Fall in love with FL - Page 5

Nostrings · #61 12-10-2011, 01:32 AM

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Originally Posted by dlfc

Well, this is my maiden post and would like to ask bros and sis here for advices.

2 months ago, engaged a local Sporean FL thru an OKT here. After 1st session, fell in love with her. After that, booked a few sessions, and managed to get her contact no. After these, will always txt her to make appt directly.
Slowly and slowly fell in love with her.
On her part, she let me know where she stays (with her parents), she also let me know where she works and her other passion. Got to know her colleagues well.... And most importantly, got to know her better. She has also introduced me to her very close gal friends (of many years), her poly friends, etc etc. So in fact, I am in her circle, be it work or friends. All her personal blog and Facebook, I have access.....

I have been portraying my miss and love of her. But, she has hesitation. She prefers to start as friend, as she does not want to commit. In fact, she told me that as long as she is in FL, she does not want a BF.
So question is.... Shall I continue to be interested in her? Shall I continue to chase her - knowing that she may be with other men for appts? But, she did tell me in advance that on this so & so day, she will be opened up for appts (giving her slots to OKT). So, she does care abt my feeling?

I am very vexed by this.... Whether shall I continue this "chasing" or like what big Sammy bro has said, "a FL is always a FL" - should I move on?

Appreciate bros and Sis valuable feedback and comments, pls.

Bro you are pahting your life with a potential time bomb. KABOOM might be too much damage for you to handle. Have a good thought and the right logical answers will be derived. Good luck!

madelineang44 · #62 12-10-2011, 02:33 AM

Hi dlfc,
just to share with you my opinoin.i have this friend,sporean guy,OKT,fall in love with his own FL,now still very stick to her but that FL slowly drifting away,asking for a sum of money then she quit.at start part,the FL say she dun mind he is poor,no money but gal thinking will change slowly as times pasts.i am not trying to sprash cold water on ur relation,but now i see my friend at this states,i feel that it will hurt u more than her in future if there is changes with the girl you fall with.i am an escort agent and i see many clients fall for FL.so i just hope that my post will help you somehow. ALL THE BEST WISHES TO YOU

singmarine · #63 12-10-2011, 07:14 AM

How is it like falling in love with WL? Managed to do raw & cum inside?

sibaysong4u · #64 12-10-2011, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by singmarine

How is it like falling in love with WL?

Feel like a Buffalo & Robert!!!

punt · #65 12-10-2011, 11:16 AM

hey dlfc,

You really need to move on. i have ended up in a situation like you before. But they are really working girls, they have a motive which is to make money for some needs. They have a more determined mindset as compare to urs. watever they said you dun know which is true or false. Best way is to move on.

hornie · #66 12-10-2011, 12:01 PM

Correction punt, there are not working girls, they are prostitutes. I have 3 working girls in my office, they are my secetary, my accountant and my admin. They are working for a living.

And TS, frankly the prostitute is a little smarter than you, knowing that there can be no good outcome to this "relationship". What will your mother think of you if she found out that you are "dating" a hooker?

dlfc · #67 14-10-2011, 06:44 PM

Thanks to all bros that have enlightened me

I have decided to end the so-called one way relationship with the FL.... even though she has started to into her mum to me....
Guess I won't be able to tahan the fact that she will be on bed with other clients.....

Have to move on from here and now ... And hope to earn enough $$ to give my parents a deserved trip to China soon next year

Really must thank once again to all bros here .... Kudos

Really really appreciated your advices .... Thank you

punt · #68 15-10-2011, 12:11 AM

hey hornie,

Prostitute or working girls, is just a way of how u define them. They indeed know that there is no good outcome of this kind of relationship.

MaMister · #69 16-10-2011, 11:28 AM

Btw, can I ask.... when you are in good terms with her... did she still have sex with you? It is foc or you stilll have to pay?

IHEH · #70 16-10-2011, 10:23 PM

TS, glad u decided to end it. Maybe remain frens or what. But impt thing is that to give u urself n ur kids a fair start. Life can be a cruel journey sometimes. Things can work out fine, u strike toto n u live happily ever after,but what if u dun n u got to struggle to earn a living? Will u be able to tolerate her doing her sideline job to make ends meet?

Do think carefully in times of weakness. So many fairer options for u.

hornie · #71 18-10-2011, 04:30 PM

good for you

Woei · #72 22-12-2011, 02:11 PM

TS, it not easy but hope time can heal your wound !

balloon69 · #73 22-12-2011, 02:18 PM

TS, u made the right choice. Time will heal everything. Dragging on will only have more suffering mentally.

hosayliaola · #74 23-12-2011, 09:00 AM

move on TS.

TwinLighter · #75 23-12-2011, 07:38 PM

Congrads that you have moved on TS, but frankly speaking i don't see anything wrong with falling for FL lah. Yeah lah 90% of the time the guy will lose out.

But what the heck never try how you know. If end happily ever after then good for you, if not at most fall down feel pain then cry lah. Just be sure to pick yourself up, dust off and move on after that.

Also an experience in life mah, and please don't think that not having a r/s with FL will save you from bad r/s experience or what cause you know its not true. It can happen anywhere to anyone regardless of age, race, gender, occupation.

So anyone want take the plunge just go ahead, walk your own path.