Does the so call " true love " still exist???

[natsuki]

Originally Posted by giggz83

so in the meantime .. stay positive .. work hard. earn more $ .. see the world. we're still in this small dot. see the world, look far.

theres more meaning to life than we think it is.

good luck

Thank you. Anyway, maybe i type too fast and abit hard to understand... I mean, sometimes i also don't understand wat am i typing. But I hope u do get what i mean in my last post. I mean if giving the guy free sex and have nothing in the end and the guy juz hit and run, lugi... So, at least being a FL is better... At least there's no string attach, then u get money and u could save up...

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

Relax, sis... Different strokes different lives. Everyone has his own views. Strictly speaking, there is nothing absolutely right or wrong. Those who are serious in a relationship will definitely give in totally with passion, meaning even sacrificing one's valuable asset. In terms of assets, a man's point of view can be different from a girl's. For a man, it is definitely the money. For a girl, the asset is... her body.

Maybe... Who knows??? Relac relac, yeah i'm okay. Certainly fine. Thank you. Well, i do agree with there are no definate answer in everything. But most people tend to classify all FLs together. Not all are really that bad... U understand what i mean?

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by sacs

haha, ya lor........ sometimes i see those babes or SYT with another ah beng, i was like, what does she see in him? bigger Co*k?? gals like bad guys? or what? haha....

So now, i can spend a few hundred bucks buying things for myself, but seriously, if u ask me to spend that kind of $ on a gal, I will think twice. Can't they afford themselves? if they can't, then dun have so much high expectation of their bf.

Women feed on men. Their spendthrift ways is the beginning of their man's end.

If you can afford that kind of money on a materialistic gal, better buy a 3 series and show off at the club. Who knows you get lucky. Gals are materialistic, so why not lets just get a prestigious ride and grab some ladies at the club. Gals enjoy it lah. They know it.

The feeling between bf drive picanto and a showy bf driving a 3 series. Its only human for the gal to fall for the latter. No doubts about that. I always remember the ladies in my company yakking about finding gold turtle and, after bonus, all of them look better...... for obvious reasons.

To quote a lecturer, "Without women, the world economy would ve collapsed." Guess we (guys) still owe the gals a living. lol.

[giggz83]

i beg to differ ...

there are still good girls around .. not all girls are materialistic.

why not put it this way .. lets call them practical? practical as in kids need money .. house need money .. utilities need money .. living together sure need money.

not all girl would want a big house .. nor do they crave for big cars .. nor good food nor a maid to serve them.

i believe girls just need quality time and attention from us .. men. to listen to them .. to give a listening ear when they need to. to be there for them when they need us to.

i believe its that simple. as for material stuffs are just icing on the cake. if you got it will be better .. if no, then nvm

you need someone to take the mrt with you when your car breaks down .. isnt it?

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

IMO, for the guys who replied in this thread, most of them are just nice chaps in person, but just lack a listening ear from the women. .........

There’s always this widely-held perception that single guys who go for prostitutes must be some hideous-looking, socially awkward loser… the fact is most are just nice, decent people who perhaps just lack that bit of luck in love and relationship

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by giggz83

i beg to differ ...

there are still good girls around .. not all girls are materialistic.

you need someone to take the mrt with you when your car breaks down .. isnt it?

Yup... i dun rely agree with the "reality" that most local gals are materialistic and go for guys with money & fast car. Maybe it's cos of my environment..i've a few gal frens who are simply sweet & caring homely type of gals, the kind u can't help but feel like falling for her. But alas, the "reality" is also like what bro shuang jie gun put it haha

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

ya lor,i always thought so.this world confirm have gd gals de but all happily attached liao..

The most heart ache reality is not that there are no good gals around, definitely have one, just that it's for everyone else, not meant for me

[Deztruct]

Just like to share 2 songs with pple here

Just the way you are - Billy Joel

Don't go changing, to try and please me
You never let me down before
Don't imagine you're too familiar
And I don't see you anymore
I wouldn't leave you in times of trouble
We never could have come this far
I took the good times, I'll take the bad times
I'll take you just the way you are

Don't go trying some new fashion
Don't change the color of your hair
You always have my unspoken passion
Although I might not seem to care

I don't want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are.

I need to know that you will always be
The same old someone that I knew
What will it take 'til you believe in me
The way that I believe in you.

I said I love you, and that's forever
And this I promise from the heart
I could not love you any better
I love you just the way you are.

