thai women - are they already out of our league

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by snakehead

I am shocked at the amount families are asking as sinsot nowadays for their daughters' marriage.

It is a culture passes down donkey years ago... it does not happen overnight or recent years only. Only a few lucky ones with parents who think differently. Now, most modern family, will request for sinsot but end of the marriage will return most back to the couple or give the couple, land, house, condo....

A lot of farangs who wants to marry a Thai lady is shocked by this, sinsot too.

[senters89]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Dunno what is the amount u will feel comfortable... maybe 1k, 10k, 20k SGD.

Everyone can promise a heaven before marriage . U dun need money to promise... no legal bonding to just say, "no need this, no need that".

If u understand Thai culture, this is easily say than done unless she treats her mother/elder bro as dead. She works in entertainment, guess her family is poor, thus no or little education and very traditional Thais. She works because of her family, end of the day, she will still listen to her family.

As a foreigner, the only bargain chip u have might be she was married and maybe with kid. Anyway chok dee.

I do agree with what you say Naemlo:
Therefore i always tell myself don get too into it. I am an average guy living an average life. When the time come, I will know what is a reasonable price i am willing pay.

I always keep it in mind, you are marrying her, not buying her. if she don feel comfortable with it, the door is always open. this is a Open Market, haha

A woman who love you, she will know what will make you happy. Look at those woman whose husband, beat,hit,cheat.. they still can forgive. Of course i had nv hit my woman before and i will nv do it.

Love is not about money, but money is part of love.

Senters89
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[dyelook]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Dunno what is the amount u will feel comfortable... maybe 1k, 10k, 20k SGD.

Everyone can promise a heaven before marriage . U dun need money to promise... no legal bonding to just say, "no need this, no need that".

If u understand Thai culture, this is easily say than done unless she treats her mother/elder bro as dead. She works in entertainment, guess her family is poor, thus no or little education and very traditional Thais. She works because of her family, end of the day, she will still listen to her family.

As a foreigner, the only bargain chip u have might be she was married and maybe with kid. Anyway chok dee.

cant agreed more, bro naemlo..

thai girls... no matter how much they love you, they'll always put their father,mother & siblings 1st on their list... so if she's the soul/food provider for her family, then be prepare for the worst..