Meeting Online Vietnamese

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Xavie

DO U SERIOUSLY THINK SHE MISSES U?? PLS DONT LIE TO YOURSELF!!!

LOL, why so serious? It just basic ordinary chat conversation, which help to bond, who really believe in 'I miss you, I love you' crap? In the first place, we never meetup yet, only video call and etc....
The emotion of missing is not even there.
You must be joking to believe in it.

It just like 'How your's day?' , 'I'm Fine/As usual' not much meaning for it, you really expect the other party to tell you she/he not fine/in debt/tragic/family problem.... you expect them to say those thing meh???

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by Xavie

EVERY GUY WILL SAY HIS GIRL IS DIFFERENT!! BUT IS IT REALLY TRUE???

JOKE OF THE DAY.
First, the road I choose, the marriage lifestyle I seek is already completely different from your typical normal lifestyle and traditional way of building family and step into marriage.

Second, I am okay with my girl working KTV , wear green hat or whatever, sleep with man for money or w/e , bound to happen(just a matter of time) , this point onward, my path is already completey abnormal from your normal typical logic...

Are you okay with your GF/Wife sleeping with other Man or even have secret affair? (When you found out without knowing then that one really wear green hat liao), totally different from my situation, I know and I am okay with it.

Third, this is an abnormal relationship in the first place. Differrent from other Girl? Totally.
I am okay with the 'open affair' which will occur as she work KTV.
Then you leh? You who seek Normal relationship, are you okay with secret affair?

If both Women have the opportunity to cheat, what so different? 1 openly 'cheat' with money pocket to her, 1 secretly cheat to avoid getting find out, may or may not have money involve....

Some Career Women even sleep their way up to.earn 10-30k per month......
Some prefer call themself escort, fwb, sugarbabe, in term of 'social status or naming' they definitely sound nicer and better. But fundementally they still operate the same way....

[WastingTimeHere]

I think you should see a shrink

You are hopelessly delusional

[chaoslord]

Originally Posted by WastingTimeHere

I think you should see a shrink

You are hopelessly delusional

There has been advice given throughout the thread to the TS. I feel that he now has a better understanding of the potential landmines that lies ahead of him. He still intends to forge ahead with this path and all we could do is to wish him good luck at this stage.

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

Second, I am okay with my girl working KTV , wear green hat or whatever, sleep with man for money or w/e , bound to happen(just a matter of time) , this point onward, my path is already completey abnormal from your normal typical logic...

Are you okay with your GF/Wife sleeping with other Man or even have secret affair? (When you found out without knowing then that one really wear green hat liao), totally different from my situation, I know and I am okay with it.

If you are truly able to accept with your wife performing special services to others, this relationship might actually have a chance. Knowing that it could happen and is likely to happen would at least keep certain expectations in check and curb disappointment / disillusionment should it eventually happen. We are just mindful as this is your first ever relationship and one that is with a WL no less. Who knows - maybe you do land a goldmine and get that rare gem of a KTV girl.

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by chaoslord

He still intends to forge ahead with this path and all we could do is to wish him good luck at this stage.

If you are truly able to accept with your wife performing special services to others, this relationship might actually have a chance. Knowing that it could happen and is likely to happen would at least keep certain expectations in check and curb disappointment / disillusionment should it eventually happen. We are just mindful as this is your first ever relationship and one that is with a WL no less. Who knows - maybe you do land a goldmine and get that rare gem of a KTV girl.

Thanks man. This path clearly have tons of problem, way more problem compare to the normal path. I rather walk this path than to 'change or upgrade myself'.
Definitely my way of thinking, perspective and mentality is way different from the majority norms.

Who knows? Maybe she really might turn out to be a Diamond, if that the case, reverse role situation also okay lor.... I become the ” 男主内，女主外”， “奶爸” lor....

[ZanShen]

Originally Posted by Dawen90

Power lah bro!!! Come this Noob up you! Respect for the insight shared!

That's Funboi, not stingy to share and not lazy to analyse. Fucking awesome!

[TadaoKumagai]

Currently beside arranging a Meetup with the vietbu to decide future issues, since nothing is confirm , confirm must have a few backup lor....

For now, I update current situation with another online Vietbu.

It a continue saga from the same Vietbu who claims she currently in TEXAS and etc, her story goes like this...
Parent passaway due to auto crash, grandma live in Vietnam, currently working in Texas as Model and sometime go back Vietnam vist her Grandma...

She build her background as she have inheritance but can only inherit after she is Married due to the Inheritance Will manage via the Lawyer... (By this time, SCAM ALERT liao)...
The lady herself give crap reason that she cannot do live video due to afraid expose if her current situation....
She claim that her 'Ex-Husband' find out about the Inheritance , and now trying to find way to murder her and seize the inheritance.... (She can become WRITER liao)

And ask me if I am sincere or serious with the relationship, then I have to transfer her some portion of flight ticket cost via Western Union.(SCAM ALERT)

Then I just play along with her lor, if she is real and whatever she claim is real then thinks of way to proof your claims without expose your location or situation....

