Sick and Tired of family life

[justdesert]

A family when you start one you may feel bored and unexciting,but when you lose it,you regret for life.My main purpose of life,take good care of my family,be filial to your parents when they are still alive,take care and guide my children to this world and spend the rest of my life with my wife.That is my main motivation in of life direction now.

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by garylarsonian

i suppose most get married to experience marriage and the hopes of being happy with kids, etc. Of course you can stay single, and theres possibility you may stay happy that way too

i agreed with you....marriage is like a gamble whether be it with a whores or local woman.

[Doran Gray]

Brudder,

I gonna be honest with you straight...when your kids are grown up, dun expect to have it easy. And when they are in their teens, they will tell you that their friends are more important than you! Will break your heart!!!

JFK once said, "Ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country".

Hmm.....hmmm.....likewise maybe, "ask not what your family can do for you but what you can do for your family".

And it's better you learn now to be dependent on yourself than on your children when they are grown up.

For other matters, learn to live and let live. A man needs to sacrifice for the family and there will still be many what nots.

In the end, if you got ain't no money or sexually problems and is in the pink of health, your children growing up well and wifey is by your side....isn't life is beautiful ?

Just me two rupiah worth, brudder.


Doran

[Slowz]

Marriage is like having a very good friend that live together and taking care each other, but I am not sure about the kids thing... does it really necessary to have a kid? what for? why?

[looking4Rin]

Originally Posted by ironman73

Dear Bro,

My personal take on your dilemma,

I have been working in overseas for the past 10 years, went through a divorce(my wife fall inlove with someone else), was away when my dad passed away, been call a un-fillial son since, living alone, no real friends (Only superficial and business), eat alone, sleep alone, harsh weather condition, fall sick alone, always fucking different gals (KTV, Whores, Ex-affair)....

When we grew older, we did alot of things not to please oneself but to others..this is what i call responsibilty. Try not to think of what you have been missing out, instead ask yourself what you already have.

Hope this little message can cheer u up..

hope things are better for u now man ..

[Likeucare]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Braddah if you dun like family life and believe there is such a huge opportunity cost then consider the case of the lonely looking uncles in GL eating at hawker stands and shelling out retirement funds for a whore in GL. Braddah lonely uncle then meets hot GL gal who then fleeces him in a love exploitation illusion and the Braddah lonely uncle then loses all his savings and is later begging for food at the hawker stands or searching for table scraps from rubbish bins. Braddah the grass always seems greener on the other side but Braddah its an illusion in GL KTV and the world of FL. Braddah you have good situation in SG society and want to trade places with Braddah lonely uncle. SG society views you as a fool Braddah.

haha good one. i believe at some age in time u will feel all these sexual activities just leads to emptiness. by then too late to do anything le lol. good advice man =)

Originally Posted by dasreich

Be thankful you have a family .. some of us bros are also looking to settle down ..

Yes, single-hood is great, until you see us in the papers for the wrong reasons .. eg . Smell from HDB flat leads to dead man ..

Rofl.nice one