Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[bumblebuzz]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

As married man, we have the extra time when kids grew up. we seldom have the sweet nothing with wifey now. we may be feeling empty for a certain reason.

The reciprocate to our chase and the consistent reply to message is the killer to make us go on and on with the chase.

Just don't ever let it affect the family

Yup agree. Thanks for the advice.
It’s not easy. Sometimes I also tell myself maybe she willing to go further with me than others. But in reality, as long u have money and not bad looking, they will also be ok.

Then what, give more and try to win? Will never win coz as long there’s money to earn, they will be willing. Why subject to be exclusive to one only.. though sometimes I wonder whether they will have any feelings develop or they numb themselves to all these. Can’t be easy either.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Moshimosh

3k is not the bare minmum to enter this game, i would think around 10 to 15k a mth of income is required. Then u be stress to keep wanting to earn much more in case a richer robert comes along and play the game.

I doubt these ladies lead a high income life in china. They also know this kind of income is short term and wont last ad they age. Most of them are either jobless, come from countyside or just earning 5k rmb (1000 sgd) per mth or below. Things are not rosy as they painted and china economy is definitely not doing good for the common ppl. But girls from countryside are definitely more willing to serve and appears more real to me then those from the big cities.

I'm somewhat out of the commercial scene already, but still lurk around to read interesting things. I can tell you that there are MLs willing to get out for the scene without you having 5k or more income.

There are those who want to get on with life, find them and you can get it. During this time, I know of 2 guys who got ML to become their wife. Guys in their 40s + <S$4,000 income. Both viet MLs they are 35 and 39. The point you need certain income is for you both to survive especially until she work another job.

PRC MLs, maybe still can. I had a PRC ML who just wanted to settle down here, with chance to find other job, but too late. When she return back here to another TCM and contacted me, I already moved on to a relationship. Then she RTC again not long after, she didn't like the ML scene.

You want a ML for wife, you got to have a lot of luck exploring to find these rare ones and put in effort. They won't ask you for much and I haven't spent alot of $ on MLs. Tbh, it was because of them that I found BKK expensive to chiong.

[aristodemus690]

I think things become difficult and complicated when you don't see it as a business transaction anymore and you start to get to know one another on a more personal level.

I found myself reading the past xx pages of this thread to realise that it really is quite difficult to draw this line, especially when as a human being, there are needs (not just physical, but emotional) that are not being met. It's easy to believe that people whom you're paying for services can also meet these needs.

[giggsy_11]

My goodness. Why would SG men meet ML and want them to be their wife.
Pls, want wife go marriage agency.

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

I'm somewhat out of the commercial scene already, but still lurk around to read interesting things. I can tell you that there are MLs willing to get out for the scene without you having 5k or more income.

There are those who want to get on with life, find them and you can get it. During this time, I know of 2 guys who got ML to become their wife. Guys in their 40s + <S$4,000 income. Both viet MLs they are 35 and 39. The point you need certain income is for you both to survive especially until she work another job.

PRC MLs, maybe still can. I had a PRC ML who just wanted to settle down here, with chance to find other job, but too late. When she return back here to another TCM and contacted me, I already moved on to a relationship. Then she RTC again not long after, she didn't like the ML scene.

You want a ML for wife, you got to have a lot of luck exploring to find these rare ones and put in effort. They won't ask you for much and I haven't spent alot of $ on MLs. Tbh, it was because of them that I found BKK expensive to chiong.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by aristodemus690

I think things become difficult and complicated when you don't see it as a business transaction anymore and you start to get to know one another on a more personal level.

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Yes. Its complicated for both party.

Even though we meet almost everyday for meal or tcss outside the shop, I always make it a point to tip her whenever I enter the shop for massage even if no extra service rendered. This is to make it look trasctional. But actually a personal level of helping her.

From her point, she wanted to make it transactional but she unable service me like how she use to, therefore gfe went from 100 to 0. She simply be her true self whenever with me.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by giggsy_11

My goodness. Why would SG men meet ML and want them to be their wife.
Pls, want wife go marriage agency.

marriage agency also not really a place to go to these modern days. Any agency business that survive and booming? Any agency arranged marriage really very fruitful?

Girls went to agency to arrange marriage to transact their 'potential happiness'.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

I can tell you that there are MLs willing to get out for the scene without you having 5k or more income.

There are those who want to get on with life, find them and you can get it. During this time, I know of 2 guys who got ML to become their wife. Guys in their 40s + <S$4,000 income. Both viet MLs they are 35 and 39. The point you need certain income is for you both to survive especially until she work another job.

Yes. There are ML on a look out for potential partner as well. They facing same issue as bro finding good ML to have a relationship. 0.01%

For the 2 guys marrying ML, have their wife gotten PR and move on to another job? I applaud them for their strong emotional control if thier wife still work as ML. i.e. Although the ML i am seeing is truthful where I don't need 2nd guess. Sometime I doubt and check as well. It may not be due to the ML but customer/player trying to tackle the ML


Have their take home salary increase?

As a social volunteer myself as well, I see many cases of man in these income bracket having much difficulty applying PR for their foreign wife. Some man earning lesser than $3k, even having children already, the wife still on ltvp+.