I befriended mine online and we met in person 3 weeks ago. Hung around LP where she tried to matchmake me with her friend but i wasnt really interested, although her friend was much more shapely and younger. Sent her friend back home and brought her out for dinner. We spent the remainder of the evening just talking and sent her back home when it was time. We kissed when we departed.
We met again 2 Sundays ago at LP and went to watch a movie. More physical contact this time. We kept kissing and hugging in the cinema. It was Gods of Egypt so no worries there. 😂 Brought her to ECP where we sat by the sea and had a nice long chat with plenty of kisses and she kept whispering to me that she wanted to 'help me come out' and kept asking to go back to my car. I obliged. We drove to a secluded carpark where she gave me a bj and took it in all in her mouth before spitting it out. I was thinking if it would get better.
It did.
Previous Sunday we met again. This time, she bought me dinner and drinks and after that rabah-rabah me in my car. And told me she wanted me. She asked me if wanted to go hotel. SHE. Asked ME. We met 2 days later, went to hotel and had a very stress relieving 2 hours. We still message every day.
I think the most important thing is, they are also human. They feel lonely and they want to be around people. We just have to treat them with respect and care and they will reciprocate. Several times over in my case. Just dont treat them like prostitutes. How many helpers pay for your dinner and still ask you if want to go hotel? Mind you guys, ive never used the word 'love' with her. And even she asked me if we can be friends with benefits of sorts.
Anyways, i cant really share my contact because she treats me with alot of respect and i intend to do the same thing. Im pretty sure im the only one she is seeing now because she is always texting me. I just wanted to share that it isnt always about money. Just be humane. And it will all work out. Cheers guys!
U r totally right treat them with respect n sure u can up them jus be patience n respect them
Yup I think so, cos it doesn't want to see, the maid fighting for maintenance fee for herself, for her children n for her family in Philippines. The SG guy might either end up in prison or declare bankrupt. Totally destroy n unable to stand up again. We r dealing with new generation of maid whom know the law.
meet a 28y maid in ION last sunday, and then meet her friend also 28y, find out that her friend was maid before and now a PR. asking her how she did it, she told me while her friend was maid 5 years ago, the husband and wife divorced (not because of her), and after a while she and the guy get married, and get the PR and stay here happily, now they have a beautiful baby abt 1 year +
then I tell her the percentage is very low, and she told me that according to her knowledge the successful rate is about 10% (i dont know how she get the number). Her friend is their role model now and most of the young maid in 20s are dream of like her friend.
For me it is first time that I saw such case myself
meet a 28y maid in ION last sunday, and then meet her friend also 28y, find out that her friend was maid before and now a PR. asking her how she did it, she told me while her friend was maid 5 years ago, the husband and wife divorced (not because of her), and after a while she and the guy get married, and get the PR and stay here happily, now they have a beautiful baby abt 1 year +
then I tell her the percentage is very low, and she told me that according to her knowledge the successful rate is about 10% (i dont know how she get the number). Her friend is their role model now and most of the young maid in 20s are dream of like her friend.
For me it is first time that I saw such case myself
Old time can cos no finger print record n they change new passport n name but now it v hard Alr cos ICA r v strict on this n they sent helper back if they married here n ban from Sg
got a pretty, sweet and lovely maid from a social app.
doesnt look like one at all, fair and tiny around 28yrs old.
cant tell is single mom too
i agreed treat them with respect, quite an easy target for me
so far shes the only maid i did cos the rest were too old or ugly
we have an awesome time
what i didnt like is i have to check in h81 on sunday.
very long waiting time
Old time can cos no finger print record n they change new passport n name but now it v hard Alr cos ICA r v strict on this n they sent helper back if they married here n ban from Sg
bro it only happen 2 years back, so maybe case by case. ICA can change the policy any time
Yup I think so, cos it doesn't want to see, the maid fighting for maintenance fee for herself, for her children n for her family in Philippines. The SG guy might either end up in prison or declare bankrupt. Totally destroy n unable to stand up again. We r dealing with new generation of maid whom know the law.
That's not true la cos you can marry a maid in their home country or even ROM in spore n they can use women's charter to sue spore husband. That wan is no fcuking doubt even if she's ex maid.
The true reason is becos spore garbagement allow them to enter spore to work as domestic helpers only.
They're nt in spore to find true love.
They're told they cannot marry sporeans.
