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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by Mr_don_juan
Pretty low when there is a transaction. To turn the KTV girls into a love relationship plays yet again to your desire to be superior to her... to be 'captain save a ho' ... so if you save her then she will idolize you as her savior. Many women live in a 'fantasy' like state of waiting for a white knight to carry them off.. but the KTV in a KTV girl are 'pussy capitalists'.. free marketeers where everything has a price. That why KTV girls have no such fantasies.
KTV girls also have such fantasies lah just that they r not searching for their white knights at the wrong places. they knw perfectly well what guys who go KTV want from them-ENTERTAINMENT. in short, no white knights at KTV, can only find black knights. guys generally go KTV to have fun but some do fall in love or gotten KC easily by them girls, depending on which head they use to think. Not so much of trying to become the white knight to her but a matter of small head over big head.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by peanut123
Firstly, let me congratulate you on finding a woman you love, and, even more, being able to love her despite her past. It takes a big man to do so, and I'm afraid most guys are not great enough for it. I certainly think I'm not, but who knows ? If one day i fall in love with a hooker, I might eat my words and find my heart is bigger than I thought. Love makes men do strange things.
Just a comment about having a sugar daddy and a normal life. You are right that these are 2 different things. A woman who has a sugar daddy is just a 1-customer hooker. I'm fairly sure ( but cannot be 100% coz there will always be exceptions) that she hopes one day, she finds a man who will look after her so that she no longer needs a sugar daddy, thereby converting her to a normal life.
And you are right that even WLs want love and security. They are afterall, human. It's just that society in general may not be able to accept her past.
thanks for your compliment n blessings, but i don't think i m that great lah, just that i met the "right" women for me and she met the "right" man for her and her daughter. but i need to withstand lots of pressure from my family (of course it has got nothing to do with she was a fl as they don't know about her past) as they hv this misconception that all PRC women who came here are to cheat the men's money (i can't deny that there are such cases), and that she is older than me, divorced n has a daughter (haha it seems like this is the case that she's out to cheat me right? - on the suface of it). so till today my parents still cannot accept her.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by SioGan
99.9% this will be the likely outcome. Very rarely someone back home will marry her if he know her past. Heard too many stories from KTV girls about fiance/BF walked out on them when guys discovered their past, even in China where the only thing seems to matter to those scumbags is MONEY.
it has been a practice that most mainland men do not marry women from other provinces with doubt that might be a WL in the past.
one PRC WL I knew for 8 years (since late 2002) keep calling me to marry her,
unbelievable !!! Since 2002 I almost see her bi-yearly, be it in Singapore or mainland.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by HCKing
KTV girls also have such fantasies lah just that they r not searching for their white knights at the wrong places. they knw perfectly well what guys who go KTV want from them-ENTERTAINMENT. in short, no white knights at KTV, can only find black knights. guys generally go KTV to have fun but some do fall in love or gotten KC easily by them girls, depending on which head they use to think. Not so much of trying to become the white knight to her but a matter of small head over big head.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by sun814
thanks for your compliment n blessings, but i don't think i m that great lah, just that i met the "right" women for me and she met the "right" man for her and her daughter. but i need to withstand lots of pressure from my family (of course it has got nothing to do with she was a fl as they don't know about her past) as they hv this misconception that all PRC women who came here are to cheat the men's money (i can't deny that there are such cases), and that she is older than me, divorced n has a daughter (haha it seems like this is the case that she's out to cheat me right? - on the suface of it). so till today my parents still cannot accept her.
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she is older than me, divorced n has a daughter
it is such that to all her advantage, that's why your parents against it.
may divorce cases in China, end up kids suffer.
a recent girl I see said she did not even see her mother
as parents divorced.
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by Blackhawk down
I come to SBF to read the daily gossip of what’s going on in the industry, whether if it’s recommendations or FR’s, SBF is still a place to have a good read. However just recently (or just too ignorant of the obvious) I’ve been reading a lot of threads of guys falling in love with WL’s. I understand for every guy there’s a women, and to “each his own”, but my question (if someone can help me understand) is why are men falling in love with WL’s and wanting to marry them? Is their lives that pathetic that they need to find love at the Red-light District of Singapore? Do they not understand what the real meaning of a FL is? For Christ sake guys, these women are all “WHORES”!
If you’re one of these guys reading this thread you may need to see a shrink because you are in fact clinically sick. You are sick in the same sense that a schizophrenic or a person suffering from chronic depression or bi-polar disorder is sick. There is a chemical imbalance in your brain, just as there is with schizophrenics and millions, tens of millions of people worldwide, who suffer from chronic depression. But unlike people everywhere with mental illness that now know are principally the result of brain chemistry imbalances rather than problems rooted in twisted childhoods and bad parents, it never occurs to the person (you) madly in love with a HOOKER that you could be sick in the very same way as a mental patients are sick. You seem to ignore the sordid past of your hooker girlfriend or future wife and all of those scores or even hundreds of men that she slept with and sexually done everything imaginable (imagine me ass fucking your whore wife and then shoving my cock in her mouth and forcing her to swallow my load..seriously, imagine that. Better yet, imagine that a hundred times with different guys fucking the living daylights out of her, and her leaving with a smile and a hand full of cash. Imagine the hundreds of different types of cum she has swallowed from all the filthy men out there. Imagine all the times she’s been gangbanged ( we all know your whore wife has at one point in her hooker life). Now imagine YOU making love to her. How good does it feel to be shoving your little ass cock in your dirty ass hooker wife? Time to wake up and smell the coffee you dumb fuck!...ONCE A WHORE ALWAYS A WHORE!)
