Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by jklpoi

And about supporting her when i cant even feed myself. Yes, i cant feed my self now, but who is to say after 1 or 2 years, i cant get back what i lost? I am still young, i have the energy to chiong back everything i once lost. And not to boost, but to make a point, i am earning 4k+ per month, how many 27yrs old you know is making 4k+ per month now.

I hate it when people look down on me. I had it enough with people looking down on me. Think about what you are writing before you post, Please.

SingViet is TS here...he can say what he wants here...so if u can say anything definitely he can...if you dun like you can always dun read or dun bother to post here...you should be the one to think twice before you post...

you came here to share yoru experience and seek advice...but you cannot tolerate comments and feedback...you should keep to your own world so that you dun come here and tell us...what do you expect...sympathy or help from any of us...when moral and integrity is questionable...in our own little world here...having backbone as a man is considered most important...you being so young committed so much errors and still think like a millionaire...wake up and face it like a man...do you know that the world dun owe you a living...go ahead and bragged about your own little success...but to me you are a loser...a BIG LOSER who came here to tell us how well you had done and how proud of you to have a WL baxa...well you can continue to keep them to yourself...nobody here will care for you...

btw, we met and knew most of the bros here...I had known bro SingViet for at least 5 yrs...I knew him as a person with lots of integrity and honest...unlike we only read about you...so dun come here and get angry with our comments if you cannot tahan...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by jklpoi

For any man that has wife that do WL job, first i will understand what kind of WL job is she doing. SEX, a definite look down upon. If normal sitting, grouping, light kissing, i will first understand what makes her go out as a WL. If the reason is good enough, then so be it. I will still respect her.

SingViet, you seems to be so well versed in Vietnam that you forget your own Singaporean roots. Wake up, spell the air, times are changing. Even the mighty and oh so noble singaporean girls are working in KTV now, offering no sex but light kissing, groping and talking, cause it's freaking good money.

you can say all you want about your WL baxa...if you are rich now dun think you will ever say like this wanting to marry a WL as baxa...come on face up and be honest...if you are not in debt and your baxa is willing ro share your burden...do you think you will marry a whore...you can keep to your morals if you think otherwise becus none of us here keen to listen...

haha...you dun even know any of us...we knew each other long...we have family values...unlike you who are morally unright...anyway we hope that what you said about singaporean girls working in ktv...not trying to curse you but imagined they are your sisters or daughters...if you can think like this in your little world then pls keep to it your yourself...

[cryinfree]

remind me of an old saying..

I can marry a prosititue but i cant let my wife prositituting..

Wa Eh Sai Chua Kwee Zuo Bor Bui Sai Hor Wa Eh Bor Zou Kwee..(in hokkien..)

Point to ponder..
So wat u r earning 4k+ now but still she is out there as WL..
to me this is the lowest blow of a man can accept..
May b u r too forgiving bah..or may b big hearted.. day y u so readily accepting it, as if it like a man pride that his wife is out there prostituting for him...

My 2cent worth..stop before the love burnt out...if u reali love her...

cheers
cryinfree

[cryinfree]

Originally Posted by cryinfree

remind me of an old saying..

I can marry a prosititue but i cant let my wife prositituting..

Wa Eh Sai Chua Kwee Zuo Bor Bui Sai Hor Wa Eh Bor Zou Kwee..(in hokkien..)


cheers
cryinfree

Kwee should Be KwAY (CHICKEN in hokkien) instead..

My Bad...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

.if you can think like this in your little world then pls keep to it your yourself...

Wow u got so angry with a young boy who has a dream. Young boy's dream is always beautiful and most dreams are, "getting filthy rich, have a prefect wife and live happily ever after." But when back to reality, it is always sad and messy life. Having wife as a WL and he is proud of it, then as a stranger like us, why bother? His dream is his, so just let him be.

Anyway, he is behind the computer so he can be proud of his WL wife and what is wrong been touched by others. He is behind the computer, so it is ok not to have a strong backbone. I wonder what he told his parents, close friends and relatives about his wife? Facing reality is always different from writing in a forum.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Wow u got so angry with a young boy who has a dream. Young boy's dream is always beautiful and most dreams are, "getting filthy rich, have a prefect wife and live happily ever after." But when back to reality, it is always sad and messy life. Having wife as a WL and he is proud of it, then as a stranger like us, why bother? His dream is his, so just let him be.

Anyway, he is behind the computer so he can be proud of his WL wife and what is wrong been touched by others. He is behind the computer, so it is ok not to have a strong backbone. I wonder what he told his parents, close friends and relatives about his wife?

Thanks bro...I needed that support...just cannot tahan young man coming here to comment without making sense...he thought we all dun know each other...we are a group of morally upright bros who knew each other pretty well...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Thanks bro...I needed that support...just cannot tahan young man coming here to comment without making sense...he thought we all dun know each other...we are a group of morally upright bros who knew each other pretty well...

In forum, thousands type of ppl.... someone who dun mind or dun feel any wrong with wife working as WL, what better characters or moral has he? So dun bother too much with him and his life.

It is confusing, why will a boy got married when he himself cannot feed himself??

