Meeting Online Vietnamese

[ZanShen]

Interesting. Camping for more.

[Dawen90]

Bro I think many ppl here are telling you things for your own good ba... Some have been there and done that already, so good to hear out their point of view..

You seem to be trying to justify your own points to yourself, which I feel is already a red flag in any decision you make in life..

End of the day.. your life is yours and it sounds like you have already made your mind up on what you want to do...

So all I can say is... The choices you make in life will define you.. so please do make them carefully, do take time to read the views of the many brothers here.. in a sense they care for your well-being as well..

I wish you happiness and joy always.

[MoJoe313]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

I willl update our current situation tonight/midnight after I finish my work...

Rather than just text, with picture conversation between me and her will be more 'solid evidence' instead of anyone doubting it a troll post or whatever....

Once again repeat, I doing this as a.diary/recording journey regarding my experiences upon this....

I welcome all comment, however if you misuse your language or word, I will return the favor.

-Treat others as how you expect other treat you-

You insult me, definitely I will insult you back
You curse me, I curse you
You spit on my 'Honour', I will step on your 'Honour'.

Ignore the haters. It's your life, not theirs. I support you. Invite me to your wedding if it happens. Will give you a big ang bao as good luck!

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Ignore the haters. It's your life, not theirs. I support you. Invite me to your wedding if it happens. Will give you a big ang bao as good luck!

Wedding, we wont be holding any as we both okay with it.
Just ROM in her country(if both okay with each other after meetup and spent time together(no intimacy involved))....
As for Wedding, in the future , when we have the finance to do so bah....

Who know, maybe by then we will have wedding support by our Children by then...

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Dawen90

Bro I think many ppl here are telling you things for your own good ba... Some have been there and done that already, so good to hear out their point of view..

You seem to be trying to justify your own points to yourself, which I feel is already a red flag in any decision you make in life..

End of the day.. your life is yours and it sounds like you have already made your mind up on what you want to do...

So all I can say is... The choices you make in life will define you.. so please do make them carefully, do take time to read the views of the many brothers here.. in a sense they care for your well-being as well..

I wish you happiness and joy always.

Thanks for your advise and concern, really appreciated it. I am aware that they are soundful advise based on individual experiences.
As you.know, every individual experience differ from each individual.
The same picture, depend on who see it, have.different interpretation.

I heard it, aware of it, definitely if one live their lives afraid of this and that, there will be no result out.of.it

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by funboi

Inside this forum got a lot guys got involve with viet n marry. ROM in viet or sg got its pros n cons depend the plans.

If she got no official status in sg, how you expect her to live long term n work sg KTV? Enter sg via standard visa? or got simi lobang for wp? Then work illegally? Then kana raid and deport?

Of course, if meet up, depend on how serious we are and what we going to discuss in detail, definitely need ROM both country.

[TadaoKumagai]

As what a few brother have enquiry, following screenshot of the chat history will give you the answer....



Reason of why she choose me.

Now, following screenshot will be more on sleeping issues.





Hopefully, it clear some brother enquiry regarding the sleeping issues.

[TadaoKumagai]

The most interesting that you guy want to know is how does my potential wife look like?

Dream on, I wont show face, but I will crop some feature so you can Judge yourself if it a 7/10.

[MoJoe313]

Wa.....win liao. Confirm got sex. TS, mai tu liao. Go meet her and marry.

I think she has a good heart too. She is clear on what she wants. But I am forever a sceptic. So i believe in actions, not sweet talk.

Just stick to your end of the agreement. No expectation. Then you wont feel let down. Enjoy the ride bro!

[TadaoKumagai]

11/10 /2019

MY Vietnam Lady and I had some further discussion regarding some "Q&A Session". She did sent some sexy photo (non-nude) wearing bikini to show off her figure. Selfie pics at home.

We'll skip that , not gona elaborate on that.
As usual she do have debts, and she just told me that she just borrow 3000SGD for some Business plan of her.

Currently the things that I am aware was, in order to improve her life better, and had many income opportunity, she trying various way to do it. Definitely she have her own Job which the income is totally not enough.

She open a small Coffee shop in Vietnam, hired 2 staff to manage it, she monitor it via her phone cctv apps.