爱一直闪亮 - 罗美玲

我一个人的沙发上 还有你拥抱的力量
起身才看见孤独的形状 在空气里曝光
明明是咖啡不加糖 怎么喝还是懒洋洋
你不在的天气装了开关 碰到天就黑暗
我以为爱一直闪亮 现在剩一个人坚强
想念在手中 张开变翅膀
我还懂不懂飞翔(忘记了我懂飞翔)
我看见爱一直在闪亮
想逃的心改变了方向
只因这城市情歌太悲伤
才让一碗热汤 红了眼框
电视里爱情播不完
怎么转才能离开现场
如果我承认你让我很难忘
结局能不能换

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

There’s always this widely-held perception that single guys who go for prostitutes must be some hideous-looking, socially awkward loser… the fact is most are just nice, decent people who perhaps just lack that bit of luck in love and relationship

Haha..maybe pple who hv this perception noe me personally..i admit i am hideous looking, socially awkward loser..not nice n decent at all

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

Haha..maybe pple who hv this perception noe me personally..i admit i am hideous looking, socially awkward loser..not nice n decent at all

What hideous looking? Even the most hideous looking can find someone. Remember the fairy tale "Beauty and the Beast", its something that really happens today. But, these days .... its more like "Beauty and the Ah Beng Kia".

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

What hideous looking? Even the most hideous looking can find someone. Remember the fairy tale "Beauty and the Beast", its something that really happens today. But, these days .... its more like "Beauty and the Ah Beng Kia".

I can only ur siggy to ans u back

I'm not an idealist, but one who had an irrevocable contract with faith. Being cynical is not a choice, but a result of idealisms which had failed man too often. A lack of faith is not only due to failures, but caused by man's decision not to have faith, as well.

[DenmarkDoll]

As usual, nothing will last.

Enjoy while u could. Just learn this logic from a fren. Although i hope this time it can last. Haha.

Enjoy.




p/s: Juz came bac frm out-stationing... sorry... pm will be reply accordingly. sincerely apologise to every bro who pmed. dui bu qi...

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

Haha..maybe pple who hv this perception noe me personally..i admit i am hideous looking, socially awkward loser..not nice n decent at all

bro, the fact that there are still gals who come & ask u go for a meal shows u are none of the above...

The gals i like almost NEVER contact me before .... sometimes i was jus wondering say one day i meet with an accident & die, they wouldn't even know since they virtually never contact me...

sometimes i wonder what makes that difference in the quality of life amongst people. like some people are born with rich & doting parents, some may have gambling & abusive parents.

some people jus have that beautiful, devoted & caring girlfriend without having to put in much effort. some people, despite the best of intention & effort, seem to be perpetually struggling with rejection & loneliness...

But i guess that's what it's called Life ....

[littlelephant]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

There’s always this widely-held perception that single guys who go for prostitutes must be some hideous-looking, socially awkward loser… the fact is most are just nice, decent people who perhaps just lack that bit of luck in love and relationship

Not really true some single guys who go for pros are also well to do very yan dao and are charming people who are not losers and have pretty good relationship with luck in love but just chose to have different lifestyles and a different side dish with the free time and money that they have.

End of the day money makes the world go round, we work for money these girls work for money. Make money work for you. dont be a slave to money bottomline.

[giggz83]

its a wacky werid world here..

those rich, young and handsome guys got money got car .. but they chose to focus on their career .. or some go into "gay-hood" ..

then those pretty babe .. they "released" .. maybe they keep one or two.

then there're some lucky guy .. who took their chances well. always on the stand-by. always well-prepared. though they may not be handsome nor rich. but they are always well-prepared and they took their chance.

then there're also some, procastinators .. wait and wait .. choose and choose..

say if a fat boy choose the 1st strategy .. then if you choose the 2nd strategy .. chances are, you would be cursing and swearing at him at orchard. if you happen to see him.

so i think, its all about waiting and taking chances. some true love have to be found. then some, may come knocking your door, if you're lucky.

cheers!~

[justwanadoit]

Originally Posted by playboy82

Actually i am very tired already... been trying to search and search, and after so many fail attempt. Its not a single blow that wear me out, but rather all the small crush, disappointment, rejection, bad experiences accumulate together tat punch me right in the face, a hard one. Think i am Tian Sha Ku Xing, since young, i am not popular with gals and not those types that all the friends will gather ard or the centre of attention, maybe thats my life, and i have to face it.

Bro playboy,

I suggest u join a church la, a lot of my desperate singles kakis joined a church group, gei si pious but out there looking for gals. There the gals very pretty and well groomed one. Many of them join for gals then kenna converted to become believers then find gf and then married liaoz.

Last time all moaning no gfs, now got babies liao, look at them now also feel happy for them.

I personally think the 'Power' there can change lives no matter even if many of them come with wrong motives like looking for gals or something else, all also 'He' help one.

[playboy82]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

bro, the fact that there are still gals who come & ask u go for a meal shows u are none of the above...

The gals i like almost NEVER contact me before .... sometimes i was jus wondering say one day i meet with an accident & die, they wouldn't even know since they virtually never contact me...

sometimes i wonder what makes that difference in the quality of life amongst people. like some people are born with rich & doting parents, some may have gambling & abusive parents.

some people jus have that beautiful, devoted & caring girlfriend without having to put in much effort. some people, despite the best of intention & effort, seem to be perpetually struggling with rejection & loneliness...

But i guess that's what it's called Life ....

Damn Right.....