Sex Addiction? Vicious Cycle?

[chiongsolo]

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How much is your risk reduced?
An 18-year Harvard study of nearly 30,000 health professionals determined that risk of prostate cancer was reduced by 20 percent for men who ejaculated 21 times a month, compared to men who ejaculated four to seven times a month.

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[Cartman2005]

Originally Posted by TheTrader2359

Pretty sure many people here been through this! If you keep your mind busy you will not think of commercial sex.

Yeah once busy working and has project, you wont have time for this. Best if u have some friends can keep you busy on weekend. But once the urge come in, is hard to ignore, i still chiong once a while.

[hornie]

Bro as with anything in life, you need moderation. We all need a break and we all come from different financial background. If you are a high income earner, and by rejuvenating yourself you can get more energy to get more sales done then why not lol. If i earn 30k per month, I would go spa every day why not.

But if you are spending 3x a week on massage at the expense of essential savings, racking up credit card bills, cannot pay home loan etc then pls cut down. Same with drinking, restaurants, smoking and other pleasures, moderation is key and fewer sessions would make the sessions you go for, feel more special

Originally Posted by piichai

Due to this Covid, your life is some wat stagnated because of the lock down and many restrictions.
You have more time now and you remain single or unhappily married.
Other than the usual family chores, there are no new activities that distract you.

All you can think of is which SPA to go and which ML to find.
Often spending $100 per trip and 3 times per week.
It becomes an habit and you easily spend $1500 per month.
Life is just spending aimlessly and emptiness after emptiness

Then out of a sudden, you met a gal (Not ML, WL or those commercial gals) somewhere in the workplace, social events or party.
You started to date and when not dating, you read, exercise and do something more constructive.
You dont even think of sex but both of you spend time together enjoying. When she Zao geng, you turned your head away.
Going to Spa is once a blue moon thing and the urge i gone.
You dont even need sex at this stage of life with her

Then you looked back and Suddenly you realized that you have been spending foolishly and wasting quite a lot of money in the past for the temporary release.
Even going to MBS top resturant at the sky park is cheaper than your SPA session
So you stopped immediately and completely.
(That explained why some brothers disappear for a while)
However, after a while when relationship fails, you are back to commercialism and into SBF forums.
(That explains why some return) The vicious cycle continue.

Anyone been through this?
Feel free to share.

[Laofuzi8888]

I don’t drink I don’t smoke. This is my only largest entertainment expense. But still want to have self control and play moderately. Too excessive is harmful.

[bignehneh]

Originally Posted by sgpiggybank

Nothing to be surprise. I am a idiot also to spent alot of money on 3 FLs. These money can buy me a condo already...Deeply regret but I do understand how come some bro can get KC and spent blindly despite of advice given. Now I meet FL with good KC I will try avoid as I still have a weak heart...

Actually learning from this video is correct. Really fuck! How I wish we can reverse time. When young, invest first then use the dividend or the gain to cheong for free later. Now machiam like sponsor ML their condo instead of buying own landed property.

[piichai]

Originally Posted by bignehneh

Actually learning from this video is correct. Really fuck! How I wish we can reverse time. When young, invest first then use the dividend or the gain to cheong for free later. Now machiam like sponsor ML their condo instead of buying own landed property.

If you young and invest first, then you become rich but older. you will say KNN, if I know I cheong first so I can enjoy my youth and squeezing all the Big Neh Neh.
Now older cannot fuck 3x a day and the SYT now enhance unlike before. There is no ending when comes to comparison

Who knows. Maybe we do not have the life to enjoy the return of our investment?

The grass is greener on the other side.
Dont look back and say should have done this and that. We have our fun. We cant turn back the clock.

[Charlie130X]

Originally Posted by bignehneh

Actually learning from this video is correct. Really fuck! How I wish we can reverse time. When young, invest first then use the dividend or the gain to cheong for free later. Now machiam like sponsor ML their condo instead of buying own landed property.

Thanks for sharing the video, many of us don't have mentor to guide us when we were young. The younger generation now a days are very investment savvy and already started earlier than us.

Incidentally saw you were in an investment forum, you must be waiting to cash out your gain to go cheonging again yeah.....huat arh

[Charlie130X]

Originally Posted by piichai

If you young and invest first, then you become rich but older. you will say KNN, if I know I cheong first so I can enjoy my youth and squeezing all the Big Neh Neh.
Now older cannot fuck 3x a day and the SYT now enhance unlike before. There is no ending when comes to comparison

Who knows. Maybe we do not have the life to enjoy the return of our investment?

The grass is greener on the other side.
Dont look back and say should have done this and that. We have our fun. We cant turn back the clock.

True also. I guess, everything that we do has an opportunity cost.

If you don't invest early, you miss the chance of being rich and retire early;

If you don't cheong early, you miss the chance of enjoying your sexual adventure when you are old and can't fuck anymore;

If you don't travel the world early, you miss the chance of seeing the outside world when you are old and sick.

The list can go on and on......Life is full of hit and misses. Gong bei wan one

[SeaCucumber6]

Moderation is the key for me... everything a bit and not excessive.
Cheong too much will burn pocket until whole shirt & trousers gone.
Now maintaining at once a week... but this covid thing is screwing my plan... so now on hold till the wind dies down and the dust settles.

[BroTrustMyWords]

Good thread!

[ceandy]

Originally Posted by Ray06

Bro,
if you feel less lethargic and generally feel better then would be good to completely quit ...more watches for yourself

yes but if quit completely I'll get the urge every now and then

[nanahoriuchi]

Before covid i actually told myself to reduce the number of gl visits. Now i regret that decision as $50 or even $40 per shot is damn good bargain. As i aged i realised that my libido is dropping and the little bro isn't as hard as it used to be, my conclusion is, enjoy while u can as money can earn again but the good old times may never return. Of course chiong with what you can afford, despite the weekly gl sessions i still managed to have a sizable savings.

[Charlie130X]

Originally Posted by nanahoriuchi

Before covid i actually told myself to reduce the number of gl visits. Now i regret that decision as $50 or even $40 per shot is damn good bargain. As i aged i realised that my libido is dropping and the little bro isn't as hard as it used to be, my conclusion is, enjoy while u can as money can earn again but the good old times may never return. Of course chiong with what you can afford, despite the weekly gl sessions i still managed to have a sizable savings.

Bro, you very steady. Yours is a classic case of being able to strike a balance to achieve the ultimate goal of cheonging. And yes, our little bro also aged too.....

[moomoo38]

Some people say YOLO cause I never know if today is ur last. There isn’t right or wrong lah. Just just Chiong within ur means

[ladyassasinato]

For me if I dun released frequently I feel weaker. The more I release my dick becomes stronger. Dun noe any bro having the same experience or not.