Tips To Woo Girls

[milffella]

how can kanna?

[xiangso]

wow, really interesting thread, 1 cannot stop reading, way past my usual sleeping time. but the secret to getting girls is no secret. it is just to develop the balls to approach them. out of ten you approach, will get at least one phone number. but have to think of rejection and crushing remark like it is nothing. after you try a few times, it gets easier and easier. leave your ego aside, don't think too much and just approach. abe an actor and act like you have the biggest balls in the room.

recently devalop a liking for a new colleague working in the same tower. haizzz. tell myself not to shit and eat at the same place but this one i donot intend to just have a fling. still undecided whether to go all out to woo her. got good signal from her. bro milff, any words of wisdom?

[water_boi]

juz approached the gal n dun scare failure .... i tried approached a gal in 1 of the disco while she is playin pool n got her nbr after a short conversation.....

[yanki1]

Originally Posted by xiangso

recently devalop a liking for a new colleague working in the same tower. haizzz. tell myself not to shit and eat at the same place but this one i donot intend to just have a fling. still undecided whether to go all out to woo her. got good signal from her. bro milff, any words of wisdom?

are u single? is she single? if so go for it. since u got gd signal from her. go for it. try to work things out. u nev know she is "the one"

[Rain-Men]

Hi bros,

Hm..have been reading up all the postings before giving my own two cents worth....haha..i enjoy some of your advice though Mr Milf.....

Anyway my thoughts based on my whatever little experience

1. No fancy pick up lines for me..just simply say "accidentally" bump into her..then say sorry..then exchange name (so far 60% conversion)
2. Always go into any conversation with an open mind..no hidden agenda..just purely to find out more of each other
3. I agree with the statement of staying "Focus"...that's the word....cos gals don't like you to be fickle..even if it's for a short fling...they want to feel as though she's the queen of your heart!!
4. To sum it up...the last one is ..if u can't get a number or anything out(for future contact or what)...move on.....it's a statistics game..u either improve ur skill to improve the yield or u increase the number of chances to maintain the absolute "hits".

THink that's all for my moves during clubbing days...nowadays..very minimal liao..more on other channels...(let me do a breakdown before coming back..)...ENjoy guys!

[euphoria777]

My little contributions....

1. Dun go clubbing with the intention to bed a gal (u will unknowingly appear desperate).
2. Be a nice guy (open door for ladies, pull chairs, light cigarettes etc....u never know who is watching).
3. Be confident (but not over-confident, dun brag and talk loudly, but dun stand in a corner with your glass in your hand and look stupid also).
4. Have a sense of humour (they are out to relax, so dun talk about work and serious stuff....but dun be a clown also).
5. If you cannot dance, DON'T!!!
6. Eye-contact (show u are confident, smile, and raise your glass even though u are a distance away. If she reciprocate and raise her glass....walk over. If she doesn't and look away, u dun lose anything either).
7. Be sincere (dun talk big and bull-shit).

Nothing to do with how handsome u are, how thick is your wallet, what car u drive and what u wear that day.........

[SamiHyypia]

To summarise Picking up girls = be at the right place and at the right time.

=)

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by milffella

guys always think buying the 1st drink for a start.
but i feel it is not a good start.
:

agree with you bro. about this 1st drink thing, you know we watch a lot of hollywood movies which show the hero offering the girl a drink, chitchat, bonk... bravo... does it really work that way? in my humble opinion, it may but, before you offer the drink, you have to ask yourself one question, "are you wasting time with this girl?"

no matter how shy the girl may be, the way she looks at you (eye contact) and the stuff she asks about you (interest) are sure signs. if she is always looking elsewhere or at her own friends, if you notice you are the one always striking the conversations, then its time to bottoms up and tell her you need to pee, "see you later"...

[feliphile]

Ahhh... a topic close to my heart. Ever notice that it isnt always the most good looking fellas that get the hottest girls? Ever notice that whenever a guy who is totally smitten by a girl, and he goes all soft hearted and does sweet things for her, she will most likely turn around and run away from the dude? (Unless she already has a crush on u) Well, these things, according to a master of this topic, David Deangelo, are run of the mill stuff. I would highly recommend anyone who wishes to have an indepth understanding of the pyschology into how women think and feel to have a look at David DeAngelo's material. They are all over the net and can be googled. However, bear in mind that its all about how a man makes an individual woman feels that matters most to her. Whatever she feels, if its a feeling of wanting more of a man, that means she is attracted to him, and thats all that matters for a woman, mosttimes.