If you need anyone to talk to please consult with one of your friends, and if you don’t have any friends Im sure you can find one on Craigslist for free.
Everything that TS says above is valid too, if we replace all mention of "Men/guy/husband" <=> "Women/gal/wife", "FL/Whores/Hookers" <=> "Whoremongers" .
Of course, with this portion need to be rephrased to something like : "Better yet, imagine that a hundred times with different gals being fucked the living daylights by him, and him leaving with a smile after handed out the cash. Imagine the hundreds of different types of pussies he has painted from all the filthy bitches out there. Imagine all the times he and other whoremongers gangbanged the same pussy ( we all know your whoremonger husband has at one point in his whoremonging life). Now imagine YOU making love to him. How good does it feel to be shoved in your little pussy by your dirty husband's cock? "
Well, perhaps my argument does not hold, since there is no platform/forum for the general public to discuss this reversed topic. Or because it's generally acceptable that men can turn over a new leaf after having enough pussies (if ever)? Key difference is perhaps that men's whoremongering lifestyle is not in the open like a hooker's life is.
Sure, I can already expect responses coming back like "But she spread her legs just for money..." which we can equally say "He paid for pussies just for lust", OR "but she has a choice to work normally but chose to work as a hooker..." which we can say "He has a choice to fuck only his gf/wife but chose to pay for sex", etc.
This world is not black and white.
Every post above got it's point, but to swear and call others names just because you view the world from one angle is sick in its own way
Question to TS, as a whoremonger yourself, what do you think your wife will think of you given the above?
Oh, don't tell me just because she don't/won't know, it's OK and she's not clinically sick?
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by goodpartner
Everything that TS says above is valid too, if we replace all mention of "Men/guy/husband" <=> "Women/gal/wife", "FL/Whores/Hookers" <=> "Whoremongers" .
Of course, with this portion need to be rephrased to something like : "Better yet, imagine that a hundred times with different gals being fucked the living daylights by him, and him leaving with a smile after handed out the cash. Imagine the hundreds of different types of pussies he has painted from all the filthy bitches out there. Imagine all the times he and other whoremongers gangbanged the same pussy ( we all know your whoremonger husband has at one point in his whoremonging life). Now imagine YOU making love to him. How good does it feel to be shoved in your little pussy by your dirty husband's cock? "
Well, perhaps my argument does not hold, since there is no platform/forum for the general public to discuss this reversed topic. Or because it's generally acceptable that men can turn over a new leaf after having enough pussies (if ever)? Key difference is perhaps that men's whoremongering lifestyle is not in the open like a hooker's life is.
Sure, I can already expect responses coming back like "But she spread her legs just for money..." which we can equally say "He paid for pussies just for lust", OR "but she has a choice to work normally but chose to work as a hooker..." which we can say "He has a choice to fuck only his gf/wife but chose to pay for sex", etc.
This world is not black and white.
Every post above got it's point, but to swear and call others names just because you view the world from one angle is sick in its own way
Question to TS, as a whoremonger yourself, what do you think your wife will think of you given the above?
Oh, don't tell me just because she don't/won't know, it's OK and she's not clinically sick?
BRAVO..!! That's a very good point of view which i supported but do not know how to put it across in words.In this world, there's always 2 sides to a coin,to a story or whatever not,but i always believe that by standing firm to only what you believe in regardless of what may be, you may be shortchanging yourself in the sense whereby are you really getting all the infos to gather an opinion or are you just practising selective listening.
I will always remember that whenever you are pointing a finger to another person, another four will always be pointing your own self..!!
That's how i look at things, so hope i did not offend any people out there who may not agree to what i've said..!!
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by peanut123
After skimming through this thread, but not reading thoroughly, I think I shall summarise it as such :
1. Be careful when falling in love with WLs. Society (and many bros) will laugh at you.
2. WLs are out to make a quick buck.
3. Sometimes, things do work out and you find a soul mate and a partner in a WL. She quits her job and gives you her heart and life.
4. A lot of lohsoh talk about KTV girls. The bottom line is : she's in the commercial line, so money talks. Whether you bao her or short-time her, its still about money. But she eventually wants to oso have a normal life with a loving husband, as in point 3.
5. She can do this by hooking up with some guy during her stint (not as a mistress but as a partner, as in pt 3), or she can go home and hook up with a guy who does not know about her past.
Good Summary. All the philosophical talk & circumnavigation to these points?
An advantage of marrying a FL/WL, your procreation would likely be coupled with excellent sex.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
You know the recent episode of AI on 7pm where Lele gets raped by yang zhengjie and then doesn't want to marry her finance cos she feels that her body has been tainted. In a way there are many men that don't really like their gfs to have been with other men before they married her and yes this are modern times and getting a vrigin as a wife is super rare but in this thread here we're talking about whores. Women that willing sell themselves to get a quick buck.
They must be pretty filthy compared to lele's standards.
Anyway there's always 2 sides to a coin and ppl have always wanted to fight against the opinions of their family and society at large. I guess to each his own.
Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!
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Originally Posted by Shocking_vibes
Anyway there's always 2 sides to a coin and ppl have always wanted to fight against the opinions of their family and society at large. I guess to each his own.
I kinda of agree. Fighting against opinions of their family/society is still tolerable with a good reason. Worst of a kind is some people just can't learn what is Bros before whores. Falling in love with a whore just known recently, refused to take advice from fellow good bros and some to the extent of badmouth and backstab to win "favors" like a "flying knight in shining amour"...
01-11-2010, 07:30 PM
