Need Help On How To Make My Wife Sexually Active?

[tkwok]

i think all the brother who commented are right.

But the staying fit one actually helps the most. i am currently training myself up in my own gym. and i noticed, if u are fitter, more girls will be attracted to you. Be it old or young ladies, u will feel good.

Then once u are fitter, slimmer, you will see the difference.

I did that with my ex g-f before. i used to be 100kg and i drop till 68. now i go back to 80 -_-.

my plan is to go back to 68kg in 3 months time.

[PepperO]

Originally Posted by Anel King

Hi Sistas of SBF

I would like to get some of you views as well. At least we will know what the females think as well.

I am really hoping to work thing out with my wife before I finally conclude that if I fail, the playground is always there for me.

Would really appreaciate if the Sisters here can join in the discussion.

Regards
Anel King

Hi TS,

As a woman, I think there is no easy way out. Both parties have to work at it - putting time aside for each other, trying new things together to spice things up.. perhaps you can try talking it out with your wife?

[Anel King]

Originally Posted by tkwok

i think all the brother who commented are right.

But the staying fit one actually helps the most. i am currently training myself up in my own gym. and i noticed, if u are fitter, more girls will be attracted to you. Be it old or young ladies, u will feel good.

Then once u are fitter, slimmer, you will see the difference.

I did that with my ex g-f before. i used to be 100kg and i drop till 68. now i go back to 80 -_-.

my plan is to go back to 68kg in 3 months time.

Bro

That's 1 reason i start to go to the Gym. I have a big Bhayi body. So if i can loose fats and gain muscle, weight come down by 20kg. Can already.

I envy you (Especially Chinese) can go down below 75 sia)

Regards
Anel King

[Anel King]

Originally Posted by PepperO

Hi TS,

As a woman, I think there is no easy way out. Both parties have to work at it - putting time aside for each other, trying new things together to spice things up.. perhaps you can try talking it out with your wife?

Hi Sis.

Finally a female prospective to shed light on this issue.

I am trying my best to slowly talk to her. will need abit more time. Same time i am going to the gym to beef up some muscle to woo her as well.

Spice things up... HHMMMM!!!

Can advice please. So far from marriage till now, she only like Missionary, once in a while Cow Girl (other she don't want to try). BJ she hardly give, may be not used to it (I wash & clean my small head nicely.)
Likes me painting her upper body but not waist down, including her pussy. She feel not clean. We used to bath together, but ever since the kids came, no chance.

Any other way to spice things up.

Thanks in advance sis.

Regards
Anel King

[adrx]

Originally Posted by Anel King

Hi Sis.

Finally a female prospective to shed light on this issue.

I am trying my best to slowly talk to her. will need abit more time. Same time i am going to the gym to beef up some muscle to woo her as well.

Spice things up... HHMMMM!!!

Can advice please. So far from marriage till now, she only like Missionary, once in a while Cow Girl (other she don't want to try). BJ she hardly give, may be not used to it (I wash & clean my small head nicely.)
Likes me painting her upper body but not waist down, including her pussy. She feel not clean. We used to bath together, but ever since the kids came, no chance.

Any other way to spice things up.

Thanks in advance sis.

Regards
Anel King

u can paint her waist down.. but probably after a bath... or early morning... 30 min before alarm sounds....

if not, bring her to the holiday... and have a good one at night before sleep.. then attack her virginal in the morning at a 69 pose...

who knows..

[adrx]

Originally Posted by Anel King

Bro, thats and interesting idea.

Let me beef up the muscles in the gym 1st. Then i bring her to pubbing. get her jealous with all the girls coming to me then i will make her hot.

Good idea. but need to take abit of time to get there 1st.

Regards
Anel King

dont make her jealous... that's make her more inferior.. i tried that.. worse!!!

I bet she bother about her figure.... how about do some of cycling with your kid (old enough?) and ur wife?

[Anel King]

Originally Posted by adrx

u can paint her waist down.. but probably after a bath... or early morning... 30 min before alarm sounds....

if not, bring her to the holiday... and have a good one at night before sleep.. then attack her virginal in the morning at a 69 pose...

who knows..

Hi Bro
Like i said, she won't even let me go below her tummy. So it will be very difficult. Somemore the kids are in the room.

Holiday, i tried to ask plan to go, but she force to cancel. But am planning again so and this time no give chance, will attack her terok terok.

Originally Posted by adrx

dont make her jealous... that's make her more inferior.. i tried that.. worse!!!

I bet she bother about her figure.... how about do some of cycling with your kid (old enough?) and ur wife?

She is a little concious about her self, but she been chasing me to work our for some time already. So hope it would be worth it and make her happy.

Regards
Anel King

[adrx]

Originally Posted by Anel King

Hi Bro
Like i said, she won't even let me go below her tummy. So it will be very difficult. Somemore the kids are in the room.

Holiday, i tried to ask plan to go, but she force to cancel. But am planning again so and this time no give chance, will attack her terok terok.




She is a little concious about her self, but she been chasing me to work our for some time already. So hope it would be worth it and make her happy.

Regards
Anel King

if kids are in the rm, its virtually impossible....she do not wan to 'pollute' the kids...

work out together will enhance your relationship or probbaly 'simulate'...

same as my wife..chasing me to workout....Normally she dont mind wearing (she had a topless sun bathing during our honeymoon) .. but due to her figure out abit.. dont wear it anymore...

probably urs and are similar to mine.. plan and get some workouts.... u never know... Beside that, workout together will definitely improve your communications...