Which currently I am working in the F&B industry, so more or less, when I meet her, I will visit her shop and see how I can improve it, I offer to in-charge of managing her coffees shop as I have F&B experience and services experience, so more or less, I have the "Know-how".

Technically, at this point of time, despite she never tell me of her exact plan or what she want to do, I can assume and make some guess base on her action.
She intended to work KTV to get Fast Money to fulfil her dream and sustain her on-going Business.

She did learn some make-up and tried apply her skill on some customer etc...

So technically, my Viet Lady is a Women striving to fulfil her Dream with various talents back her up.

If she need or want borrow money from me to support her Business, I gladly fully participate and involve in her life. After all, Marriage Couple is about supporting each other. Definitely startup or Early phase, she might fail a lot and make a lot of losses for the Business that she doing.....

As long as it did not accumulate into a big large sum debts, I believe with my salary, as long as I just tank through 1 year of savings or rather monthly just help her 800-1000 , even if it a Bottomless pit hole Business .... and the debts not in the range of Hundred Thousands SGD, if it couple of thousand, maybe maximum 20 000 - 30 000 , if I just endure 3-5 year, I believe the amount should be enough to "clear of whatever debts she currently have"

The only debt I am aware of, her family have 3000SGD debt, she open her small coffee shop, about 3000SGD , and monthly staff salary , and recently she just borrow 3000SGD to do some Cosmetic make-up Business .

Round up , should be almost 10k (though the details is not completely for sure, upon meet up, I will clarify with her regarding what or how she plan to do)

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Wa.....win liao. Confirm got sex. TS, mai tu liao. Go meet her and marry.

I think she has a good heart too. She is clear on what she wants. But I am forever a sceptic. So i dont believe in sweet talk.

Just stick to your end of the agreement. No expectation. Then you wont feel let down. Enjoy the ride bro!

Of course, No expectation, no disappointment. But till now , conversation direction and details is on the bright side. It normal to be sceptical.

I always live my life without any expectation, therefore I will never be disappointed. That why I am satisfy with my current "Useless/Worthless/Garbage/Degrading lifestyle" according to some of our "High-Flyer" criteria of Living hood.

[MoJoe313]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

Of course, if meet up, depend on how serious we are and what we going to discuss in detail, definitely need ROM both country.

Btw, in Singapore, she can apply for a Long Term Social Visit pass with her marriage cert. No guarantee. Subject to approval. PR is another matter for another day. It's also good. Bec the moment she is not married, she loses her LTVP. So she LL have to service TS sexual demands

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Btw, in Singapore, she can apply for a Long Term Social Visit pass with her marriage cert. No guarantee. Subject to approval. PR is another matter for another day. It's also good. Bec the moment she is not married, she loses her LTVP. So she LL have to service TS sexual demands

Haha,
I am not that desperate, if we marry, she my women, I need to consider her feeling and conditions as well. A force relationship or "Force deal" will end up bitter taste. So I just have to really win her heart.
That will be a Win-Win situation.

What did you think of my Girl? Fit the description of 7/10? Base on crop picture?

[MoJoe313]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

Haha,
I am not that desperate, if we marry, she my women, I need to consider her feeling and conditions as well. A force relationship or "Force deal" will end up bitter taste. So I just have to really win her heart.
That will be a Win-Win situation.

What did you think of my Girl? Fit the description of 7/10? Base on crop picture?

Cant tell whether 7/10. Bec cant see face. Aiya. You happy can liao. Our opinion dont matter. You are the one seeing her face. Not us.

[MoJoe313]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

If she need or want borrow money from me to support her Business, I gladly fully participate and involve in her life. After all, Marriage Couple is about supporting each other. Definitely startup or Early phase, she might fail a lot and make a lot of losses for the Business that she doing.....

As long as it did not accumulate into a big large sum debts, I believe with my salary, as long as I just tank through 1 year of savings or rather monthly just help her 800-1000

This part tricky. I wouldn't lend her money or go into debt for her. That's not part of the agreement. But bec she is your wife, you tend to sympathize. Then when things go sour, you feel cheated of money. Suggest you both just stick to the agreement. No lending. Let her earn the money first. When it happens, then do the biz.