GF asks for breakup. What should I do? [Chase her back or turn her to FkBuddy?]

[DotaEr]

Originally Posted by pikapikapikachu

But what has it going to do with you now? This is the question that you have to ask yourself. She is no longer yours, so what she told you that she do not want to have any relationship anymore? Wake up and get a life of your own!!

You have seriously throw the face of all guys in the world. Stalking your ex girl to see what she is doing is not what a man should do. Anyway, are you sure that you are 26 this year? From all your replys and actions, you really do not seems to be 26, I guess you are more like 14 or 15.
I totally agree with what all the brothers have say here, stop thinking about her and concentrate on your studies, why because of 1 girl and give up the whole forest?

Stop acting like a whimp please!!!

my dear,

sorry if i had offended you. but every person is different. emotions are hard to control.. even though i am a guy.

you know why i feel so hurt? its because i love her so much.. and she

1. broke up with me so sudden
2. didnt want to work things out
3. get a new bf within 5 days

makes me wonder if this new guy came along and she had a change of heart and cheated behind my back when we were together.

And also.. even though before her i have 2 previous gf, i have never encounter such things before.

thats why i am so emotionally affected, sis.

[pikapikapikachu]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

she could have dumped me to get with him right? and they might have already had feelings for each other when i was with her. if not why she was able to get a new bf so fast? thats just within 5 days

should i ask her about this?

Like what I have said earlier in the replies, I will not be surprise that she can get a new boy so fast since you say that she got no feelings for you since long time. She wanted to say break, but she held it. So what is the big deal?
If you want to ask her, I will not stop you. But please do not come back and whine

[DotaEr]

yah now that i recall.. at first i wanted to meet her .. but she turned me down.. then after that she said

" you want to meet right? tonight 7pm at my block if not i wont have the time already"

looks like her "no time" was referring to the guy.

[DotaEr]

Originally Posted by pikapikapikachu

Like what I have said earlier in the replies, I will not be surprise that she can get a new boy so fast since you say that she got no feelings for you since long time. She wanted to say break, but she held it. So what is the big deal?
If you want to ask her, I will not stop you. But please do not come back and whine

sis,

i understand what you mean. so what do you suggest i do? now that i know she has another bf, i dont even know if i should continue to keep in contact with her.

initially i thought of meeting her at the end of the month to catchup etc.. now i dont know man.

what do you suggest i do?

[sadsky18]

Sis pika ,

You shouldnt even entertain this small kid .
The more you reply him , the more childish action or reply he will post .
See liao vomit blood

[kensheeh89]

Originally Posted by sadsky18

Sis pika ,

You shouldnt even entertain this small kid .
The more you reply him , the more childish action or reply he will post .
See liao vomit blood

LOL hahahahahahaha honestly i alrdy feel like just punchin him... but oh well wats the point of punchin him and dirtyin my hands hiaz saddened by such shit... hiaz although i did miss my previous ex when i broke up wif her... i did not even bother checkin her FB or anythin to see whether she has a new bf... i saw her wif him direct str at my fren's place... LOL but oh well the past is the past.... atleast nw i noe i love my current gf alot

[pikapikapikachu]

Originally Posted by sadsky18

Sis pika ,

You shouldnt even entertain this small kid .
The more you reply him , the more childish action or reply he will post .
See liao vomit blood

Hehe. Thought I can insert some sense into him, but how I know his mentality so low. Really waste my time and energy. He really do not feel like 26.

[kensheeh89]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

sis,

i understand what you mean. so what do you suggest i do? now that i know she has another bf, i dont even know if i should continue to keep in contact with her.

initially i thought of meeting her at the end of the month to catchup etc.. now i dont know man.

what do you suggest i do?

dude have ur own thinkin man... u gotta do wat u gotta do... get it??? And one thing... y in the blue hell did u call pikapikapikachu ur dear??? are u tryin to flirt wif her???

[pikapikapikachu]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

sis,

i understand what you mean. so what do you suggest i do? now that i know she has another bf, i dont even know if i should continue to keep in contact with her.

initially i thought of meeting her at the end of the month to catchup etc.. now i dont know man.

what do you suggest i do?

Why do you need my suggestion when all the bros here have told you what you should not do? You do not listen to any of our advice, why do you think we need to provide you when you are just wasting all of our time?
For what meet her? To double check if she still have feelings for you? Save your breath and save your time. Even if you ask her out, you think she will agree to meet you?

Think before you act. Do not use your dick brain to think, it is time to make good use of your human brain

[siaoheeha]

Hi TS,
I understand how u feel.
But then what is gone is gone.since she has a new bf already,u should just wish her all the best and move on.there is no pt, really no pt of u asking her out or stay in contact anymore. Since u have now know her true color, wat the point of continue even to be fren of her?

[DotaEr]

I am tired of it. I am going to move on. I had enough of it. I should start to treat myself better, eat better, study better, live better and get on with life.

Having find out the truth, I deserve a better girl.

There are so many girls out there, like fishes in the ocean. I am sure I will be able to catch a good one, one day.

Not going to be bothered about her. Just going to leave things as it stands. If she wants, she can still contact me. Otherwise, I cant be bothered anymore.

[kensheeh89]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

I am tired of it. I am going to move on. I had enough of it. I should start to treat myself better, eat better, study better, live better and get on with life.

Having find out the truth, I deserve a better girl.

There are so many girls out there, like fishes in the ocean. I am sure I will be able to catch a good one, one day.

Not going to be bothered about her. Just going to leave things as it stands. If she wants, she can still contact me. Otherwise, I cant be bothered anymore.

dude... dun just say it... DO IT... action speaks louder den words.... u took long enuf for a 26 yr old guy... and I think from ur actions and hw u handle ur ex gf case... I think she found out the truth abt ur behavior and actions and i think she nvr regretted breakin up wif u....

[drekman]

kensheesh89, u are a fucking bangali shit.

[DotaEr]

Originally Posted by kensheeh89

dude... dun just say it... DO IT... action speaks louder den words.... u took long enuf for a 26 yr old guy... and I think from ur actions and hw u handle ur ex gf case... I think she found out the truth abt ur behavior and actions and i think she nvr regretted breakin up wif u....

already doing it. i smashed the album she made for me. and useless stuff like couple rings.. i going to give it to my parents and ask them to put them away. i never want to see them again.

useful items like belts and cologne, i am going to give it to my friends.

i am just going to try to move on. actually not try.. its must. with time, it will get better.

[escaflower]

Ts, I hope this is not Ur first relationship... the way how I see u react to the entire situation, it seem like u just not 服气 why she left u for good.. when I see u mention thrashing albums, giving away the items to the frens, this show how shallow u r..

I think u should accept the fact and move on.. don't tell me u got problem in getting next gf dwn the road..