What should you do if your boyfriend can't satisfies your needs?

[Kosh]

Sis think u should have a talk w him about trying sex and be frank what actually goes wrong or why he only want petting.


Afterall u all been togther for 3 yrs already it abit wasted to give up the rs
Wo trying.

[lee2001sg]

Originally Posted by st.spicy

My advice to you, lady to lady, that you should talk to yr bf that you are ready to hv sex with him. If he rejects, better get another bf. He gets sextisfied by you doing him hj & bj, but what abt you? Or maybe you can get a fb. My hubby did not really sextisfy me after our marriage. He is always done in 5 min and make me wet and hanging. To sextisfy myself, got a married fb, more experience and stick to the game.

Your hubby is really selfish. I always prolong my sex with my wife for at least 20 minutes. And everytime after I would ask if she is satisfied. I don't mind a second round. But normally, my wife would said enough. She is not the type that needs alot of sex. That is why I am here.

To TS, you seems to be making everyone here confuse, but I think you yourself is very confuse as well. Please check how much you love your BF. Don't just love him because of your 3 years commitment. Don't force yourself to be lucky that your first BF becomes your husband.

As for sexual life important in marriage, I would say sexual life is important for maintaining a marriage. Or most important LOVE. I always love my wife more after we have sex. Maybe my sensiblity is very high. I even had feelings for FLs. But I know it will goes away after sometime without any contacting.

[sgbogyman]

Many bro and sis had indicated sex an important ingredient to a successful marriage, I couldn't agree more. Well you may not be looking that far into a marriage, but it is important in a relationship as well.

Keeping virginity till marriage is a virtue no doubt about that. But its the 21st century, there's a price to pay to uphold this virtue.

Understand that sex is not dirty, sex is not sinful, sex is not a bad thing when you are making love to the person you love. Thats the difference with casual sex.

Your bf could be enjoying the peer bj/hj as guys can be satisfied momentarily thru ejaculation. The only way for you to enjoy petting without penetration is using a vibrator. This is as close as u can get of getting an orgasm from sexual penetration.

Lastly, couples need alot of practices to satisfy one another sexual desire. Having the prefect love making session for the first time is bullshit lol. So don't be despire if you ever gonna attempt and it turns out not as beautiful, what you guys need is practice!

Good luck.

[Frankiestine]

I think TS got everyone confuse in her opening statement, it seems that she still wants to remain a virgin but at the same time cos she been the one servicing the BF and making him song....she always end up high and dry...so if that the case better for TS to let her BF knows that she too also need to be serviced...

[allfuzzy]

Frankly, you are what I call "a technical virgin" ... you tried everything except intercourse. A real virgin is not supposed to have any knowledge of sex ... incl BJ, HJ and etc. Since you have experienced "sex", why bother to remain a "technical virgin". There is no meaning in it.

Also, you don't have to have sexual intercourse to be sexually satisfied. There are many ways to get the "highs" of sex. What you need is an older and more experienced man to keep you satisfied. Older man is better because they are less demanding and also more patience. PM me if you need my assistance.

[unsung80]

I dun bother about tradition stuff like no consume of sex before marriage. Come on is the 21st century. Look at the teenagers out there today, they are wild and open in the public nowadays. Sex is not a taboo anymore. It is building intimacy with your partner, or it can be a personal pleasure, which TS is lacking now. I suggest give it a try and you will love it (depending on your man performance) . If worry about pregnancy, there is this brilliant invention name condom to put it on.

I would love to be your other man if you need to. My experience will not go wrong for you.

[Maggi0770]

Originally Posted by cumfast

To TS,

1. Myth: Boyfriend does not like sex.
Fact: You have not yet seen the "dirty" and "naughty" side of him.

2. Myth: Boyfriend can't satisfy your needs.
Fact: Everyone started off as a virgin.

I guess since you both are not going to have sex before marriage, the reverse is true. The reverse is what if you can satisfy your boyfriend?

Since you have both agreed to not experiment the actual intercourse until the day, then there's really no yardstick to measure against.

None of us is both with the ability to play the violin. Well, learn what turns him on and teach him what turns you on when the time comes. Now what is really needed is that you tell him what you are feeling. That way you can have all your cards on the table.

Sure sounds like you have a great relationship with him - a responsible guy. And please, if there's one thing I'd learn of people who are able to tahan until marriages, it is that they are very territorial. I mean they are willing to wait for you, so they expect you too wait for them, more so since it's already agreed. So learn to open up to each other. It took us years to learn to listen and talk to each other properly, especially with our tempers.

I wish you well. PM me know if you need a sounding board.