Do you still wanna bonk your wife?

[Kinetics]

"So far have not received any lewd PMs, I think cos mother-of-2 don't sound very appealing."
I cannot agree with you on this statement...I find my wife sexier after she given birth to our kid...
Agreed with hardcoremayhem....
on the prolific term, "MILF"

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

.....I am surprised that alot of men here still want to bonk their wives, its only that their wives are not keen on sex anymore. Really was an eye-opener cos men are always thought to be bastards, but apparently it is not true at all.

So glad you realised that men been suffering from "homecooked food" eating disorders, and we always put our ladies's pleasure before us "before" eating outside food

[cumfast]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

Thank you for your well-wishes and encouragement.

Can't drop off the kids at any of the grandparents. My in-laws run family business everyday, so cannot help take care.
My mother passed away years ago, and my father not good with children. *sigh*

What is Vitamin V?? Viagra arh??

you know being the sole bread winner can be quite stressful.. i am quite sure it is either that he is working too hard (what time he comes home usually?) or he's eating out outside..

you may want to compare your sex life before and after he became sole bread winner...

not that you should blame yourself not contributing because looking after your kids 100% is HUGE contribution and personally when i get married i will want my wife to dedicate much time for the kids and be a housewife like yourself...

carry on to be patient... try try try to make him relax during weekends when he is supposed to have more free time.. do simple things together.. watch dvd? shower together? massage?

honestly, with you being so... lusty like you described yourself... i don't see how a normal man should reject you unless he is really under pressure.... or you are just lusty for other men other than your hubby?

be patient and good luck

[TyLa_BaBy]

monkeymoose:
Viagra will make men feel horny one meh?? I thought it only assists erection, doesn't mean will make the guy horny lor!
You don't anyhow teach me wrong thing arh!!


kinetics:
Is it a physical change in your wife? Or just your perception of her?? Curious...


Ichigo_Kurosaki:
Last time I was mistaken because of wrong info fed to me mah. But now I have "first-hand" info from real married men. And since there is no reason for anyone of you to lie as we are all hidden behind our nicknames, now I know what the truth is lor.


cumfast:
Weiiiiii... don't insinuate that I'm a slut hor! I have QC one ok?? Ok la, honestly? I am lusty for Vin Diesel, Ryan Reynolds and Gerard Butler...

Actually my sex life is exactly the same for the last 5 yrs. No difference at all, except he now understands my body better than last time, so sex is actually better and I cum faster.
He has always been the sole breadwinner. When I met him, I was pursuing further studies so no income, was living off savings. Then once we were married, he made me stay at home already. He said must get used to being at home very very often, because when we have babies, I won't be able to go out everyday like what I'm used to. So regarding this, I have no comparison lah. I did do some part-time/freelance work in the 1st 2 years, but he didn't like it, saying I'm a workaholic and I get too engrossed in my work.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

Ichigo_Kurosaki:
Last time I was mistaken because of wrong info fed to me mah. But now I have "first-hand" info from real married men. And since there is no reason for anyone of you to lie as we are all hidden behind our nicknames, now I know what the truth is lor.

Thank you for the understanding.

All the urban myths from those 三姑六婆 about married men not wanna bonk their wives, like to eat outside ALL THE TIME and etc.....are list of untruths. There's nothing outside that will beat nutritious and heart-warming homecooked food yet even though we have to contribute and helping out with house work including tons loads of dishes, laundry, vacuuming, making them relex and confortable to significantly increase the chances of more sex with our wives.

[Kinetics]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

kinetics:
Is it a physical change in your wife? Or just your perception of her?? Curious...

Tink there is some physical change, it seems that she is more sensitive, more responsive, after she has given birth, if u get wat I mean....

[cumfast]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

monkeymoose:
Viagra will make men feel horny one meh?? I thought it only assists erection, doesn't mean will make the guy horny lor!
You don't anyhow teach me wrong thing arh!!


kinetics:
Is it a physical change in your wife? Or just your perception of her?? Curious...


Ichigo_Kurosaki:
Last time I was mistaken because of wrong info fed to me mah. But now I have "first-hand" info from real married men. And since there is no reason for anyone of you to lie as we are all hidden behind our nicknames, now I know what the truth is lor.


cumfast:
Weiiiiii... don't insinuate that I'm a slut hor! I have QC one ok?? Ok la, honestly? I am lusty for Vin Diesel, Ryan Reynolds and Gerard Butler...

