sex with fat/overweight/plump girls

[cold_BB]

Thank for the encouragement but damage had been done. I hope I'll heal, but I foresee not so soon. I shld juz continue working n working.. Fill my life with more work n frens. I deleted my skout acct, start it bcoz I was bored n lonely. Guess I shall return to my reality whereby I'm often unnoticed. Haha.. Guess its still better than getting hurt.
I'm burying myself in sorrow I know. I'll stand up soon.. I will. Juz without a heart.
I'm sitting alone in a cafe listening to the noise pollution.. Controlling my tears.. Only for Tdy.

[xavier69]

Sis cold_BB don't be dishearten.
Perhaps you can join some activity group and you might get to know that special one from there.
Personally I have known some BBW and their character are very nice to be with as they are cheerful, likes to laugh, and outspoken.
Not all guys are attracted by looks only as looks do not last eventually.
I am sure there will be someone who appreciates you for what you are.
Gambatee.

[cold_BB]

Originally Posted by xavier69

Sis cold_BB don't be dishearten.
Perhaps you can join some activity group and you might get to know that special one from there.
Personally I have known some BBW and their character are very nice to be with as they are cheerful, likes to laugh, and outspoken.
Not all guys are attracted by looks only as looks do not last eventually.
I am sure there will be someone who appreciates you for what you are.
Gambatee.

Activities like Wat? Anyone here can suggest? I'm 29 not sporty.. No hobby or interest also.. Haizzz

[EatPrayLove]

Originally Posted by cold_BB

Activities like Wat? Anyone here can suggest? I'm 29 not sporty.. No hobby or interest also.. Haizzz

Sis,

there is many many ways.
Like maybe you like cooking? can go CC take part in some cooking lesson?
you sure there is no hobby and interest? I believe there should be ba?

If you don't mind, next time when I do organise any drinking session you join us? we are basically a bunch of fun-loving people from all walks of life with one purpose in mind that is to drink, drink and make more friends. Check out your PM, ya?


Be strong and confident.


Cheers,
EPL

[dantes inferno]

sis Cold BB, don't be sad =/

there are other people out there. and if the 3 guys you met weren't very nice, think of where you got to meet them. skout and sammyboy aren't exactly good places to meet people who are not just interested in sex, sadly.

that said, if all you want from here is sex i'm sure you'll find it. if it's anything more than that though, you're better off looking in person and not online.

Stay strong!

[cold_BB]

Originally Posted by dantes inferno

sis Cold BB, don't be sad =/

there are other people out there. and if the 3 guys you met weren't very nice, think of where you got to meet them. skout and sammyboy aren't exactly good places to meet people who are not just interested in sex, sadly.

that said, if all you want from here is sex i'm sure you'll find it. if it's anything more than that though, you're better off looking in person and not online.

Stay strong!

Totally agreed. I know shld stop. But my circle of guys is miserable. Haizzz

[kosheen]

I guess from those experience you should have learnt that most guys in such apps are only looking for sex. Don't be naive to think that you can find true love this way.

Never believe in what the guys says. All the nice things said are all bullshit. Sad to say but I'm also guilty as charge lurking in those apps with sex in my mind.

You need to get out more and meet more people, whether from school, work or any activities you may be involved.

Just my 0.02 worth.

[royalblood]

https://fbcdn-sphotos-f-a.akamaihd.n...31890281_n.jpg

take some time to read the stuff from the above pic in the link.

if you're okay with your own appearance, then don't give a shit of what people think. there are so many billions of people in this world. there will definitely will be some people who will like you for who you are.

if you're not okay with your own appearance, do something. aesthetic surgery, exercise, self improvement, upgrade yourself, etc.

[cold_BB]

I know.. I often reminded myself I'm not looking for love or Wat. Sometime it's juz the correct person appear when I most needed a hug. I been strong but there's time I need to breakdown. N sometime I juz wanted a accompany. A hug or a kiss. I'm tired..