If they marry, its a big fcuk you to Mom.
So of cos they don't allow.
I think the child automatically can b sporean especially if female bt the mother? Too bad lor
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That's not true la cos you can marry a maid in their home country or even ROM in spore n they can use women's charter to sue spore husband.
Not from what i know bro. For example bro if say a person marries an indonesian maid in indonesia. Now before you marry that maid, pls get a pre nuptial
Now lets say time for divorce, the man can file for divorce in indonesia asap, when this happens, the man will be responsible only for child maintenance (if there is a child) or follow the prenup if one is signed
This is because (see below)
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There may be cases where the parties to a marriage may pursue divorce proceedings in different countries, because they feel that the courts of that other country may grant them more favourable terms of divorce (for example, they may award custody of the children to one party). In such a case, the first court to grant a divorce will dissolve the marriage, and will also have power to decide all the matters relating to the terms of divorce (division of property, custody of children, maintenance of former wife etc).
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For phillipines its more different if you register with her in the phillipines, because in the phillipines divorce is illegal and hence the filipino cannot divorce her husband, its the law
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Philippine law doesn't allow divorces, however, it does allow for legal separation, annulment and marriage "voids" under the Family Code of the Philippines. Annulment, covered mainly by Article 45 of the laws, applies to a legitimate marriage that now has a valid ground to undo it, while a voided marriage is considered invalid from the beginning.
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So if your pinoy maid tries to divorce you in sg, all you have to do is show an annulment cert from phillipines, which will make her case void in sg, as marriage was annuled.
So moral of story is if you want to marry the maid, marry her in her country and avoid marrying her in sg at all costs
Also note no use signing a prenup in sg as its not recognised unlike other Asean nations
Also note no use signing a prenup in sg as its not recognised unlike other Asean nations
That's a lot of legal speak, and still I go back to rule # 1. If you are worried about consequences, stick to commercial sex, where you pay the girl to LEAVE.
Adding on, for the Women's charter etc, though that may apply, when the woman is a foreigner with no residency status, The law works differently, in favour of the Husband holding Pink IC.
And, in too many case, where wife got PR/Long term through marriage to Singapore man, ICA was not so forgiving and revoke the PR or Long terms. So, one for SG Govermet.
And once residency revoke, the woman must leave, and only recourse is social visit. Unless she have enough money to get a lawyer to sue you to make you pay.
The children, as papa is Singapore IC holder, become Sg Citizen, but that wont' work favour to mama's status as foreigner. Another one point for SG Govermet in protecting citizens.
For Philippine law, I will not worry much, as most girl claim to be seperated/annuled etc, but in reality, they never got married or husband vanished and they pretend to be divorced.
Divorce / annuling only work for rich in Philippines. Middle class or poor peoples can't afford to go through the process.
Example, President of Philippine Sister got her marriage annuled, and go on to live with another guy, and all that fast. On other Hand Juan Casey Gomez (fake name) may have to prove 10 year seperation before the case can be listened, or the man have to proof his wife gave him Sexual diseases, or beat or something, even then can take 4 to 5 year.
In the meantime, the Singaporean who marry the girl in Singapore, since the girl still not divorced, has committed adultery - yes, Philippine has adultery law.
Even if not married, if he sleep with, while she is legally marry, the lover can be put through hell, and forced to pay for the girl's previous children, her husband (yes, no fun paying for the husband .. ).
To cut the crap, let me put it this way- this forum is for screwing maid.
There are lot of hidden detail in marrying maids, starting from MOM refusing approval - leading to no long term residency or PR here. But that don't mean you cannot marry maid- you can marry, keep her in JB or in her home country, and visit. Lovely yeah ?
And don't believe bullshits of Maids. And few time also I met girl who said their maid friend marry Singaporean etc, and when I met the girl who marry Singaporean, the girl was never maid - but she don't want to say it as she love the maid buddies. And like I say before, girl come on social visa, do illegal work, and then find man marry, but tell her family she met the man while legally working as maid.
So again, don't micro analayse.
have fun !
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That's not true la cos you can marry a maid in their home country or even ROM in spore n they can use women's charter to sue spore husband. That wan is no fcuking doubt even if she's ex maid.
I am not lawyer, but I can't recall Women charter enforce on any woman who don't have residency in Singapore - and maid, by default, next to never get residency.