Actually my sex life is exactly the same for the last 5 yrs. No difference at all, except he now understands my body better than last time, so sex is actually better and I cum faster.
He has always been the sole breadwinner. When I met him, I was pursuing further studies so no income, was living off savings. Then once we were married, he made me stay at home already. He said must get used to being at home very very often, because when we have babies, I won't be able to go out everyday like what I'm used to. So regarding this, I have no comparison lah. I did do some part-time/freelance work in the 1st 2 years, but he didn't like it, saying I'm a workaholic and I get too engrossed in my work.

i am lusty for Diane Lane...

so quality of sex improved but quantity went down?

men are cheap... need to scare them then they will take notice of you one...

[TyLa_BaBy]

Ichigo_Kurosaki:
Awwwww you sound like a really nice husband!!


kinetics:
Yes yes. I think I know what you mean.
What I've been told by female friends is that after give birth, everybody know they are not virgin anymore, so they let down their inhibitions and start to enjoy sex!
Or maybe having a baby just "rearranged" her girly parts and made her more responsive.


cumfast:
Diane Lane?? Wow, that's rare! You must be into MILFs right??
No no no. Quality went up, quantity stayed the same. (I already said same for last 5 yrs already mah!) But since it was never enough for me to begin with, after 5 years of being "under-sexed", the effect has been compounded lah.

[TRYDRY]

Hi TyLa_Baby,

When did you lose your viginity? To your husband or your ex?

[TyLa_BaBy]

Originally Posted by TRYDRY

Hi TyLa_Baby,

When did you lose your viginity? To your husband or your ex?

Orrrrrrrh. You still dare to post here arh? I got your notti PM leh. But obviously I'm not going to reply hor.

Anyway, what does this question has to do with anything??

[TRYDRY]

Ha, it's ok you don't reply my PM although it is my sincere invite
Just want to know if the timing of losing viginity can affect a woman's sex life in the future.

[leaseoflife]

I have been married for about 9 years. So far, wifey and myself are still going pretty ok with the sex life. Probably not as much as the initial part of marriage, when we used to do it in most part of the house. But still manage to have perhaps once every week or so. I have 2 kids, all sleeping in my room, so we usually adjorned to another room where we will light up the room using candle lights, with soft music. And yes, we still travel at least once a year with just the two of us to enjoy each other's company. That said, I have to be honest that I still "eat-out" occassionally. My sex drive is high, and I enjoy having it with different women. Don;t get me wrong. I am not promoting being Promiscuous , but this, I guess, is a personal preference. In fact, I thought it helps more in sustaining the interest in the "home-cooked" food.

[TyLa_BaBy]

TRYDRY:
Why don't you start a new thread and ask? At least will be able to collect more opinions mah.


leaseoflife:
Afterall, ppl do say that variety is the spice of life mah. No need to feel bad about it.
Wow, still got candle lights and soft music huh? Really into atmosphere! And BIG ENVY on the "honeymoons". We can't afford it, and don't have anyone to leave the kids with even IF we had the $$.
Even though we know it would do us good to de-stress and bond, not enough resources also no choice.

[leaseoflife]

Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

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leaseoflife:
Afterall, ppl do say that variety is the spice of life mah. No need to feel bad about it.
Wow, still got candle lights and soft music huh? Really into atmosphere! And BIG ENVY on the "honeymoons". We can't afford it, and don't have anyone to leave the kids with even IF we had the $$.
Even though we know it would do us good to de-stress and bond, not enough resources also no choice.

Hi Tyla. Perhaps, you should try and see it from another perspective. Sometimes, it is not the quantity, but quality that counts? Forget about overseas trips, expensive dates etc, but try creating a nice place at a small part of your home. My wifey knows I go bonkers with her make-up on, and this is what she does for me most times. Similarly, look at what your man wants. Start slow, and try not have expectation that one (or both) of you have to climax at the end of the session. Like I said, quality, not necessarily quantity The long CNY break is coming up, so perhaps try and use one of the nights for your "mini-party". He got no work, and you just gotta ensure the kids sleep earlier, and both of u are not tired out by the day's activities. I am not an expert here, but I always think, like all things, is to manage our expectations. Hope it helps. And like I say, I am a player (and perhaps a devil in disguse ) so you see if you wanna try what I think is my two cents worth.

[Fuckzilla]

Marriage is still quite the distant destination from my current stage of life. After seeing all sorts of responses from this thread, it really got me all interested on the subject all of a sudden. Kudos to all those bros out there who are still passionate towards their wives, your unwavering loyalty and mental fortitude is something I hope to attain, although at my current rate...it's gonna take some time.

To all those bros who still dines out no matter how frequent, I'm glad you guys were able to follow your callings. Seeing all these engaging stories from married individuals is quite the amusing read. Good Luck.