Addicted to whores

[unfit]

Originally Posted by nuclearkid

If its really a money issue to resolve the addiction, many ways to spend the money for something tangible until nothing left for whoring. That's a small problem. For many, its psychological...

I think keep yourself busy with some other things then you can overcome the whoremongering issue liao...

[Aniuge]

Hi TS,

All things have life span, not to mention our willy. The earlier and the more you started pcc, the earlier the day when ED(Erectile Dysfunction) will fall upon you. Hence, it's better to reserve your money n sperm for a good one.

Here's what I would suggest to you.
1) Find one hobby you like that does not cost money, do it regularly so as to distract yourself from sex.
2) Fortunately, you may be able to rid your addition soon since you'll be going Army soon. The Army life will be stressful enough to wash away your lustful desire.

Hope it'll helpful, my 2-cent worth of opinion.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Northern

You cannot un-learn things you have learnt. ( I am very good at forgetting things however )
You cannot un-know things you know.

One way or another, Petain, GL, SBF will be at the back of your mind.

Well said.

SBF is really an eye/mind opener for a lot of innocents.

He'll cum back with another new nick someday lah.
I'll watch out for any newbie in future suddenly "bear grudges" against me for the slightest reason, plus the way he like to list out his thoughts/steps to do things, then that'll be this guy.

@TS, I'll be waiting...

Originally Posted by goodpartner

19yo goes petain?!
:
I think you're gone case liao, whoring at such a young age...omg.
addiction some more!

Yes, better take the adviceS here and quit it.
Good luck

BTW, this is what triggered you off in the first place: Whoring is for ADULTS, not that I'm against it. Like it or not, to start such indulgent at such a young age is never a good thing. Use ang-po money (as #1 source of funding) to go whoring somemore...

Gen XYZ or not.

[Omega]

In other words, you can leave SBF, but SBF will not leave you.

[Acoustic]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

In my opinion, yes, SG girls are really that bad. Since quitting SG, I dun miss anything, no regrets, no looking back. In fact, I think I enjoyed and gained much more!

So, where are you based now ? I intend to make a lesiure trip abroad but have not made up my mind where. Any info will be good for me as reference.

[unfit]

Originally Posted by Omega

In other words, you can leave SBF, but SBF will not leave you.

Ha Ha...this is a GOOD one brother...cheers...

[myft]

This advice is only for ADULTS
(TS is still very young to absorb this & hence we just need to report to his mummy !)

When we have money and time, we,men think our only purpose in life is to enjoy and get into "UNLIMITED consumption/indulgence" and will end up in pain


We need to apply break when we see following signs (this applies to other addictions like gambling etc.,) :

- I feel visiting prostitutes has become my addiction and it has overtaken my daily work/life balance (eg., I am skipping my daily exercise or work)
- I have fallen in love with a WL/FL
- It has overtaken the purpose in your life


Solution:
1) Think about what triggered this addiction. if you are visiting prostitutes due to a broken/failed r/s or you do not have gf & are desperate, tell yourself it is perfectly normal/OK tobe single. There are great men/women in the history who were singles.
2) re-work on your daily life/activities/things to-do and set goals/target.
3) be determined to focus on your target/goals again and again.
4) Identify/see your weakness and give up everything in order to achieve your goal (this includes giving up your addiction)
5) One day, with this strong personality/attitude, you will have lot of money and you will attract best women in the town.

Then again, in good times, we tend to loose focus in life, may end up in pain again. Then it is time to go thru step 1) to 5) again.

my 2 cents!

[84gunner]

Originally Posted by Acoustic

So, where are you based now ? I intend to make a lesiure trip abroad but have not made up my mind where. Any info will be good for me as reference.

Now I live in 2 countries, the so-called or regarded as "poorer" countries in Asia-Pac. But I live in the villages, something like semi-retirement. Occasionally, I need to go to Europe for business, or "home-visit" with my partner.

[xployd]

i dont see the problem. definitely better than going around date-raping girls and i suppose you'll outgrow the urge after a while.

[Acoustic]

Originally Posted by 84gunner

Now I live in 2 countries, the so-called or regarded as "poorer" countries in Asia-Pac. But I live in the villages, something like semi-retirement.

Envy you Bro. In those so called "poorer" countries in AP, a little can stretch a long ways. Sometimes may not be as convenient, but the leisure selections can be much better and much more.

[dirtbag_26]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

He'll cum back with another new nick someday lah.
I'll watch out for any newbie in future suddenly "bear grudges" against me for the slightest reason, plus the way he like to list out his thoughts/steps to do things, then that'll be this guy.

hahaha found this thread too late ,this damn funny

[Helohelo]

You can try to whore once a day.

[hipgrinder]

I don't want to sound like a wet blanket.
But being an adult, and went through the same struggles between what seemed right, and what is enjoyable, like TS.
I guess many of us will agree that our fleshly desires can be such powerful force, that is beyond us.

I myself have tried 'giving up' 'lust' several times when I was younger, whether is it porn, J/O, HC, GL etc. But the more I 'gave up', the stronger my urge.

In the end, I thought to myself, FUCK IT.
Why fight against my hormones? I was the only one that is miserable.

As I grew older from a teen to an adult, I matured naturally, and am able to control my lust. I can differentiate what is meant to be a 'fantasy' from a real life 'taboo'. I understood that porn is different from reality, and whores and true relationship with gf/wife are completely different matters.

My take is, let nature takes its course.

Still, good luck to TS. I hope he is not jerk-surfing through SBF now using a new nick, trying to get contacts of some AJ whore.

[PIAKTHISGIRL]

Get a sex toy. IT HELPS, REALLY!

[real_rock]

Dear BRooooo< love ur addiction... wishing u all the best and ur dick stays Strong FOREVER !!!!