Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[playboy82]

Actually i am very tired already... been trying to search and search, and after so many fail attempt. Its not a single blow that wear me out, but rather all the small crush, disappointment, rejection, bad experiences accumulate together tat punch me right in the face, a hard one. Think i am Tian Sha Ku Xing, since young, i am not popular with gals and not those types that all the friends will gather ard or the centre of attention, maybe thats my life, and i have to face it.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

I think I will answer our garment's call to attract foreign talents. Maybe PRCs will be a good choice. I mean decent ones, not FLs please. Fair, smooth-skin and pretty. To top it all, less demanding. To the PRC gals, SG men are rich, refined and one notch higher than their PRC men. To our SG gals, SG men are poor, immature, insensitive and one notch lower than ang-mohs. Haizzz... comparisons is a killer in judging one's quality and inner beauty.

FTs are good what. Cheap, affordable and most importantly .... Good!

PRCs are definitely worth considering. In terms of maintenance and running cost (like car. lol), its much more sustainable than a local gal. After dating a couple of local gals, I only can conclude that I cannot afford to have a singapore gf, not that i have no money, but satisfying a singapore gal always seem to mean having to spend on a 1001 unimaginable things, ranging from Pradas to Guess.

Getting a local gf is like buying a COE car, cos' you never know what other 1001 hidden "costs" are lying beneath the purchase.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by freedom

i have to agree with you on this bro.
ger nowaday are like that
they see who is better for them and they will dump their current bf and got for the new guy or else they will just stick to you till they find a new one.

i think your ex is not been fair to you. feel like she is using you.
to you, you may think it worth it but to other you are been used
think about it

Bro, ever heard the famous saying that goes "Girls marry up and they don't marry down".

Whether ex or not, she is just another cunt (no offense, its just a lame joke). Girls all the same one. Once you eat one cunt, the rest taste about the same. Girls are there for someone to take care of them, while guys just need someone to be with them.

A gal posted a reply in my friendster blog and said, "guys are hard to understand". In the 1st place, girls don't think with any logic. IMO, by trying to understand them, it necessarily degrades one's ability to reason and apply logic.

Forest so big. If not enough tree, can always get new ones. While in Rome, do what the Romans do. While in the jungles, do what our neighbours do. If tree no good, BURN!

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by powDerful

Dear Deztruct,

I will be very blunt over here. No offence intended.

I am sorry if I am being so direct, because I do not have writing skills like others who can beat around the bush and write in a more better manner than me. Best of luck to your tackling of gals!

No worries..actually what you told me is nothing new also. some of my friends hv told me the same thing also..the thing is that everything is juz one side of the story..my side..i might neva noe wat she think..mayb she doesnt feel a thing or mayb she is feelin worse? Juz bcoz she neva reveal how she feel..it doesnt mean tat she is happier

Mayb u are rite..i am juz one of the many boats she is stepping on..she is juz afraid of lonely..but still..i rather be juz an extra and be there for her than not being there for her at all..the same applies for my ex case as well...i not being noble or an saint here..i juz believe in fairytales..not for myself but for her..to me..the joy comes not from hving a fairytale happening to urself but rather in creating fairytales for others..

Lately coz of an incident..i really dun wan to think anymore le..everytime think will hv an headache..i rather do hsework than to think abt the situation now..let nature goes thru its course..chances are things will juz continue this way..i wun try to do anything more..juz continue to do things which i believe is rite..and if its really for the beta..i believed tat i will be rewarded for it in some way or another

*rather love the love tat hurts than to hurt the love that loves*

[KumGongKia]

Wah didn't know got so many like-minded people here....

Most of the peps here do talk a lot of sense about living life to the fullest. Thinking and dwelling about "where is my true love when others are enjoying it" is not going to make it happen. Think like some bros has said: Keep yourself occupied.

Weekdays already busy at work until almost no time to sleep. Then everytime complain weekend too short cos it's monday once again. Thinking too much and indulging in self-pity on your only two free days is really a waste of life. Learnt this through the "hard way" myself. Love is a big part of life but NOT all of it.

All in all, staying happy is the crux of everything. Work hard and reward yourself with new clothes, new car or new house. Since no love life yet so can save the money. Afterall, how sad can one gets if you have saved enough to buy yourself a 3series coupe cabriolet, cruising down the road with the top open. (sorry for being so material )

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by KumGongKia

Wah didn't know got so many like-minded people here....

