WL As Girlfriend....awkward if she work ? - Page 9

Horsepower · #**121** 19-07-2005, 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by LengKia

well ,sometime it can be a diliemma if the WL never accept your $$$ for bonking. perhaps she is trying to play mind games....

think this is even worst off ..rather to pay for her service

There is always hidden agenda if they don't accept $$$. After all WL is here to earn money.

simnon · #**122** 19-07-2005, 09:33 PM

She is back for 30 days again, although I tried very hard to forget her.
Her call last week Monday from China set me into the sweet memories mode.
Pick her at the airport on Wednesday and had a good chat and off she went to make her bucks..after all they are here for the $$$$

Today had lunch with her and she ask me if I love her, I was dumb at the moment and I said I do not know if it is love or infactuation.

Maybe she do have feelings after all..

I guess I may want to try thaivisitor 's advice and see how things go..

Cheers

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Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Well, after having his heart yearns for the girl for quite sometime, the guy finally call the girl, take a trip up, and continued with the relationship. He doesn't mind if he's being cheated by the girl as it's only money and that, you can always earn back. Today, the guy is happily married with the girl with a kid too.

thaivisitor

Horsepower · #**123** 19-07-2005, 09:41 PM

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Originally Posted by simnon

She is back for 30 days again, although I tried very hard to forget her.
Her call last week Monday from China set me into the sweet memories mode.
Pick her at the airport on Wednesday and had a good chat and off she went to make her bucks..after all they are here for the $$$$

Today had lunch with her and she ask me if I love her, I was dumb at the moment and I said I do not know if it is love or infactuation.

Maybe she do have feelings after all..

I guess I may want to try thaivisitor 's advice and see how things go..

Cheers

What about yourselves bro ? Do you love her ? Not all PRCs all mercenary. Even those here to make money, they are human beings after all. They can love someone. Only thing is whether you can accept a WL as gf or wife ?

bakah · #**124** 19-07-2005, 10:37 PM

My 2 cents...I'd like to do this in a chinese phrases strung together thingy but dunnow how lah so "han yu ping ying" montage hehe.Computer I only now how to play game

"ZI GU DUO QING KONG YU HEN,CI HENG MIAN MIAN WU JUE QI" - From time immemorial hate stems from love,there is no end in sight for such hate.
piggy journey to the west

"ZI GU YING XIONG NAN GUO MEI REN GUAN, CHENG QIANG BU DI MEI REN XIAO" - From time immemorial a beauty has always been the bane of heros, castles and walls are no match for a beauty's smile.
the lament of many advisors from the time of kings and emperors

"NIN WO JIE FAN REN NAN MIAN YOU ZHA NIAN" - We are all but mere mortals, such thoughts are inevitable.
lyrics from a song

"WUN SHI JIAN QIN WEI HE WU,ZHI JIAO REN SHENG SI XIANG XU" - Ask the world what is this thing call love that mortals cling to in life and death.
some kongfu novel and movie

"YI QE JIE HONG CHENG,YOU HE XUI QIANG QIU" - All is but dust in the wind, why do you cling on so?
1001 monks be it fiction or real life have said this verse

"MING MING ZHONG BI YOU AN PAI, YI QE SUI YUAN BA" - All is already
planned, let fate run its course
another 1001 monks verse

A thousand years of wisdom are but the wind past your ears.Who can fault you?Who can fault any of us?Your mind is already made up,your heart is long gone.You seek an answer here in SBF.You seek directions.Many have been given here but you see none and you will see none.Only thing you can find and see here is but comfort.The answer is in your heart.All is destined, all is planned let fate run its course.

simnon · #**125** 20-07-2005, 08:00 AM

Guess I need time to sort out my feelings and see how it works to have a WL as a wife in SG as some of my kakis have upped her before.

Thanks

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Originally Posted by Horsepower

What about yourselves bro ? Do you love her ? Not all PRCs all mercenary. Even those here to make money, they are human beings after all. They can love someone. Only thing is whether you can accept a WL as gf or wife ?

aaaaaa · #**126** 20-07-2005, 08:15 AM

Brother, i also had this type of suituation in shanghai, can advised me?

dickrick · #**127** 20-07-2005, 08:28 AM

Hello Bro, just my two cents worth. If I put myself in your situation, even tho she may say she will be faithful etc. at the back of my mind there will always be a thought that she will be contacted by her ex-customer and one thing leads to another. She may not start anything but innocently she may come across an old favourite and conversation start. This could happen and you have to bear this in mind. Also, since she has "been around" she may make comparisions later on in marriage.
I presume the money issue of you making up for her loss of income has been settled? But anyway, hope I'm wrong if you decide to continue. All the best.

HuiGe3387 · #**128** 20-07-2005, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by simnon

Guess I need time to sort out my feelings and see how it works to have a WL as a wife in SG as some of my kakis have upped her before.

Thanks

Yeah it's quite awakward when your WL gf has sit with your kakis at ktv, or even got bonked by them. Also quite awkward if your kaki call her to ask her out when she's with you.