I suggest her to take a photo with her holding my name...
So now just wait and see how she carry on this 'Drama Acting' lor....

Since , I've no life, got such a good things to entertain myself, I just keep playing lor....

99% SCAM, but 1% could be true...

[chaoslord]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

Currently beside arranging a Meetup with the vietbu to decide future issues, since nothing is confirm , confirm must have a few backup lor....

For now, I update current situation with another online Vietbu.

It a continue saga from the same Vietbu who claims she currently in TEXAS and etc, her story goes like this...
Parent passaway due to auto crash, grandma live in Vietnam, currently working in Texas as Model and sometime go back Vietnam vist her Grandma...

She build her background as she have inheritance but can only inherit after she is Married due to the Inheritance Will manage via the Lawyer... (By this time, SCAM ALERT liao)...
The lady herself give crap reason that she cannot do live video due to afraid expose if her current situation....
She claim that her 'Ex-Husband' find out about the Inheritance , and now trying to find way to murder her and seize the inheritance.... (She can become WRITER liao)

And ask me if I am sincere or serious with the relationship, then I have to transfer her some portion of flight ticket cost via Western Union.(SCAM ALERT)

Then I just play along with her lor, if she is real and whatever she claim is real then thinks of way to proof your claims without expose your location or situation....

I suggest her to take a photo with her holding my name...
So now just wait and see how she carry on this 'Drama Acting' lor....

Since , I've no life, got such a good things to entertain myself, I just keep playing lor....

99% SCAM, but 1% could be true...

Your this vietbu CSB until pattern more than badminton. It's a SCAM.

Take it as a good learning experience where only wasted time and not money was wasted. The bros here come only with good intentions. Yes sometimes the language can be rough around the edges, but really we are just looking out for each other.

There are many marriage services for Vietnamese ladies. Eliminate those that want to work as KTV / ML / WL etc. They are simply not worth the time and effort for you unless you are looking for something entirely transactional. If you are looking for a true relationship - please get to know them first before committing to anything on paper.

[MoJoe313]

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

For a better comparison, I will choose 3 picture I grab online, which I consider 7/10. somewhere close to each other

Originally Posted by TadaoKumagai

Your standard must be very high...haha.
I know the power of makeup. When I do video call with her, she not wearing makeup.

If like that consider 4/10 , then my own appearance must be negative liao.... LOL

TS,
You asked what is 7/10. Came across this girl on fb. This then is 7/10.

https://www.facebook.com/gatitayan77...1441598784038/

https://www.facebook.com/gatitayan77...0474627301177/

If you really going to choose a WL Viet wife, at least aim this standard. Pretty 7/10 girls confirm wont be loyal to you. But there is no confirmation average 4/10 girls will be loyal too. Might as well eat real swan meat. Jmho

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by chaoslord

Your this vietbu CSB until pattern more than badminton. It's a SCAM.

Bro, 2 different Girl leh.....
What you talking?
The one I going to meetup is different from the one I "kill time" with.

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

TS,
You asked what is 7/10. Came across this girl on fb. This then is 7/10.

https://www.facebook.com/gatitayan77...1441598784038/

https://www.facebook.com/gatitayan77...0474627301177/

If you really going to choose a WL Viet wife, at least aim this standard. Pretty 7/10 girls confirm wont be loyal to you. But there is no confirmation average 4/10 girls will be loyal too. Might as well eat real swan meat. Jmho

Hahaha, agree.
Pretty is pretty, but not my type leh... That kind to me is machiam 8-9/10 liao... 100% "High-so/High-end" type of girl.....

See pretty, not my type also no use...

That kind of standard, wa piang, too much for me liao.
At least my own "standard of 7/10" still my type at my comfortable level, hahahaha.....

[TadaoKumagai]

Inheritance Saga

On-going Drama with this Vietnamese who claim to be currently in TEXAS.

Following image of SS of what she say....
Her photo will be expose, cause most likely and definitely SCAM one mah, so who care.....Just play along lor...








Well, the Girl I talk to don't know steal identity or not, but is some Vietnamese Influencer...
Which I manage to find her Instagram.

https://www.instagram.com/nguyennguyen_yen/

[zendra]

It seems like you have a lot of time to kill ah TS?

[TadaoKumagai]

Originally Posted by zendra

It seems like you have a lot of time to kill ah TS?

Hahaha...
Well, I have no doubt will meet those who can video call and can meetup der.... At least authentic mah...
As for those refuse to video call or w/e and still want to ask for money, just play along lor...

As long as no transfer is being made, I will just cook up with some excuse and prolong the drama episode... hahaha

[ZanShen]

Haha bro...nice to play with them to kill time. But eventually, you will get bored. Anyway, I acknowledge you for thinking out of the box. However, in my opinion, getting her as a wife is silly. I rather spend my effort on the decent foreign wife than one who wants to be a KTV girl.