Most of the peps here do talk a lot of sense about living life to the fullest. Thinking and dwelling about "where is my true love when others are enjoying it" is not going to make it happen. Think like some bros has said: Keep yourself occupied.

Weekdays already busy at work until almost no time to sleep. Then everytime complain weekend too short cos it's monday once again. Thinking too much and indulging in self-pity on your only two free days is really a waste of life. Learnt this through the "hard way" myself. Love is a big part of life but NOT all of it.

All in all, staying happy is the crux of everything. Work hard and reward yourself with new clothes, new car or new house. Since no love life yet so can save the money. Afterall, how sad can one gets if you have saved enough to buy yourself a 3series coupe cabriolet, cruising down the road with the top open. (sorry for being so material )

Hmm.. i suppose i have the same thinking as u too, if dun have a good and caring wife / gf, then i will divert my attention to Quality of life, like a car, house, or other materials will will improve our current standard of living.

[sacs]

Originally Posted by playboy82

damn right, nowaday every single gal whether pretty or not will always hav guys buzzing ard them, and ask them out for a date is like " see how lor, if tml no programme then i let u know ", u will never be their 1st priority. But i am glad that i hav started this thread, aty least i can know so many bros here in the same boat as me... Cheers. Lets keep this thread alive. And nowadays i can hardly differentiate between love and lust anymore, it become so bloody blur, and i really dun know wat the fuck this world has turn into, where the gal u love will not love but instead choose for some ah beng.
Now, i dun really know wat i want in life anymore, Car? House? money? i am feeling so empty, can $$ buy compainonship? I do feel very tire of living actually, but the tot of my parent, i still need to support them, to be failial to them.The question at the end is still this, wats the meaning of life.

From my Pt of view, I think local gals are not contented with what they have. Growing up in spore for so many years and with the education they get, they know that they could ask for more in a guy and they are nvr contented even if they have a car, house, etc..... they just wan more.

But for gals like in viet or thai, they are very easily contented with the life they will get in spore. The fact being that they come from a poor family back home, what could they ask for more when they are living well in spore.

Of cos, there are still some handful gd local gals left, but must have been grab by others le. haha.....

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by sacs

Of cos, there are still some handful gd local gals left, but must have been grab by others le. haha.....

ya lor,i always thought so.this world confirm have gd gals de but all happily attached liao..

[sacs]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

ya lor,i always thought so.this world confirm have gd gals de but all happily attached liao..

haha, ya lor........ sometimes i see those babes or SYT with another ah beng, i was like, what does she see in him? bigger Co*k?? gals like bad guys? or what? haha....

So now, i can spend a few hundred bucks buying things for myself, but seriously, if u ask me to spend that kind of $ on a gal, I will think twice. Can't they afford themselves? if they can't, then dun have so much high expectation of their bf.

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by sacs

haha, ya lor........ sometimes i see those babes or SYT with another ah beng, i was like, what does she see in him? bigger Co*k?? gals like bad guys? or what? haha....

.

havent u heard of this phrase:Nan ren bu huai,nu ren bu ai?

[rodeo77]

Originally Posted by dickrick

Lastly, be very careful that you don't fall for an FL. Don't take this the wrong way, but, you can be very vulnerable to an FL at this stage. They give you the Gf feeling but their intention is not to make you bf no. 1 but maybe no.3 or no.4. A lot believe (like us too!), they need "spare tyres". A "Bf" is useful to them because of things like showing off to their friends, using you for favours like buying food, taking them out, and of course taking your hard earned cash.Best of luck!

I think those Bros who are currently in KC trap should view this seriously. Think with your big head and not the samll one

[boysaigon]

to be fair to the FL...most of them also kana cheated by their so-called bfs before...they also, like most of us, still dreaming of finding their true love but after a few bad experience, they also see broken and op for the more reliable "material" option like most are advising here.

In this material world, it takes 02 fools to be truely and deeply in love.

but, i do agree that lots of sg gals are behaving like FL...they demand lots of material comfort from the bfs and would switch lane without thinking more than 0.003 sec if there is a bigger car avail...they NEVER agree to being labeled 'materialistic' or would deny till their last breath if anyone would call them 'money face'. They onli want class, want their bf to have face...so they ask for LV bag, Maldives holiday, fast car, slow food, ...etc..as if all these stuffs are door gifts from PAP sponsored programs....

