Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by shysaint

If she is your wife, she can apply work permit to work , If she is NOT, then dun waste time .... unless she is with certain education and a willing good company to sponsor her ...

I have a friend's GF who is working here is Llee Hwa as sales assistant ,.....

Most companies are not willing to employ normal vietnamese staff unless they have dealings with vietnam. Main reason being language barrier. Unless the vietnamese can speak good english or mandarin, otherwise it will be more productive to employ other nationalities. Employment of vietnamese also need writing into MOM as they are not under the list of Traditional Source of labour and Non-Traditional Source of Labour. The possible being the vietnamese is a graduate, under EP or SP.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

If there's a lot of documents to be translated, you can do it in HCM also. Its much cheaper. After translation, use DHL to courier here. But if onloy a few documents, Vietnam embassy will be the place.

I got the address in HCMC for the translation ....

Cheaper .. thats good I have to translated my baby girl Birth Certificate and some documents for submition to Singapore Embassy ....

[MrDarkSide]

Originally Posted by shysaint

I have a friend's GF who is working here is Llee Hwa as sales assistant ,.....

Lee Hwa Jewellery.... Sale Assistant... Hmmm... Interesting.

[JaViEr84]

hmm i have an idea over here too but that is if u have the money to invest 1st.. this is a way more of like investment at least the gal will not be staying at home do nothing with the green card and keep waiting for the PR to be approved..

I had tried that before and it works well during year 2009

1)

get her to study a diploma with OJT

2)

try to source a better option for her OJT like established companies or companies tat is not having a lot of OJT students in competition , this of course is up to her capabilities to impress the manager in order to apply S pass or WP for her to stay on the job after graduation.

3)

Work up to at least a year before applying PR to try the luck..

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by JaViEr84

hmm i have an idea over here too but that is if u have the money to invest 1st.. this is a way more of like investment at least the gal will not be staying at home do nothing with the green card and keep waiting for the PR to be approved..

I had tried that before and it works well during year 2009

1)

get her to study a diploma with OJT

2)

try to source a better option for her OJT like established companies or companies tat is not having a lot of OJT students in competition , this of course is up to her capabilities to impress the manager in order to apply S pass or WP for her to stay on the job after graduation.

3)

Work up to at least a year before applying PR to try the luck..

Don't mind me saying this, but most of these gals only has primary school education, how to go direct to Diploma level? Even if they have high school, they have to go through around 6 months of english language lessons before proceeding to Diploma level. As for Diploma with OJT, these courses are mostly in the areas of tourism and hospitality. The OJT is arranged by the school itself, the student has no say in which BIG hotel or SMALL hotel they go to. For S Pass now, you need at least $2000 salary, raise from $1800. These gals have no means and capability to apply PR on their own, if they have, they don't need to KT singapore man liao.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

if they have, they don't need to KT singapore man liao.

why the vb need me in order to come sillypore???

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by SingViet

they don't need to KT singapore man liao.

[QUOTE=KangTuo;5761105]why the vb need me in order to come sillypore???/QUOTE]

his KT= Kan Tou. Chop head .... this week u gonna chop how many vb's head????

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

why the vb need me in order to come sillypore???

hahahah, oops... typo error. Should be KC, not KT.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by haojian

I got married to a vietnamese wife through an agency two years ago. She bore me a son and a daughter. Now my son is 13 months old and my daughter is 1.5 months old.

Now she tells me that she dont feel anything when i touch her. she says she have this feeling after since after our wedding night. then she says she heard from her friend that when a wife tells her husband she have no feelings for him, they divorce shortly after. And she asks me if I would do the same to her???

Shortly after giving birth to my daughter, she started slimming down and making up to look even better than before our marriage. and she mentioned before during our arguments that she is young and can look for another husband. I can divorce her and pay her alimony and expenses for the children. Now she is asking for more money, even borrowing from my mum. She also mentioned buying and selling land in vietnam.

What should I do? Please advise.

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[SureScore]

Originally Posted by haojian
I got married to a vietnamese wife through an agency two years ago. She bore me a son and a daughter. Now my son is 13 months old and my daughter is 1.5 months old.

