Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[easybaby]

Originally Posted by playboy82

so i hop to a pub which my friends regularly go to, and the waitress will at least entertain you, play dice, cards with you, at that point of time, u really feel that you have a life, normal.

Why do you visit a pub when you feel that you're not going to find love there? Pick up some activities or attend classes, at there you get to interact with many different ladies, and at least, it's not the pub setting, where people just play around and aren't serious about finding a partner.

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

love is just 1 part of our life..recently i have a chance to express myself to a ger i like for longest of time..but in the end i chose to walk away without sayin a word..dun ask me why i do that..maybe i too used to loneliness le

Hey, dun be as useless as me, go for it, at least let me see some successful case study...

[joker88]

Originally Posted by playboy82

Hey, dun be as useless as me, go for it, at least let me see some successful case study...

Bro, dun say yourself useles lah.

Keep trying and you will succeed one day. Upz you.

[yy0202]

Friend Send An email to me, thinking of a thread here that i find suitable to post the pic.....

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[Justsomeone]

Originally Posted by playboy82

Often, i hav tot alot abt this, especially when i am going to work and after work,
and i started to think back, during sch time, gf are hard to find cos not handsome enough, then some more that time no balls also, unlike now, can approach any gals, then when u enter poly, tats no pretty gals in ur same class and all ur friends are mostly guys, single, n of course,they also hav no gals to intro to u cos even they themself can't get gf. Then wat can we do, other than to surf net, msn, friendster to find gals, but all the gals are so "dao" if u can get a reply, can consider very lucky,but of course i do get a few ons n flings from this type of channel, but although every time i get into this kinda of " play play " affair,even though i know that this kinda relationship won't work but every time i will treat it like a serious relationship, maybe deep deep down inside my heart , i do longed for a fairy tale like ending.

Then when u stepped into the working society, u find that ur working area also got no gals, mostly all married old woman, so no chance to get to know suitable gals too.And after work, i would listen to sad love song, thinking how difficult is to fall in love. And when u alone at home, i would cry sometimes, seriously, no joking, when u notice that u are so alone in ur life that there's not even a single caring gal who will ask u something like how is ur work
today, tough? I mean such a simple gesture that i see from other couple is
such a normal simple everyday thing to them, but to me, is like striking toto.
When i am young, i use to hope to live life simple,like those Qin Mei Zhu Ma, to married the gal i like n live happily ever after, not when i grew older, i come to realise that it is something like " mission impossible".

So wat can i do, i cannot jus anyhow approach gal which i like in the street and ask them for a date right. So wat can i do, other then to go geylang, and surf sammyboy. Seriously this forum is like become the core to my life ord, addicted to it, and also i notice alot other samsters is also trying to find their fairy tale love life, but in vain, thats y we go geylang and so emphasis "GF" feeling when we visit lorong 18,we are so pathatic that we hav to turn to a pro for some time limiting and costly "GF" feeling.

And often , i longed for someone to hug when i am feeling down, but deep down, i also know that love can't be force, and preciesly becos i know this, i am feeling more sad, how i wish that Love can be bought, then it will make things less complicating for me, at less i know that if i got the $$, i can have love.Thats y so many ppl turn to china or viet for option to marry wife. But in reality, it is not like that , $$ can't buy love., Up till now, i still wonder how my life will be in future, but i have a strong feeling that that's it for me ord, nothing big turn or twist will happen to me, still i will visit geylang,go home after work, visit sammyboy, then when i am old, die lonely.


Anyone here share the same thoughts as me? Is this the meaning of life?

It is often said that Love.. Can never be bought... the same goes for Happiness.

Old people (Elderly) have also said that in order to share a bed with your wife, you need 3 lifetime of Good Karma.

In your case, there' s nothing to worry about. Everything will start falling into place as long as .... here's the difficult part: You Believe.

Nothing is impossible as long as you have faith in your self (believing in oneself).

Start believing that you will meet someone that will love you for the rest of your life. Just Start believing.

I believe that the sub-conscious mind is a powerful tool that can make impossible into possibilities, but that is as long as you dare to believe and want to believe in making impossibles.

I am not lying, check out a very old book: Feeling good. And you will know what I mean.

[Virginhell]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

It's amazing how a topic like this in a sex forum can stretch into a nearly 50 pages thread spanning over a year... perhaps it reflects the fact that beside sex, emotional needs and love are jus as important for a fulfilling life!

Visiting this thread again on Christmas day 2008 让我感触良多... realised that i was writing in this thread around the same time last year, lamenting my loneliness particularly in the festive season



posted 23-12-2006

Love, as they said, always comes when u least expect it... and jus when i was about to give up after 4 years of rejections and loneliness, i met my current gf this year... knew her only in sep earlier this year.

