If your wife is pregnant, will you bonk her?

TyLa_BaBy · #1 07-03-2012, 08:12 AM

A bit of a stupid question, but a lot of my female friends are somewhat prudish and don't talk about sex at all. I know there are both women and men here, so I ask here lah.

One of my female friend who is pregnant said that they don't have sex when she's pregnant because her husband find that "the pregnant form is very unappealing". I'm very shocked.

Guys, will you continue to have sex with your wife when she is pregnant? (Provided doctor never say cannot lah.)

Ladies, did your men refuse to have sex with you when you were pregnant??

Personally I find guys with pregnancy fetish a bit weird and gross (how you make yourself fuck a woman who is pregnant with someone else's baby huh??) but between husband and wife should be normal what! Bigger tits, swollen pussy... what's so "unappealing" huh?

Ok, stupid question end.

ah rat · #2 07-03-2012, 08:20 AM

I answer the stupid question.I still have sex during her pregnancy & she allow me to have sex with her

TyLa_BaBy · #3 07-03-2012, 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by ah rat

I answer the stupid question.I still have sex during her pregnancy & she allow me to have sex with her

Ya lor, it's very straightforward right? You need sex, she (maybe) want sex, then have sex lor. How can a guy tahan 9 months no sex huh?! 难道... go out makan?!?! But they very strict Christians leh!

Botakhead · #4 07-03-2012, 08:36 AM

My opinion is that if in early stages, sex with wife when pregnant can be very stimulating, more lovely but must be extra careful to be gentle. Later stages not advisable as it can be dangerous to cause unnecessary harm to both mother and child. To each his own......my thoughts. Have fun with sex.

TyLa_BaBy · #5 07-03-2012, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Botakhead

My opinion is that if in early stages, sex with wife when pregnant can be very stimulating, more lovely but must be extra careful to be gentle. Later stages not advisable as it can be dangerous to cause unnecessary harm to both mother and child. To each his own......my thoughts. Have fun with sex.

Why early stage is "stimulating"? The only thing I feel stimulated about is my urge to puke in the 1st trimester lor.

Why later stage not advisable? I had sex the night before my 2nd child was born leh! (That's also probably how I went into labour... LOL)

Ok, so far 2 counts of men who will have sex with wife during pregnancy... So what is wrong with my friend's hubby!??!

RedOmega · #6 07-03-2012, 08:50 AM

Having sex when pregge is ok. But of cos dont do too rigorous sex. Best is let le control the movement. I had it till her last semester. After that got bj all the way.

RedOmega · #7 07-03-2012, 08:54 AM

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Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

Why early stage is "stimulating"? The only thing I feel stimulated about is my urge to puke in the 1st trimester lor.

Why later stage not advisable? I had sex the night before my 2nd child was born leh! (That's also probably how I went into labour... LOL)

Ok, so far 2 counts of men who will have sex with wife during pregnancy... So what is wrong with my friend's hubby!??!

Initially, depending on individuals, they have different sytoms to morning sickness. After approx. 3 mths you should feel ok. What I have learned. It that during pregnancy, the lady will feel more horny and the urge to have sex.
You may have sex till full term. But the doc with advice you not to do it too fast and furious ya.

TyLa_BaBy · #8 07-03-2012, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by RedOmega

Having sex when pregge is ok. But of cos dont do too rigorous sex. Best is let le control the movement. I had it till her last semester. After that got bj all the way.

Lucky man, you! I heard a lot of men don't get sex for very long after baby is born. I don't know if it's just a sob story that men tell, or the women really have no need for sex once they become mothers...

TyLa_BaBy · #9 07-03-2012, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by RedOmega

Initially, depending on individuals, they have different sytoms to morning sickness. After approx. 3 mths you should feel ok. What I have learned. It that during pregnancy, the lady will feel more horny and the urge to have sex.
You may have sex till full term. But the doc with advice you not to do it too fast and furious ya.

CORRECT. I am that kind who is more horny during 2nd trimester of pregnancy. Last trimester also good, but must get into more "acrobatic" positions. Just that sometimes feels awkward when sex halfway then the baby start "dancing" inside. Hahahaha! My 2nd kid used to do that a lot when I was pregnant with him. Now my 3rd pregnancy even worse, this baby girl every time hear daddy's voice will move a lot. Very weird feeling when you think the kid is eavesdropping on you having sex!

If fast & furious during last few weeks then end up like me lor. Have sex at night, next morning waters break and go into labour. LOL.

BiRd13 · #10 07-03-2012, 09:06 AM

I think it's common ba... The 'unappealing' probably mean that the hubby don't want to exert his wife, or probably he's those 'violent type' on bed, and don't want to cause miscarriage to the baby... Hence don't want to make love with her...

For me, I still make love with my wife when she's pregnant. But probably during the 1st two months NO because it's more of 'danger' and 'unstable' period. So during this two months, have to 'endure'...

Right now, she's about 4 months pregnant and we have sex at least 3-4 times per week.

sjb1994 · #11 07-03-2012, 09:11 AM

Of course. She feel more horny and me too. Further more, can do raw and shot as you like without worry of pregnancy

TyLa_BaBy · #12 07-03-2012, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by BiRd13

Right now, she's about 4 months pregnant and we have sex at least 3-4 times per week.

Your wife very lucky! I get it once every 2 weeks if life and his work schedule don't get in the way. This is regardless whether I'm pregnant or not. Now I'm 5 mths liao, so can expect the frequency to drop even further when closer to due date. I must console myself that my fortnightly session still better than my friend's "no sex during pregnancy".

Yours is first kid? Congrats!

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Originally Posted by sjb1994

Of course. She feel more horny and me too. Further more, can do raw and shot as you like without worry of pregnancy

Hahaha! Good point! Already pregnant liao, can't go further than that!

Andy9543 · #13 07-03-2012, 09:38 AM

My wife jus gave birth on Feb 14, Valentine's day baby!! To me making love during pregnancy is fine as long as both is comfortable... We stil make love as often as when she's not pregnant bt i let her control the pace so tat she fully enjoy sex during pregnancy, btw we make love tat morning before she gave birth

Mandin · #14 07-03-2012, 09:50 AM

If my preagnant wife want sex , of course I will have sex with her. But in such circumstances I would also be ok just to give have oral sex with her.

RedOmega · #15 07-03-2012, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by TyLa_BaBy

Lucky man, you! I heard a lot of men don't get sex for very long after baby is born. I don't know if it's just a sob story that men tell, or the women really have no need for sex once they become mothers...

It really depends on individuals. There are cases of men not getting sex after child is born. Cos focus in on the baby. Open communication and understanding lor. If there's a need I dont see y can't give. But that's based on me case.