How I got cheated by KTV girl

[sidekick]

Those who look for long term committment in ktvs should know that they are walking in a minefield. You can easily lose an arm or a leg.

For those who just want a good time, I think the best approach is to dehumanise the ktv girls. By this I don't mean mistreating or ill treating them but treat them like life rubber dolls. Don't try to get into their head & know their background, don't talk about their hopes & plans. If you do, they become a part of your emotional lanscape & when your guards on down like when you have problem with your wifey/girlfriend/jobs/etc, their sweet talk can easily slip through your defence & sieze your heart. If you still don't know when to withdraw, then GAME OVER

However, I must admit that is easier siad than done.

Cheers

[KK_Klan]

Face it! We all like to be sweet-talked by KTV girls and that is what we pay them for! In the end we are buying a fantasy. Just like fake fortunate teller tell you you going to very lucky next few days etc you hear also tickled. However the hard member down below also to blame!

KK Klan

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by KK_Klan

Face it! We all like to be sweet-talked by KTV girls and that is what we pay them for! In the end we are buying a fantasy. Just like fake fortunate teller tell you you going to very lucky next few days etc you hear also tickled. However the hard member down below also to blame!

KK Klan

in my case i haven't even seen the girl i'm kc-ing naked, not even the nipples lol..... from wat i observe when she sit with other guys in the ktv i could see she was behaving the same way also... means no touch... at first i tot is becos she spotted me and decided to behave tat way later on i found out one of my fellow cheongsters told me the same thing..... the same cheongster also related a time when someone offered her 200 bucks for bonking and she told him to fuck off.... it was this personality tht slowly make me drawn to her.... i mean we hardly see a ktv girl turn down 200 bucks for one hour of sex right....

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by naemlo

This statement I have to disagree with you. I saw a lot of foolish cheongsters made wrong decision. When thinking involves heart, it will not be the right decision.

Different between IQ and EQ.

As long as you regret the decision, even if everything turned out the way you wanted, it's the wrong decision.

As long as you don't regret the decision and live with the consequences like a man and learn from the experience, it's the right decision.

Wrong or right has nothing to do with the outcome.

I heard of someone who married a WL. He just told his parents "I'm marrying this girl". He never asked for permission, and did not invite input from others. He just turned his back on the world and raised his middle finger and said "fuck you!" Did he make the right or wrong decision? Who's to say?

PS. I'm not encouraging people to be a hero like this guy. I'm just saying that if you want to make a decision, be a man about it.

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by newbadass

As long as you regret the decision, even if everything turned out the way you wanted, it's the wrong decision.

As long as you don't regret the decision and live with the consequences like a man and learn from the experience, it's the right decision.

Wrong or right has nothing to do with the outcome.

I heard of someone who married a WL. He just told his parents "I'm marrying this girl". He never asked for permission, and did not invite input from others. He just turned his back on the world and raised his middle finger and said "fuck you!" Did he make the right or wrong decision? Who's to say?

PS. I'm not encouraging people to be a hero like this guy. I'm just saying that if you want to make a decision, be a man about it.

I truly admire this man you mention ..

[banana]

Originally Posted by newbadass

PS. I'm not encouraging people to be a hero like this guy. I'm just saying that if you want to make a decision, be a man about it.

well said.

add to decision making. be decisive and stand firm with ur decision. dont be a sissy and still think weather the decision made is right or wrong.

[banana]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Taxi driver & waiter are so fortunate to find true love in posh niteclub. Mi think that you guys with much better occupation than them should put in on effort in your KTV gf. If you do not have feeling with your wife then divorce is good ending solution.

IMO, it is not fortunate to have a wife that is or was a working gal. if u have substaince, most likely u will get a decent girl to be your wedded wife. ppl go for KTV gals AKA working gals is because they couldnt get a better prospects and have to find lower standard to find alternatives.

in our present society, sg men are getting harder to find sg girls bcos sg girls raise their standard for, we singaporean men. so base on my observation, sg men that usually marry prc or foregin wives are usually men reaching 30s and earning average income.

i do not despite working gals. just sharing my 2 cents.

[banana]

i will put it this way. decision that need analytical consideration, then we use our brain. in life, there are decision that we have to go by our hearts.

so it will be stupid to use our heart to make analytical decision and also at times it is not wise to use our analytical minds to tell our hearts what to do.

Originally Posted by +++kon1

I cannot agree with this statement entirely... but I do agree decisions based on analytical consideration will be a better choice. Unfortunately decisions concerning heart seldom invloves cold hard thinking.

Sometimes Wrong is Right. Do I make sense? Not every decision you make in life will be the right one. Once made...you gotta live with it. Better still, to learn from it.

Making mistake is a human trait that will be with us forever. The idiom " A sucker is born every minute" will always hold true.

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by banana

......so base on my observation, sg men that usually marry prc or foregin wives are usually men reaching 30s and earning average income.

That's why I still a coffee-boy now.

[littleme]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Hmmmm this also need to blame the ger. Aren't she stupid to believe him totally??

She should have save the 2000 per mth if she knows how to think cos how many years left for a 69 yrs old man.

This ger is very funny.. she has rich suitors asking her to be the mistress but she keep falling for married man who gave false hopes to her... this singapore guy is not the first one, she wasted 8 years in china waiting for a prc married man to marry her...

And the peidu mama... how to save when she had to support her child in secondary school and you know living expenses in singapore is so expensive.

[littleme]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I'm just wondering why a lot of WL have huge debt??

They are here for the money... and ladies need money for only two things.. one for survival and one for luxury. More of the former than the latter.

When they started earning in singapore, they tend to buy or build better houses for their families in china and thats where the loan comes in...

Some get their "clients" to pay for the loans...

[Optimus_Prime]

hmmm.... Is there anyone here who KC cat150, tn, hc gals ? this will throw the whole "does she go out w clients to bonk?" case out of the window.

[naemlo]

All these can be avoided if ppl use brain to think. U pick your 'ideal' WL in KTV, enjoy her company and end of the day, pay her n go home sleep. The end.

Bullshit abt love at first sight with these WL. There will be urge to go n find her again. If u stop going back to her, this love love thing will not happen and the urge will die down. This is puppy love which everyone has went thru b4.

Anyway, I do have to agree in 1 statement, 1 make decision on his own, why do others bother?? If my cheong friends, who fall for WL, I will try to talk some sense to him, if he chooses to ignore me, then I dun bother abt him. End of the day, it is his life not mine.

Everyone here has his way of thinking, no right no wrong. There will always be 2 groups of ppl debating this topic, "Falling for WL". It will be a never ending debates. I for 1 will always in the group against falling for WL.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

hmmm.... Is there anyone here who KC cat150, tn, hc gals ? this will throw the whole "does she go out w clients to bonk?" case out of the window.

Hahahhahah I ever read someone in this forum comparing SG ger who bonked by her ex bfs with these WL and he justified his case of falling for this WL.

[Optimus_Prime]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Hahahhahah I ever read someone in this forum comparing SG ger who bonked by her ex bfs with these WL and he justified his case of falling for this WL.

U mean those "any rider" sg gals ?