...there are good one oso la...you go spend 1$ buy toto also can kana 2 millions mah. same theory lor.

anyhow, i still a stuborn believer la. but it takes 2...

boy

[natsuki]

Originally Posted by dickrick

Lastly, be very careful that you don't fall for an FL. Don't take this the wrong way, but, you can be very vulnerable to an FL at this stage. They give you the Gf feeling but their intention is not to make you bf no. 1 but maybe no.3 or no.4. A lot believe (like us too!), they need "spare tyres". A "Bf" is useful to them because of things like showing off to their friends, using you for favours like buying food, taking them out, and of course taking your hard earned cash.
Best of luck!

Erm... I know, 以我的身份，可能不应该在这里说话。 但是。。。Every FL is like every normal girl out there. Who don't want people to love and care for them? Like everyone too, FLs need someone to be there for them... But... Why some guys only have bad reviews on FLs? If someone comment not to fall for FLs, does it mean that all FLs are not fit for being love? Cuz the impression of FLs in ur heart is already so bad... FLs don't even deserve a little love and care? Girls may be too practical, but do girls started to be so practical? However, no one bother to know how come girls are like this. This topic been brought up many times already.

If guys think that all girls are 'materialistic', then how come girls are being so 'materialistic'? Yes, for FL, U have the money u can find FLs. But who like to be FL? U think every FL start off smoothly? Then when they wanna be FL, they juz be it? No one cares or bother about it. Guys only blames to be cheated by girls, but how about girls? Girls never got cheated by guys before? How many times girls need to learn their lesson till they become smart? Or maybe materialist? How many emotional break downs have they suffered? Who cares?

When u ended up in a hotel with a FL, u pay, u do, u leave. That's all. Isn't it better? U all blame FLs to be so 'money face' but without money, what we have in the end? At least a form of security. Some girls don't buy LV, don't spend on expensive Hps, don't go for holidays... This type of girls also being materialistic? They don't require bfs to give them this or that, all they want is just a simple trust and faith in the guys. But how many guys can actually fulfilled it?

One scenario, this girl got cheated by her bf, she is left with nothing. Despair, grief-stricken and helpless, left with nothing at all! What could she do? Why give guys free sex? How stupid she think herself is? The guy leave her, what will she be left with? If the guy is really idiotic enough to spread around stuff like she is easily or she is loose? Doing sex with bf doesn't mean she must be a loose girl, but some girls give in easily to guys cuz they scare to lost the guys... Why should girls deserve such treatment? After losing hope in guys, being a FL may be a better choice.



Just my little comment... So sorry if i sound rude...
Take care...

[Kyser Soze]

Originally Posted by natsuki

One scenario, this girl got cheated by her bf, she is left with nothing. Despair, grief-stricken and helpless, left with nothing at all! What could she do? Why give guys free sex? How stupid she think herself is? The guy leave her, what will she be left with? If the guy is really idiotic enough to spread around stuff like she is easily or she is loose? Doing sex with bf doesn't mean she must be a loose girl, but some girls give in easily to guys cuz they scare to lost the guys... Why should girls deserve such treatment? After losing hope in guys, being a FL may be a better choice.

Just my little comment... So sorry if i sound rude...
Take care...

Relax, sis... Different strokes different lives. Everyone has his own views. Strictly speaking, there is nothing absolutely right or wrong. Those who are serious in a relationship will definitely give in totally with passion, meaning even sacrificing one's valuable asset. In terms of assets, a man's point of view can be different from a girl's. For a man, it is definitely the money. For a girl, the asset is... her body.

[giggz83]

Originally Posted by natsuki

After losing hope in guys, being a FL may be a better choice.
Take care...

no. being a FL is never a better choice. even if all the guys in the world dont want you. being a FL is never a choice. and why should it be? in the first place.

be optimistic, one day, it might be your day .. everyone are waiting for their turn. just like you and me. your turn will come, just dont knw when.

so in the meantime .. stay positive .. work hard. earn more $ .. see the world. we're still in this small dot. see the world, look far.

theres more meaning to life than we think it is.

good luck