[Spanner]

Bro.....
I too went through the same problems as you....

2 years ago, things got out of hand and i hit her.

But thanks to God, we somehow found a way.

We went to a Marriage Encounter which is under the Non-Profit Catholic Group. It is open for all races and religion.

They do not talk about Jesus and God. Purely on how to have a stronger and better marriage.

At 1st, i thought it must be some boring stuff..... BOY....! How wrong i am.....
Today, my wife and me has changed so much in just that short period of 2 yrs.

My wife who nevers low cut or short dress has started doing that. And during the weekends, when my wife always have a hard time waking me up, she will give me a wet and slup slup blowjob and i usually ended up raping her.... haha.....

Although sex is not as much as during our dating time, but it is so much better than when after we have our 1st child.

Of course we continue to have our weekly counselling after the Marriage Encounter. A daily quarrels has become weekly sex for us.

I'm not here to promote this Marriage Encounter, and neither i am an active member. But i just want to share what this has helped us.

Oh by the way, we went for this, which is held every 1st weekend of the month, there were only about 6 or 7 Catholic couples out of 30 couples.

At end of the day, i always believe that's always a positive way out of every problem. Take care bro and hope you can pull out of this with your beloved wife.

This is the link for the Marriage Encounter:
http://marriage-encounter-sg.org/index.php

P/S: You can always pm me if you need more informations.

[Anel King]

Originally Posted by adrx

if kids are in the rm, its virtually impossible....she do not wan to 'pollute' the kids...

work out together will enhance your relationship or probbaly 'simulate'...

same as my wife..chasing me to workout....Normally she dont mind wearing (she had a topless sun bathing during our honeymoon) .. but due to her figure out abit.. dont wear it anymore...

probably urs and are similar to mine.. plan and get some workouts.... u never know... Beside that, workout together will definitely improve your communications...

Bro
That can only work if she can leave the kids and join me.

The main problem is that she clings on to the kids and not enough time spent with me. then she blame me for not enough time with her.

Shape wise, she is ok, B- breast. but big thighs and hip. I like.

Will work for better life with her.

Regards
Anel King

[Anel King]

Originally Posted by Spanner

Bro.....
I too went through the same problems as you....
.................................................. .......

At end of the day, i always believe that's always a positive way out of every problem. Take care bro and hope you can pull out of this with your beloved wife.

This is the link for the Marriage Encounter:
http://marriage-encounter-sg.org/index.php

P/S: You can always pm me if you need more informations.

Hi Bro

Seems like a good advice. Might look at this in a few months time if we can't solve it on our own.

Thanks

Regards
Anel King

[adrx]

Originally Posted by Anel King

Bro
That can only work if she can leave the kids and join me.

The main problem is that she clings on to the kids and not enough time spent with me. then she blame me for not enough time with her.

Shape wise, she is ok, B- breast. but big thighs and hip. I like.

Will work for better life with her.

Regards
Anel King

hmm... tell her straight to the face...go direct.. but in a calmly manner.. she need time for u... once a while, should leave the kids alone.. better still, put the kids on the hand of mother-in-law.... even just a day... preferably 2-3 days...

[PepperO]

Originally Posted by Anel King

Hi Sis.

Finally a female prospective to shed light on this issue.

I am trying my best to slowly talk to her. will need abit more time. Same time i am going to the gym to beef up some muscle to woo her as well.

Spice things up... HHMMMM!!!

Can advice please. So far from marriage till now, she only like Missionary, once in a while Cow Girl (other she don't want to try). BJ she hardly give, may be not used to it (I wash & clean my small head nicely.)
Likes me painting her upper body but not waist down, including her pussy. She feel not clean. We used to bath together, but ever since the kids came, no chance.

Any other way to spice things up.

Thanks in advance sis.

Regards
Anel King

Hi bro.. I can understand your situation 'cos I also have 2 kids. Recently, HB and I ended up making out in the living room after the maid and kids were asleep in their rooms. It was thrilling and exciting, trying to keep myself from moaning too loud.

I guess it's about knowing what makes your wife tick.. or horny, in this case.

[sexualfantasi]

Originally Posted by Anel King

Hi Sis.

Finally a female prospective to shed light on this issue.

I am trying my best to slowly talk to her. will need abit more time. Same time i am going to the gym to beef up some muscle to woo her as well.

Spice things up... HHMMMM!!!

Can advice please. So far from marriage till now, she only like Missionary, once in a while Cow Girl (other she don't want to try). BJ she hardly give, may be not used to it (I wash & clean my small head nicely.)
Likes me painting her upper body but not waist down, including her pussy. She feel not clean. We used to bath together, but ever since the kids came, no chance.

Any other way to spice things up.

Thanks in advance sis.

Regards
Anel King

Bro, sometimes it is not doing things that you like but things she like.
she says you not spending time with her, means she wants to spend some quality time with you (maybe together with your kids)

[bossy_miaomiao]

Originally Posted by kgbkgb

1 more thing i notice is this. Women tend to be disinterested in sex if interval is too long. The more frequent it is, the more she becomes interested.

You are rite !!

Man, take note of this.. the frequent it is, the more we became interested and surely addict to it.. *shy