Now she tells me that she dont feel anything when i touch her. she says she have this feeling after since after our wedding night. then she says she heard from her friend that when a wife tells her husband she have no feelings for him, they divorce shortly after. And she asks me if I would do the same to her???

Shortly after giving birth to my daughter, she started slimming down and making up to look even better than before our marriage. and she mentioned before during our arguments that she is young and can look for another husband. I can divorce her and pay her alimony and expenses for the children. Now she is asking for more money, even borrowing from my mum. She also mentioned buying and selling land in vietnam.

What should I do? Please advise.
__________________________________________________ _________

I suggest you try to handle this carefully. If possible avoid divorce and try to make up. The young children need their mother and father to grow up properly.

[A+++]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Don't mind me saying this, but most of these gals only has primary school education, how to go direct to Diploma level? Even if they have high school, they have to go through around 6 months of english language lessons before proceeding to Diploma level. As for Diploma with OJT, these courses are mostly in the areas of tourism and hospitality. The OJT is arranged by the school itself, the student has no say in which BIG hotel or SMALL hotel they go to. For S Pass now, you need at least $2000 salary, raise from $1800. These gals have no means and capability to apply PR on their own, if they have, they don't need to KT singapore man liao.

Yea it's true. My gf is starting English next months, but after the English course, I ask myself what course can she take? She's not lazy nor stupid instead she's smart, but she said she doesn't have any record of her education so far cos her school which is at her village hometown burnt down & they don have any other backup record!! I seriously wordless when I heard that.....

If they finally get a Diploma & Degree cert, they won't need u anymore

[happy000]

True or not? I alway hear either the village school kena burn down or flood. . By the way if she sit for a national examination, she should be able to get a certification from the education authority at the national level.

Originally Posted by A+++

but she said she doesn't have any record of her education so far cos her school which is at her village hometown burnt down & they don have any other backup record!! I seriously wordless when I heard that.....

If they finally get a Diploma & Degree cert, they won't need u anymore

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by SureScore

Originally Posted by haojian
I got married to a vietnamese wife through an agency two years ago. She bore me a son and a daughter. Now my son is 13 months old and my daughter is 1.5 months old.

Now she tells me that she dont feel anything when i touch her. she says she have this feeling after since after our wedding night. then she says she heard from her friend that when a wife tells her husband she have no feelings for him, they divorce shortly after. And she asks me if I would do the same to her???

Shortly after giving birth to my daughter, she started slimming down and making up to look even better than before our marriage. and she mentioned before during our arguments that she is young and can look for another husband. I can divorce her and pay her alimony and expenses for the children. Now she is asking for more money, even borrowing from my mum. She also mentioned buying and selling land in vietnam.

What should I do? Please advise.
__________________________________________________ _________

I suggest you try to handle this carefully. If possible avoid divorce and try to make up. The young children need their mother and father to grow up properly.

Brother, you got swindled. The problem with these women from the third world is when they divorce you the economics tilt in their favor when before marriage you were in control. The best thing to do right away is to protect your assets as best as you can and prepare for her departure. I would get full custody of the kids. Any woman leaving a man with kids that young really doesnt love the kids if it is such an easy decision for her. That's what happens when we let those people into SG.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, you got swindled. The problem with these women from the third world is when they divorce you the economics tilt in their favor when before marriage you were in control. The best thing to do right away is to protect your assets as best as you can and prepare for her departure. I would get full custody of the kids. Any woman leaving a man with kids that young really doesnt love the kids if it is such an easy decision for her. That's what happens when we let those people into SG.

I don't agree that haojian got swindled. His wife bored him 2 children. At most the wife had no longer any feeling for him.

Your advice was good for the children custody but this is the last resort. Don't forget haojian needs to pay alot of alimony if he cannot prove that his wife ditched him for any man or involved in adultery. Don't see how he can protect his asset in singapore courts. No guarantee he will gain custody of the young children too.

You had been very negative towards 3rd world country women in all your posts.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SureScore

You had been very negative towards 3rd world country women in all your posts.

Not only that ... Negative to Non-Singaporean GALs too .... he thinks those gals married here are probably WLs or whores .... Too Negative ....

That's why I no longer commenting on his post ...