But I duno y I can't stop crying.. I duno what I'm crying for.. I shld b glad right? At least he did left after he fuck me. Or make me pregnant... But I can't stop my tears... I duno y..
Am I crying becoz of rejection or I'm crying becoz I wan to go on with him? I duno..

[royalblood]

Originally Posted by cold_BB

I know.. I often reminded myself I'm not looking for love or Wat. Sometime it's juz the correct person appear when I most needed a hug. I been strong but there's time I need to breakdown. N sometime I juz wanted a accompany. A hug or a kiss. I'm tired..

But I duno y I can't stop crying.. I duno what I'm crying for.. I shld b glad right? At least he did left after he fuck me. Or make me pregnant... But I can't stop my tears... I duno y..
Am I crying becoz of rejection or I'm crying becoz I wan to go on with him? I duno..

take some time off your surroundings and spend time with yourself. think about what you want in your life. if you want to cry, cry once and for all. if you need people to talk to, sbf chatroom is viable. those dating apps are where horny men like me attempt to look for fwb. you should know what you're going into when you meet guys from apps like that.

[PPGirl]

Originally Posted by cold_BB

Totally agreed. I know shld stop. But my circle of guys is miserable. Haizzz

Originally Posted by cold_BB

Activities like Wat? Anyone here can suggest? I'm 29 not sporty.. No hobby or interest also.. Haizzz

how about your own group of frds? go out with your frds more. Time will heal.

Girl.. u are young.. there are still many things u can do or fulfill. Any dreams or anything u want to do or yet to do?

how about join SDS outing? some have pretty gd activities like movies, Clubbing, varieties of hobbies outing u can choose from.

[gizbabe]

Originally Posted by cold_BB

Just wanted to share something here..
Hasn't been slping the whole night coz I was crying. Regardless of all the post here that say how much they like BBW or fat gers, I think it's totally irrelevant on me.

Over the past 3mths, I met 3 guys. 2 from skout and 1 from here.
It's been a v long time since I met ppl from online. Was wary of it.
This yr, due to stress n loneliness I wanted Accompany, decided to b more open minded and meet some guys I chatted with and they had made me feel comfortable with them

No.1 was married but he nice to chat with. Assure me he totally ok with BBW. He used had fling with BBW. When we met, we chatted quite long. N we did got a bit intimate, but no sex. I sensed he does not wan me. The Nxt day he chatted with me, he chatted online with me and kept calling me 'my fren'. Frm 'dear' to 'my fren'.. Haha guess I know. I'm not his type. Too fat. Too ugly? So I stopped contacting him.

No.2 was frm skout. Chatted v long online with him. But he seem super bz. Always no time. Finally got time to meet and I'm ready to meet, he stood me up. Ok.. Nvm.. I gave another try. I continue contacting him, and sending pic of myself. Finally got a chance to meet. He drove to my hse, I got up the car. Before we can talk... He said got call. Then blah blah... He said he need to go hm n take conference call. (Ok, I not sure Abt this... I'm a doubtful person.. This seem too staged for me.) but still I told him its ok. He can go hm.. He said sorry but Bo bian. Then he drove me to MSCP n let me touch him. But didn't go further.. After that day, he didn't say to meet. I asked he also said bz. I know I know.. He's not interested. But I told him if he's not interested tell me. I don't like to drag n i don't wan him to b nice esp it's not helping me. But he said no.. Juz that he's bz. So after puttin in effort for wks, I gave up. No longer initiate msg.. He also no action. Things juz went cold. Sadzzzz

