Why do you all cheat?

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by freshstartm

I haven't cheated...yet but...
most guys will probably cheat, if given the opportunity. it's wired in our dna to seek out new, younger sexual partners. That said, pretty sure my father never cheated.

But that's because he never had the opportunity to do so as a low paid employee working long hours slaving away...but if he had the money and time, he probably would have...especially since my mother was a busy, workaholic career woman

that is quite an unfair assessment of your father. because he did remain true in the end.

[freshstartm]

Yes, a much stronger and happier man than me.

[mervis99]

the same old pussy u not sian meh

[basicfun]

cheating is the next stage to enlightenment

[Frankiegoes]

marriage usually kill every sexual fantasy....married people try to convince themselves it's not true, but I think so, and it's the reason why escorts works a lot

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by Frankiegoes

marriage usually kill every sexual fantasy....married people try to convince themselves it's not true, but I think so, and it's the reason why escorts works a lot

marriage is one,

but i thought the real killer is the kids.

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by basicfun

cheating is the next stage to enlightenment

so have you reached nirvana yet???

[Summerhillt]

I married young and I think my marriage is seriously failing. I’ve been caught before cheating before married but still we went to marry. That’s cause I really loved her. Then now marry Liao at first I Sibeh love and told myself not to cheat. Chiong commercial can Liao. But knn, now I know a siambu from siamdiu, I chiong siamdiu at least 10-12 years Liao. I know which siambu can or cannot.. I told myself before never kena kc trap. Wa cb, now I Kena gfe and kc trap by this siambu like, she will let me talk to her brother when she’s back in Bkk. She dares to video call me anytime.. she even shows me her pet.. omg we are like seriously dating. And this is the feeling I fucking yearn for. Whereas my wife just wants me to Paynow her…


Yes and I’ve got caught recently and now she legits wants a divorce haiz. I am at wits end. I still love her and can’t bear to see her sobbing eyes

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by Summerhillt

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I married young and I think my marriage is seriously failing. I’ve been caught before cheating before married but still we went to marry. That’s cause I really loved her. Then now marry Liao at first I Sibeh love and told myself not to cheat. Chiong commercial can Liao. But knn, now I know a siambu from siamdiu, I chiong siamdiu at least 10-12 years Liao. I know which siambu can or cannot.. I told myself before never kena kc trap. Wa cb, now I Kena gfe and kc trap by this siambu like, she will let me talk to her brother when she’s back in Bkk. She dares to video call me anytime.. she even shows me her pet.. omg we are like seriously dating. And this is the feeling I fucking yearn for. Whereas my wife just wants me to Paynow her…

Yes and I’ve got caught recently and now she legits wants a divorce haiz. I am at wits end. I still love her and can’t bear to see her sobbing eyes

Bro, your wife did not give you enough sex

[larue]

Originally Posted by Summerhillt

I married young and I think my marriage is seriously failing. I’ve been caught before cheating before married but still we went to marry. That’s cause I really loved her. Then now marry Liao at first I Sibeh love and told myself not to cheat. Chiong commercial can Liao. But knn, now I know a siambu from siamdiu, I chiong siamdiu at least 10-12 years Liao. I know which siambu can or cannot.. I told myself before never kena kc trap. Wa cb, now I Kena gfe and kc trap by this siambu like, she will let me talk to her brother when she’s back in Bkk. She dares to video call me anytime.. she even shows me her pet.. omg we are like seriously dating. And this is the feeling I fucking yearn for. Whereas my wife just wants me to Paynow her…


Yes and I’ve got caught recently and now she legits wants a divorce haiz. I am at wits end. I still love her and can’t bear to see her sobbing eyes

Cannot tell what it is you want.

Is it remorse you feel at your wife’s sobbing eyes or discomfort?

Don’t be confused.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Summerhillt

I married young and I think my marriage is seriously failing. I’ve been caught before cheating before married but still we went to marry. That’s cause I really loved her. Then now marry Liao at first I Sibeh love and told myself not to cheat. Chiong commercial can Liao. But knn, now I know a siambu from siamdiu, I chiong siamdiu at least 10-12 years Liao. I know which siambu can or cannot.. I told myself before never kena kc trap. Wa cb, now I Kena gfe and kc trap by this siambu like, she will let me talk to her brother when she’s back in Bkk. She dares to video call me anytime.. she even shows me her pet.. omg we are like seriously dating. And this is the feeling I fucking yearn for. Whereas my wife just wants me to Paynow her…


Yes and I’ve got caught recently and now she legits wants a divorce haiz. I am at wits end. I still love her and can’t bear to see her sobbing eyes

that's the way the cookie crumbles bro.

do you have kids? if yes, that might become a reason to rough it out and stay together.
If not, just go where your heart leads.
When men/women cheat, sure we will have remorse, or guilt but I think the lust, love whatever you call it, attraction is stronger than the former.
So it probably doesn't matter what we say, you will follow your heart.

