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90 per cent of marriage couples lead such kind of life just because of responsibility sake. This will eventually lead to more business for Fls and HC. I noticed most couples will post their family outing etc on the FB. Is just on the surface only.
Yes that very true same for my oc....anyone looking at her FB pic of holidays and outing will think she having a very blessed and happy marriage but little do they know how dysfunctional it is...
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Yes that very true same for my oc....anyone looking at her FB pic of holidays and outing will think she having a very blessed and happy marriage but little do they know how dysfunctional it is...
Most couples will post their blessed photos and show around...
i had been thru divorce just a mth back.
Glad i had made the choice.
I just like to comment in all divorce the person who is hurt the most is the child.
The kids are innocent so pls treat them fairly
i had a son and a daughter who is in the custordy of my ex wife.
I hate the law in Singapore.
She betray me so many times and she even own up she wanted to stay in this marriage bocz she knew i will take care of her but she felt more love with her FBs.
I feel dat wat attention etc is bullshit,
She wans me to stay home and she goes drinking and flirt ard.
And she expect me to treat her nice even thou i had found out her deed.
I nv regret marrying her bcoz of my beautiful kids.
Like many mention , we might be devasted to even go to a second marriage
and can anyone except our kids like their own
For all divorcee , if u are not the 1 who breaks the marriage.
Tink of ur children , do not regret and hurt your children they can feel it
embarce the fact , move on coz the children needs u to be brave.
i had been thru divorce just a mth back.
Glad i had made the choice.
I just like to comment in all divorce the person who is hurt the most is the child.
The kids are innocent so pls treat them fairly
i had a son and a daughter who is in the custordy of my ex wife.
I hate the law in Singapore.
She betray me so many times and she even own up she wanted to stay in this marriage bocz she knew i will take care of her but she felt more love with her FBs.
I feel dat wat attention etc is bullshit,
She wans me to stay home and she goes drinking and flirt ard.
And she expect me to treat her nice even thou i had found out her deed.
I nv regret marrying her bcoz of my beautiful kids.
Like many mention , we might be devasted to even go to a second marriage
and can anyone except our kids like their own
For all divorcee , if u are not the 1 who breaks the marriage.
Tink of ur children , do not regret and hurt your children they can feel it
embarce the fact , move on coz the children needs u to be brave.
I was in the same shoe with you and had divorced 2 years ago. Right now enjoying my freedom . Guess will not seek for a second marriage as I knows woman will always give man trouble too. I rather be a free bird out of the cage and not going to be in prison again. Woman charter sucks.....I had 2 kids and both are not with me as they had migrated overseas , I let them go because they have a better life over there.
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Guess mine is heading down this road too...sex has always been sticking point for both of us since she can't seems to see the need for it...now we are down to communication by texting only when the need to....most times she don't even bother to reply my text..i think the only reasons why she is keeping me around the bed is only so I can keep her company at night cos she is afraid of sleeping alone....honestly I know for a fact, this woman actually don't need a lover all she wants is just a man presence...
I find this thinking v strange. Sex is enjoyable to women too.
i had been thru divorce just a mth back.
Glad i had made the choice.
I just like to comment in all divorce the person who is hurt the most is the child.
The kids are innocent so pls treat them fairly
i had a son and a daughter who is in the custordy of my ex wife.
I hate the law in Singapore.
She betray me so many times and she even own up she wanted to stay in this marriage bocz she knew i will take care of her but she felt more love with her FBs.
I feel dat wat attention etc is bullshit,
She wans me to stay home and she goes drinking and flirt ard.
And she expect me to treat her nice even thou i had found out her deed.
I nv regret marrying her bcoz of my beautiful kids.
Like many mention , we might be devasted to even go to a second marriage
and can anyone except our kids like their own
For all divorcee , if u are not the 1 who breaks the marriage.
Tink of ur children , do not regret and hurt your children they can feel it
embarce the fact , move on coz the children needs u to be brave.
Yup since already divorced the relationship with your ex wife ended officially. No need to waste time think about what she did in the past. Your relationship with your kids are life long so treasure them never lose contact. Try to co parent with your ex. I know this is hard but please try. Even if seeing a family counsellor is good. Move on and all the best!
I find this thinking v strange. Sex is enjoyable to women too.
well unfortunately some woman thinks its a chore...
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I find this thinking v strange. Sex is enjoyable to women too.
sex is never a priority for women. which is why u will only find 5 - 10% female members in this forum, the rest are all busy surfing flowerpod or fashion and shopping websites. ever since they r financial independent they do not see sex as their duty anymore in marriage since they can always say no and there's nothing u can do about it. to them sex do not bear significance unless you r trying to produce a child so even if they do it out of watever reasons the sex itself would also be half hearted, dead fish kinda act. so bros who have high sex drive better think twice before typing the knots.
sex is never a priority for women. which is why u will only find 5 - 10% female members in this forum, the rest are all busy surfing flowerpod or fashion and shopping websites. ever since they r financial independent they do not see sex as their duty anymore in marriage since they can always say no and there's nothing u can do about it. to them sex do not bear significance unless you r trying to produce a child so even if they do it out of watever reasons the sex itself would also be half hearted, dead fish kinda act. so bros who have high sex drive better think twice before typing the knots.
Nature has created man loves sex and lust whereby woman loves fashion , shopping and enjoyment. Some smart woman will use sex to tie a man down and eventually makes him to tie knot (pregnancy). Conclusion is that there is no free lunch in this world. Better use big head to control small head.
