Depressed

[Coffeecans]

Hi Bro,

Looks like you actually had the answer all along (after reading all the replies). You can't and are not willing to put the past into history or even considering to try afresh.

To me I'm very sure she regrets the past but there is none she could do to erase that and if you think that its going to haunt you forever its worse for her, as she was the one who went through it and not yourself. She has given up a lot of things for you and changed for you. Put yourself in her shoes, if you were the woman what would you do? Is this a justification that FL cannot fall in love or be loved?

Sometimes in life, a little rain must fall.

She places a lot of devotion to you that like what some bros said, its very rare nowadays. I think sometimes you just need to think of fairness to her, though to me your answer is very very clear.

Your final decision is more skewed towards the breakup already then go for a clean break already. Though I know it will hurt her more than yourself. She is a lady and all she wanted was your love and affection.

No matter how much we would say to give you and herself a chance, your heart doesn't lie.

Just pouring out my gut feel bro. Hope you don't mind.

[stillgottheblue]

You go around bonking FL yet you cannot forget and move ahead when your partner wanted changed.

If you cannot take the truth, don't go around digging dirt. Even if you could handle it, this doesn't mean that you two will have a smooth sailing future.

Give it up, Time will heal...

I have a 3rd party for 10 years plus. We thought we cannot be apart but due to some circumstances and time apart. The hurt gets lesser and lesser and hurt turns into memories.

[Likeucare]

huh u r depressed? when u are married? now i pity yr poor wife if shes still ard