#**129** 20-07-2005, 09:22 AM

It's not awkward... It's downright PAINFUL! But you can see what you are getting into, that's how you met her after all. Unless you can pull her out of this line and be with her all the time, you should be prepared for the worst! If "YOUR" friends call her for her "work"... They're NOT your friends at all!!! Unless of course you didn't tell them you're with her. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, you should know best yourself...

DNAT · #**130** 20-07-2005, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Horsepower

There is always hidden agenda if they don't accept $$$. After all WL is here to earn money.

I always ask my self: "What is the next best use of the WL's time, if she not here to make money?"

This reality check would prevent us from falling into their traps as well as our own fantasy. Hope it helps.

sbfpolis · #**131** 05-08-2005, 04:07 PM

Just gotta know this WL who is going back soon. Had good bonk and time together, but she start asking me bring her to shopping and so far chalked up quite a lot of bills because she need to buy things back for sister, brother, etc..... I try to steer clear and start asking myself what have I gotten into....

Anybody got this experience ?

DNAT · #**132** 05-08-2005, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by sbfpolis

so far chalked up quite a lot of bills because she need to buy things back for sister, brother, etc..... I try to steer clear and start asking myself what have I gotten into....

Anybody got this experience ?

Walking ATM? .. Its common ..

#**133** 05-08-2005, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by sbfpolis

Just gotta know this WL who is going back soon. Had good bonk and time together, but she start asking me bring her to shopping and so far chalked up quite a lot of bills because she need to buy things back for sister, brother, etc..... I try to steer clear and start asking myself what have I gotten into....

Anybody got this experience ?

better dun play play with WLs . Stick to the 3F to be safe

Horsepower · #**134** 05-08-2005, 10:44 PM

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Originally Posted by sbfpolis

Just gotta know this WL who is going back soon. Had good bonk and time together, but she start asking me bring her to shopping and so far chalked up quite a lot of bills because she need to buy things back for sister, brother, etc..... I try to steer clear and start asking myself what have I gotten into....

Anybody got this experience ?

Press F10 and escape .........

axcel · #**135** 05-08-2005, 11:54 PM

Hi ALL

just to share my story, not sure will it be a happy ending, but so far so good.

My current GF is a Hunan PRC and is 31 already, she got into the KTV scene at the age of 28, after being hurt by ex-BF who ran away with a richer girl + family went into financials. before 28 she was just a normal factory QA girl. anyway, she was in the KTV scene for 3 yrs and i met her on her first trip to Singapore in a KTV in 2004 Dec. only knew her for 1 wk and she left, but we made a pact to spend Xmas in SHA as i had business trip there and decided to take leave there. Once there, she took good care of me, and even bought me a Montblanc pen and wallet from the Montblanc shop (i was there to verify), as i used a ballpoint and a wornout wallet. anyway, we did bonk thru out. was feeling that i was falling for her but still told myself to control. anyway, after i left, she would call me in the evenings and after her KTV work at about 2-3am. always from her home. felt very uncomfortable but no choice, as i am in debt and still undecided on the relationship. but this was her way in telling me that she is safe at home and is still truthful. always contactable whenever i call her.

since Lunar new year till now, has been to her family twice and found that after 3 yrs of "work" she contributed 50% to the families 5 rm flat (fully paid). and the parents did not know her past and parents are decent people and not those that sell the daughter kind. both are retired teachers and recieves a pension enough for their livelihood. anyway, after knowing me since dec last year, she quit in May tis year and started to look for normal 9-5 jobs and take up english courses. we spend time with each other every mth in china as my work takes me there regularly. till now, the only $ that i remit to her is for the english course and some spending $$, not more than S$400 a month.

she has come and stayed with me and my parents (I am not married). sometimes she worries that i will remember her past and that she would be a burden due to her education level and that she cannot compare to english speaking singapore girls. i always comfort her as i have seen, experience and tested that she really loves me and willing to leave her "old" job and work normal jobs. even now, we chat during lunchtime and we would chat from 8 - 9 pm on the long distance phone everynite and some times i would even call her at 11pm. as again, always contactable and at home.

we are talking about marraige next yr as she told me that she is no longer young and wants to settle down. she knows i have no assets nor rich and that i have debts to clear, but she just want to marry for love and not $$ and that although $$ is important for marriage but a simple life will do. she is even willing to stay with my parents just to let me have time to save up.

i am comfortable taking the next step as she is not those SYT that might marry and divorce to get PR (she is coming 32 next yr) and that i have no assets or $$ for her to cheat. she could have married people who are rich in china (yah, she's pretty) but she never did as she found it to be wrong. i maybe lucky to have turn her from the dark side and so far, she always puts me first and that if we dont have $$ we would eat simple, but if i have a bit extra, i would still pamper her with clothes although she has cut her spending habits. she has adjusted to life after the dark 3 yrs and i have also accepted her past.

so brothers, any comments to my story and i welcome questions.

just sharing that i might be the lucky one out of a thousand to have found someone in the MOST UNEXPECTED PLACE.