Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by vietboy

now she have a few more viet spouses as friends.

yea, tell me about it, my baxa meeting yours today

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

bro vietboy if his bx widen circle of friends means she widens her circle of spies. then everywhere KT goes also kana spied. agree?

same goes for any of your gf/wife/bg/bx etc... more friends for her meaning higher chance u will bump into her friends (while doing something u r not supposed to be seen)

What wind blow u here too?? Vietnam wind?? "Chee hong"??

dun quite agree with u. Unless she has friends in every estate in singapore, then everywhere KT goes he is high risk. On the other hand, get her to know those viet spouses not those WLs so they have something in common to ba tam about. What kind of circle of friends is also important. So be selective on the kind of friends to let her mix with. Not that i mean WLs are bad people. Just they dun have common topics as our wifes.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by SingViet

yea, tell me about it, my baxa meeting yours today

Ya loh. Plus another bro's wife.

[Blast88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

have you ever thought of going for classes together with your?
most evening after dinner, i will go to the park with my bx to take a walk.. everytime will stop by those basket ball court or pavillion near the cc to see people dancing, tai ji, etc...

I suggested to my bx that we register for a tango dancing class. Just like what the viets do in 23/9 park....she give it a laugh say i khung.

I have attended the yoga class together with her before & going together for line dance class again next month. I believe our CC activities are one of the platform our bx can learn to adapt & integrate to our community, from there she make frd of various races & opportunity for her to 'polish' her English when communicating with non-chinese. After all these, now I can feel that she happlier especially when some previous course mate call & send regards to her. As she was one of the few foreigners whose take up courses at our CC, now even our MP also know her, once she took part in CC cooking competition & her viet cuisine receive compliment from our MP whose always teasing her 'when she will make the viet 'spring roll' again to treat him' when he saw her at CC.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by jackbl

It's cut & paste... Only lazy people dunno where to find info abt vn... I only go to vn a few times, how to compare with people going vn so many times, of course they shd know more than me

In order to cut and paste also must find .... by doing this .. knoweldge also improves ...

But then shoudl do it for yourself and not to sppon feed others lazy bumb ...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Golden question

They can learn a foreign language very fast ..

Yes ,, U are very right ... my wife can communicate with my mum in basic mandarine .... very good liao ... nows they are talking many ....

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Hah not issue meh? I very worried lor. Dunno if breakfast she got eat not as she dun like bread and our usual breakfast food; she dun like our noodles etc. she only like rice like chcken rice duck rice com chao not much choice unless eat zhi char.. Sianz. Very worried esp when she pregnant how let her eat properly n happily..

It takes time ... how long has your wife been in Snigapore

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

hahha, i always 做坏人。

I AGREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEe ....

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Kim91

.. felt really khong or kana black magic.

Khong = NO

Khung = CRAZY ...

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

my bx has yet to mix around with singapore friends or get close to spouses of some bros here... its just hi bye hi bye hi bye...

lucky is that my bx don't feell lonely here as she has her own relative and friends in sillypore.

[QUOTE=SingViet;7325539]

Originally Posted by Blast88

When my baxa came here in 2007 (after 4 years in VN with me), she actually got quite used to chinese food already. When i was staying in VN, i often bring her for chinese food at various places in HCMC. She like chinese food. After she came here, i brought her for roti prata, she like. But she's not used to other indian and malay food. My work is flexible so i am beside here most of the time. She also assist me to handle my VN office.

Its good to let your baxa mix around with other friends. My baxa actually doesn't like to mix around much with vietnamese as they gossip a lot. My wife has china, malaysia and also singaporean friends. These 2 years, my baxa started to mix around with 1 or 2 viet spouses in Singapore.

my bxa also dun really like to mix with Vietnamese in singapore as she also feel that they gossip too much and noi chuyen too much...
only sitck to her own close grp of frens frm same hometown in Singapore...

she got to knw another vietnamese near my place as she got her hair done there thru recommendation but also just maintain as hi bye type of fren...

she does feel lonely at times as each fren hav their own family to take care of but thats life if she chose not to mix too much....

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

bro vietboy if his bx widen circle of friends means she widens her circle of spies. then everywhere KT goes also kana spied. agree?

she import her own spies at times... also there are permanent spies around.
if widen the circles of spies, i can stay home pcc liao

Originally Posted by vietboy

dun quite agree with u. Unless she has friends in every estate in singapore, then everywhere KT goes he is high risk. On the other hand, get her to know those viet spouses not those WLs so they have something in common to ba tam about. What kind of circle of friends is also important. So be selective on the kind of friends to let her mix with. Not that i mean WLs are bad people. Just they dun have common topics as our wifes.

no need every estate... place spies in GL and JC can kill off my ECA liao.
my bx don't like to ba tam. She told me anything in the house is kept in the house and nothing to ba tam or talk about to others. I am infact very happy that she know how and when to talk and when to keep quite.

My bx cricles of friends are all WL and she got more topic with them. I am not worried of her being influnced.. in fact she is seen as a da jie in her circle. what she say and scold, they will listen. She also take opportunity to earn money from them. i.e airticket (add $50), medi-cure ($20 and above), massage ($30). Within this one month here, she manage to scoop $600. She cease every opportunity to earn money.

I remember once, a bro show us a G-mart website.. my bx got interested as she see that the clothing seesm cheap. Her thought is not to buy to wear but buy to sell to those WL. Recently she go shopping with me and bought 2 necklace for $20. I thought she like it but yesterday she sold to her WL friends at $30 each...

Originally Posted by jf66312

my bxa also dun really like to mix with Vietnamese in singapore as she also feel that they gossip too much and noi chuyen too much...
only sitck to her own close grp of frens frm same hometown in Singapore...

same same... bx no gossip but she will still talk abit here and there. my bx would widen her circle of friends but its just hi bye kind and not get too close. i.e bx also get to know other WL of her WL friends.. reason is simple... more friends, more opportunity to earn money from them

[Blast88]

Just came back from Phuc Quoc island last week together with my bx family for hoilday. Quite disappointed place, under developed Jetty & run-down resorts & f**king expensive place to go comparing to Mui ne & Nha trang, bro whose intend to go better think twice

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Blast88

Just came back from Phuc Quoc island last week together with my bx family for hoilday. Quite disappointed place, under developed Jetty & run-down resorts & f**king expensive place to go comparing to Mui ne & Nha trang, bro whose intend to go better think twice

i cannot agree with you leh...I went last year cheap...stay at resort Thanh Kieu @ USD 19.00 per day...my report was in my HCM thread...agree with you that the roads to jetty was real bad...grossly under developed infrastructure...but the ferry to Rach Gia was inpressive...

I also being to Nha Trang 2 yrs ago and Mui Ne just last April...

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

no need every estate... place spies in GL and JC can kill off my ECA.

U still can go other places ma.
If every estate got spies, then u can't even go to meet yur other numbers even during the day!

[Blast88]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

i cannot agree with you leh...I went last year cheap...stay at resort Thanh Kieu @ USD 19.00 per day...my report was in my HCM thread...agree with you that the roads to jetty was real bad...grossly under developed infrastructure...but the ferry to Rach Gia was inpressive...

I also being to Nha Trang 2 yrs ago and Mui Ne just last April...

Expensive in the sense that we chartered a mini bus from chau doc to Ha tien ferry terminal for S$150, over there at Ha tien ferry ticket cost almost $15 per pax one way, total 8 pax, stay at 1 villa (forgot the name) cost USD200/nite, total spend 2 nite overthere, worth still intermitten raining throughout my stay there, nothing to explore only a small night market & seafood was also not cheap. Definitely will not visit again.