Do you still wanna bonk your wife?

[mseveninch]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Bro, how you manage to get it on every single day for the past 25 years? My God, that works out to a total of over 9,125 times assuming that you do it only once a day!!!!

For me, twice a week is comfortable. Anything more than that gets a bit strenueous.

You popping the Blue Pill bro?

No pill yet. Thanks OC for the tonics she brew during all these year....

[my23]

perhaps it's bcoz aft kids were born, wife looks more motherly, which makes them less appealing/tempting?

well, in chinese, there is this saying which i believe it applies to almost every man....

妻不如妾
妾不如偷
偷不如偷不到

this is wat u called, 犯贱!!

ps: can some bros help to translate here? i simply cant get it right....

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by my23

妻不如妾
妾不如偷
偷不如偷不到

A wife is not as good as a concubine.
A concubine is not as good as an affair (literally "steal").
An affair is not as a good as one whom you cannot have (literally "cannot steal").

It is a sad man's life indeed.

[cumfast]

after reading two pages of this thread... TS tyla you are asking for alot of trouble tsk tsk *shakes head* openly telling us men you are not getting enough...

i honestly don't think men can not have sex for a long time unless he is really under alot of stress (therefore you need to be understanding) or he is eating outside like other ppl here...

i am just wondering... are you making this thread to understand your hubby better...?

[terrible ted]

Have you grown fatter?

[samyboys]

sometimes she play hard to 'bonk'

[Ace_venture]

Warm Greetings Sis Tyla_Baby,

Well,i read thru every post created in this thread you created and i must say,i could understand your frustration and lost.

Guess there is nothing much one say,since many bro's have provided some gd advice and stuff.

Would just like to wish you the best and hope things work out well for you and your hubby at the end of the day.

~Cheers~


Ace

[wat_name_2_use]

Originally Posted by jugesam

Dear TS,

many of us still wanna bonk our wives, or at least i do, the problem is that she do not want to be bonk !!!! Thats the same excuses i get all the time, like some bro said here. i have given up asking or fighting liao. if i make the first move and get a negative response, i will just turn around and sleep. this attitude is bcos heart cold liao. dun want to waste anymore time talking abt it. anyway talk already also no use. Actually many articles say that woman need a lot of stimulation, and man do not. the fact is that man also like to have the same stimulation and attention, we are humans too!! so dun expect to play the little innocent gal and wait to be seduce!

but not bonking her is diff from not loving her. and loving her doesnt mean i will care more about her. confusing leh, bottom line is that although still love her, the feeling is already not like b4. now is more like the attitude of "whatever lah". nothing else matters anymore.

I think u start this thread cos u think that guys stop bonking their wives after some time. actually its not, from the stories here, most of the time is the wife who doesnt want. your hb maybe pre-occupied with work and watever else, but man are human too, just show your loving touch and concern just like u would like him to do for you. dun lose confidence in yourself, treat him well and you will be reciprocated. but dun do blindly lah, so as to protect yourself also.

hope you get out of your situation soon. while i just continue to ta pau as and when necessary.

My heart had spoken...thanks alot bro.

[TyLa_BaBy]

Originally Posted by mseveninch

Married for the past 25 yrs. Not a single day go without it.

I still eat out whenever - oversea trip...........

Wah, see lah! Wife give everyday but still eat outside. But you damn virile ok?!

slider_72:
For me, I rather my man go for services instead of having affair. Cos affair may be romantic, meaning he might divorce with me to be with that woman.
But I'm sure you know most women rather their man not eat outside AT ALL. If you eat outside means you don't love them, and/or don't find them attractive. Big dent to their self-esteem leh.


old_yet_horny:
Your case is what I meant when I said "dying natural death". So far what I know is that a lot of marriages are like that after some years. Even my own parents were like that, leading to my dad having affair and my parents got divorced. (Poor me as a kid. Lost my father.)


my23 / chenzong:
Ya lah, why you men so cheap one!! The one you cannot is always the best huh?? "The one that got away" syndrome.


cumfast:
You'd be surprised! All the men here have been VERY civil about my situation, offering concrete suggestions and giving me encouragement to try harder. (THANKS GUYS!)
So far have not received any lewd PMs, I think cos mother-of-2 don't sound very appealing. Hahahaha. Most lame PM i got since I started this thread was "Hey sis can you upz my points so I can lose my moderation status". And that guy didn't even post in this thread lah!

Yes, I started this thread in a bid to understand men (and my hubby) better. To suss out the general state of men's sexuality. And I must say I am surprised that alot of men here still want to bonk their wives, its only that their wives are not keen on sex anymore. Really was an eye-opener cos men are always thought to be bastards, but apparently it is not true at all.

[TyLa_BaBy]

terrible ted:
No leh. Not only have I not grown fatter, I actually got slimmer. I was a size 12 when I met/married my husband. After having 1st kid, I went up to size 16, when he was 1 yr old then I went down to size 14.
But now my 2nd kid is 6 mths old, I am already size 10, even slimmer than when I first met him.
Taking care of 2 kids + housework is tough!


Ace_venture:
Thank you!! *adds another man into my SBF list of nice guys*

[monkeymoose]

i wish you luck and hope you find happiness (and satisfaction ) in whatever course of action you take.
being in a marriage is not easy even when things between husband and wife are good.
i hope you manage to find the correct path for yourself.

PS: if you really feel horny and REALLY want it from your hubby, how about slipping some vitamin V in his drink and send the kids to your parents' place over the weekend?
do let us know the details when that course of action has been taken. kekeke

[TyLa_BaBy]

Originally Posted by monkeymoose

PS: if you really feel horny and REALLY want it from your hubby, how about slipping some vitamin V in his drink and send the kids to your parents' place over the weekend?
do let us know the details when that course of action has been taken. kekeke

Thank you for your well-wishes and encouragement.

Can't drop off the kids at any of the grandparents. My in-laws run family business everyday, so cannot help take care.
My mother passed away years ago, and my father not good with children. *sigh*

What is Vitamin V?? Viagra arh??

[hardcoremayhem]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

So far have not received any lewd PMs, I think cos mother-of-2 don't sound very appealing. Hahahaha.

No. in fact, that may appeal to more guys than you can possibly imagine...
hence the prolific term, "MILF"

[monkeymoose]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

Can't drop off the kids at any of the grandparents. My in-laws run family business everyday, so cannot help take care.
My mother passed away years ago, and my father not good with children. *sigh*

What is Vitamin V?? Viagra arh??

sorry to hear about that. perhaps, some other relative then? just to have to explain to them that the hubby and you need some "alone time" to spend with each other.

and no V for Vitagen... Viagra la

[optiplex]

Yes. I still want to bonk her.. Coz she is still hot.