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long time no see u posting here... busy busy busy? p.s. JWNY, dun angry ah... lor-len na...
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04-11-2007, 04:01 AM
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i dont knw if i made the correct decision, i dont know if i went the right path, 3 and half years, i thought it was habit, i dun know if it is, i miss you like crazy, we are not married but, yes, i got a new girl, but yea, fuck, fuck i duno wtf im doing
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04-11-2007, 01:16 PM
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05-11-2007, 09:07 AM
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bros, something to share.
要学会珍惜身边的人哦 !! 老婆的最后一條短信----> 看到你流淚 珍惜自己的所爱 世界上没有後悔药 妻子是个小尾巴，我走到哪里她都要问到哪里。我厌烦，她却乐此不疲。可是，这个小尾巴却在那个下着大雨的深 夜永远消失了…… 我的心情非常难过，内心充满了内疚和痛楚，我无法原谅自己的过错。 结婚那天，老婆用买戒指的钱给我买了一款手机。那天夜里，我们两人在被窝里一遍遍地调试着手机的响铃。我们 觉得，生活就像这铃声，响亮、悦耳，充满着憧憬和希望。从那天开始，我常常接到她的电话： " 老公，下班了买点菜回家。""老公，我想你，我爱你。""老公，晚上一起去妈妈家吃饭。"我的心里十分温暖 。有一次，我忘了给手机充电，又恰好陪领导到基层，应酬到半夜才回到家，推开房门一看，我发现老婆早已哭红 了眼睛。原来从我下班时间开始，她每隔一刻钟就打一次电话，我都不在服务区。老婆更加着急，总以为发生了什 么意外，后来每隔十分钟打一次，直到我推开家门，她刚把话筒放下。我对老婆的小题大做不以为然 ： "我又不是小孩子，还能出什么事情？"老婆却说有一种预感，觉得我不接电话就不会回来了，我拍拍老婆的脑袋 ，笑了： "傻瓜！"不过，从此以后我一直没有忘记及时给手机充电。 后来我升了职，有了钱，手机换了好几个。突然有一天，我想起欠着老婆的那枚戒指，便兴冲冲地拉她去商厦。可 是她又犹豫了，说： "白金钻戒套在手指上有什么用啊？给我买个手机好吗？我可以经常跟你联系。"于是我就给她买了一个 手机。 那天，我们一个在卧室，一个在客厅，互相发着短信息，玩得高兴极了。 一天夜里，我和同事到朋友家玩牌，正玩在兴头上，老婆打来了电话： "你在哪里？怎么还不回家？""我在同事家里玩牌。"" 你什么时候回来？ ""呆会儿吧。"输了赢，赢了输，老婆的电话打了一次又一次。外面下起了大雨，老婆的电话又响了： "你究竟在哪里？在干什么？快回来！""没告诉你吗？我在同事家玩，下这么大的雨我怎么回去！""那你告诉 我你在什么地方，我来接你！ "" 不用了！"一起打牌的朋友都嘲笑我"妻管严 " ，一气之下，我把手机关了。 天亮了，我输得两手空空，朋友用车子把我送回家，不料家门紧锁，老婆不在家。就在这时，电话响了，是岳母打 来的，电话那头哭着说：她深夜冒着雨出来，骑着自行车，带着雨伞去我同事家找，找了一家又一家，路上出了车 祸，再也没有醒来。 我打开手机，只见上面有一条未读留言："你忘记了吗？今天是我们的结婚周年纪念曰呀！我去找你了，别乱跑， 我带着伞！ "她走在找我的路上，永远不会再醒来了。我泪流满面，一遍遍看着这条短信息，我觉得那一个晚上我输了整个世 界。 老婆去世已经 3 个月，可我仍然无法从噩梦中醒来，我不想工作，整曰消沉萎靡，并且一次次想到了陪她而去…… 转贴此文章的目的，就是要大家都学会珍惜！ 不要让爱你的人受到一丝一毫的伤害！ 不要等到失去了，才痛不欲生！ 如果，你感动了， 就请顶一下，不要让它沉下去。。 让更多的人看到它！ 让更多的人学会珍惜！
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05-11-2007, 09:11 AM
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06-11-2007, 11:53 AM
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sometimes, being in love & staying in love seem to be very different issues altogether. being in love could be temporary sizzle... while staying in love is kinda like a long long brew.
perhaps, the 1 we marry was once the 1 we loved most, just that things mellow down over a span of time.
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06-11-2007, 01:08 PM
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This is true, sometimes we need to cherish back the good old times when together, it will really help to maintain in a relationship.
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06-11-2007, 03:06 PM
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07-11-2007, 06:43 AM
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09-11-2007, 12:12 PM
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much as i've seen & heard, its fast becoming a tool of convenience for gals to rip 50% assets from their men....
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爱一生中不多不少，会有一次不得了，其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬，我陪你日夜颠倒，爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
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09-11-2007, 12:47 PM
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or marry a gay. So you can rip off his 50% assets if one day you want to divorce with him. SC
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09-11-2007, 12:54 PM
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LOL, gay marriage? u can by all means go ahead with it... i'm not game for it... LOL
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爱一生中不多不少，会有一次不得了，其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬，我陪你日夜颠倒，爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
a beauty; a blessing... a pauper; a curse... a beautiful impecunious; not sure if its a blessing or a curse
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09-11-2007, 01:10 PM
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Anyway, will pity the girl who marry you because they have no woman's charter to protect them. Because with people like you who suka suka marry them, make them pregnant, without the woman's charter to protect them and their rights, men like you can just suka suka dump them without giving them alimony or maintenance for kids. *Just a scenario.. If my example happens to depict anyone's real life situation, it is just a mere coincidence. If today your father dump you and your mum when you are just a small boy, without the woman's charter to protect your mum, you think your mum can put you thru education or your mum have to slog like hard to feed you thru school while your father finds another woman to start his new life? Would you as a son love your father or love your mother instead? So before blaming the woman's charter look at the different positions before answering. SC
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09-11-2007, 02:46 PM
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besides, whoever said that marriage is so that the man can dump the spouse/family? though its becoming a trend that the ladies r the ones taking advantage of the system... Quote:
meanwhile, i still view the system as not really a fair deal, since its being abused in present day context. back then, the charter was drafted to protect the women (i acknowledge)... cos it was largely the men who're the bread-winners. so in the event of a divorce, the women r left stranded. however, may need some adjustments & fine tuning in present day context, since the women are financially independant. FYI, its not always guaranteed that the wife has automatic custody, if there's any child(ren), the court will discern who can afford & better provide for the child(ren) at the rate that women are filing for divorce (over trivial matters) these days, really seem to suggest that marriage has indeed become a game. p.s.: though i dont expect u to agree, since its never your style.
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爱一生中不多不少，会有一次不得了，其实没人比我知道 你就是我的不能不要。如果黑夜太难熬，我陪你日夜颠倒，爱一场该付出多少-因为你我不计较。
a beauty; a blessing... a pauper; a curse... a beautiful impecunious; not sure if its a blessing or a curse
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