2010, 07:15 PM

mr nice guy:
His parts are working fine most of the time, but when high stress at work, sometimes cannot stay up. Then everyone gets frustrated with the situation and his ego gets bruised.
Which is why I don't want to push him even though I'm almost bursting. And if shit like that happens, I just pretend it's alright. Last thing I wanna do is get angry and dent his ego even more.

He does touch me lah. But much much less than what I'd like it to be. Maybe I'm greedy for wanting it 3-4 times a week?

SinDellman · #74 08-02-2010, 07:16 PM

I used to believe that sex should be only for lovers or couples, till i didnt get any from my partner for many years, so I only pcc to survive during those dark years. Can't remember how many times she rejected me. Have always been a super faithful gentleman. End up, my temper changed, my outlook of living was bleak, zero motivation, even though I always try to be the best father to my children.

But thanks to my partner and to the many bros here, I have started "to live" again with the romping with much younger and more energetic FLs. Everything is now normal, when my little head is satisfied. I treat her and everyone nice, never ask her for sex anymore, and seems like she is also happy with this arrangement. Not sure whether she knows my farmed out activity, but important thing is that I am no more a frustrated person ..... always looking forward to the weekend again

I still love her, but I dont really wanna bonk her anymore! No thanks!

mr nice guy · #75 08-02-2010, 07:32 PM

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Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

mr nice guy:
His parts are working fine most of the time, but when high stress at work, sometimes cannot stay up. Then everyone gets frustrated with the situation and his ego gets bruised.
Which is why I don't want to push him even though I'm almost bursting. And if shit like that happens, I just pretend it's alright. Last thing I wanna do is get angry and dent his ego even more.

He does touch me lah. But much much less than what I'd like it to be. Maybe I'm greedy for wanting it 3-4 times a week?

hahaha.. its normal if guys cant stay up.. im having those sometimes too,, ussually when stresss or tired... hehehe.. well you are not greeedy.. just lusty and horny.. hahahahah..