Lurking around and have yet to post anything....just as well do so. Well, been divorced with 2 kids. In my early 40s and been ripped dry during divorce proceedings. I'm petty much middle high income and because of divorce, very been left dry. The worst thing to manage is to balance being father to 2 kids near to teenage soon and yet be able to stay alive in highly competitive corporate work like - basically I work 24x7, work avg 12 hrs a day and travel 50% of my time for business's. I find myself not doing Enough for the kids and yet have to stay alive in competitive work life to bring back home the bread!
Have come across girls that I knows from work life that is near my age, come across as being able to click very well and find their thinking very mature. But upon trying to approach to the next step, in many cases upon knows u have 2 kids, it's end of the story.
Tried twice only in 6 years plus, as I'm not looking for FB, but serious partner thru death. Non was successful and my conclusion is girls have expectation of their life and they are not evil, just selfish. Nothing wrong with that since everyone have their priorities in life and the pool of girls we have in this "developed" country and also due to culture, priority have always been "quality of life". True love? Tell me in my next life after I forget all the ordeal I've been thru in my next life, I might believe.
From mid thirties year old to now, after several years, I don't think I will find my partner or my kids a mother.
The statement, people(girls) are not evil, just selfish comes form the girl I have a crush. It's ready spot on and wake me up from my dreams......move on and it is what it is.
sex is never a priority for women. which is why u will only find 5 - 10% female members in this forum, the rest are all busy surfing flowerpod or fashion and shopping websites. ever since they r financial independent they do not see sex as their duty anymore in marriage since they can always say no and there's nothing u can do about it. to them sex do not bear significance unless you r trying to produce a child so even if they do it out of watever reasons the sex itself would also be half hearted, dead fish kinda act. so bros who have high sex drive better think twice before typing the knots.
I think it has something to do with asian upbringing. Gals are taught from young not to show interest in sex incase people think they are loose. Its quite different when i stayed overseas. It takes 2 to clap so to enjoy great sex for a long time, both parties must put in effort. Staying in shape helps.
Btw i am female
Lurking around and have yet to post anything....just as well do so. Well, been divorced with 2 kids. In my early 40s and been ripped dry during divorce proceedings. I'm petty much middle high income and because of divorce, very been left dry. The worst thing to manage is to balance being father to 2 kids near to teenage soon and yet be able to stay alive in highly competitive corporate work like - basically I work 24x7, work avg 12 hrs a day and travel 50% of my time for business's. I find myself not doing Enough for the kids and yet have to stay alive in competitive work life to bring back home the bread!
Have come across girls that I knows from work life that is near my age, come across as being able to click very well and find their thinking very mature. But upon trying to approach to the next step, in many cases upon knows u have 2 kids, it's end of the story.
Tried twice only in 6 years plus, as I'm not looking for FB, but serious partner thru death. Non was successful and my conclusion is girls have expectation of their life and they are not evil, just selfish. Nothing wrong with that since everyone have their priorities in life and the pool of girls we have in this "developed" country and also due to culture, priority have always been "quality of life". True love? Tell me in my next life after I forget all the ordeal I've been thru in my next life, I might believe.
From mid thirties year old to now, after several years, I don't think I will find my partner or my kids a mother.
The statement, people(girls) are not evil, just selfish comes form the girl I have a crush. It's ready spot on and wake me up from my dreams......move on and it is what it is.
Are your kids staying with u? If they are not, it shouldnt matter too mch if u have. Unless the woman wants kids n you dont want more.
Nature has created man loves sex and lust whereby woman loves fashion , shopping and enjoyment. Some smart woman will use sex to tie a man down and eventually makes him to tie knot (pregnancy). Conclusion is that there is no free lunch in this world. Better use big head to control small head.
Some women love a good challenge in career n have good sex as well. Use sex to tie a man down? Hmm its more fulfilling to earn it fr a successful career or business.
Lurking around and have yet to post anything....just as well do so. Well, been divorced with 2 kids. In my early 40s and been ripped dry during divorce proceedings. I'm petty much middle high income and because of divorce, very been left dry. The worst thing to manage is to balance being father to 2 kids near to teenage soon and yet be able to stay alive in highly competitive corporate work like - basically I work 24x7, work avg 12 hrs a day and travel 50% of my time for business's. I find myself not doing Enough for the kids and yet have to stay alive in competitive work life to bring back home the bread!
Have come across girls that I knows from work life that is near my age, come across as being able to click very well and find their thinking very mature. But upon trying to approach to the next step, in many cases upon knows u have 2 kids, it's end of the story.
Tried twice only in 6 years plus, as I'm not looking for FB, but serious partner thru death. Non was successful and my conclusion is girls have expectation of their life and they are not evil, just selfish. Nothing wrong with that since everyone have their priorities in life and the pool of girls we have in this "developed" country and also due to culture, priority have always been "quality of life". True love? Tell me in my next life after I forget all the ordeal I've been thru in my next life, I might believe.
From mid thirties year old to now, after several years, I don't think I will find my partner or my kids a mother.
The statement, people(girls) are not evil, just selfish comes form the girl I have a crush. It's ready spot on and wake me up from my dreams......move on and it is what it is.
Bro is true...whenever I tell a woman I am divorcee, their face change and wont go anymore further. Guess is better to be single.
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30-10-2014, 07:26 PM
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