Need advice on Sour marriage life.. - Page 5

Reoxy · #61 28-12-2011, 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by SH149

You might not be success in your marriage but do not fail your duty as a father

Nice One!

voka_blue · #62 28-12-2011, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by topcook1

After she done all these shits to me...my feeling has already died...Guess now my concern is my children and what is going to happen next...I will just sit and wait who eventually will serve the divorce notice.. Thanks for the concern and support of the brothers here..I will be strong and I had found a new job .

hi bro,
be strong ... not just for yourself but for your children whom they needs you most. i went thru a terrible stage before and i'm glad i got the court order granted to me and i'm living happily with my children. Nothing is impossible and time will slowly heal part of your pain in life.

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #63 28-12-2011, 01:34 AM

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Originally Posted by topcook1

.. Thanks for the concern and support of the brothers here..I will be strong and I had found a new job .

On the opposite coast of sadness
is something called a smile
But before we can go there,
is there something we’re waiting for?

If we find it tomorrow, we can’t sigh
Because like a boat that opposes the stream
we have to walk straight on

vscelwan · #64 28-12-2011, 02:01 AM

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Originally Posted by topcook1

Finally she has declares she has no feeling for me. She would like to divorce and have the children custody. She told me that he feeling had faded off for 9 years and told me that I can find someone better than her . I just keep quiet and see how.

TS, you are jobless now, how r u going to fight your kids custody with your wife? btw, may I know who can take care the kids better, you or your wife? if you can take care your kids better, discuss with your wife you take care the kids or one of them under your custody. I had done that with my ex-wife and my son under my custody. We settled ourself in harmony way. You need let her go if her heart is not longer with you as she already said her heart fared off for 9 years. If you till love her, let her go.

Just share with you, my son stop call my ex-wife mum when he was studying PRI 3, he not even want to reply her sms or ans her call whenever my ex call my son. Till now I never mentioned to my son that we divorced but he knew.

topcook1 · #65 28-12-2011, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by vscelwan

TS, you are jobless now, how r u going to fight your kids custody with your wife? btw, may I know who can take care the kids better, you or your wife? if you can take care your kids better, discuss with your wife you take care the kids or one of them under your custody. I had done that with my ex-wife and my son under my custody. We settled ourself in harmony way. You need let her go if her heart is not longer with you as she already said her heart fared off for 9 years. If you till love her, let her go.

Just share with you, my son stop call my ex-wife mum when he was studying PRI 3, he not even want to reply her sms or ans her call whenever my ex call my son. Till now I never mentioned to my son that we divorced but he knew.

I have find a new job and currently on notice period...Btw is this the time to liquidate my stocks and cash in preparation for a divorce?

eurekasster · #66 28-12-2011, 03:22 PM

Look for new wife.
This wife is not worth your tears.
Take care.

dunhilllights · #67 28-12-2011, 05:14 PM

You know when a woman says ' What have you done for me lately?'.

Sometimes just have to sit and think about it, but when you feel you've already done it..maybe time to move on.

Takes 2 hands to clap. Love stops when you stop chasing each other.

vscelwan · #68 28-12-2011, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by topcook1

I have find a new job and currently on notice period...Btw is this the time to liquidate my stocks and cash n preparation for a divorce?

Divorce is discouraging and not enourge since you have two kids... try all your best to save your marriage or let her go...keep trying talk to your wife in harmony way ho.w to resolve current issue .. u can start from sms her... the problem is between both of you and don't need other party to involve include your mun,mother in law,bla bla..it will make t things more complicated... my family member only kneww i divorced at the final stage..

PS: you can consider move out to get your own flat to stay your wife n kids.....its a lot of comflit staying with your mun or mother in law...its all depend how you convince your wife...

Hurricane88 · #69 28-12-2011, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by topcook1

I have find a new job and currently on notice period...Btw is this the time to liquidate my stocks and cash in preparation for a divorce?

good news that you have a job..

no...share prices are very low now...dun liquidate yet...hold on...unless you need the money...

topcook1 · #70 29-12-2011, 01:03 AM

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Originally Posted by eurekasster

Look for new wife.
This wife is not worth your tears.
Take care.

Bro once bitten twice shy liaoz...

eurekasster · #71 29-12-2011, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by topcook1

Bro once bitten twice shy liaoz...

Vietnam girl not bad.

alvinskoh · #72 29-12-2011, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by topcook1

Bro once bitten twice shy liaoz...

Bro,

Watch video below, learn how to handle woman.

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Rgds

Alvin

topcook1 · #73 31-12-2011, 01:09 AM

OMG...just found out that she had accumulated 25k in credit cards bills...I am the principal card holder . Damn Jia latz...Dont know is this a cruel plot to torture me.....Now going to be financial stress...

ImmatureBoy · #74 31-12-2011, 02:13 AM

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OMG...just found out that she had accumulated 25k in credit cards bills...I am the principal card holder . Damn Jia latz...Dont know is this a cruel plot to torture me.....Now going to be financial stress...

Take it easy & best of luck

khoon1 · #75 31-12-2011, 03:03 AM

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Originally Posted by topcook1

Finally she has declares she has no feeling for me. She would like to divorce and have the children custody. She told me that he feeling had faded off for 9 years and told me that I can find someone better than her . I just keep quiet and see how.

For my point of view ,she sure have affair with another one ,Must get PI to get caught her evidence ,Once you got all evidence you win custody chance is much much higher and dont need pay her any fee in future ....

Face the Fact ,The PI proof is very powerful in court or you lose everythings if dont take any action now.....

I been a PI in early age ,I been withness alot of affair case ,many woman lost in court because of affair evidence ,they cant claim your propetly if fault involding with affair matters ..but another matter you also dont let her catch you with any chick and harry !