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

SingViet is TS here...he can say what he wants here...so if u can say anything definitely he can...if you dun like you can always dun read or dun bother to post here...you should be the one to think twice before you post...

you came here to share yoru experience and seek advice...but you cannot tolerate comments and feedback...you should keep to your own world so that you dun come here and tell us...what do you expect...sympathy or help from any of us...when moral and integrity is questionable...in our own little world here...having backbone as a man is considered most important...you being so young committed so much errors and still think like a millionaire...wake up and face it like a man...do you know that the world dun owe you a living...go ahead and bragged about your own little success...but to me you are a loser...a BIG LOSER who came here to tell us how well you had done and how proud of you to have a WL baxa...well you can continue to keep them to yourself...nobody here will care for you...

btw, we met and knew most of the bros here...I had known bro SingViet for at least 5 yrs...I knew him as a person with lots of integrity and honest...unlike we only read about you...so dun come here and get angry with our comments if you cannot tahan...

Thanks for the support Bro. I think youngsters nowadays sure have a different mindset.

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Every countries have useless men including the all mighty SG.

yeah i met quite a number in SG too.. i dun mean those blue collar, i meant those who refused to work and stay at home to play online games..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by naemlo

In forum, thousands type of ppl.... someone who dun mind or dun feel any wrong with wife working as WL, what better characters or moral has he? So dun bother too much with him and his life.

It is confusing, why will a boy got married when he himself cannot feed himself??

actually I dun bother or want to care...anyway not up to us how he wanted his life....but when he came here to say unwarranted statements then we must shoot him down...he must be taught what are the rules of this thread...dun want a newbie coming here making unfounded remarks about seniors and then thinking of getting scot-free...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Thanks for the support Bro. I think youngsters nowadays sure have a different mindset.

you are most welcome...we helped each other ma...we cannot care or bother how youngsters wanted their life to be...to each his own...just making sure no unfounded remarks are arrowed to seniors who we knew each other...we are real human being not afraid to face reality...unlike others hiding behind cyberspace...

[marcopit]

Hi All Samster,

im totally lost, maybe i kanna KT oready. I wanna purpose to my gf next month when i go HCM, i just know her for abt 3mths, she work in KTV in sg abt 4mths, 3rd time here in sg.

The last time she is here she stay with me & family, i understand that she required to earn money and entertain customers. I only earning abt $2-$2.5K/mth but with bank bad debt abt $150K.

She knows abt my financial difficulty, but she willing to accept me as who am i. Honestly speaking i don wanna her to continue working in KTV, but i feel sad as i cant support her family needs, she told me abt SGD1500 required.

Im very snook by her family requirement which abt 3/4 of my salary. 1 thing i wanna all bros here to advise/feedback if u think she truthful in our relation & if i should continue with this relation.

1) she will tell me that she going out with customers but never tell her customers that she got a bf.


2) she told me she go to hotel with customers only when she 1st time here for 2mths but not now.

3) she never request any money from me since the 1st time we met till now.

Please all, im about of my mind now, all advise/feedback/comments are most welcome. I need enlightenment

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by marcopit

Hi All Samster,

im totally lost, maybe i kanna KT oready. I wanna purpose to my gf next month when i go HCM, i just know her for abt 3mths, she work in KTV in sg abt 4mths, 3rd time here in sg.

The last time she is here she stay with me & family, i understand that she required to earn money and entertain customers. I only earning abt $2-$2.5K/mth but with bank bad debt abt $150K.

She knows abt my financial difficulty, but she willing to accept me as who am i. Honestly speaking i don wanna her to continue working in KTV, but i feel sad as i cant support her family needs, she told me abt SGD1500 required.

Im very snook by her family requirement which abt 3/4 of my salary. 1 thing i wanna all bros here to advise/feedback if u think she truthful in our relation & if i should continue with this relation.

1) she will tell me that she going out with customers but never tell her customers that she got a bf.


2) she told me she go to hotel with customers only when she 1st time here for 2mths but not now.

3) she never request any money from me since the 1st time we met till now.

Please all, im about of my mind now, all advise/feedback/comments are most welcome. I need enlightenment

Her family needs SGD $1500 per month ? or one payment ?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by marcopit

im totally lost, maybe i kanna KT oready. I wanna purpose to my gf next month when i go HCM, i just know her for abt 3mths, she work in KTV in sg abt 4mths, 3rd time here in sg.

The last time she is here she stay with me & family, i understand that she required to earn money and entertain customers. I only earning abt $2-$2.5K/mth but with bank bad debt abt $150K.

She knows abt my financial difficulty, but she willing to accept me as who am i. Honestly speaking i don wanna her to continue working in KTV, but i feel sad as i cant support her family needs, she told me abt SGD1500 required.

Im very snook by her family requirement which abt 3/4 of my salary. 1 thing i wanna all bros here to advise/feedback if u think she truthful in our relation & if i should continue with this relation.

1) she will tell me that she going out with customers but never tell her customers that she got a bf.


2) she told me she go to hotel with customers only when she 1st time here for 2mths but not now.

3) she never request any money from me since the 1st time we met till now.

Please all, im about of my mind now, all advise/feedback/comments are most welcome. I need enlightenment

tell us more pls...

1) what do you hope to get out of this relationship?
2) will you be marrying her?
3) why is she staying with your family and how you explain to family about your relationship?
4) how the family felt when she comes back late every nite after her work? how you explain what she works as?
5) have you been to Vietnam and visit her family?
6) do you know of the viet culture?

[AdGuy]

This thread make me very nhuc dau.

First need to understand vietnamese life partner.

Now need to understand singapore guys too?

Back to my beer