Its the same as over the many years we say to bros, don't get KC, don't fall in love with a whore, don't leave your wife for a whore, or just treat it as commercial sex, but the bro, still falls in love, and then complains he is in lots of heartache because of the job she does. He then tries to handle it by pulling back, but he realises he has fallen too deep within the abyss.
In the infatuation stage, we all feel like this was a dream unfulfilled. It will pass like all things, we all get older, more matured, and the salt rinsed through the waters of time, no longer stays salty.
Its just part of the journey, do what you feel is right for you.

On that note, when women cheat, its the same as well, they would follow their hearts, and its a heartless one.

[ItsATrap]

Funny story..

My marriage is pretty great actually. Love my wife and we have sex fairly regularly.

For me the problem started when I travel for business. Sometimes I am overseas for weeks at a time and of course get lonely and horny.. at first visit strip club, then one thing led to another now I am an international chiongster. But I'm always clear with myself, just to relieve my physical needs but absolutely no emotional cheating.

Until I met this one girl. First time in my life I chiong, then ask the girl 'tmr morning you free not?? (it was a Saturday evening). We actually spent more time chatting than actually fucking. Thought that was nice. Anyway met her again on Sunday morning, then unfortunately I needed to leave town liao. Now we exchange emails like friends like that and she is making plans to visit me in SG early next year.

It's a freaking slippery slope because I am already planning in my head on how to tell my wife "Oh I am going to meet a colleague visiting from overseas" (which is totally believable and legitimate because this happens fairly often). WTF am I doing??? Help me.

[larue]

Originally Posted by ItsATrap

Funny story..

My marriage is pretty great actually. Love my wife and we have sex fairly regularly.

For me the problem started when I travel for business. Sometimes I am overseas for weeks at a time and of course get lonely and horny.. at first visit strip club, then one thing led to another now I am an international chiongster. But I'm always clear with myself, just to relieve my physical needs but absolutely no emotional cheating.

Until I met this one girl. First time in my life I chiong, then ask the girl 'tmr morning you free not?? (it was a Saturday evening). We actually spent more time chatting than actually fucking. Thought that was nice. Anyway met her again on Sunday morning, then unfortunately I needed to leave town liao. Now we exchange emails like friends like that and she is making plans to visit me in SG early next year.

It's a freaking slippery slope because I am already planning in my head on how to tell my wife "Oh I am going to meet a colleague visiting from overseas" (which is totally believable and legitimate because this happens fairly often). WTF am I doing??? Help me.

You are in a real pickle.

Hopefully you can partition your feelings well for both parties.

There are people who can do that, but it takes a whole special mindset and discipline to compartmentalize each relationship so well that not a single inkling of suspicion is ever aroused in the primary partner.

You need to be sure this new lover will never knock on your day wanting more than what you can offer, if you decide to head down this path.

If you have kids though, and you value keeping the family together then this is probably not a good path to take.

[bendadick]

Originally Posted by ItsATrap

Funny story..

My marriage is pretty great actually. Love my wife and we have sex fairly regularly.

For me the problem started when I travel for business. Sometimes I am overseas for weeks at a time and of course get lonely and horny.. at first visit strip club, then one thing led to another now I am an international chiongster. But I'm always clear with myself, just to relieve my physical needs but absolutely no emotional cheating.

Until I met this one girl. First time in my life I chiong, then ask the girl 'tmr morning you free not?? (it was a Saturday evening). We actually spent more time chatting than actually fucking. Thought that was nice. Anyway met her again on Sunday morning, then unfortunately I needed to leave town liao. Now we exchange emails like friends like that and she is making plans to visit me in SG early next year.

It's a freaking slippery slope because I am already planning in my head on how to tell my wife "Oh I am going to meet a colleague visiting from overseas" (which is totally believable and legitimate because this happens fairly often). WTF am I doing??? Help me.

This one is a dangerous road my friend. If you do not want to ruin your marriage, I strongly advise against it. You should have have kept in contact after you left the country in the first place. We go around fuck around bad enough already. If you get emotionally involved, paper cannot cover fire. No matter how good your cover up is, your behaviour will change and show. Your wife will know.

[superlibido]

Originally Posted by bendadick

This one is a dangerous road my friend. If you do not want to ruin your marriage, I strongly advise against it. You should have have kept in contact after you left the country in the first place. We go around fuck around bad enough already. If you get emotionally involved, paper cannot cover fire. No matter how good your cover up is, your behaviour will change and show. Your wife will know.

Totally agree. Please do not go through with this if you do not want to ruin your marriage.