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If they marry, its a big fcuk you to Mom.
So of cos they don't allow.
There are case of maid marry citizen, get baby, come back to Singapore hoping to stay and ICA deport mother, and told her cannot come for 5 year, of course, the child can come stay with father. And MOM/ICA never budge. Even after so long, ICA insists not even long term visa- only 30 day visa, and one fellow had to put his wife live in JB and visit wife and son there.
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I think the child automatically can b sporean especially if female bt the mother? Too bad lor
Yes, child become Citizen because father is Citizen. But yes, mother ? Too bad, Singapore governement have very long memory of people who break law. Especially low level people like maids.
By the way, as I said, Philippine have Adultery law, so if maid not divorce legally and you fxxking her, her husband can make life miserable and make you pay him for life - of course, it can't be enforce in Singapore, but if you step in to Philippine, good luck .. Hasta la vista baby.
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That's a lot of legal speak, and still I go back to rule # 1. If you are worried about consequences, stick to commercial sex, where you pay the girl to LEAVE.
Adding on, for the Women's charter etc, though that may apply, when the woman is a foreigner with no residency status, The law works differently, in favour of the Husband holding Pink IC.
And, in too many case, where wife got PR/Long term through marriage to Singapore man, ICA was not so forgiving and revoke the PR or Long terms. So, one for SG Govermet.
And once residency revoke, the woman must leave, and only recourse is social visit. Unless she have enough money to get a lawyer to sue you to make you pay.
The children, as papa is Singapore IC holder, become Sg Citizen, but that wont' work favour to mama's status as foreigner. Another one point for SG Govermet in protecting citizens.
For Philippine law, I will not worry much, as most girl claim to be seperated/annuled etc, but in reality, they never got married or husband vanished and they pretend to be divorced.
Divorce / annuling only work for rich in Philippines. Middle class or poor peoples can't afford to go through the process.
Example, President of Philippine Sister got her marriage annuled, and go on to live with another guy, and all that fast. On other Hand Juan Casey Gomez (fake name) may have to prove 10 year seperation before the case can be listened, or the man have to proof his wife gave him Sexual diseases, or beat or something, even then can take 4 to 5 year.
In the meantime, the Singaporean who marry the girl in Singapore, since the girl still not divorced, has committed adultery - yes, Philippine has adultery law.
Even if not married, if he sleep with, while she is legally marry, the lover can be put through hell, and forced to pay for the girl's previous children, her husband (yes, no fun paying for the husband .. ).
To cut the crap, let me put it this way- this forum is for screwing maid.
There are lot of hidden detail in marrying maids, starting from MOM refusing approval - leading to no long term residency or PR here. But that don't mean you cannot marry maid- you can marry, keep her in JB or in her home country, and visit. Lovely yeah ?
And don't believe bullshits of Maids. And few time also I met girl who said their maid friend marry Singaporean etc, and when I met the girl who marry Singaporean, the girl was never maid - but she don't want to say it as she love the maid buddies. And like I say before, girl come on social visa, do illegal work, and then find man marry, but tell her family she met the man while legally working as maid.
So again, don't micro analayse.
have fun !
I am not lawyer, but I can't recall Women charter enforce on any woman who don't have residency in Singapore - and maid, by default, next to never get residency.
There are case of maid marry citizen, get baby, come back to Singapore hoping to stay and ICA deport mother, and told her cannot come for 5 year, of course, the child can come stay with father. And MOM/ICA never budge. Even after so long, ICA insists not even long term visa- only 30 day visa, and one fellow had to put his wife live in JB and visit wife and son there.
Yes, child become Citizen because father is Citizen. But yes, mother ? Too bad, Singapore governement have very long memory of people who break law. Especially low level people like maids.
By the way, as I said, Philippine have Adultery law, so if maid not divorce legally and you fxxking her, her husband can make life miserable and make you pay him for life - of course, it can't be enforce in Singapore, but if you step in to Philippine, good luck .. Hasta la vista baby.
Dont need residency.
Recall rich expats staying n working in spore also divorce in spore.
Don't tell me 2 expats fighting ok.
Expat v sporean not ok.
Recall a case. Spore marry maid, nt his maid.
After hit quota, maid can't even go spore anymore n have to meet halfway in Thailand.
BTW if maid can't come back, maybe get sister join child as pdmm
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14-03-2016, 05:27 PM
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