thai women - are they already out of our league

[melonmilk]

Originally Posted by Triple70

101% agree with u based on my own observation/experiences.

And I would like to add.. realistically, what do we sg guys have to offer thai women? Culturally, theirs is more enriching. Their society is much more family oriented, they gather back in their hometown regularly.
Living in landed there is no big deal. Driving a car is also common and affordable. They are really happy people.
The reason why they are in Sg is because Sg guys are willing to pay a lot to meet them in Thai pubs. Even Sg girls are starting to appear alongside them.
Try to bao them for a night, that's what they are probably paid each night.
Unless the sg guy is willing to settle down with them in Thailand, it's hard to believe they will take Sg guys seriously.

I'm not sure if TS topic is about thai girls or angmo guys. Even sg girls fall for angmo. But I have much respect for thai women, because they are truly passionate about their life goals.

what we sg guys gotta offer..? the answer is financial power and PR status.. coz sgp is a gem among asean nations..

topic is about both th girls and angmoh guys. just a discussion to know th women better

[Triple70]

Originally Posted by melonmilk

what we sg guys gotta offer..? the answer is financial power and PR status.. coz sgp is a gem among asean nations..

I am not sure where u got the idea from.. that Thai ppl desire for Sg PR. No doubt Sg offers high earning power, but most foreigners in Sg are thinking about earning here ... to enjoy a good life back in their home country.

Imagine saving up SGD200K to buy a property, in Sg can get a HDB 3rm in outlying areas. In Bangkok, can get the equivalent of a freehold Orchard Road condo. Property in Bangkok is much cheaper for locals as they are not limited by the foreign quotas. In fact, SGD200K can also get a bungalow in Bangkok suburbs.

[melonmilk]

Originally Posted by Triple70

I am not sure where u got the idea from.. that Thai ppl desire for Sg PR. No doubt Sg offers high earning power, but most foreigners in Sg are thinking about earning here ... to enjoy a good life back in their home country.

Imagine saving up SGD200K to buy a property, in Sg can get a HDB 3rm in outlying areas. In Bangkok, can get the equivalent of a freehold Orchard Road condo. Property in Bangkok is much cheaper for locals as they are not limited by the foreign quotas. In fact, SGD200K can also get a bungalow in Bangkok suburbs.

pr status are like those th women whom a fair number of them comes from countryside background, not that highly educated. most of them whom i know just migrate to sg and settle here become housewives la

[Wintermelontea]

Originally Posted by Triple70

In fact, SGD200K can also get a bungalow in Bangkok suburbs.

Mind share with me which suburbs you refer to? Interested to know and perhaps invest. Thanks.

[Triple70]

Originally Posted by Wintermelontea

Mind share with me which suburbs you refer to? Interested to know and perhaps invest. Thanks.

Unfortunately, foreigners can't buy landed in Thailand.
But there are strata type landed that foreigners can buy.

Can search here... http://www.ddproperty.com/en

Ratchada / Lat Phrao is a nice area to focus on.

[wild_ren]

i dont agree with you actually.

I dont really have this issue with Thai ladies.

[dogbaba1985]

Originally Posted by melonmilk

pr status are like those th women whom a fair number of them comes from countryside background, not that highly educated. most of them whom i know just migrate to sg and settle here become housewives la

What made you think that they prefer a life here? Nothing matters more to a thai lady than her family back home. Given the chance they will all prefer to stay in Isaan with a few rais of land. Thais are extremely patriotic people, they always look to return home. Despite the tough visa sanctions on the thai passport, few would trade it for our crap sg one.

[wild_ren]

Originally Posted by dogbaba1985

What made you think that they prefer a life here? Nothing matters more to a thai lady than her family back home. Given the chance they will all prefer to stay in Isaan with a few rais of land. Thais are extremely patriotic people, they always look to return home. Despite the tough visa sanctions on the thai passport, few would trade it for our crap sg one.

I agree with you. many thais I know normally want to be with their family.

[2swirls]

I go to a pub for a drink, I may like the beer but I sure won't bring the barrel home

[Harley_Fatboy]

Just a warning to our SG bro out there. If you are looking for a Thai girl to get married better know what they dowry the family is asking. I have been in relationship with the girl for 8 years and when we started to talk about married I was given only 2 option. Option 1: Buy a house and she will just pay the first downpayment. Option 2: 2 million baht (dowry) and 10 Baht gold. I suggested that I take Option 1 but I will use my company to buy the house and I also stated that my assert will not be included into the married and I think you guys know the answer. She walk off and the excuse is that she will to take care of the family first. 8 fuck years and this what you get for this relationship. What they want is just money and there is no love. I find that I am luck to realise this in the early stage rather than committed into the marriage and I will be in more deep shit.

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by Harley_Fatboy

Just a warning to our SG bro out there. If you are looking for a Thai girl to get married better know what they dowry the family is asking. I have been in relationship with the girl for 8 years and when we started to talk about married I was given only 2 option. Option 1: Buy a house and she will just pay the first downpayment. Option 2: 2 million baht (dowry) and 10 Baht gold. I suggested that I take Option 1 but I will use my company to buy the house and I also stated that my assert will not be included into the married and I think you guys know the answer. She walk off and the excuse is that she will to take care of the family first. 8 fuck years and this what you get for this relationship. What they want is just money and there is no love. I find that I am luck to realise this in the early stage rather than committed into the marriage and I will be in more deep shit.

I had friend who never marry them just cohabit ...buy some kampong house only. Perhaps they see you are foreigner..different treatment from local man. They cant ask much from local man right..

[KonKam]

Originally Posted by Soul_Reaper

My retirement visa is ready. My condo apartment in Trang is ready.
All is needed now is for me to move my ass over to LOS. Perhaps I can pen my views on this matter after I have settle down and integrated into the Thai society. Gimme about 6 months time.

Have a nice wonderful blessful life at Trang.
Keep us update ya.

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by melonmilk

times changes, so does mentality of thai women.

any bros out there feel that they are starting to become out of our reach (asean dudes) as more and more of them became Caucasian Hunters for relationship?

it's like they don't give a shit to asean dudes nowadays (don't mention about fl here) I meant some of us here holds good education with/or stable jobs, but they don't appreciate.

They are so despo for whites so much that they lost their asian pride.

not to worry...
if SG chinese women Khong Kum don't mind and look for Orr Loo Loo men
what is thai women ..

[melonmilk]

Originally Posted by Harley_Fatboy

Just a warning to our SG bro out there. If you are looking for a Thai girl to get married better know what they dowry the family is asking. I have been in relationship with the girl for 8 years and when we started to talk about married I was given only 2 option. Option 1: Buy a house and she will just pay the first downpayment. Option 2: 2 million baht (dowry) and 10 Baht gold. I suggested that I take Option 1 but I will use my company to buy the house and I also stated that my assert will not be included into the married and I think you guys know the answer. She walk off and the excuse is that she will to take care of the family first. 8 fuck years and this what you get for this relationship. What they want is just money and there is no love. I find that I am luck to realise this in the early stage rather than committed into the marriage and I will be in more deep shit.

2 million baht dowry.

coz she sees as a easy target.

there's no such thing as having lucrative dowry.

if she likes you, she doesn't have to demand that kind of amount

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by Soul_Reaper

My retirement visa is ready. My condo apartment in Trang is ready.
All is needed now is for me to move my ass over to LOS. Perhaps I can pen my views on this matter after I have settle down and integrated into the Thai society. Gimme about 6 months time.

is trang safe? those bombing not too far away ...

how much is your condo?