How I got cheated by KTV girl

[Cum_Luver]

bro Smeagol,

long time no see....how are you ?
agree with u, better to buy a unit and rent to people.

[Smeagol]

After reading so much, thought I just add some of my 2cents

Finding TRUE Love in KTV
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Chances are low. These girl came here to find money. If u are looking for real love, I think you stand better chance with SDU/SDS/match making company/Meetic/Lunch Actually or even City hall MRT station etc. So many bros have put it clearly and simply, avoid the KC trap. Have your share of fun and dun think too much about it.

PRC and we local bro were born and raised in somewhat different environment lah. So in terms of culture, values, morals, communications etc I believe there will always be gaps. Abeit that I personally find PRC better in bed!!! ha ha

Spend within your means
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If you have to bargain how much to bao or buy gifts for them, it means you cannot afford it.

If you have to incur credit card or any form of loans/debts to please your mms, it means you cannot afford it.

I am fortunate that I don't have loans and I am not baoing any mms. Oh talking about loans, it's also prudent not to lend money to fellow bros when you know they cannot afford it.

Everytime mm ask me how much I earn, I just reply them honesty. Within 30sec, I get marriage proposal leow. My reply to them, I already have a girl friend (not exactly true though) so no way I'll marry them. But if still want to have fun, we still can go out have dinner, party, drinks a bonk or two. This way, they know jolly well they are not to call me on my phone and also don't question me why I never call them again.

Cheating or to be Cheated??
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If you are expecting that mm will truely love you faithfully, then high chance you will be cheated.

If you think the girl you bao will reserve herself exclusively for you, then again high chance you will be cheated. Baoing mm is an expensive activity. It's NO one time NRE (non recurring expense). Make a trip to Dynasty classic any nights, go sit infront of the main hall and see how the towkays slurge on the singers. If you think you can measure up to their spending power, then perhaps you can play this game.

For me, she can go out or sleep with other guys. But between she and me, it's collateral. I enjoy her company, she gets some money and gifts from me. This way, no one need to cheat anybody... it just business/collateral.

Lastly for those scheming low lifes who want to cheat the girls' money!! Tsk tsk, you have lower yourselves to be worst than these WLs. It's unspeakable and you will have bad karma plus retribution.

All said, I'm just generalizing lah. In life, there's always exceptions. I have seen a TAM Shanghainese mm (supposedly the most arrogant and materialistic chinese race) fell in love and married one of the waiter boy. Just a young kid with a meagre pay. She even have a child with him.

I've also seen Dynasty Classice PRC singer marry a taxi drive and have 2 kids with him.

[Smeagol]

Originally Posted by Cum_Luver

bro Smeagol,

long time no see....how are you ?
agree with u, better to buy a unit and rent to people.

OK lah.... in between jobs though

[banana]

Originally Posted by Smeagol

Finding TRUE Love in KTV
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Spend within your means
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Cheating or to be Cheated??
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this is a good summary. good thoughts. good guidelines.

[Heart Break Kid]

Taxi driver & waiter are so fortunate to find true love in posh niteclub. Mi think that you guys with much better occupation than them should put in on effort in your KTV gf. If you do not have feeling with your wife then divorce is good ending solution.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Love is everyone,it's just a matter of when and where and the fat to meet that special someone and in such places are the ones which u least expect to find true love.It's like one in a million.Gd luck in finding your true love everyone!

[Uncle]

Hey,Smeagol, thanks for your 2 cent worth. Good advice. Sensible too but as the chinese saying goes 'hero have difficulties passing the beauty trap'. hahahah....chin up guys and use ur brain!

[tittyhawk]

Bro smeagol - well summaried write-up and a wake call for some, obviously u r writing based on ur experiences n observations.....well done!!

My view - pay n forget - u get wat u wan n u pay for it.. End of story.

[nbzz]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Taxi driver & waiter are so fortunate to find true love in posh niteclub. Mi think that you guys with much better occupation than them should put in on effort in your KTV gf. If you do not have feeling with your wife then divorce is good ending solution.

Never ditched your local wife for a PRC unless your marriage is absolutely donw the dumps.

[Smeagol]

Originally Posted by Uncle

'hero have difficulties passing the beauty trap"

Lucky I am NO HERO.

Originally Posted by tittyhawk

u r writing based on ur experiences n observations

That's how we live the rest of our lives don't we?? Drawn lessons from ours and others experiences

Originally Posted by nbzz

Never ditched your local wife for a PRC unless your marriage is absolutely donw the dumps.

Whether u fell in love with anther girl or you have a problem with you wife, I feel they are 2 seperate issues that must be dealt with independently

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by nbzz

Never ditched your local wife for a PRC unless your marriage is absolutely donw the dumps.

Fully Agree

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Fully Agree

I think BOSS also mention tis in one of the thread.....

[cavemao]

hmmmm kc this kind of thing for some reasons the prc girls are really good at it but i agree spend within means no money say money if she really don't mind then steady if she give those face then tell yourself game over......actually discussed this with few bros here before its still possible to get part time gf who still work at ktv lor just see how you arrange nia and must accept the fact she don't belong to you and need to earn money also..........

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Smeagol

Everytime mm ask me how much I earn, I just reply them honesty. Within 30sec, I get marriage proposal leow..

So how much do we need to earn to get a 30 sec marriage proposal ah? Got real examples that you use?

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

Can bring me along or not ? I oso itching to buy mobile for gals and get 4-5 free bonks .

OP's KC MATHS
HP = $400
Bonks = $100/shots
To Balance Out = 4 Bonks
Bonus = Xtra GF Feel and longer hours
(instead of standard 1 hour per shot)

for some reason been lingering on this thread today cos started casual fling with a ktv ger so came here to wake up my own ideas lol...... thing is this ger abit wierd if out to cheat my money why haven't ask me for money yet... i mean she sit with me now never ask me for xiao fei liao and i haven't exactly shell out alot of money (yet!)....... is she reeling me in slowly???

nice cost per bonk computation you got there bro OP