The last one.. Most hurting..
I not trying to b a sore loser here. Juz really v heart broken and I got no one to say this out to. Juz tot of putting it dwn here.
2 days ago... A guy msg me on skout. Blah blah.. Same thing.. He like BBW. He said all his ex r big sized. He's a divorce with 2 kids. I don't care.. Open minded Abt it. He wan to woo me. I told him I never had a bf... Never been woo before. In fact I'm been hurt before in the past. He said he wan me as gf. I told him I take a while to trust. Summarize everything, he did everything a guy wan to woo a ger. Absolute attention, msg n text.. Even waiting for my call till 1am coz I said I wan to chat on phone before I meet. Spent 2 hrs with me on phone. So... For the first time I open my heart to trust... Meet him last night. V attentive to all my details.
At night, he drove me to barrage. We sit there for 1+ hrs. Kissed and talked. He held my hand n walk ard. Seriously I'm touched. First time I had guy willing to spend time with me like this. Then he told me he wan me as gf/accompany/sex. I told him I don't wan start off with him like my fling. Juz sex first.. So he was ok. But I let him touch me everywhere.
He then drove me to another MSCP n we hanky panky in the car. He was horny.. Wanted sex. Unprotected sex. To me... It's a big NO! I never had sex without condom. But I blow him n he lick me... I cum and he was hard.. Till he almost went on top of me and went in. Lucky I stopped him. Seduce him with bj. Manage to make him cum... Then he was v tired and he looked v happy. Really... I was sleepyzz .. So he drove me home. Drop me off by Blk but never send me up.
When i reached hm, I showered then I whatsapp him. I realize he blocked me.( for those u expert u shld know when ppl blocked u.. U know) then I called him... Rang once and cut off. I sent SMS to ask if he's hm safely. No reply. So I know. The bad feelings came back again... Once again.. I keep SMS him for a clean clear cut or explanation. No reply. I juz need him to tell me. Game over. But he won't even give me that. I cried.. I duno what I did to get this. Before I left, he still told me 'ill see u soon' I didn't slp the whole night. I'm really sad n down. V affected by this. After 3 yrs, I opened my heart and I was brought to heaven n dump to hell. I duno in the future I can still love or b with another guy. Frankly.. I have fear... I can't trust any guy anymore. I will enclose in my shell again.
For someone that promise to tell me if I'm not suitable, choose to block me out like this. It hurts.. Really...
Most of u might find me stupid.. I find myself stupid too.. But I juz want to for once learn to believe n trust. I tripped n fell. N injured myself badly. Haizzz
I'm only glad... I didn't had sex with him. Might b the trigger but I'm still glad. Otherwise I duno if I still can b writing this.
Guys... Don't hurt a ger juz for sex. Don't do what the guys had did to me to any other gers... Pls... Our heart may not be as strong as our outlook.

Hey girl,

Sounds like you had a string of bad experiences! My heart goes to you.... Hang in there!

Remember, you don't need any man to complete yourself or to be happy... Once you are totally happy and contented being yourself, love will naturally follows...

There are more important thing in life than getting a man.

Big Hug to you!

[cold_BB]

thank you gers~ *hugzzz

i glad to see so many supportive girls here.. thank u! appreciate this very much...

[ac171]

Originally Posted by cold_BB

Activities like Wat? Anyone here can suggest? I'm 29 not sporty.. No hobby or interest also.. Haizzz

I used to hate sports because I am not sporty also. Until I was being mocked by a guy I liked that I was fat in public I pick up the courage from the support of my friends to exercise and gradually began to like it. It all started from slow walks with my friend in the parks to brisk walking then jogging. Nowadays I don't even like jogging anymore because I realised that I love boxing. Not only vents out my anger or any unhappiness I encountered but also helps me to keep fit and maintain my weight.

Otherwise there can be a lot of other activities like singing, watching movies or even food hunting eg. visiting places with good food if you're a food lover.

If not, like sister EPL said you can join in their drinking sessions. She sometimes will organise supper sessions too even though I haven't got the chance to join them yet

[ttenneb]

wats bbw?

anyways.. try be optimistic.. dun let the 3 guys put u down.. many bbetter ones out there. Hanging out with frens for a start first.. get to know them better. You will be fine alright.. dun worry.