Can any bros here provide tips to stop cheonging?

[Andyly]

I stopped cheonging for 8 months and still counting. Very hard, but I am trying to put my family and career first and foremost now. WIth that, don't really have time to cheong. GOod luck!

[vinnieboy]

when it comes, it will stop.

You can have all the best advices here.

Only you yourself have to trigger them.

So all is about timing. You set the time.

[songbo88]

It depend what is your priorities in life? If it your family, then you will stop.

[vinnieboy]

some or most of the people who 'cheong' (a lot) have their priorities already set for families, however they are (still) unable to control the urge thing and hence...

so setting priority still cannot defeat the urge thing which always created by our thoughts which lead to speech & action and after a repeated cycle of such actions, it became a habit and all these will determine your character and destiny*.

The urge thing can only be defeated by ownself only he or she, only us, only you.

One will be awaken if & only if some incidents occurred like near death, serious illnesses, upon death of a close friend or family member, job loss, mid-life crisis, or even 20 to 30 years after a successful career & cheonging or your life going in circles! etc.

These are the only wake up calls which will trigger these cheongsters to go into deep thoughts and stir their minds!


*
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

[oreochcolate]

Stop visiting sammyboy.com

[sentsggirls]

when you have no money , you will stop chiong.
keep your money somewhere in a bank account and save up more.

[Flinger2]

Whats wrong with Cheonging?

I don't get it ? Anyone can explain to me? thank you.

[3someking]

Originally Posted by Flinger2

Whats wrong with Cheonging?

I don't get it ? Anyone can explain to me? thank you.

It gives u temporary happiness and leaves a permanent damage to your wallet

[Flinger2]

A lot of what we experience in this world is temporary but if they are good experience, they become good memories of times you enjoyed.

Permanent damage is only for those who don't have control over their cheonging and go overboard. This is the same for any other type of addiction you have.

But manage your cheonging well with a allocated budget.... then shouldn't cheonging be one of the activities that make you life more fun and it adds to one of the diverse activities that makes your live more livable. =)

Originally Posted by 3someking

It gives u temporary happiness and leaves a permanent damage to your wallet

[PATAGAS]

Originally Posted by oreochcolate

Stop visiting sammyboy.com

haha that's the best thoughts

[3someking]

Originally Posted by vinnieboy

some or most of the people who 'cheong' (a lot) have their priorities already set for families, however they are (still) unable to control the urge thing and hence...

so setting priority still cannot defeat the urge thing which always created by our thoughts which lead to speech & action and after a repeated cycle of such actions, it became a habit and all these will determine your character and destiny*.

The urge thing can only be defeated by ownself only he or she, only us, only you.

One will be awaken if & only if some incidents occurred like near death, serious illnesses, upon death of a close friend or family member, job loss, mid-life crisis, or even 20 to 30 years after a successful career & cheonging or your life going in circles! etc.

These are the only wake up calls which will trigger these cheongsters to go into deep thoughts and stir their minds!


*
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character.
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.

This is gd. Thanks.

[pleasurehobby]

If you are well to do, and there is no financial worries in your life, why stop?

If chionging is one of the pleasures in your life, why keep yourself from this pleasure?

Life is short, enjoy while you can.

Happiness is something nothing can buy. If it keeps you happy, do it.

More often that not, when we look back sometimes later, all experiences are only a journey is this life.

[porscheclub]

Quitted cheonging for many years. Wasted 6 figures in those years but it's not just the money but your health. We finish at 2/3am, bring the gals for supper then check into hotel room, pump them then wake up at 9, rush to work again. Thank goodness never got caught in road blocks but sometimes we grab cabs or have a driver.

When you think back it's so stupid, all the partying with kakis, mama sans, Dabao gals, hanging flowers, getting drunk & throwing out. All the money squandered away can do a lot of good for people who needs them. $1000 a night for us can help some families here to get by for a month. It's so much better to get genuine smiles from people with gratitude than those with attitude.

[Metzloff]

I agree with Flinger 2. Cheonging in moderation and within your means isn't too bad. When I'm drooling and in the wheelchair, I'd like to be able to reminisce about all the SYTs I've met. Don't think I'd get as much pleasure thinking about meetings, clients, mortgages, bank accounts and such.

[4getful]

U dun cheong, u get gf also consider cheong mah. One is use $ to cheong, one is use kum cheng to cheong, which one more worst. The pros u dun cheong alr, they still got customers, the gf u dump alr, pump until rot, who still want her. The best way, get a virgin wife, let her keep all the $, n bingo u got no$ no honey, n guai guai go home do with wife, be a family man:-)