[taurus75]

woo gals to get bonk or wanna start a relationship?
actually all this boils down to fate ..

[singexpat]

Originally Posted by Castrol

agree with you bro. about this 1st drink thing, you know we watch a lot of hollywood movies which show the hero offering the girl a drink, chitchat, bonk...

will it helps if i take "martini. shaken, not stirred..."??

[akaza24]

I ever read a book "THE ESSENTIAL GUIDE TO SEDUCTION FOR MEN" by a local author. This book offers useful advice on wooing women and insight on matters of the heart, with suggestion on practical things which u can do to win the love of ur life. Very highly recommended to read, infact I've tried out some methods and it really works

[milffella]

[QUOTE=euphoria777]My little contributions....

1. Dun go clubbing with the intention to bed a gal (u will unknowingly appear desperate).

agreed

2. Be a nice guy (open door for ladies, pull chairs, light cigarettes etc....u never know who is watching).

agree 50% disagree 50% you dun go opening doors and pulling chairs like a servant.

3. Be confident (but not over-confident, dun brag and talk loudly, but dun stand in a corner with your glass in your hand and look stupid also).

agree, dun brag and talk loudly ,go to the dance floor or take a seat.

4. Have a sense of humour (they are out to relax, so dun talk about work and serious stuff....but dun be a clown also).

agreed

5. If you cannot dance, DON'T!!!

agreed, you will make a fool of yourself.

6. Eye-contact (show u are confident, smile, and raise your glass even though u are a distance away. If she reciprocate and raise her glass....walk over. If she doesn't and look away, u dun lose anything either).

disagree she is just being friendly, doesnt mean u need to walk over. wait for a next opportunity.

7. Be sincere (dun talk big and bull-shit).

even if u are sincere, if u look good, nothing is sincere.
flaunting is okay. talking big and bullshit without grounds is another thing.

Nothing to do with how handsome u are, how thick is your wallet, what car u drive and what u wear that day........

(handsome)its got something to do, i dun think anyone would wanna look into a set of moronic look.
(wallet) if u have no cash do u expect the lady to treat u?
(car)its got something to do, when u leave the club with her.
(wear) its also important. would u like a lady who dresses like a drag?

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Another factor to consider is how to apply the body language and observe her reaction. Look and cash is secondary, more importantly is how you present yourself to her. Most girls would like to have guys who show tender loving care (TLC)....................

[akaza24]

How To Tell If She's Interested In You...

Knowing whether a woman is attracted to you BEFORE you make your move big move on her can be helpful.

The problem is that it can be pretty close to impossible to sense whether a girl likes you. To make matters worse there is a TON of bad advice out there on the subject.

Some "experts" say that if a woman likes you her pupils will dilate when she looks at you. Others suggest that she will twirl her hair and bite her lip… or she might playfully remove her shoes. Oh, and if she's REALLY interested she will blush and her heart rate will speed up.

COME ON !!! You shouldn't have to take a woman's pulse to figure out if she's attracted to you. Those types of signals are so vague and ambiguous… they could be occurring for any number of totally unrelated reasons.

What you need is something that will give you a concrete answer and something that you can use in ANY situation with ANY girl.

I've got your solution... Proxemics.

The term "Proxemics" was coined by researcher E.T. Hall when he investigated man's use of personal space. Basically, it's studying how people interact with other people in close proximity to each other (such as on an elevator).

Well, what E.T. found was that individuals subconsciously perceive a distance that is appropriate for different relationships; they also establish a comfortable distance for personal interaction and nonverbally define this as their personal space.

This is where it gets interesting-- if a woman likes you she will let you into her more intimate personal space. But, if she doesn't like you she won't... she will make an effort to keep you further away-- OUT of her close personal space reserved for people whom she respects, trusts, and/or admires.

This is how it happens-- it is PROVEN.

It makes sense... if a woman likes you then she will want you to be closer whereas the opposite is, of course, also true. The more she likes you the less of a boundary she will place on you.

When you are talking to a woman the space between both of you is where the two of you are comfortable. If you move in a little closer to her she will either be fine with it and allow it or she will get uncomfortable and move back to reestablish a more comfortable distance.

I'll make it simple for you... if she stays she's interested. If she moves back... you still have some work to do because she's NOT interested yet.

Now, when you do this, only move in an inch or two. I'm not talking about a huge step closer to her. ANY woman, no matter how interested she is, would move back if you suddenly move much closer to her.

Just take a small, smooth step closer to her and watch for her reaction.

Test it out... this WORKS.