So for once, my X'mas this year has been different from the past ... had a wonderful hotel dinner with my gf followed by going to orchard to meet my pals together for Will Smith's I am Legend movie before heading bac home with my gf... having her tightly in my embrace as we slept through the nite with the christmas jingles playing...

2008 Christmas is over....time to revive this thread....any updates from fellow bros out there....I'm still single and spent my Christmas watching telly and jerking off to porn at night through the Internet....sounds pathetic...but that's fun to me...

[playboy82]

well, i am stil single, i spend my christmas eve drinking in pub, and singing lonely christmas by eason.... somehow this song is damn meaningful...

[Blue_gal]

HOlidays..DoeS bring Lonelyness....i hv to agree....

But then u are NOt alone

ManY Times.. i wanna to get my BUTT out there to know new person..but then i ended up ...sitting infornt of my PC or on BED (alone) and "passing" my timess....

i believe there is so called "True LOVE" around, just tat it is 0.1% out of 100%....just have to "wait" till the "RITE" one to come...and to be found by u...

Cheer & GooD LUCK!
BitCh Blue AUnt|e

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by playboy82

well, i am stil single, i spend my christmas eve drinking in pub, and singing lonely christmas by eason.... somehow this song is damn meaningful...

u r not alone... many lonely souls out there playing hide n seek

[donalduck5]

Gosh … I didn’t realize that there are so many lonely singles out there! I truly am sorry and sad to know this. I have be blessed with a loving, caring and giving wife for more than two decades and I know it is a damn miserable situation to be single … especially on festive occasions where one celebrates the occasions with their loved ones by their side.

But plod on and don’t lose heart my single friends!! Perhaps, just a word of encouragement … just go make friends first, don’t expect too much in the beginning … just be around people that you like, and can click with, and be friends … does not have to be on a one-on-one basis … Also, look and ask yourself honestly, if you yourself are really fun to be with, imaginative, cheerful … People generally like to be around others who are fun and cheerful. And being imaginative helps to make the outing different and fun. If not, improve and work from the inside out ...

I heard some of my younger acquaintances look for beauty, height, figure, stable careers etc even before they consider going out with the person and being friends … That is setting too much expectations before making the first initial step … and it cut down much of the potential prospects …

Beauty is only skin-deep and does not last … true friendship and mutual respect for each other is more lasting and is the foundation for a long term relationship … Just my 2-cents worth from a reformed skirt-chaser!!

I wish all my single friends here, a successful and a happy end to your search!

And ... YES, true love does exist!!

[infinitedubs]

TS,there's always LOVE outhere bro...Kip ur head up..Dun give up..There's always a life partner fr every human being..

CHEERZ!

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Virginhell

2008 Christmas is over....time to revive this thread....any updates from fellow bros out there....I'm still single and spent my Christmas watching telly and jerking off to porn at night through the Internet....sounds pathetic...but that's fun to me...

It's certaintly a good time to revive this thread as the year end is near - a time when it's natural for one to reflect on the past and take stock of one's life.
It's also interesting to see how things have changed (or not change...) over the times...

[cmelater]

I find it hard to believe that I'm back here reading this thread. But, I have something to share too.

I ve been a workaholic all of my life. Very bz with work and many other 101 things. My time always felt so fully occupied, until my work finally slowed down. I stepped out of house for the first time, taking a leisure walk. The first thing that caught my eye was a young lady well dressed going out for xmas. For one moment, I worried... like what have I done to my life. Xmas day and I got no date... date was go home and do some paper work.

Next when travelled to orchard, everyone seemed to have a gf or bf or (at least) a partner. I really felt that my life was so hollow. I got a lot of stuff which many guys want to have, except for house. Now, after so long, its unsettling to know that deep down I very hollow and lonely.

For a few moments, I wished work didn't stop. For the bros here who have not stopped to smell roses, if u have a relationship in ur hands, cherish it. Dun wait until you lose it, then worry. Its all too late liao. For the lonely single bros and sis, cheer up. Sometimes, fate got funny ways of hooking you up.

If you ve not been dating, go speed dating. At least, your dating skills won't rust too much.

[cmelater]

Originally Posted by playboy82

hmm.. this thread seems cold... haiz...

Shows that we are not alone. Sigh..... read this thread very low morale.......

[miumiu]

chanced upon this thread... im tired of looking too. its true not all ppl will find true love. i believe my parents marry for the sake of companionship. however it works for them as they married quite late (40s) & are pretty matured about it thus they're still happily married now.

i don't rule out that one day i'll end up like them. but it is very sad that you'll never marry the person whom u love. i chose to walk away from the guy i loved. coz i know he'll never love mi as much as i've loved him. in our 4 years together, he has never remembered my birthday, never bought any presents for me. but its the little things, promises that were never kept that makes me so upset. i am too silly. so i hope the bros here can see that it is not always the guys who keep giving in to girls.

anyways cheers to 2009 !