Is there true love between us and PRC WL

[shawn_mib]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

SQ direct flight to & fro Beijing cost $1,372 for this Feb 2008 month end.
somemore economy class seat

yup i tryied to go after CNY but the cheapest ard still cost $800.... so poor man i am....

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by shawn_mib

yup i tryied to go after CNY but the cheapest ard still cost $800.... so poor man i am....

Don't go now snow storm leh... go in March better. Round trip airticket very expensive but no harm going there to see & tour. Take it as an experience if you can afford it

[colins]

Put it this way, she doesnt need you while she is back home and dun really want to have any evidence of her work in sg. Even if she is unattached or still single, she wont want you into her circle of friends. It is not say she is unfeeling, but her needs in beijing and in sg is very different. Unless say, you are someone who is willing to contribute money to her when she is back home, maybe she can spin a story for your benefit and ask you to continue to support her. But of cos, you're not. You're only someone who supplied TLC in her darker times.

This is not to degrade your feelings towards her or to put you down, bro. This is rational thinking. Yes I think maybe you are also desperate for the truth now, give the feeling a break for a week or two, then start to think from outside the box.

[shawn_mib]

Originally Posted by colins

This is not to degrade your feelings towards her or to put you down, bro. This is rational thinking. Yes I think maybe you are also desperate for the truth now, give the feeling a break for a week or two, then start to think from outside the box.

Yes bro i know what u mean.... well.... i'll just wait for her to come back 1st and see how things goes....

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by shawn_mib

bro colins thanks for your advises,

Should be "Thank you for your ADVICE.".

"Advise" is a verb.

[shawn_mib]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Should be "Thank you for your ADVICE.".

"Advise" is a verb.

Thanks Bro Sammy for the correction.

[colins]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Should be "Thank you for your ADVICE.".

"Advise" is a verb.

hey, you forgotten to add the other one saying 'advice' has no plural, as in 'advises'.

[kiko]

Bro: if u really have relationship with the gal, i hope she treat u well, when u go china look for her. I think she will take good care of u , when u go china.

[dirtyhairy]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Should be "Thank you for your ADVICE.".
"Advise" is a verb.

The BOSS Mr Ah Sammy has again repeated his advice,
as a noun, it's no plural for advice...
alto as a verb, it should be advises...
but then, in Yankee English, the noun is advise...
so advice (Queen's lingo) or advise (Gringo lingo), as a noun, no "s"...
confusing....not really unless one's an ass!!!

[shawn_mib]

still look confusing to me cos my england is half past six....

thanks bro kiko, i do hope that things do work out for us, i reali dun mind marrying her if she is reali true to me and she willing to stay in SG and lead an ordinary life with me.

Who am i reali to her onli heaven knows and i just have to wait and see. Thanks for the concern of all bros here and though every1 have warn me to think twice, but i still feel that if there is a 0.01% chance i should still try.

No 1 have given me such feeling like she did, not even the previous WL that i have visited before. Somehow just feel that she is different, i hope i'm right but no matter what happen, i won't regret it. If i could turn back the clock, i would still falls for her.

[Lubber]

If the outcome is what you really think it is, then most probably she will want you to go over there and stay with her rather than in singapore.

[colins]

Originally Posted by Lubber

If the outcome is what you really think it is, then most probably she will want you to go over there and stay with her rather than in singapore.

I believe this is subjective la, if she wants to be with you, then it will be wherever you are. The only thing is in order to stay in singapore, she must satisfy the ever changing ICA requirements. If you really want to marry her though, it is better to do it in China, sorry to say this but the divorce procedures are much smoother over there. Singapore do recognise the marriage certificate issued in China and you can use it to apply for her long term pass in ICA.

But bro, try not to make it a one-sided affair. So far, she doesnt seem positive leh. Maybe its becos you din mention much about her reaction. but she must have the same commitment (or even more) as you. I mean, dun make it as if you want it then she rejects you and come back with conditions.

Everything will become very sensitive when there is 'cost' involved, as she never talk money with you like you said. But once she do that, do brace yourself. She will require money to settle the family or whatever, whether she likes it or not. And if you really marry her, you need to be financially stable. ICA brought in the assessment on your income as a criteria for her to stay in singapore, there is a definite reason for it. Its for your own good.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by dirtyhairy

but then, in Yankee English, the noun is advise...

That's absolute rubbish.

"Advice" is a noun and "advise" is a verb in ALL English variations American English included.

From the Merriam Webster dictionary of AMERICAN ENGLISH :

advice - Definition from the Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary

advice

Main Entry:
ad·vice Listen to the pronunciation of advice
Pronunciation:
\əd-ˈvīs\
Function:
noun

*****************


advise - Definition from the Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary

advise

Main Entry:
ad·vise Listen to the pronunciation of advise
Pronunciation:
\əd-ˈvīz\
Function:
verb

[kiko]

Bro Shawn:

If the china gal say, if u really love me, come and live with me and my parents, will u go over ?

[GTOKING]

The professional Con Artist will move on target by target